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The percentage of women who never reach orgasm from intercourse alone varies from study to study. Many women feel little to not much at all inside their vagina. And this syndrome, commonly known as numb vagina, is making the world of female sexuality crazy for a hundred years.
My colleague Ma Ananda Sarita reminded me of this: When Freud mentioned (without much scientific proof) that woman who only orgasm clitorally are immature, the world started to panic. Trying to figure out how women can orgasm vaginally created an intense pressure for lovers on a global scale. Since today the believe that a vaginal orgasm is the ‘right’ and ‘mature’ kind of orgasm is still out there.
In this article, I don’t want to put the clitoris and her incredible ability to orgasm down. Or support the praise and compare clitoral to vaginal orgasms. I want to point out the mere fact of numb vagina’s as a standalone status quo.
I have a few questions for you: How can you tell if your vagina is responding fully? I mean did you ever think about it?
It’s not like you could try out another vagina to see the difference. Maybe you noticed some parts of your vagina are feeling numb. But how would you even know if they were?
We don’t have a tradition of women gathering in sacred spaces to talk freely and frankly about their bodies, sexuality, and sexual responses. Or get the chance to understand through guided self-pleasure rituals or gynecological education. As a result, each woman has to blunder around, gathering information almost by accident.
I personally didn’t feel much during sex.
If you had asked me eight years back, I would’ve said that orgasm is something that happens by luck for me. If my clitoris was stroked in the right way, with the right rhythm while my partner is inside of me, there might’ve been a chance to come.
I didn’t even realize back then that my clitoris was the ‘one’ area that was giving me pleasure. Only until I tapped into Tantra, I realized that there is much more to discover. So I started to de-armor and let go of my numbness step by step, but not only to reach other or better kind of orgasms. More to let go of certain traumas and tensions that my pussy stored inside, which were the primary cause of the numbness in the first place.
You might have heard of the following common sexual dysfunctions:
There are extreme cases of the numb vagina, where the woman feels nothing other than a bit of pressure when any part of her vagina is stimulated. In this extreme case, women generally become aware that their sexual response is different from other women because they experience no pleasure at all from penetrative sex.
Less well-known, however, is partial numb vagina syndrome. This is where a region of the vagina is numb, or certain spots, but other parts respond normally. This is something I experienced. And I didn’t even realize it until I had a Yoni Massage where my partner would map the inner tissues of my vagina to check whether I felt something or not.
Often, a numb vagina is associated with other symptoms, such as tension and pain in the pelvic area.
Vaginismus is a condition in which penetrative sex causes pain. The muscles around the vagina go into spasm when anything enters the vagina opening. Similar to an eye that blinks when you try to touch it. If you are experiencing strong pain during sex and have a tendency to spasm you want to consult a doctor and find ways to release and relax the tension that is stored in your body.
Women experiencing vaginismus usually discover sooner of later their condition, either it happens when they use a tampon for the first time and can hardly get it out. Or when they have penetrative sex, which usually results in strong pelvic pain.
Both vaginismus and numb vagina syndrome can be a result of milder to stronger sexual trauma. In some cases, psychotherapy, NLP, or hypnosis may be needed to support the healing process. In other cases, a direct approach via the physical body can be fully effective, without the need to remember or talk about any traumatic event.
Work around all parts of the vagina, point by point, and check whether or not you have sensation or not at each point.
It can be difficult to reach all the parts of the vagina unassisted. You can enlist the help of a partner, or invest in a Cervix Serpent to help you reach the deeper parts of the vagina yourself:
Professional therapists practicing yoni massage can also help you to identify any areas of numbness in your vagina.
The first step in treating a numb vagina is to map which parts of the vagina are numb.
Simply going through the process of systematically touching each and every point in the vagina will already stimulate the brain to make a better connection with the nerves in the vagina.
A regular practice with the Yoni Egg will gradually and gently increase circulation and awareness in the vagina.
Remember that numbness in the vagina is there for a reason. Be gentle with yourself, and allow your body to unwind itself at its own pace. You want to focus on them, rather ignoring them. You can start with a Self-Yoni massage, by gently pressing with a dildo on the numb area. Usually, numbness turns into pain (which is the first level of de-armouring) and pain transforms into pleasure if you keep present with the process.
Note: Pushing for fast results will most likely be counterproductive.
Most of us are programmed with repressive ideas about sexuality. Subconscious beliefs that sexual pleasure is wrong, sexuality is evil or dirty, or sexual desire is dangerous can all cause us to subconsciously shut down sensation in the vagina.
Have you always cherished your sensitive “inner child” during sex, or have you sometimes pushed yourself to do things you don’t want to do? Have you allowed partners to penetrate you before you were fully ready? Have you used artificial lubricants to enable sex at times when your body wasn’t prepared for it? Have you been abused or assaulted? Do you have sex for the sake of peace, at times when you don’t feel emotionally connected? Any of these patterns can lead to a numb vagina.
Your sexuality is first and foremost a relationship between you and yourself. There is no greater purpose to your sexual pleasure than to bring you into close connection with your soul. It can be deeply healing to set aside half an hour a day, or an hour every few days, and to really go deep with yourself, doing only the exact thing that you want to do at every moment. This is not a goal-oriented practice – don’t try to orgasm, or to feel any particular sensation. Simply explore, get to know your body and your sexual response, and experience the wide variety of sexual pleasure that your body can enjoy.
You may also benefit from Yoni Egg practice , where you insert a Yoni egg into the vagina and move it around, using the muscles of the pelvic floor.
Sexual partners who are impatient, self-centered, or goal-oriented can create stress and tension, and may even make a numb vagina worse. Choose a sensitive, caring, gentle partner, who will take all the time you need, and who will enjoy exploring with you.
Make every sexual experience a sensory feast. Light candles, burn incense or spray delicious scents on the sheets, play uplifting music, and arrange the room so that it looks beautiful. Your logical mind may say that this is all a waste of time and money, but your subconscious mind will register the message “you deserve beautiful sensations”.
The journey to sexual empowerment is fascinating, with many twists and turns. Don’t be afraid to cry, to scream, to watch incredible visions unfold in your mind’s eye … you never know what you will discover about yourself when you start to explore those numb areas.
Sexual energy is a powerful healing force. When you liberate your sexual pleasure, you free up an enormous amount of creative energy in your life.
Don’t be in a hurry to reach some final destination. It is the unexpected twists and turns along the way that will bring you the greatest gifts.
Mariah Freya is a sex & orgasm coach, urban goddess and founder of Beducated.com . She opens up the topic of sexuality in all its diversity through her videos, articles and online courses. Mariah has a powerful global mission: Liberating sexuality from below the belly button up, and helping the individual grow through pleasure into fulfilment.
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Communities > Women's Health > No feeling in vagina am i normal

