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Q: My wife is having an affair, and I know all about it. In fact, I knew about it before it even started, as she came to me telling me she was interested in a physical relationship with someone she had just met.
Ever since then I have been faced with the choice between telling my wife to stop, or allowing it to continue to its conclusion.
What I really want is for her to want to stop on her own and, more importantly, to want me in the same physical and emotional sense that she wants her fling. Though my wife denies it, I have always felt like a "check-box husband" — the kind who has all the qualities she would write down on a piece of paper when thinking of her ideal husband (though I'm far from perfect). But rarely has she demonstrated the passion or desire for me that I would hope for from my wife.
Her affair demonstrates she is capable of such emotion, but maybe not just for me. The affair is the symptom, what do I do about the disease?
I think it's time to stop thinking about how you want this to turn out, though, and start thinking about how it can turn out.
For example, you say: "I have been faced with the choice between telling my wife to stop, or allowing it to continue to its conclusion." You actually have other choices besides this, but you don't mention them. Maybe you aren't even thinking about them ... and I suspect it's because these are the only two that allow you your happy ending, where your wife returns passionately to your marriage. Right?
In both of them, she at least stops the affair — at your initiative or hers — and stays married to you, and from there your hope for passion stays alive.
It is a hope, though, that reality apparently doesn't support.
So I urge you to start thinking of options that reality says are possible.
Those include: your ending the marriage, of course; or your staying in the marriage as-is, adjusting your expectations of her accordingly; or staying in the marriage, but doing so as she does — with no compunction about getting your needs met on the side when the marriage itself doesn't meet them. Just tell her, as she told you, when you're interested in someone else.
It's not a great lineup of choices, I'll grant you that. However, each of them involves doing something different, whereas now you are waiting for something different, without any sign that anything is going to change. That's torture. Whatever you choose, please don't choose to put yourself through that.
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Okay, so you’re married ! Congratulations. As your well wishers, we’d like to tell you, warn you to be precise, of certain things that come associated with married life. Now, we’re sure you think you’re a smart man. And of course, you’re proud of your ability to effortlessly lie to your wife. What you do not know is that she will always be one step ahead of you in hiding things. If you think there is nothing a woman can keep to herself, you haven’t really understood ‘em. While she is known to be careless with secrets that involve others, she guards her own very well. Your wife may seem angelic right now, but beneath that pretty face lies a calculative mind who weighs each and every word in front of her husband. Read on to know the five secrets every wife keeps from her husband.
A lot of gender stereotyping is in fact, inflicted by women themselves. You may think that it’s the 21st century and women are independent beings, equal to us. And that it no longer matters that the husband be stronger, older and the ‘earner’. But to put it out to you as honestly as possible, every woman wishes her man earns more than her. Of course, she’d never say it out loud. However much modern she may seem, she’d never want to be the sole earner while you’re on the couch watching television all day.
Yes, we know she told you otherwise. But she does flirt , as much as you do with your colleagues if not more. Confront her about it and she will turn the tables around blaming you for mistrusting her. ‘I was just being friendly’, she’d say. Remember those myths about women getting what they want using just their flirting abilities? Well, they’re not ‘myths’.
You may think your bachelor party was the most scandalous thing ever. Wait till you hear what happened at her hen night. She’d never tell you that she really let her hair down and got nasty. The pre-wedding mayhem is a territory she’d never let the conversations flow into. The next time you’re with her friends, mention her bachelorette party and notice the sly grins and smirks she exchanges with her friends. You’d know what we mean.
Does the whole word treat you like a sex maniac? We hear you. What the world doesn’t know is that women are equal freaks, especially married women. Various studies suggest that married women crave a passionate sex life as much as their spouses. She knows how much you want it and will use it to her advantage. Making you do the dishes before you can get in her pants is one such tactic. But the truth is, deep down (literally), she wants you really badly but will never say it.
Women have a reputation of faking orgasms, the world knows. Women think telling us they didn’t enjoy sex will shatter our self-esteem, which is why they will never accept that they fake orgasms. In fact, they’re so used to it that they’ve probably forgotten what a real one feels like! While it is not very difficult to spot a fake orgasm from a real one, some women are really good actors. If she’s too inanimate and the ecstasy isn’t reaching her eyes, she’s faking it! Yes, the one that makes her bring down the ceiling with loud shrieks could be fake too. The only way to know if it’s real is yet to be discovered, sorry!
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Husband Gets Major Surprise When Wife Tells Him What She Wants For Her Birthday – This Is So Perfect
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A hilarious story about a husband and wife is going viral this week that is sure to bring a smile to your face.
A husband walked into his bedroom to find his wife staring at herself in the mirror. Since her birthday was coming up, he asked her what she’d like for her big day.
“I’d like to be eight again,” she responded, not taking her eyes off of her own reflection.
Wanting to make his wife’s dream come true, the husband took action. On the morning of her birthday, the husband got up early and made her a bowl of Coco Pops before setting off with her to the Adventure World theme park. They rode every ride in the park from the Death Slide to the Wall of Fear, and had a great time doing it!
By the time they left the amusement park five hours later, the wife’s head was spinning and she was very hungry, so her husband brought her to McDonald’s and ordered her a Happy Meal with a chocolate milkshake.
