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Edging Orgasm Denial - Simple Tips to Successful Orgasm Denial for Your Man

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Submitted On April 11, 2012

Edging orgasm denial, or tease and denial, is one of the most difficult aspects of male chastity.
I love that I get to decide when my husband, John, gets to orgasm... or even if he gets to orgasm at all.
I love the thrill of his not knowing if tonight will be the night; I also love the thrill when he knows he's got a long time to wait (we recently completed a whole year of strict orgasm denial for him, with lots of teasing and edging).
Still, it can be very hard to practice tease and denial.
If you haven't heard of tease and denial, it's easy to explain.
Your partner gets you to the edge of cumming and then tells you to stop.
You aren't allowed to cum, only to get excited.
There are many creative ways of doing this, too.
She can make you masturbate while she watches; you might be asked to make love to a pocket pussy (my favourite with John); she might even go so far as to pleasure you orally until you're on the very edge and then she'll stop suddenly, denying you the orgasm.
So now you can see why it can be such a hard game to play.
In fact, in the past we've lost the plot sometime and he's ended up cumming for me anyway.
It's not that he wants to (well, of course he does, but you know what I mean -- he wants to cum but he craves denial).
The thrill of it is intense and mind blowing.
You can practice tease and denial with your beloved at any time, although I do recommend starting out slowly.
Tease and denial is not easy for the beginner. In fact, it isn't easy for any man.
I don't recommend doing this every night either, not unless you're really serious about it and your man really is into the game.
There's no danger involved, but you can get a serious case of blue balls with tease and denial.
In fact, your entire body becomes sensitive to touch, your nipples are especially sensitive and you just want to cum.
That said, once I did treat John to 31 nights straight of tease and denial, just as a challenge. THAT was fun (but very tough on him).
On the plus side, it makes him very, very pleasing. Pleasuring you is the only thing on his mind when you're practicing male chastity, but it intensifies when you're playing tease and denial games.
Imagine what it's like for him being so close to cumming, and yet not (and maybe never ) being allowed to.
Your wife or lover holds the key to your release, but she is denying you because you have not yet satisfied her needs. It really makes you want to satisfy her needs.
This is what constantly churns through the mind of a man in chastity.
Make sure you and your beloved talk about the tease and denial game before you try it.
Although it is not about her sadistic female dominating pleasure, it is about her controlling your orgasm, and some women need time to warm to the idea.
Also, decide how many times you want to try tease and denial each week.
You may decide you're fine with this every night, or, you might decide you just want to try it once every few days. It's a personal choice between you and your partner.
Feel free to add in any techniques that drive you wild, that make it even better.
Most importantly, make sure he tries hard not to cum... but also remember, everyone makes a mistake once in a while and you and your beloved can laugh about it after a night of lovemaking.
Ultimately it's all about having fun and knowing the facts.
And if you do want to know more, and especially about how to incorporate some serious edging into your marriage...
... click the blue link and claim your FREE step-by-step chastity guide and discover the truth about male chastity and edging orgasm denial .
... because right now I'm giving away this free Guide to anyone who visits my website, but this free offer won't last forever.
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Sarah Jameson is the creator and host of the highly regarded Male Chastity Blog, which is rapidly becoming the principal source of sound, factual, and usable information about male chastity on the Internet.
She is a happily married woman and freelance writer who has kept her husband in ultra-strict long-term chastity and orgasm denial for the past 13 years and now shares her experiences to help other couples embrace this deeply satisfying and rewarding but frequently misunderstood lifestyle.
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Many a professional dominatrix will tell you she will not allow submissives to orgasm during the session. I did.
Mainly because if they did cum halfway through, it meant I could clock off early and get on with a nice boxset.
Of course, if they specifically asked for orgasm control or chastity then we could start to play with a variety of devices – both physical and psychological – that come in pretty handy for me.
Orgasm control is basically what it sounds like: you control whether your partner can cum or not.
This doesn’t have to be in the midst of a BDSM activity – after all, who hasn’t asked him to keep his boner a little longer while we edge ourselves a little closer to the finish line with a gentle ‘not yet’?
I’m going to go through a few things you can also try if you want to get a little kinkier, and especially if you want to try long-term orgasm control – otherwise known as chastity.
No bells, no whistles. Just tell him he’s not allowed to masturbate for a certain amount of days.
Start off with just a few days though, as you might find he wakes up to a ‘wet patch’.
I used to tell a lot of subs not to play with themselves until our session as it would increase both the anticipation, the sensation, and my chances of having an early night.
Plus, it will also help to make orgasming a much more intense experience.
A fun one for Skype, or if you want to make a little pre-recorded video.
You are, as the name suggests, literally instructing him on how you want him to w*nk off.
Start from right at the beginning – he’s fully dressed and you want him to rub his hands over his crotch. Demand he undresses slowly, before you tell him if he’s going to grip hard or soft. Stroke with a hand, or just a finger.
From there, it’s just a series of ‘harder, harder’ or ‘slower, slower’. There are plenty you can watch on websites like ‘clips4sale’ if you want some inspiration.
If you’re playing the Domme, don’t be tempted to start getting your boobs out for titillation. The fact you have control over how he’s doing such an everyday, personal task is the turn-on.
There are a wide range of chastity devices for men, which will see their junk safely away from anyone’s trunk.
A word to the wise – you get what you pay for.
Cheaper chastity devices might be good for an hour or so of play, but they will start to chafe. There will also be hygiene issues if you want him to keep it on for longer.
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My advice is to check reviews on the sites that sell them and see how long someone has managed to keep it on for. You can always get advice from various forum boards and social media groups too.
Plastic ones tend to chafe, and the heavy metallic ones can be a bit too weighty. Be prepared for some trial and error, as well as a bit of moisturiser to help the skin. But when you’ve found one you can wear indefinitely, it’ll be worth it.
Also, remember that consent is key and there are several health issues to be aware of – if it needs to come off, it needs to come off.
As ever, the language used changes from person to person, but as you can probably guess, this is about getting someone closer and closer, before denying and cutting off their orgasm.
This could be seen as the pinnacle of orgasm control – after all, it’s easy to just stop someone from w*nking off, but how do you get someone close to the edge and know when to stop, or even how to stop them?
There are a few ways in which it can be done; sometimes just ceasing all activity will do it, or there’s the old ‘pinch the tip’ trick (which you literally pinch the tip of the penis).
The aim is to get as close to the point of no return as you can, but leave him begging for more.
Fortunately, as you learn about ‘edging’ your partner, and what amount of tease and denial he can take, you will still be able to give him a ‘ruined orgasm’.
Nope, it’s not a cocktail at Wetherspoons, unless you’re really unlucky.
The trick here is to read your sub, and get them to that brief moment between the point of no return but before the orgasm starts. Without that final bit of stimulation, he’ll find it pretty hard to cum and can be extremely frustrating.
In the world of orgasm control, where, when and whether you want your sub to orgasm or not is completely up to you. It’s great fun to try over long distance, or just to see how far you can push your sub.
You don’t have to be cruel, and you certainly don’t have to listen to anyone tell you ‘you shouldn’t let him cum’. I never understood that as a working practice anyway.
Have fun with the timings, and you’ll soon turn your guy into a geyser.

