Sex Toys: Curing Anorgasmia



Do you have few or no orgasms? Do they arrive too late? If you are a woman and it happens to you, you may be suffering from a case of anorgasmia. We tell you what it is and how to fight it?

What is anorgasmia?

Anorgasmia, also called female orgasmic disorder, occurs in women and affects the moment in which orgasm appears once we have had sexual arousal and stimulation. This affectation occurs in the form of delays or absence of orgasm or even with the infrequency of them.

Types of anorgasmia

The way we react to an orgasm, or the absence of it, is so different between people that anorgasmia also manifests itself differently.

Relative

Relative anorgasmia refers to one that only occurs in certain sexual practices or situations. For example, you may have an orgasm when you are penetrated but not with anal sex, or vice versa.

Absolute or generalized

If whatever happens, you always have trouble reaching orgasm, your thing is a generalized or total anorgasmia.

Primary

If you have never reached orgasm, then you suffer from anorgasmia of this type.

High school

You may have already had orgasms, but suddenly you stop having it. It is then a secondary anorgasmia.

Circumstantial

Circumstantial anorgasmia occurs only in certain situations or circumstances, it does not occur always and only with certain types of stimulation or even depending on your sexual partner.

What are your symptoms?

Many times we have told you at Sexvibrators that women do not always have enough with the traditional "tuck-out" to reach orgasm. Yes, vaginal penetration stimulates the clitoris, but it is not always enough. Sometimes direct stimulation of the clitoris is required, either orally or manually.

We have already anticipated the symptoms of anorgasmia but we summarize you: delay or absence of orgasm, having orgasms but less frequent or having them but less intense. If any of these assumptions happen to you, read on and discover the causes.

Possible causes

There are several causes that are pointed out as provocative of anorgasmia. Some are psychological, others physical, cultural or even social.

Psychological

Our mind plays a very important role in many situations of our life, and in sex of course as well. Certain experiences, thoughts or behaviors contribute to the difficulty of having orgasms.

For example, certain cultural or religious beliefs may be preventing you from reaching orgasm. Stress, the loss of a loved one, mental health problems or lack of self-esteem, are other psychological factors to consider to find the causes of anorgasmia.

Physical

There are many physical causes that can cause anorgasmia: a disease, certain medications, physical changes related to age ...

Among the diseases we can tell you that diabetes, multiple sclerosis or overactive bladder can cause this disorder.

And if we talk about medications, there are also those that do not get along well with the female orgasm, such as antidepressants, antihistamines or even certain gynecological treatments.

Alcohol and tobacco are also possible causes. The first because it inhibits the nervous system, and the second because it limits blood flow to the sexual organs.

Relationship problems

Without a doubt, the state of health of your relationship is decisive to reach, or not, orgasm. A couple who goes through complicated times sexual communication as a couple will become more difficult.

Among the main relationship problems that can influence orgasm are infidelities, lack of intimacy, any unresolved conflict, lack of confidence or even if your male partner suffers from erection problems.

Can anorgasmia be combated?

Since anorgasmia comes from certain physical or psychological causes, we must "attack" those causes in order to combat it. Many times a lifestyle change is part of the solution, and in others you will need some form of therapy. Not surprisingly, most cases are of psychological origin.

When we talk about therapy, they usually start with an educational part, in which your doctor will help you know your body, your sexual anatomy, know how it responds to sexual stimulation.

Masturbation will be something necessary to continue knowing your body. Without the stress of facing an orgasm with your sexual partner, stimulating yourself will help you get to know your body and your climax moment.

Anorgasmia is not treated with medication, it will almost always be solved with therapy. In any case, you should know who to turn to if you suffer it. You should go to a specialist in the areas of andrology, gynecology, sexology and, of course, psychology or psychiatry.

We hope this post has helped you get to know yourself a little more and, if this is your case, know why it costs you so much to have orgasms.

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