Hi there!! i am 20 and a virgin .. i just dont seem to be able to get turned on at all. My boyfriend was fooling around inside my vagina and said that i should be able to feel something, that it should feel 'special' but its just totally numb i cant feel him touch anything. Is this normal?? should i be able to feel something?
If at all related i also have problems with irregular periods.

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Have you tryed not trying to feel it women's sexual Urge's are highly tied to your state of mind if you want sex mentally but are thinking about bills kids school etc it can put a stop to any and all arousal if possible you should see both a psychological sex doctor and a psysical sex doctor hope this helps i have been dealing with my wife non sexual tendencies for 10+ yrs it gets easier trust me.

DesertTortoisefan
Apr 22, 2016

I had 'normal' feeling in the vagina and then one day it was gone. I then had no feeling inside the vagina whatsoever. It is NOT normal to have no feeling what so ever.

This is incorrect information that has been posted in other forums by different people. You cannot tell someone what is normal ....and that they are supposed to feel pleasure in a certain way. To say if they take certain medications they will loose all feeling permanently is absurd!! You are spreading disinformation that can hurt people

A traumatic experience can sometimes permanently make it more difficult to become aroused and feel pleasure. This means a loss in feelings of anticipation, the overall feeling of being "horny," and even a lessened awareness in regards to stimulation. And I don't necessarily mean rape. People who have lost loved ones, especially spouses, I have noticed are especially susceptible. This could be because in addition, there may be feelings of guilt or self-punishment. This is all subconscious, mind you! This observation does not apply to those of you who are literally numb because of damaged or faulty nerves, but I felt it could be valuable to post nonetheless. If this is a suspected cause of loss of the quality of intercourse, it may be a good idea to look into using an antidepressant.

    smart alec!    this young woman needs help not your defensive smart attitude

    smart alec!    this young woman needs help not your defensive smart attitude

almost the same scenario with me and my girlfriend except we haven't try vibrator. She couldn't feel anything neither on her clitoris nor on her vagina. I tried everything i know, i spent more than an hour for foreplay, she could become well wet but still doesn't feel. I even tried holding my ejaculation for almost an hour but the result's the same. She doesn't get aroused even when i caress her nipples..its like she is completely numb everywhere on her body though she do have the desire to have sex. I feel absolutely helpless as i could do nothing to satisfy her.

