What Is A Prostate Orgasm

What Is A Prostate Orgasm
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So, what does a prostate orgasm feel like? Well, short of finding out first hand, let's talk about what others have experienced so you know what to expect.
Men have said a prostate orgasm is a “full bodied euphoria”. Some say it’s incredibly intense, “like exploding from the inside out”.
Imagine this: think of that moment you fall over the edge of a blissful orgasm. Okay, now multiply that by 10, and make that feeling last for 20 minutes or more . (!!) Instead of that blissful moment only lasting 30 to 90 seconds, it lasts for around 20 minutes during which you can climax as many times as you want. (No refractory period.)
Let’s talk a bit more about what you can expect from your first prostate orgasm.
This is new territory and things are a bit different here.
When stimulating the penis, you’re working toward an ejaculation. But, prostate orgasms don’t normally result in an ejaculation. (Although, they can.)
Most often, men report dribbles of milky ejaculate seeping out during prostate stimulation. This is why a prostate massage is also known as prostate milking. Most guys find that their first prostate orgasm is the first time they realize they can cum without ejaculating.
Not to mention the sensation, and build up is different from a penile orgasm.
Prostate orgasms take time. They can’t be achieved through a fast and furious approach. That’s just not going to work here. This type of internal orgasm takes patience. You have to coax it out and build up to it. But from what fellas are reporting, it’s definitely worth it.
On average, it takes guys between 5 to 7 minutes to orgasm during intercourse. Some get off way quicker, some need more time. But one thing is certain, a prostate orgasm takes more time and patience if you’re used to good old penile orgasms.
Some guys get frustrated after a while of prostate stimulation and stop trying. But, especially as a prostate orgasm newbie, this is mistake number one. There is a considerable build up. Think of it this way, the longer the build up, the better the orgasm.
This “patience is a virtue” attitude is also true for vaginal orgasms. It takes time, but it’s worth the reward. Given that they are both internal orgasms, that shift in perspective might be useful as you explore.
This is how one straight dude on Reddit described how a prostate orgasm feels.
While stimulating, you start to feel a tremble inside that rises up. Then your muscles contract in waves of pleasure. This full body sensation can cause you to become erect even though it doesn't involve your penis. The feeling is said to feel like a sexual electrical current going through your entire body. Eventually that rise of orgasmic energy hits a peak and you release and you're flooded with endorphins. Some guys say after they orgasm they just lay there in an orgasm stupor, almost unable to move for a bit, just trembling.
Guys online report riding the blissful waves of a prostate orgasm for an hour and a half, believe it or not.
You’re definitely not the first person to wonder what a prostate orgasm feels like. There are forums, chats and subreddits totally dedicated to this topic. (Honestly, they are great if you’re looking for tips or troubleshooting. They’ve got your back.)
Here are just a few reports from guys on how prostate orgasms feel for them.
“They are amazing! It feels like you're brought to the brink of orgasm, but you stay there for a long time before the pleasure just takes over and you explode.” - Reddit user
“They’re way more intense. Penile orgasms are quicker, and they don’t feel anywhere near as good. I love both, naturally, but for me, a penile orgasm is a quick release, whereas getting a prostate orgasm is a full ‘eyes rolled back’ situation.” - Fred, Men's Health Magazine
“Yes, a prostate orgasm is extremely different than a pure ejaculatory orgasm. That first time I felt a huge rush to my face, my body got so warm and my heart raced like crazy. I felt like I was coming from the inside out and that a volcano was erupting. If an ejaculation feels like a 10, this was a 20. Yes, it was double the intensity.” - Dominus, Men's Health Magazine
“For me, I find that I am simply overcome by the sheer power of the orgasm. It's not a whole lot better, per se, but it is a lot stronger. After it happens I'm stuck there out of breath and trembling for at least a few minutes. P-spot is the way to go.” - Reddit user
The reviews on our remote control prostate massager called Wake reflect a similar sentiment.
Are you better at partnered sex after having had a good amount of it during your life? I’m sure you are. Are you better at pleasuring yourself than you were as a pubescent kid? I bet. This is especially true for anything a bit nuanced like g-spotting, clitoral stimulation or prostate stimulation – it’s an art. You need a bit of finesse. And that’s a learned skill.
This is even true when using a prostate massager . It takes some getting used to. Be patient, take your time, and don’t give up.
