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I don't find it too crazy. I'm a little older than you and just had sex for the first time Friday night.

I surprised the heck out both him and I, as I was NOWHERE as nervous as either one of us thought I would be (he knows I had never been with anyone before).... (9 replies)

... Strange as it may sound I used a vibrator long before having intercourse. And yes I did break my hymen with it and it did hurt so either way it will hurt. ... (9 replies)

... If you still have your hymen and want to preserve it, then you probably shouldn't use it for penetration since the vibrator will probably tear it (which could be painful and cause temporary bleeding).
You'll still be a virgin , of course, but your hymen will no longer be intact. (3 replies)

... hi im' a virgin and i want to use a vibrator that can be use for penetration as well for stimulation is it safe for me to one ? ... (3 replies)

... I'm a virgin but I want a vibrator . ... (0 replies)

... OK, TMI follows.

I'm assuming here you use pads instead of tampons. Most girls who use tampons manage to break their hymen long before their first intercourse. (I was 11, at the beginning of puberty, trying to figure out what the baby-making equipment did, when mine broke. It hurts way less than cramps or a scraped knee. I hardly noticed.)

Every girl should learn her own... (9 replies)

... of the pain and the blook showing. I'm not in a position right now to be sexually active but, it's always on my mind. Is it possible that if I decided to use a vibrator that I could break my hymen myself and move past the bleeding...not to mention "open" me up more...where when the time comes, I won't be so tense or afraid. ... (9 replies)

... So! I got my first vibrator . I'm a virgin . My question...what's the odds that since the vibrator is the first "penis" inside of me that my hymen is done. I saw no blood. ... (6 replies)

... er had a vibrator , but I guess my hymen broke from using tampons or something... I never had any pain or blood during my first time! If tampons can do it, then a vibrator definitely can. ... (9 replies)

... So, today i brought my first vibrator and i tired it tonight! I'm a virgin so i knew it would hurt a little bit but thats one of the reasons why i got it, so when i do have sex it won't hurt as much. ... (2 replies)

... I only recently started masturbation via direct clitoral stimulus, and had first time using a vibrator the other day. ... (2 replies)

... sized vibrator I think it's safe to assume you don't have an intact hymen. An intact hymen covers the opening to the vagina leaving only a small hole. ... (2 replies)

... It is very common for there not to be any pain or bleeding during first time intercourse. In my experience, my hymen didn't break until the second time I had sex. You may find that when you have actual intercourse, your hymen could break then - you may or may not have bleeding. When using a vibrator , you can control the pressure etc. When you have intercourse you have no... (2 replies)

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I'm 19 and have never had sex, recently I brought a vibrator and inserted it all the way (it was an actual penis shape as opposed to a thin one) but there was no pain, no blood and no barrier, is it possible for the hymen to still be intact? will it still hurt the first time with a guy?
(I've never used tampons and i don't horse ride, so they can't be reasons as to why... (2 replies)

... I am a virgin , but my boyfriend and I have been experimenting with a vibrator for quite some time now. ... (0 replies)

... I was terrified the first time I had sex. I was nervous that it would hurt, that I would bleed everywhere, etc. In fact, I was so nervous that I was extremely tense. My boyfriend actually complained that I hurt him because I could not let those muscles relax. Everything was rigid - I didn't move. I didn't bleed though. It was an uncomfortable experience, but I think it... (9 replies)

... anyway, I've been looking for good dildos or vibrator that I could use to satisfy the nasty feelings that we all have, LOL! ... (8 replies)

... oyfriend to intercourse, but seems like i feel very uncomfy and not letting myself to accept the intercourse as i am feeling the hurt, and now got some very thin vibrator to try first and i still not feeling comfy but in mind keep saying that i want to have sex with my partner who i love much and move forward. ... (1 replies)

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So the big night has come and gone. And it was amazing! Thank you to everyone who posted advice! It definatley helped!

My wedding was definitely a memorable experience for me. And I really think all the planning was worth it. To anyone considering get married l strongly recommend it :p .

I have to thank whoever suggested the vibrator ! I only had... (29 replies)

... As for the vibrator question, no, they do not come with instructions. None of the vibes I've seen or bought have come with any sort of literature on how to use them. ... (9 replies)
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ok, so i havent had sex before. i got myself a rampant rabbit deluxe and tried using it but it doesnt fit, plus the clit part just seemed to make me go numb

it really burned when i tried to put it in, and i dont think i can have a hymen cause ive done a lot of horse riding

does this sound normal?

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"Rampant rabbit deluxe"? ****ing hell.

