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My wife came to me and said that she could not continue to work at the office and I asked why and she said that at the office she was in charge. She said that it was hard to instruct them in what to do when she was wearing short dresses and that also when she gets home she has to totally change her mind to not questioning or organising or leading but to be quiet and submissive. I said that we will write a letter of resignation so we did. This morning she took the letter into work. Then she called me and said that they have asked if she could continue to work there but just not in the managers position. I said yes that sounded like a good idea. So now they are swapping her and one of her underlings has been promoted to the managers position. The new manager is much younger, female and very self confident.

From the op: from the day we were married I'd insisted on obedience and submission. I imposed some rules. One was skirts and dresses and looking feminine. Being quiet. Responding in conversation rather than initiating. Serving. Looking to look after others. We would practice being submissive at home. When out together I would insist on Mini skirts. Then I started requiring them even when she was on her own.

After getting a handsome job I was the happiest woman in the world. But when my Boss started to flirt at first I objected. But due to compulsions and pressure I had to budge in and we had s** . He was too caring and financially supportive. After one month of daily f*** and suck, the other day he brought in one of his close buddy and introduced a threesome for the first time in my life. It was a wonderful experience, two big c**** of different attitude. They tried all type of positions which made me more h**** . Now I enjoy the threesome s** .

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It’s the crack of dawn in a country home in New York and a number of “submissives” are strapping a man onto a giant “roasting spit” as part of a BDSM ritual.
Welcome to the legendary La Domaine Esemar, the world’s only BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism) training chateau — an adult wonderland where wild fantasies become a reality.
Over 500 couples and thousands of paying kinksters have jetted in from around the world to visit the chateau’s famous dungeon, run by Mistress Couple and her training submissives.
From the outside, it looks like an inconspicuous house in the Berkshires, but descend into its depths and you’ll discover things like sex swings, a wax table, knives, daggers, gas masks, genital clamps and barbed wire — catering to every fetish imaginable.
Mistress Couple, 31, and her 68-year-old partner, who goes by the name of Master R, lifted the lid on life inside the chateau’s four walls for the Sun Online, and revealed the kink that goes on in its depths.
One of the fantasies the 1,250-square-foot dungeon recently helped realize was a man who came to them with a fetish to be roasted on a spit.
Master R explained: “The fetish is called ‘schwanandreher,’ it is a very deeply ingrained human fetish and he said it is completely historical.”
The process allows willing human “roastees” and those with a carnal fetish to be coated in sauce and tied to a wooden post by “slaves” in the house’s 20-acre grounds.
Master R said: “The man came to us from London and he had tried the fantasy a few years ago and he had ended up getting severely injured and burnt.”
“He went to the hospital and needed skin grafts and was out of work for four months.”
“He didn’t have sex for years after the experience but he wasn’t put off by the fetish, which is very powerful.”
The man called La Domaine Esemar and said he would fly to the United States just so he could safely fulfill the fantasy of being “cooked.”
Master R said: “The man was tied to a giant 6-foot roasting spit and was up there for three hours.”
“A fire was lit in a fire pit and hot coals were moved under him and he is lowered and safely raised throughout the process.”
The BDSM haven has performed several roasting spits since, and this is just the tip of the iceberg when it comes to services the professional dungeon provides.
The last BDSM chateau, Le Chateau in Portugal, closed in the ’80s. La Domaine Esemar was created in 1993 and moved to its current location shortly after.
From politicians to sports stars, actors, military advisers and businessmen, even truck drivers and single moms, people from all walks of life have flocked to La Domaine Esemar in its 24 years of operation.
Master R said: “We are the only place for them to go, this is the only one around.”
“We all are beasts whether we want to admit it and like every other animal in the animal kingdom, dominance and submission is a crucial part of how we exist and survive.”
“It is embedded in every person regardless of their social standing and employment, it is in all of us.”
“We all come from pharaohs and slaves, every type of person ends up here.”
Interestingly, the most popular clients who come through their door are those from the medical profession and people who “heal” and “touch.”
And for those who haven’t been through medical school, the dungeon comes with its own clinical physician’s room with surgical instruments and fake blood splattered on the floor.
Master R laughed: “Our house physician loves that area. I think he became a doctor because he secretly always wanted to play mad doctor.”
As well as the surgery room, another commonly used area is the cage, where two or three “slaves” can cram into the small space for periods of time or even sleep there overnight.
Others prefer the “Pain Gym” where “slaves” can be literally whipped into shape, or the chair nicknamed “Vlad the Impaler” that has a motorized sex toy coming out of the seat.
One of the popular fetishes at the moment, Mistress Couple reveals, is pony play or animal roleplay, where at least one person plays the part of a non-human beast and is subject to saddles and whips.
Another requested skill to learn is the art of flogging, both physically and gaining the skills to emotionally handle the act.
Mistress Couple’s personal favorite is balloon play, which involves being tied up and using the inflatables in play.
Master R said: “Things occasionally go wrong, all you can do is deal with it lovingly and carefully and hope you don’t need an ambulance. So far we’ve never had to call an ambulance.”
Sessions typically cost $300 for an hour-long one-on-one session with the Headteacher herself, which rises to $450 for couples looking to visit the dungeon together for erotic, non-intercourse-related services.
Around 30 clients are usually seen each month, and the chateau is never short of individuals keen to play out their fantasies at hosted parties.
A common reason a couple may book a session is if one partner is looking to experiment with cross-dressing or bondage when perhaps the other is more hesitant.
And many come for a weekend or overnight stay in the home’s private bed chamber.
For $350, you can spend the night at the chateau, with private access to the dungeon and breakfast included, in a package called the “Choose Your Own Adventure.”
And there are also erotic meals that can be booked for $85 per person that seek to stimulate all the senses and provide a sensual experience, hosted by often nude or scantily clad submissives.
For those looking for a more permanent immersion into the BDSM lifestyle, the chateau is a training facility that offers a “Masters and Mistresses” program.
While the dungeon seeks to push the boundaries of exploring complex sexual desires, it has attracted some characters whom Mistress Couple has had to turn away.
Master R said: “We absolutely have turned people away.”
“We have really learned how to conduct an interview with someone before they come through our doors.”
“We haven’t had any disasters recently, but we certainly had disasters for people who have walked in who we are unable to deal with because it affects their psyche differently and deeply, or they just have huge personal issues which they confuse with dominance and submission in an unhealthy way.”
“We like to give as many people as we can a fair shot.”
If the couple encounters someone who they feel is beyond their help and could benefit from professional help, they recommend them to a professional therapist and psychologists.
Mistress C: “We aren’t just releasing these people back into the wild by themselves.”
The “Masters and Mistresses” training program is where the couple sees many people’s “inner monsters” come out.
‘In order to dominate and master someone, you have to master yourself first.’
The program, which can last up to two years, sees dominant individuals or couples who wish to have a submissive relationship in their life role-reverse so they can experience life on the other side.
Mistress Couple currently has around eight to 10 submissives who help around the house doing tasks like cleaning and chores.
Master R explained: “The reason our Masters and Mistresses training program is so difficult is we take these people who are already so dominant and we make them deeply submissive so they know what they are going to do with their own slaves.”
“In that process, their personal monsters really appear.”
“Because sex is a metaphor and BDSM is obviously a metaphor for dominance and submission and that gets into the unhealthy aspects of violence.”
Mistress C added: “In order to dominate and master someone, you have to master yourself first.”
And that is something that Mistress Couple has developed since she graduated as a dance and psychology double major from college.
After her studies, she asked her boyfriend to spank her for her birthday present, but he wasn’t able to because he said he didn’t feel it was right to hit a woman.
She told her friends about her desires and one of her friends revealed she was a mistress-in-training at the chateau and invited her along for a party.
There she was spanked by guests for 25 minutes, which was her first BDSM experience. Since then she has never looked back.
She said: “I started by exploring my submission and masochism and unlearning a lot of the misconceptions that I had about what dominance meant and over the course of my training, I realized I did have the capacity for dominancy and did the Mistress training program and became Headmistress a few years ago.”