Exploring butt play will be a bit of a learning curve. Read more on prostate pleasure here on our sex ed blog.
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First of all, he’s got to be okay with butt stuff.
Butt stuff has been taboo probably for as long as there have been taboos. But thanks to a growing conversation on anal play ( hello, pegging !) you and your partner might find yourselves ready to, erm, enter new territory and attempt a prostate orgasm .
The prostate—a gland about the size of a walnut which sits deep in the groin between the base of a guy’s penis and his rectum—is to men what the G-spot is to women . For some men, it can potentially be a total pleasure center.
Biologically, the prostate produces semen, but “sexually and erotically, it can function to heighten pleasure,” says Jenni Skyler , Ph.D., founder of The Intimacy Institute in Colorado. “What prostate stimulation does is press upon the urethra in such a way that it can actually prevent ejaculation,” Skyler says—a.k.a. it can stretch out that just-about-to-orgasm feeling even longer.
Prostate (n.): a gland the size of a walnut, found deep in the groin between penis base and rectum.
“If your partner is comfortable with prostate contact and is able to relax and enjoy anal stimulation”—the only way to get to the prostate is by sticking your finger or a toy about an inch and a half into his butt—“it adds this sensation of fullness and pressure that maximizes the intensity of an orgasm for a man,” Skyler explains.
Aside from the prostate stimulation itself, the anal action that’s part of the process can also boost a guy’s pleasure. “It's hard to know how much of ‘prostate pleasure’ actually involves the prostate at all and how much is related to the fact that the only way to get to a man's prostate is through his anus,” says Stephen Snyder, M.D., a sex therapist and author of Love Worth Making . “A lot of people enjoy anal stimulation, which makes sense—like the genitals, the anal area is richly supplied with nerve endings and blood flow.”
That said, “Some men don’t enjoy it—it can be a psychological lack of enjoyment or it could be a physiological one,” says Skyler, adding she’s had patients in both categories. Or maybe he's just not interested in exploring (and that's okay). Either way, as with any sex act, it's important to communicate and make sure both parties are game—that includes you, btw.
If you're intrigued by exploring this new territory, Skyler has some tips for how to make a prostate orgasm happen.
If you are both jazzed to poke around his prostate, it’s important to start by getting super-relaxed. “The anus has two sphincters and they can tighten up and close,” Skyler says. “The way to get entrance and invitation is to really deeply relax the whole body."
Start with a sensual massage, the goal of which isn’t necessarily to turn your partner on, but to help him feel totally comfortable.
Once your partner feels chilled out, ease your way in. “If you’ve never done anal play, approach the anus respectfully and slowly,” Sklyer says. “Play with the full buttocks and inner thighs first and then move to play with the outer rim of the opening of the anus.”
“The anus is not self-lubricating so make sure there’s a lot of lube, no matter what,” Skyler says. She recommends picking up a lubricant that’s specifically designed for anal play since these formulas tend to be a little thicker and last a bit longer. (Here are the best lubes for anal , FYI.)
The best way to stimulate the prostate is either with your finger or a prostate toy (basically a slim butt plug). If you’re hesitant about using your finger (even if he just took a shower, it’s okay if the idea still makes you feel a little squeamish) a toy is an awesome alternative.
“Sex toy retailers like Adam and Eve sell a lot of beginner prostate toys,” Skyler says. “Most of them even have a rounded edge like a finger.”
To make a prostate orgasm happen, go super-slowly—especially if this is the first time you and your partner are trying the technique. Once you’re inside, feel for the prostate gland, which is about “one knuckle’s worth” into the rectum in the direction of his penis (as opposed to his lower back), Skyler says. “It feels like a soft pillow-y ball,” she says.
Once you’ve found it, apply soft pressure or try stroking it slowly, and keep communicating with your partner about how it feels. Take your cues from him on whether to stroke or apply even pressure, go slower or faster, press more or less intense, etc. Whatever way you do it: Prepare for a whole new type of O.

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Prepare for a full-body experience like no other.
Ah, orgasms ! Who doesn’t love them? There are so many ways to achieve the big O, from jacking off to intercourse to playing with sex toys (hi, vibrating cock rings ). But your penis isn't the only way to experience such pleasure. In fact, if you're looking for a toe-curling, mind-blowing orgasm, you might just find it...in your ass.
