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Our mental image of cunnilingus tends to be pretty formulaic: a woman lying on her back, legs spread and a partner bending down to pleasure her. This position, of course, isn’t the only way to do it. Obvious variations include the classic Sit on My Face position, as well as the equally iconic 69. But these three positions don’t encompass even a fraction of what’s on offer.
The entire landscape of cunnilingus positions expands far beyond our go-tos, and it’s just waiting to be discovered. Isn’t it time we collectively explored the frontiers that lay just outside our norms? Here are eight cunnilingus positions you probably haven’t tried yet , but you and your partner will totally want to add to your bedroom repertoire.
Sitting on someone’s face can be awesome, because it gives your partner direct access to your nether parts. But it can also be intimidating, awkward or straight-up uncomfortable, because, well, you’re pressing all of your weight onto someone’s face.
The All Fours plays to the strengths of sitting on your partner’s face without forcing you to literally sit on your partner’s face . By getting on your hands and knees above your lying partner, you’re supporting yourself — and doing so in a generally comfortable way. All the intensity you expect from face-sitting, without the discomfort.
An easy way to switch things up? Stand during oral sex . While most cunnilingus positions involve you sitting or lying down, the Lean Forward has you standing up and — you guessed it — leaning forward while your partner kneels behind you. Feel free to use the walls for stability, be they in your bedroom, your living room or your shower.
The Wrapped Eagle offers a slight twist on the most classic of cunnilingus positions. Instead of lying down with your legs splayed out, have your legs wrapped around your partner’s head. This can mitigate some of the vulnerability associated with the more obvious Spread Eagle position — plus, it allows you to control the pressure. Simply pull your partner closer to you when you’re looking to up the intensity.
Fans of doggy-style will surely appreciate this approach to cunnilingus. Get on all fours — but on your knees and elbows, rather than your knees and hands for the Forbidden Fruit . Once you’ve gotten comfortable, invite your partner to join you. From behind, they’ll have direct access to your genitals.
Modified 69 took everything you love about face-sitting and combined it with everything you love about 69. Have your partner lie with their head and shoulders hanging off the side of the bed as you stand up. Walk toward them so you’re straddling over their face. From there, you can bend over to engage in a little reciprocity, or just enjoy being on the receiving end for a little while.
What’s nice? You can control the intensity by bending your knees as much or as little as you want. You can also support yourself by leaning forward and placing your hands on the bed.
This incredibly intense position will have you standing as your partner explores you from an entirely new angle. For the Virgo , simply stand up straight, with your back against the wall. Your partner can sit below you in whatever position they choose —so long as they can reach your genitals. From there, they can perform cunnilingus as long as desired, and you can always move to the bed if you want a softer surface.
If lying down during cunnilingus isn’t really your thing, you might appreciate the Kick Back . A seated take on a classic, the Kick Back offers your partner direct access to your nether bits without leaving you splayed out on the bed. This is especially alluring if you’ve got a comfy chair to partake in. The next time you’re looking to change things up, you know exactly where to go.
Lie down, then bend your knees and bend and hug your legs as close to your chest as they’ll go. The All Curled Up position will introduce an entirely new angle to oral sex, which may pave the way for some finger play or sex toy supplementation , too.
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Cunnilingus is any form of using the mouth to stimulate parts of the vulva and vagina. This includes licking, sucking, kissing, and even nibbling or biting. Cunnilingus hits major erogenous zones for vulva owners. Like blowjobs, cunnilingus can be pleasurable for both the giver and receiver, especially if you’re comfortable getting up close and personal.
For many, oral sex is more intimate than penetrative sex because you get a close-up look at someone’s genitals. Being comfortable with your partner makes the experience better because you can both relax (which makes orgasms more likely). You may also find it easier to redirect a trusted partner, so they’re hitting just the right spots.
Whether you call it cunnilingus, eating out, going down, lip service, pussy licking, muff diving, or eating pussy, oral sex is a skill. You can learn new skills and refine your current ones to keep oral sex exciting and pleasurable for everyone involved. This guide will help make cunnilingus so enjoyable you’ll start setting oral-only appointments with your partner instead of keeping it as foreplay.
A discussion of cunnilingus is not complete without mentioning the orgasm gap. Women orgasm only about 63% of the time they have sex, including sex with a committed partner, compared with men who orgasm 85% of the time. This gap doesn’t exist because female orgasms are tricky or because women are less sexual. Those are female sexuality myths.
This gap exists because we’ve learned from religion and society that women aren’t supposed to be as sexual as men, so we never bother to learn bout female sexual pleasure. Sex education classes discuss male orgasm because it’s necessary for reproduction, but there is no mention of female pleasure or orgasms.
The cure for the orgasm gap is pleasure-focused sex education. Sex is a biological need, and sexual pleasure is your birthright. If we’re all educated adequately about sexual anatomy, pleasure, and sexual mindset, we can close the orgasm gap. Cunnilingus is one way to make that happen.
The vagina is a wondrous body part that can self-lubricate, expand (or contract) to accommodate a penis (or dildo) of just about any size and then return to its normal state. It can also usher humans into the world. Unfortunately, this pleasure-providing, life-ushering body part does not contain many nerve endings, especially compared to its tiny neighbor.
The clitoris is a tiny sex organ designed only for pleasure. Its entire purpose is to translate 8000 nerve endings into waves of pleasure for its owner. The clitoris contains branches that wrap around the urethra and bump against the vaginal wall (this is your g-spot). But most of the nerve endings are on the tiny nub just above the vaginal opening. Clitoral stimulation is the most direct route to orgasm for most vulva-owners, making cunnilingus so effective.
It’s important to note that all vulva owners are unique, so what works for one clitoris might not work for another. Some are more sensitive than others. What’s more, the sensitivity of a person’s clitoris can change from one day to the next, so even though your partner liked a strong vibration yesterday, they may need something different today.
Another reason cunnilingus is so effective at producing female orgasms is that cunnilingus means that the giver gives, while the receiver’s job is to receive pleasure without interruption or distraction (unless you’re practicing 69, which we’ll cover letter). That intense, one-o-one attention means the sensations are more intense because your mind focuses on your pleasure.
Of course, you can always ask for oral sex at any time. Sending a mid-day text, “I’d like you to go down on me tonight,” is entirely appropriate in a relationship.
Sometimes, though you may not think about it in advance, asking can feel uncomfortable . When you’re moving from making out into activated sexual desire, you may want oral sex. However, suppose your partner seems fixated on digital stimulation only or intends to move right for penetration. In that case, you need to have the appropriate language to ask for what you want without stopping the desire train.
Timing is important. Ask when you first feel the desire before your partner misreads your excitement and thinks you want penetration. Whispering in your partner’s ear in between kisses on their neck works well, as does look them directly in the eye and asking for it. Some phrases that work well when you need to ask for oral:
If you’re the giver and want to make sure your vulva-owning partner is down for a bit of cunnilingus, here are some ways to ask (consent is sexy).
When you’re performing cunnilingus, it’s more than just flicking your tongue across your partner’s clitoris without thought. When you perform oral sex with enthusiasm and incorporate some additional forms of stimulation, you can take it from foreplay to an event worthy of celebration (and orgasms) all by itself. Here are some tips for ensuring that your next round of oral sex has your vulva-ownin
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