When they finished their meal, they when to the movies and ordered popcorn, sodas, and M&Ms, which are her favorite candy.
They were exhausted when the movie ended and headed back home, where they collapsed into bed. Feeling quite pleased with himself, the husband leaned over with a huge grin and said, “Well dear, what was it like to be eight again?”
Her eyes opened slowly and her expression changed immediately.
“I meant my dress size, you idiot!” she explained.
LOL! This just goes to show that even when a man is listening, he will end up getting it wrong!
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MY wife is having sex with a guy who is bigger and better in bed than I am, apparently.
Now she’s having his child she wants him to move in with us so I can support him too.
We have been together for 21 years.
I still love her like I did on our wedding day.
I have a successful online business and we enjoy new cars and holidays whenever we want.
She’s had affairs before but she has really fallen for this guy.
He first came to the house as her personal trainer.
He’s 28, tall, fit and good looking, but there are so many would-be personal trainers round here he hasn’t got any regular clients apart from my wife.
I have my successful business but I’m skinny and I’m too busy with the business to have time to keep fit. She is having an affair with this guy but when I told her I knew, she said I’ll put up with it if I truly love her.
She talks about what they do in bed and the size of his manhood.
He comes round to the house now and they go upstairs together to our bed and have noisy sex while I sit downstairs trying to focus on my paperwork, wishing it wasn’t happening.
I thought I could handle this but now she’s dropped the bombshell that she is pregnant.
I can’t have children of my own after having chemo as a child.
My family will know she has cheated as they know about my medical history.
My wife says I must support her or she’ll divorce me.
DEIDRE SAYS: You’re no idiot but you put such a low value on yourself and your own feelings that you are vulnerable to being exploited.
Perhaps you have been so long-suffering because you grew up knowing you couldn’t father children.
Tell your wife you are not going to be used any longer.
She’s threatening divorce unless you agree but that may be the lesser of two evils compared to standing on the outside of their little family unit in your own home.
Insist on you both getting some proper counselling to see whether your marriage can survive this and how ( relate.org.uk , 0300 100 1234).
If you decide to be a father to this baby, just tell your family that a miracle happened – it can sometimes.
But for it all to work, she’ll need to commit to you and you alone.
And you’ll need to spend more time with her, away from your business.
I MARRIED my wife for the second time but we hardly ever have sex.
We are both 40 and we married young at 22.
I had an affair four years ago and she divorced me.
We were back together within a year.
Our new life together is better in so many ways but sex is still an issue.
Things were great for the first couple of months but now sex seems to be just once every six months to keep me quiet.
I can’t risk another affair but I’m desperate.
DEIDRE SAYS: Did she have some early experience which put her off sex or did the two of you never manage to work out what would make sex feel great for her?
Tell your wife you love her and your relationship is suffering.
Ask her what she sees as the problem and read my e-leaflet Reviving A Woman’s Sex Drive together to help.
I CAN’T seem to win round my partner’s daughter.
He and his wife split up long before we met and they are now getting divorced.
We have been together for three years.
He has a son, 16, and a daughter, 13, with his ex.
The son is not bothered but the daughter says my partner is divorcing so that he can marry me, which is untrue.
She plans to change her surname to her mum’s maiden name.
I try to do things with them but how can I prove that I am not a home-wrecker?
DEIDRE SAYS: She will be distressed by her parents breaking up and feels threatened by your little girl.
Together reassure her you two marrying will not change his love for them.
Make sure she and her brother have time with their dad without you and the baby.
Family Lives ( familylives.org.uk , 0808 800 2222) can offer help and support.
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WHEN my partner has a drink he doesn’t know when to stop.
We are both guys in a long-term relationship but we don’t live together.
My partner has always had problems handling his drink.
He’s wet the bed before now and left me to clear it up.
He disappears back to his home for a few days and then turns up some time later like nothing is wrong.
My brother was round recently but he and his wife went home early and I’m sure it was because my partner was totally hammered.
I’ve tried not having any alcohol in the house but he’ll turn up with a box of wine while I sit there with an orange squash.
When he’s sober we get on great but he’s unpredictable when he’s had too many and I don’t want him around me.
DEIDRE SAYS: Only he can accept he has a problem and tackle it, but you can spell out how it affects and upsets you.
Don’t let him pretend there is no problem.
Tell him you were upset your brother had to leave early.
My e-leaflet Dealing With A Problem Drinker explains where to find help.
MY ex-girlfriend is a compulsive liar but I love her and I want her back.
We were together for almost a year and twice she cheated on me by meeting guys on dating sites.
She confessed and I forgave her once but the second time I felt things weren’t right, I logged on to the site and managed to guess her password.
Her profile was there with messages indicating she’d met a guy for sex.
I confronted her and she said her friend had set it up to catch me out as she knew I didn’t trust her. Rubbish! I left.
I’m 25 and she’s 22. I miss her and think about her constantly.
I’m on the same dating site now and I’ve been on a couple of dates but I want her and only her.
It breaks my heart to see her picture.
Would I be a fool to give her a third chance?
DEIDRE SAYS: Once is forgivable, but twice?
She’s somebody who finds it hard to commit to one person.
You’d be setting yourself up for more hurt.
Put this down to experience and move on.
And find a different dating site so you’re not tormented by seeing her.
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