The prostate —a.k.a the P-spot or male G-spot—is packed with nerve endings, making it an extremely sensitive pleasure point. Stimulating the prostate can lead to powerful orgasms, but only if you know what you’re doing. Jabbing your finger into your butt won't necessarily do the trick; it's all about nailing the right angles and techniques—not to mention using lots of lube.
When you do figure out what works, the pay-off can be sweet. "Prostate orgasms will be subtle at first and foreign, because it’s new," says Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness. "Eventually, it feels more like a full-body sensation that radiates through the body. It feels like your entire body is orgasming. Learning to experience this can transform your relationship to your body and even help you understand female pleasure far more deeply." (FYI, some experts compare prostate orgasms to internal G-spot orgasms in people with a vulva, and penile orgasms to external clitoral orgasms.)
If you’re ready to experiment with yourself (or your partner), read on to find the answers to all your questions about how to have a prostate orgasm.
There's a problematic yet persistent notion out there that you can't be straight and enjoy butt play. This is false—a complete myth.
“Anyone who has a prostate can potentially have a prostate orgasm, regardless of their gender identity or sexual orientation,” says Dr. Justin Lehmiller, a research fellow at the Kinsey Institute, host of the Sex and Psychology Podcast , and member of the Men's Health Advisory Board.
As with any new sexual activity, learning how to have a prostate orgasm takes preparation and practice. Here are some expert-approved tips, techniques, and other important things to know.
If you’re new to anal play , the first step is finding your prostate . The walnut-sized gland is located underneath the bladder and in front of the rectum, and you can stimulate it by putting fingers or toys (anal beads, dildos, etc.) about three inches into your butt.
Kenneth Play, sex educator and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series , suggests experimenting with yourself (if you can!) before trying with your partner. “I recommend masturbation rather than partner play to start this exploration because you have a direct feedback loop," he says. "Without having to instruct someone else or worry about being comfortable, things are much simpler and more effective."
Now, we know you might be scratching your head in confusion, wondering how there can be an external prostate orgasm when the prostate is located inside your anus. But here’s a quick bio lesson: an external prostate orgasm is when you stimulate your prostate “externally, by applying pressure between your anus and your testicles,” Saynt explains (in other words, by massaging your perineum). No insertion required.
Internal orgasms, on the other hand, involve massaging your prostate (with the help of fingers and/or sex toys and lots of lube ).
Ready to experiment with external prostate stimulation? Start off by taking two fingers, dousing them with lube, and then applying repeated pressure to that area between the anus and testicles.
The most sensitive you are, the easier it is to orgasm, Saynt says. If you're having trouble achieving that big O, Play recommends stimulating your penis with a vibrator or other sex toys while you knead your perineum. Not everyone can climax solely from prostate stimulation, and that's okay.
Going through the back door can be lots of fun, but you'll also need a lot more preparation. Start off by taking a shower and douching your booty , so you don't end up accidentally touching poop, Saynt says. (That said, it helps to accept that a little feces contact comes with the territory of butt play!)
Once you're done cleaning, get the party started by getting yourself turned on. You could watch porn or listen to some erotica while you start to stroke your penis. Just remember, you're not trying to rush to a penile orgasm—this is all about warming yourself up for prostate play. "Start stimulating your penis to get to a certain level of arousal before anal penetration, ‘cause otherwise it can feel like a medical exam," Play says.
Unless you’re into pain (no judgment here), please, please, please use lube. Lehmiller recommends water-based or silicone . Lube up your middle and pointer fingers before slowly—emphasis on slowly —penetrating your anus. “Move your fingers in a come [hither] motion, and you’ll begin to build up the pressure needed to orgasm,” Saynt explains.
Prostate massagers are vibrating toys that are specifically designed to go up your butt and stimulate your P-spot. "They have different vibration intensities and settings, so that you can sort of customize it for the right type of prostate stimulation for you," Lehmiller says. "And some of those prostate stimulators also have other attachments to them, such as a cock ring so that you can provide penile stimulation and prostate stimulation at the same time.” Some also have an attachment that stimulates the perineum, so you can massage the prostate internally and externally at the same time.
If you're using a toy, make sure you lube it up, too; just beware of mixing silicone lube with silicone toys, as the lube can cause the toys to erode.
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