Wife Multiple Orgasms

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It's rare. But we promise you it can be done.
Giving your partner just one orgasm is cause for celebration. But giving your partner multiple orgasms? Well, that's enough reason to throw a freaking parade.
That said, one small note: the ability to come more than once comes (pun intended) far more easier for people with a vulva than it does for people with a penis. A penis-owner has to wait for their refractory period to pass before they're ready for round two, but vulva-owners don’t seem to need the same reloading phase, says Men’s Health sex advisor Debby Herbenick, Ph.D. So the following information applies almost exclusively to readers whose partners have a vulva. (For more information about how to give multiple orgasms to someone with a penis, check out this story .)
But just because your partner can come twice—or more!—in a row, it doesn’t mean they will. Studies suggest that somewhere between 14 and 40 percent of women have had multiple orgasms in one session. So how do you help your partner become one of the lucky ones? Here are 13 expert-approved steps you can take to try and give them multiple orgasms.
Some people would rather cuddle after climaxing than be pressured into an encore. Plus, vulva-owners differ dramatically in regard to how they can achieve one orgasm, let alone multiple orgasms, so it's possible they may be too sensitive to want to go again for Round Two. Always check in with your partner before trying to make them come again, and never make them feel bad if they can't pull off a repeat performance. (It’s like, come on guys, how often are you coming three, four, or five times in a night?)
On a similar note, don’t put any expectations on your partner. You DON'T want to say something like, “I want you to come five times tonight.” Even if they want to orgasm five times, it adds a lot of pressure. “The brain is by far the most important sexual organ, so if your partner feels as though there is an expectation to have multiple orgasms, then it's probably won't happen,” explains Cory B ., kink coach and sex educator. “Instead, focus simply on facilitating an environment of pleasure for the sake of pleasure.”
Building up desire is a precursor to any sexual activity. But creating copious amounts of sexual tension can be just what she needs to achieve a bonus orgasm. “You want her to retain her feelings of overall arousal when her body starts to relax after having the first orgasm,” says Amie Harwick, author of The New Sex Bible for Women . So take a few minutes' break in between. Give your partner a massage or just cuddle.
This is by the far the most direct way to get your partner to have multiple orgasms. Sex toys do things that you (and your penis) can’t, no matter how hard you try. They vibrate, curve, suction, pulse, and so much more. I mean, there’s a goddamn sex toy out there for pretty much any and everything, and they can take over when your hands and tongue get tired. For starters, consider incorporating a clitoral vibrator—like options below—into your routine. You or your partner can hold it against their clitoris during foreplay, penetration, and even during your post-intercourse cuddle sesh for one last round.
After your partner has an orgasm, give their clitoris a short break, as it becomes super sensitive for many women immediately after sex, says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., author of She Comes First: The Thinking Man’ s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman . If you're too focused on that area, she may not be ready to go again. Wait a couple of minutes at minimum before heading back to their clitoris.
During the time you’re idling, you can and should still attempt to keep your partner aroused. “Since after a clitoral orgasm, going right back into clitoral stimulation can be a lot to handle since the clit is super sensitive, try some internal or anal stimulation to give the clit a much needed break,” says Cory B. You can also play with your partner's breasts and whisper in their ear about how beautiful they are. Your goal is to keep them in a semi-aroused state so you don’t have to start from scratch to bring them back to the top of the mountain.
After a vulva-owner has an orgasm, the blood that rushes to their genitals during sex lingers, making it easier for them to climax again, Kerner says. He advises men to prime their partner for round two with some dirty talk . Talking dirty will signal to your partner that the momentum is still strong.
“Start with a light touch,” says Kerner. “Try lightly circling your finger or tongue over her clitoris slowly, and then work up to more extreme stimulation with an increasingly faster pace, more pressure, and intensity until she's ready to go again.” Starting with a slow, sensual touch gives your partner more time prepare for the next one.
“We often forget to be conscious of our breath during sex,” says Cory B. “Breathing allows us to connect in a deeper way with our body and to our partner's body. Having your partner breathe slowly and deeply while stimulating them will increase the likelihood of an orgasm, especially if it's not the first one of the night.”
There’s nothing wrong with sticking with what works, but you can also try bringing them to orgasm by attending to a different erogenous zone. This can work particularly well if her clitoris is still sensitive from round one. Experiment sensually with other areas like the neck, ears, and toes and see how your partner reacts.
Novelty encourages the release of the feel-good chemical dopamine, which may help your partner orgasm faster, says Kerner. Aim for their G-spot with positions like woman on top or doggy-style . The change in position will keep your partner on her toes. For more inspiration, check out our list of the 50 best sex positions every couple should try .
Feeling more adventurous? Some women can climax from nipple stimulation, research finds. Lightly trace circles on your partner's nipples with your fingers or tongue, building pressure as you go, or try sucking on them. If you're partner is really into nipple play, consider trying a pair of nipple clamps, like these .
Want to crank it up another notch? Stimulate the area between your partner's vagina and anus with your tongue, suggests Ava Cadell, Ph.D., author of Idiot's Guides: The Kama Sutra . Some people find it mind-blowing—but you want to check with them first.
While sometimes it can be easier to have her reach multiple orgasms if they follow one after the other, other times, you need to come to a full stop. This isn’t just giving their clitoris a break, it’s giving their whole body a break. “The body needs time to recharge after orgasm, so taking a rest period after each orgasm can increase the chances of it happening again,” says Cory B. “During these breaks, drink water, eat a light snack, cuddle, and just chill out. Remember, it's a marathon, not a sprint.”

