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'Keep your underwear on': Sex requests, obscene gestures the norm for genuine Asian massage businesses
Men exposing their genitals and requesting sex has become the norm for Asian massage therapists who say they are being "tarred with the same brush" as illegal sex workers.
Thai and Chinese massage therapists report regular cases of sexual harassment despite clear signage stating that there are no sexual services.
A sign on the door at 'Yin's Chinese Traditional Massage' reads: "Keep your underwear all the time. Verbal, non-verbal and physical sexual harassment will not be tolerated".
Owner Chin Chun Li said illegal massage shops, which provide sexual services for extra money, had tainted the oriental massage sector.
"Competition is very strong so some places will do the extra service; they want to make more money, including the boss and the staff," he said.
"I can live in Sydney and do this business and make lots of money," Mr Li said.
He said illegal shops were so common in cities that many Australians now associated oriental massage with sex.
He moved his business to Horsham, in regional Victoria, to escape the reputation.
"I just want to do the massage, to help the other people," he said.
"If your shoulder has problem, I can fix it; you happy, I'm happy."
But even in the regional town he has had to phone security for assistance, when men have refused to believe the sign or accept that staff would not perform sexual services.
Meanwhile right across the road, western massage provider 'Ella Bache' has no need for a sign.
Receptionist Jamila Johns said there had only been one incident, five years ago.
"[An international customer] actually stopped the therapist and said 'I'll offer you more money for a happy ending'," Ms Johns said,
"She was very upset and I think it took her about two months to go back to doing male massages.
"We haven't had anything like that since."
'Let's Relax Thai Massage' in Brunswick, Melbourne, has No Sexual Service signs on the door, on an inside board, in the brochure, and in the massage rooms.
Receptionist Sandy said therapists were propositioned for sex about once a week.
"People come and maybe get the wrong information that the massage industry all do the sexual [massages] like that," she said.
"We always say that we only do the professional massage, not do any sexual job.
"All Thai massage places don't do that."
Until July 2017 Victoria Police could not charge a man who exposed his genitals to a massage therapist.
"There was no offence," Sergeant Brett Meadows said.
"The only one we used to have was a common law exposure offence, where someone had to be present and see the behaviour — so you needed three people."
That same man could now be charged with a new indictable offence, called 'sexual activity directed at another person'.
"There's a power of arrest and anyone who is investigated or suspected of committing that crime would be arrested, taken back to the police station and processed," Sergeant Meadows said.
"The maximum penalty I think is at least five, if not 10, years."
Non-threatening verbal requests for sex might not be prosecuted, but Sergeant Meadows said victims should still report them.
"Sexual harassment and the like may not at times be criminal offences but it's unacceptable behaviour and it has to be stamped out," he said.
Industry body Massage and Myotherapy Australia is working to distance oriental massage in Australia from the sexual massages offered openly in popular tourist strips overseas.
"With the increase of shops that have come in — particularly the Thai shops — there is this expectation from a group of clients that what they experience overseas they can automatically experience here in Australia," chief executive Tricia Hughes said.
"Often the Chinese and the Thai shops will wear this whether they are providing that service or not.
"That's really difficult for them, because there are some very professional and very excellent therapists operating in that space."
Ms Hughes said the women providing illegal sexual massages were often "sexual slaves" being exploited by shop owners.
She has spoken at Thai massage conferences, warning prospective therapists to be wary of job offers in Australia.
"The girls there are offered this dream — 'come to Australia, earn heaps of money' — but they then get here and get their passport held by the owner of the shop," she said.
"They just unwittingly get themselves caught up in this process."
Deakin University senior research fellow Dr Jessica Walton has studied the racial stereotyping of Asian women in Australia and experienced it firsthand.
"There's a lot of implicit bias in institutions and in people's attitudes that makes this a much larger problem than the massage industry," she said.
"As an Asian woman walking down the street I'm still reduced to that one stereotype of international student or sex worker. These stereotypes get kind of labelled on to you and so then you become kind of dehumanised."
On one occasion when Dr Walton was sharing a glass of wine with an older white male, one of his friends clearly implied she was a submissive sexual partner.
"I wasn't on a date with him and he wasn't taking advantage of me but that often gets read onto things," she said.
She has a list of similar stories and avoids Bangkok completely out of fear tourists will assume she is a sex worker and proposition her.