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Good sex is not just about the climax, but the journey to reaching climax, and because sex is a big part of a relationship between people who deeply love each other and want to be as intimate as possible, it is very important to constantly make things sexy in and out of the bedroom.
How then do you keep your man in the right mood for sex with or without him being aware that is what you’re doing?
The overall way of doing this is to keep your guy in a constant state of sexual tension, and the key is finding out how to turn on your man. Sex teasing will give your partner a lot to think about and get him pumped in all the right places.
However, how do you give a man what he wants if you don’t know the different ways to tease him?
Apparently, many women like to think teasing is a special trick and only a femme fatale can master the art of seduction . This thought is actually not true, teasing is not a modern art and it can be mastered by any woman who wants to give their partner that extra zing in the bedroom
Teasing or seducing a man is an art as old as time and any woman can easily wield the power of teasing if she is willing to tap into her feminine wiles. Women, because of social restrictions, have been forced to adopt subtle means of seduction, e.g. teasing, in order to express their sexuality.
On the flip side, if you already know how to make your partner feel great in the bedroom but want a fresh new way to heat up the sexual tension and surprise him, then you will learn something new under this post.
Certainly, the subtle art of flirting can be more potent than hard-core sex kinks. When you make use of these tactics, you’ll master how to tease a man you like in no time.
The first step to teasing a man you like is to know the kind of man he is. There is hardly a ‘one size fits all’ method to romance or sex. Men and their wants are peculiar, so what worked just fine with your ex might not work for the person you’re currently dating or married to.
Therefore, it is better that you take time to study what works for your man and get to know what you do that he likes a lot. You don’t want to be rebuffed or rewarded with disinterest, so be patient to study him before introducing some sex teases.
For some guys, playful bangers and dirty innuendos get them in the mood while others might prefer direct seduction like going all naked or just telling them what you need.
If he is your husband, you’ll be spending your whole life with him, and so you’re at liberty to try different tricks with him that will keep you both feeling always young and free. One teasing trick you can use on your husband is to caress his leg with your toes and the flat side of your foot. Go as high as you can and even get as daring as lightly stroking his penis through his pants.
Another one is grinding yourself against his crotch while you’re in the elevator with other people and you know he can’t do anything to reciprocate at the moment. It will drive him wild and make him pounce on you as soon as you get home.
When it comes to picture teasing, it is not just about sending him nudes, even though nudes get the message across clearly, but about sending subtle messages that would have him guessing what you’re trying to do. Try taking a picture of you wearing his shirt with a few buttons left open.
Showing a little cleavage combined with him seeing you in his shirt has a high tendency of arousing him and making him feel possessive at the same time. Try this trick and you’d be surprised at his response, you can also send pictures of your thigh or cleavage only, they work just fine too.
Men like to be teased because they also do it all the time, teasing starts from playful banters to touching and deliberate seduction. To know if a man really likes you, he will connect with you at all three levels: talking, touching, and during sex . So don’t be hesitant about teasing your man.
The things that turn men on are things most women don’t pay attention to or consider important. By simply running your hands through your tresses or over your neck can make a man aroused. Licking your lips, going braless, wearing his shirt or cologne, or even looking sweaty after working out are all examples of things that can make your man pull you close and ravish you.
If you’ve been tied up in knots over what to do to tease and put your man in that sexual mood, do make good use of these tips. No doubt, being shy can be a big problem for attracting men, but you can overcome difficulties with making a man crazy for you if you’re willing to practice and master flirting and teasing. No, you don’t need to fake it to get your man in the mood. When you let your mind and body take over, the sexual attraction will happen naturally.
Also remember, in the bedroom, it’s solely between you and your partner. So, forget society and decency, let him see that inner seductress comes out to play. That’s the only way you’ll be open enough to go the extra mile to have fun and enjoy the many pleasures a simple sex tease guarantees.
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Chances are, when you're having sex, you want to orgasm — and who could blame you? But often, postponing your pleasure makes it that much more enjoyable, which is the concept behind practicing orgasm denial. As they say, good things come to those who wait (and that pun was absolutely intended).
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