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"My partner loves that my body looks the way it does. He doesn't shame me in any way."
In this week's Love, Actually interview, exploring the reality of women's sex lives, we spoke with Andrea (a pseudonym), who got divorced two years ago at age 55 after a 35-year marriage, and is now enjoying multiple orgasms for the first time in her life.
I was married for 35 years, I and have been divorced for two years. The marriage started going downhill when my younger child, my son, was born, 25 years ago, but I stayed for his sake. About seven years ago I was using my husband's computer one day and found out that he'd been looking for sex online with other men. I wasn't totally surprised.
Aside from that, we hadn't had a very good sex life at any point. He was not happy with my body; he shamed me because I was overweight. He would pinch my fat when we were having sex. I thought about leaving the marriage, but I never actually got close. I wasn't being abused, and I wanted my son to have a stable foundation until he left home for college.
When we got divorced, I was both sad and relieved. I had been married longer than I'd been single in my life. I hadn't had a date in 37 years! Our marriage had reached a point where I hadn't even had sex in five years. I thought I was going to be single forever. A lot of the men I met on dating sites had red flags waving. My being financially secure was apparently a rarity. When I told one man that I'd recently bought a house, he said his lease was up at the end of the month and he was looking for a place to live. I thought, don't ever write me again.
Our marriage had reached a point where I hadn't even had sex in five years.
I did meet a guy I now call my post-divorce fling. He was 11 years younger than me. It was nice to be dating again, but I knew he didn't have long-term potential. He couldn't keep up with me in bed. I had a much higher sex drive. There were weekends he'd come over and say "I'm just not in the mood for sex this weekend." That made me feel like I was a little oversexed because here were two men, he and my husband, who didn't want to have sex with me.
I moved to a rural area for a new job eight months ago. I'm a psychologist, so it's hard to date anyone in my immediate vicinity. I went online again and met a guy who lives 90 miles away. He has a spinal cord injury and uses a wheelchair, so we decided I would drive to where he lives. Our first date was at a Home Depot. He had to go shopping so we shopped together, then talked in his car for four hours. I wasn't really sure if he liked me. One of my friends at work said, "If you talked for four hours, he liked you."
I thought, if it's not a fit, it's not a fit. But by the time I got home, I had the sweetest email from him. It was a slow courtship. We didn't see each other for a few weeks. It was probably three months before he even kissed me. One night we were watching TV. He gave me a kiss and within five minutes he had my bra off; we went from zero to 60 in no time flat. Right away, our connection was electric. We had the best sex I've ever had in my life, and we continue to.
When I'm over there, we rarely get out of bed. We're in bed all weekend long; we get out of bed to walk the dog and eat.
With other men I've been with, I felt like their goal was, I want to get to the point where I can get my penis in her. After we do that for two or three minutes, if she has an orgasm, great, if not, oh well. But with the partner I'm with now, he's very focused on my orgasm. He can't have an orgasm in the traditional way, so the focus is mostly on my pleasure. He's very intent on finding my erogenous zones. There's a lot of kissing and touching, all over. We do have some penetrative sex but it requires creativity. Sex takes a lot longer but we're not in a hurry. When I'm over there, we rarely get out of bed. We're in bed all weekend long; we get out of bed to walk the dog and eat.
I feel like a goddess, honestly. I'm not what most people would consider a traditionally attractive woman. I'm middle aged and I'm a little lumpy, but to him, I'm beautiful. He can't stop touching every bit of my body. It's nothing like when my husband would pinch my fat. My partner loves that my body looks the way it does. He doesn't shame me in any way. He tells me to walk around with as much off as I can.
I don't miss any of the things I used to do with other men because he's so attentive. He can bring me to orgasm over and over; he seems to take delight in seeing how many times he can make that happen. I couldn't do that with other men, with whom sex was all about penis in vagina and when that was done, they were done. I'm glad I finally realized I could have so many orgasms, but I'm sorry it happened so late in life.
It's not just sexual. I consider him my partner. My two grown kids know about him, but haven't met him yet. I wasn't even sure this kind of connection existed. I've never had to try to be something that I wasn't just to keep him happy.
Do you have a fascinating sex life you'd want to share with ELLE? Email ellesexstories@gmail.com

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A sexpert has revealed the one position that is guaranteed to make a woman orgasm.
Men often worry when it comes to pleasing their partner — but it turns out that a basic move is all that’s required when it comes to reaching climax.
According to sexpert Annabelle Knight, a classic bedroom maneuver is the best when it comes to pleasure.
She told the Daily Star : “Missionary is often sneered at and seen as very vanilla but it’s one of the few positions that allows for thorough internal stimulation as well as external stimulation — without the need of any additional fingers or toys.”
The reason missionary is often best for the woman all comes down to the clitoral stimulation involved.
And it seems that British lovers agree that the classic “man-on-top” approach is a good one as it’s the nation’s second-most favored sex position — with around 21 percent of couples favoring it.
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