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Private Dancer by Stephen Leather is a book that was tremendously well-received in Thailand. Bernard Trink from Bangkok Post – the biggest English-language daily in Thailand – believes that “Private Dancer ought to be made available to every tourist at port of entry” and Pattaya Mail wrote that the book “should be compulsory reading for all first-timers to Thailand.”
I totally disagree with these opinions, but we need to have one important thing in mind! Are you coming to Thailand as a sex tourist, interested in engaging in sexual intercourse with as many Thai bar girls / boys / katoeys as possible? If the answer to this question is “Yes!”, then you’d better get your hands on the book and read it before you bar fine your first girl. If your answer is a definite “No!”, then you’re better off reading any other non-go go bar girl book about Thailand. For starters, I recommend The Occidentals by Caron Eastgate James.
But to have two major English-language newspapers declare that Private Dancer should be compulsory bibliography for everyone landing in Thailand it’s just wrong. I mean, do they really assume that all tourists who arrive in Thailand come here for the girls? Has Thailand really become a destination known just for its red light districts? I wholeheartedly hope not! There are thousands of other things Thailand can offer, apart from Bangkok’s three main red light districts and Pattaya’s Walking Street.
Having said all these, it is now time to look at what Stephen Leather tried to do in Private Dancer: my personal opinion is that he tried to shock and to warn the naïve sex tourists of the traps that they might fall into if they start a relationship with a bar girl. It is exactly what happens to the main character, Pete, who falls in love with Joy, one of the many bar girls from Nana Plaza in downtown Bangkok. Their abortive relationship is a rollercoaster of physical and emotional pain. The reader is drawn into their stories from the very first page: “She’s dead. Joy’s dead. Joy’s dead and I killed her.” It’s a great beginning that hooks the reader and makes him curious about how it all happened.
Pete, an English writer, is sent to Thailand to update a travel book and, while he’s at it, he gets infatuated with Joy, a prostitute from the northeastern part of the Kingdom. In his naivety and willingness to believe her, Pete tries to find reasons to ignore all the signs that warned him not to get involved with Joy. Still, even though he “never had the feeling that she was being one hundred per cent honest,” Pete gets tied up in a relationship he is unable to escape. For Joy it makes perfect sense to lie and deceive Pete in order to keep him giving her money on a regular basis. When Pete finally finds out that his prostitute sweetheart had been lying to him from day one, he tries to forget her, but he just can’t: “There was something inexplicable about the way I felt about Joy…” Joy became Pete’s Achilles heel.
Joy’s character is an intriguing one, although sometimes hard to believe. Raped at an early age by her father, then by her brother, then by her brother’s friends, she sees no choice in making enough money to entertain her violent boyfriend and to meet the demands of her family other than by working as a hooker in one of the many go go bars of Bangkok’s red light district. Although at first she sees in Pete another “ATM machine” – a source of incoming cash –, towards the end of the book she wishes to settle down with him and stop working as a prostitute: “I was tired of supporting my family, tired of all the demands they kept making on me, tired of my friends asking for money. I wanted to leave Thailand, I wanted to start my life again.” Too bad it was too late.
Stephen Leather’s Private Dancer is an easy read, with short sections, each presenting the story as it is seen through the eyes of the different characters that litter the novel. I would have liked to read more about what was on Joy’s mind and less of what the other expats had to say about the Thai go go bar scene. However, especially while I was reading the first half of the book, I had to put it down on several occasions and find reading pleasure elsewhere: the drama was at times too much to bear.
But, there’s a twist in the tail and, although towards the end the narrative kind of loses focus, the message of the book is clear: you’re never going to win an argument with the Thais. Unfortunately, the book doesn’t make justice to the millions of ‘normal’ Thai women who live a decent life, and keep away from drugs, orgies and prostitution. Private Dancer has a brilliant cover (photograph by Paul Owen), which suggest exactly what the book is all about.
Ever since it’s first publication in the early 2000s, the book has been a constant bestseller in Thailand and Southeast Asia. Private Dancer is available for download on the author’s website, but the download doesn’t have the Epilogue that tells the reader what happens to all the characters. Stephen Leather has published many other books, among which Confessions of a Bangkok Private Eye.
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I feel a need to disagree with you about the meaning and the relevance of this book. I think the book is a very good one to read for anyone travelling first time to Thailand or any other Asian country for that matter. Yes, the story itself is built around prostitution and Western men taking advantage of the girls there but I see the meaning of the book lying far more deeper than that. You can see it in the way Pete and Joy comment the developments in their relationships and how despite good intentions a common understanding is not found.
Perhaps the reader needs to have an Anglo-Saxon or Thai mentality so that it could be understood what keeps going wrong on both sides: Pete keeps being stupid and naive because he assumes Joy has similar moral norms than the Western girls and the same applies to Joy having strong ideas about the roles of men and women which clearly don’t apply on Pete. Hence, the object of the book is to illustrate the underlying differences between two cultures. Stephen Leather has written many other books situated in Asia and perhaps this popular topic was chosen only to get as much publicity for the book as possible. Well chosen topic it was as the book gained over 40 000 readers worldwide already when it was published only in the Internet.