I'm really relieved to have read all of these posts. I'm 21 years old, and I just entered a sexual relationship (after making the poor guy wait forever). But I don't feel anything down there either... He tried everything, and it just wasn't happening. We've had sex multiple times, and I haven't felt any pleasure from the act. He's used his tongue and his fingers, and he's even rubbed different parts of my body (legs, back, shoulders, breasts) but still nothing. However, just recently, he used a clitoral vibrator on me (I was completely nervous the first time he showed it to me)  and it felt really good and "got me going" but after he set it down and entered me, it was back to square one. I feel terrible though, because he's trying so hard and nothing is happening for me. I don't want him to think that it's because I don't want him...

I have many of the same problems. What feels good for a man usually does not feel good for a women.  First of all, I am 46.  I only once had an orgasim from intercourse.  My one and only pleasure spot is my clitorious.  I do agree that is where your nerve endings are.  Oral sex and stimulating the little man in the boat usually works for me, but takes time depending on how good your man is in stimulating it, but your body and mind has to be all there too.  I do agree  and have always said, my clit is my penis.  Your partner has to work on pulling it out of the hood.  When I have orgasms I have multiples could be up to 20.  The secret is to having multiples is one u have the 1st one. Stop and wait 20 seconds, then have him go down and do again, do this repeatitly. Until you feel you feel you are done.  It's amazing.

A good loving man should massage you to help relax you and put you in the mood.  Also have some wine.  I too get swollen in my vagina with long or hard pumping action.  I do believe it is from dryness .  I may start out wet, but after a while gets dry and hurts and then swells, all of your post have helped me understand this.  I do agree.

Babygirl_Leelee
Apr 17, 2012

I can tell that you didn't read most of the comments.

I am the same as most of these women on here except my story is a little different. I could feel everything down there up until August 2010 where I some how obtained a back injury. I lost all feeling from the waist down and was rushed to the er where I had emergency back surgery. It never restored any of my feeling down there. I have no feeling in the clit or the vagina. It really drives me nuts because I haven't been able to orgasm because I cant feel anything. I can get horny, but that is from stimulation from my breasts. I just had my 3rd back surgery where I was told that my sensation should be getting better, but nope, it is still the same. They don't know what has caused it. The nerve that was cut off in 2010 should have already been healed by now they even said this last surgery was a success. My neurosurgeon said there is nothing else that can be done by him and that I should contact my pcp. My pcp told me that I needed to go to the gyno, but I haven't received any help with that. I know how it feels to be pleasured and have multiple orgasms and for all of that to basically disappear over night is hell.

I want answers and help. I want to be able to orgasm and feel sex again.

CLITORIS CLITORIS CLITORIS!!! That is the answer.
it is COMPLETLY NORMAL not to feel anything INSIDE the vagina.
Maybe if trying to find g-spot but that might take some time.
The clit is the female version of a penis. Literally. It's a tiny penis head. SO THAT is the source of most pleasure. Play with it.

Some might be more sensitive to feeling inside the vagina, but some do not. And there is NOTHING abnormal about that.

You are SUPPOSED to feel something nice during intercourse. If you don't, then something is not right. Like a woman above wrote: it's supposed to feel lovely.

I had a very sensitive vagina and intercourse used to feel wonderful. After I was put on Estrogen by a doctor, my sensation disappeared over night. It has not been restored even years after coming off estrogen.

Numbness can be cause by medications such as antidepressants, birth control pills, the acne medication ACCUTANE, and hormones. Unfortunately, these drugs can cause permanent damage to genital sensation, which is not restored after quitting the drug. It persists forever.

justryingtohelp
Jul 12, 2011

there are many diff causes, some psychological, but some are very phisical. some of you may need to get a referal to a NEUROLOGIST.    If you are getting no where with your gyn doctor, you may need to head in a differant direction. sometimes conditions such as M.S can cause this.  It doesnt mean the problems imaginary or in your head, but if your nervous system is messed up, it can cause loss of feeling/no sensation.    Ask for both an Mri and another test, sometimes you can get false negitives.    in the mean time eat healthier lessen sugar intake, and up vitiman B intake.

hello..i am 35 and never come while its in...i feel only the in and out but no excitement what so ever. The only way i come is when i cross my legs and put pressure down there. its a pulsating feeling that i get which feels great and i get a bit breathless. is this the real deal. I have no idea what masturbating is? pls HELP.

Hi, im the same! im nearly 19
ive been to the Gp who refferd me to the gyne
and he told me it was all in my head and go back to my GP and see a conselor.
i need answers , we all do.
im having a hysteroscopy done soon as i demanded
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