Dr Walton acknowledged the racism was unintentional but urged Australians to stop and question their visceral responses.
"People have to do their own kind of work to understand why they have this automatic response to a Thai massage therapist," she said.
"What people see first is race or their construction of race — they don't see the person behind that."
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As a woman who's been in the spa business as a therapist and a manager for over five years, I've basically seen everything -- the good, the bad, the downright awkward. Not to mention, like all massage therapists, I put up with a seemingly endless stream of "happy ending" jokes all. the. time.
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As a woman who's been in the spa business as a therapist and a manager for over five years, I've basically seen everything -- the good, the bad, the downright awkward. Not to mention, like all massage therapists, I put up with a seemingly endless stream of "happy ending" jokes all. the. time. And while everyone thinks these jokes are hilarious, the reality is that every massage therapist does have to deal with a few sexually... heightened moments with male clients over the course of his or her career.
But let me just say that boners during massage appointments are totally normal. So to all the guys out there: You don't need to be embarrassed. There is no need to dart out of the room. Most massage therapists are professionals and won't just stare at your hard-on. We really don't want you to feel any more uncomfortable than you already are. So just relax -- and know that we are not judging you.
That said , there are some lines that shouldn't be crossed. What do I mean by that? Let me break it down for you...
Wow sir, I see you have an enormous erection! How might I know this? Because you have ever-so-unkindly removed the blanket that was (purposefully) placed on top of you to make certain I am aware of your arousal. And then to add to my misery you want to talk about it!? Ugh. Gross. These little scenarios I'm completely over. You know what I'm thinking during this game of show and tell? That I want to end the service immediately -- and I totally would if I could! Though, if you make this mistake, I'll offer you the chance to take the hint that this behavior is not OK by placing another blanket on top you, all while silently praying that this is where your shameless peacocking display ends. If not, though -- we are done.
No, really, this happens. If a male client is aroused and then his position is switched to lying on his stomach, I have observed ( far too many times) that he might start humping the table. Humping or "purposeful wiggling" -- however you want to term it -- is a sexual act that is awkward and disarming. Who knows how it might end? To be clear, I understand a client's need to adjust himself and possibly rein in his boner if he has one so that the rest of the service can be enjoyed. But please do not hump the table until you are "satisfied." Or else I will have to, you guessed it, end the service -- and no one wants that.
Unless you are having a heart attack or another similar kind of extreme physical episode that renders you unable to use your vocal cords, please do not touch your therapist during your service. Just because I am touching you in a therapeutic manner and sending you healing energy, this does not mean you can grab my legs, arms or try to guide my hands. This is especially true if you are erect, as this will send me over the edge and I will cut our session short. Here's what touching is appropriate: shaking hands before or after your service. And perhaps, if you are an established regular with your therapist, hugs might be acceptable. But this is it.
Do Not Give Directions To Your Penis
If a guy is sporting some wood and asks me to massage his inner thighs or stomach, guess what? I know exactly what you're up to -- and I'm not going to do it. You are fooling no one. Do you think my hand is going to magically start tugging on Little Tommy because you are inviting me to massage around where he hangs out? Uh. Nope . In such cases, I'm totally disgusted and will likely give you a less-than-average-level massage, just so you don't get the wrong idea.
Don't Blow It: Masturbate Before Your Appointment
Just so no one is confused: This is something I am asking you to do. Listen, to be real, clients do ejaculate during appointments and these are the incidents a therapist retraces in his or her mind over and over for eternity. We think: Was there anything that could have prevented this? To my fellow therapists: Please remember that if this happens during one of your services, it was not your fault. Clients: Keep in mind that in the event that you do finish before your session finishes, your therapist isn't going to be able to erase this incident from his or her mind... ever. And generally, the standard protocol is for the client to be banned from returning to the spa ever again. And this probably goes without saying: Everyone at the front desk will look at you like a creep as you weasel your way out the front door. Now how is that for a happy ending?
To be clear, my intention is not to boner-shame anyone. I am just educating the misinformed who think "happy endings" are a real thing -- as 99 percent of the time, this is not the case.
Please, thank you, and come again! (Sorry, after five years of happy ending "jokes," I had to.)
This story first appeared on Ravishly.com , an alternative news+culture website for women.
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