Background information: I am a 25 y-o female with a college degree. I am not a prostitute and I don’t buy services from them.
I respect your opinion and do not claim to have the perfect interpretation.
I believe books have different meanings for different readers.
Hi, I absolutely loved this book. You can adapt this book to your life; real life situations. You can use this book to your own advantage. You can pick up tips and gain knowledge from reading this book. Not just for sex tourists. Not just for going to Bangkok. What a fantastic book.
Stephen Leather Bangkok Private Eye – my next read.
A great read and it fast became a classic to add to anyone’s collection of all things about Thailand to read. I’ve been privileged to have been selected to read the first draft of a soon to be released 2019 novel, ‘Memoirs of a Butterfly’ by J. Darrell Hurington. A new and unknown Novalist to the rhetoric. Having only got halfway through it, I’ve put it on the back burner to re-read Private Dancer again, as it ignited the first time I couldn’t put it down until I read it cover to cover over a day or 2.
Many can take away from reading either of these with their own interpretation and ‘cultural’ learnings. But Private Dancer will always conjure up within me the many ways in which it resonated with my own experiences and I look and hope, in fact I know already that the writings within Memoirs of a Butterfly will do more of the same, as it’ll be touted, so I’ve be told, as Private Dancer on steroids and I’ve only got 15,000 more words to read! Watch this space!
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Pete wanders into a Bangkok go-go bar and meets the love of his life. Joy is young, stunning, and a pole dancer. In a roller-coaster ride of sex, drugs, and deception, Pete discovers that his own very private dancer is not all she claims to be. Far f... MorePete wanders into a Bangkok go-go bar and meets the love of his life. Joy is young, stunning, and a pole dancer. In a roller-coaster ride of sex, drugs, and deception, Pete discovers that his own very private dancer is not all she claims to be. Far from being the love of his life, Joy is his own personal nightmare! Less
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This is a stand-alone novel by the talented Stephen Leather based in Bangkok, Thailand. This book is quite different from the twenty or so other novels that I have read by this author and is not so much about crime as the strange love story between Pete a British journalist ...more
If you have ever visited Pattaya, Bangkok, Chiang Mai or any other tourist places in Thailand, the most common sight you’d see is an old white man with a very young Thai girl. You’d wonder what’s up with that before you realize that they are actually bar girls or prostitutes ...more
This is a very satisfying book and well worth the $5+ I spent for it. The author warned me it was more of a lad's book but since I am not much of a "lady", I read it anyway.
Get ready to step into an alternate universe where anyone can be bought for the price of a cinema tick ...more
A chilling story which resemble more of a reportage about the dark world of Bangkok's gogo girls.
Private Dancer tells a story of a western journalist who is stationed in Bangkok and falls hard for a gogo girl from the notorious Nana Plaza - the largest legally endorsed prost ...more
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I think this book gives a really good view on Thai bar girls and farangs comming to Thailand to score a Thai girl. What i loved the most about the book is that you really get a good view from both sides of the culture and thoughts.
A must read for anybody who wants ...more
After travelling Thailand, returning back to Blighty and missing Bangkok's musk and mystique, I was handed a copy of Stephen Leather’s ‘Private Dancer.’ This was one of the first Thai-based books I ever read and in my opinion, still the best. It inspired me to write my own b ...more
I would strongly recommend this book to anyone who is thinking of going to Thailand for the sole purpose of picking up a bargirl for sex or even thinking of marrying one.
All's not what it seems for the unfortunate protaganist Pete who falls in love with the beautiful pole d ...more
I bought this book from the duty free as I was leaving Thailand - it was my first visit and it was such a wonderful country - BUT, your eyes need to get accustomed to seeing things you're not used to back home, sometimes your mind rejects it. A "what happens in Thailand, sta ...more
it was once suggested that single men should be issued with a free copy on arrival at Bangkok Airport. It’s a “how not to” guide for sex tourists but its also a good story with some interesting twists. “Everyone” who likes books and has a passing interest in the Thai bar sce ...more
It's a best book of a Farang with a beautiful Thai bar girl who's more than what she seems !Some interesting facts about Thai culture in between the lines....a quick read with a few surprising plot twists.
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Published August 15th 2005 by Monsoon Books Pte. Ltd. (first published 2005
Stephen Leather was a journalist for more than ten years on newspapers such as The Times, the Daily Mail and the South China Morning Post in Hong Kong. His bestsellers have been translated into more than ten languages. He has also written for television shows such as London's Burning, The Knock and the BBC's Murder in Mind series. For much of 2011 his self-published eBooks - including The Bestsell ...more
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