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When you hear the word “punishment,” sex probably isn't the first thing that comes to mind. But in BDSM —an umbrella term that encompasses bondage and discipline, domination and submission, sadism, and masochism—punishment can be a major component of sex. And a pleasurable one, at that.
“Punishment is a behavior modification tool used in some [dominant/submissive] dynamics to train or discipline a submissive when they’ve defied a boundary or disobeyed an order,” explains Charyn Pfeuffer, a sex and relationships writer and author of 101 Ways to Rock Online Dating . “There’s no one-size-fits-all playbook for punishment, and not every kinky relationship uses it.”
Every couple is free to determine the type and severity of punishments they want to use—and the options are essentially endless. For example, if the submissive partner is a "brat" (a sub who enjoys disobeying their dom’s rules), a dom might give you a spanking as a punishment for being naughty.
“Punishment can include spankings, slapping, choking, use of restraints, or (consensually) forcing your partner into sexual acts," says Daniel Saynt, founder and chief conspirator of The New Society for Wellness , a private members Open Love club for the adventurous. "It's really up to you and your partner to set the limits of what's okay for punishment and what's not.”
Like with most deliciously kinky things, punishment is not just about pain, but also pleasure. It’s a dance between the dom and sub that allows them to explore sides of themselves they may not get a chance to express in real life.
“Sexual punishment is when you know there is a part of you that is under-expressed, maybe from shame or fear,” says Kenneth Play , international sex educator and and creator of the Sex Hacker Pro Series . “So, if you feel like you’re being a dirty slut, being punished by your partner allows you to live out that feeling, while also enjoying your 'dirty slut' side.”
IMPORTANT: Before you engage in any BDSM punishments, you and your partner must thoroughly discuss your boundaries and limits beforehand. Despite the connotation of punishing someone, the activity still requires enthusiastic consent from all parties; the punished wants to be punished, and the punisher wants to punish.
This is where you bring someone to the brink of orgasm, only to stop touching them right before orgasm. Oh, the sweet agony.
Put them over your knee and show them what happens to naughty people who break the rules. Just remember to aim for the fleshy parts of the body, such as the butt cheeks and upper thighs.
Or, you could deny them a spanking. “Sometimes a submissive will ‘act out’ to get the punishment that they really enjoy," says Taylor Sparks, erotic educator and founder of Organic Loven , the largest BIPOC-owned online intimacy shop. "One way to punish them is to NOT give them what they enjoy."
Force your sub to agree to keep their pretty little mouth shut. You can go a step further by not allowing your submissive to speak while in a public place without asking permission first.
This would be cruel outside of a consenting dom/sub dynamic, but hot as hell if both parties are into it. “[This entails] getting your submissive dressed up for an event that they really enjoy, but upon arrival making them sit outside on the ground with their hands in their lap and not allow them to come into the event for a specific amount of time,” Sparks says.
Make your submissive walk on all fours with a collar and a leash like a dog. You can incorporate a dog mask designed for kink, like this one , and even take the act outside for the public humiliation factor.
This is a form of public degradation: You make your submissive wear a shirt that literally says "slut" on it.
“Chain your partner to the bed and leave them there to wait for your return,” Saynt says. “Leave your home and decide how long you want to make them wait for you. Come back to them begging you to set them free.” Oh, the fun that can ensue afterward!
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