Anyway, yeah, it sounds normal. Your vagina takes time to get used to things being inserted into it. Put it this way - if you can't get a vibrator inside it, you can't get a baby out of it. It will loosen up with time though. Don't force it or it will hurt, but gradually over a couple of weeks use it as far as you can and it should help you loosen up a bit.

The fact that you've done a lot of horse riding doesn't necessarily mean your hymen hasn't broken, by the way. And if it has it may only have broken partly.

erm...why the biggest one when you are a virgin? i don't really know very much, but i do know what 'sloppy seconds' means...perhaps you should have chosen a .... less ...ample load to 'bear' ?

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(Original post by Anonymous )
erm...why the biggest one when you are a virgin? i don't really know very much, but i do know what 'sloppy seconds' means...perhaps you should have chosen a .... less ...ample load to 'bear' ?

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And the vagina doesn't stay loose numb nuts.

I bought my ex Tiffany from Ann Summers...it was ideal. She was a virgin too, til I got to her hehe.

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(Original post by Sam Beckett )
And the vagina doesn't stay loose numb nuts.

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It was directed at the other guy...talking about sloppy seconds

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actually, its not the biggest one! there was no smaller one it the shop that was shaped like a penis, the smaller ones all had diamonds and stuff stuck on them which made me feel a bit doubtful...

erm...i dont understand the sloppy seconds thing? whats that? it sounds kinda gross

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(Original post by Anonymous )
actually, its not the biggest one! there was no smaller one it the shop that was shaped like a penis, the smaller ones all had diamonds and stuff stuck on them which made me feel a bit doubtful...

erm...i dont understand the sloppy seconds thing? whats that? it sounds kinda gross

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(Original post by generalebriety )
"Rampant rabbit deluxe"? ****ing hell.

Anyway, yeah, it sounds normal. Your vagina takes time to get used to things being inserted into it. Put it this way - if you can't get a vibrator inside it, you can't get a baby out of it. It will loosen up with time though. Don't force it or it will hurt, but gradually over a couple of weeks use it as far as you can and it should help you loosen up a bit.

The fact that you've done a lot of horse riding doesn't necessarily mean your hymen hasn't broken, by the way. And if it has it may only have broken partly.

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(Original post by generalebriety )
If you must know, google it. First link that comes up will do nicely.

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(Original post by Anonymous )
My word, that was very rude and totally unnecessary. You should not give 'advice' to people when your sole experience of such situations comes from secondary and often inconsistent online sources. Unless you have some kind of relevent medical training or direct personal experience, please refrain from posting speculative and unrealistic responses to this girl's intimate problems.
You fool.

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(Original post by Nonsmoking )
Actually, no-one on here is qualified, as it says clearly at the top of each forum. generalebriety is as justified in giving his views as you are. mebbe he's just doing his best to be helpful to someone who's posted a problem on here, as we all try and be helpful with whatever knowledge we have.

I would agree that there is no need for anyone to get aggressive though.

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(Original post by Nonsmoking )
I would agree that there is no need for anyone to get aggressive though.

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(Original post by Anonymous )
Absolutely, I was suggesting that no male members should really give advice, unless they are medically trained.
My gripe is with people who regurgitate material that they have read elsewhere, which is often incorrect.
Since no blokes have a vagina, and no gay men will have a great deal of first-hand experience with them, generalebriety was not, and is not in a position to advise the OP.

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(Original post by generalebriety )
Well, thank you for your opinion. Frankly, though, I'm sick of people patronising me for being helpful. So I hereby disregard what you just said. If the OP doesn't want my opinion they can damn well say in the first post "P.S. no gay guys " and I'll happily know my place and not bother to help.

Don't know why I'm here if I'm not allowed to post because I don't have a vagina. Go and tell all the male gynaecologists they're not allowed to give advice and they should "leave it to the girls " and they'll tell you exactly the same as I did.

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(Original post by Nonsmoking )
Lol, dude I'm bi! Don't stress cos ppl don't agree with u!

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(Original post by Anonymous )
Absolutely, I was suggesting that no male members should really give advice, unless they are medically trained.
My gripe is with people who regurgitate material that they have read elsewhere, which is often incorrect.
Since no blokes have a vagina, and no gay men will have a great deal of first-hand experience with them, generalebriety was not, and is not in a position to advise the OP.

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(Original post by generalebriety )
for the (large number)th time, the OP doesn't know about her own problem either, so I wouldn't really say that girls replying was at all any proof of a right answer.

Good on you for not telling me I'm wrong anonymously though.

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