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Mistress Masturbate
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When a husband agrees to stay chaste, he must abandon any ideas of masturbating alone, forsaking selfish satisfaction no matter how frustrating that may be. Whether he's prevented from playing with himself by a plastic contraption, a proper chastity belt, or simply a promise to his wife, the pleasures of his hand are off-limits - unless she wants him to watch him do it, her way!
In these stories about supervised masturbation, the submissive men have to wear lingerie before they're allowed to shoot their load, but surrendering to panties and bras is only part of the price they must pay. What their wives love most is to make them lick up their mess afterwards, expecting every last drop to be eaten for their entertainment. With dildos and strap-ons making such emasculation even more exciting, the humiliated husbands won't be the only ones coming before they're locked in chastity again - indeed, a man's satisfaction is secondary when his wife makes him do it strictly the way she wants .
When Ralph's wife tells him he can jerk off whenever he wants, he soon discovers there's a catch, with his chastity device ensuring he can only do so on her terms - starting with having to wear a bra to show he's truly desperate. Not content with stopping her husband from masturbating by physical methods, Lynn wants to train him out of wanting to touch himself at all, delighting in finding disgraceful of ways for him to do it. Whether she makes him come in the toilet, has him hold his sperm in his hand, or simply ruins his orgasm while he sits on her strap-on, she never wastes an opportunity to make it shameful - but will that prove counter-productive? Learn for yourself in Bra-wearing Jerk-off .
Did Julie really believe her husband could withstand temptation without a chastity device, or was she simply setting him up for a humiliating punishment when she had him wear a bra and panties for a week instead? That's what Brian finds himself wondering when his wife instructs him to come for her, with this lingerie-wearing husband having to masturbate onto a spoon for her amusement. He must take his climax in his mouth when it confirms he has cheated, suffering the taste of sperm as Julie first locks up his cock, then gives him a shameful over-the-knee spanking to teach him he mustn't masturbate without her say-so. His penance concludes with a pegging, as you'll discover in Paying the Price .
The hen night that Alison is hosting sees her submissive husband banished to the bedroom, with Jack expecting to spend the evening sucking a dildo while his wife and her friends party downstairs. When she wants him to perform for them, however, he finds himself having to hurriedly pull on clothes over his chastity belt and basque, fearing that his suit and tie won't shield the steel and satin for long as he's forced to take centre stage. Before he knows it, he's putting on an impromptu striptease, but the cheers he receives as he reveals how his wife controls his cock are only the start when he's offered the key. He'll come in a glass and drink it too, as you'll read in Entertaining the Girls .
Calvin can't resist the lure of his girlfriend's legs - not when she's wearing such sexy stockings, their seductive sheer nylon seeing him beg to be allowed to come all over them. Having the final say thanks to how she holds the key to his chastity device, Isobel makes him agree to strict terms before granting him relief, requiring him not only to pay his tribute kneeling and naked, but to suck up his sperm from her legs afterwards. Despite his best efforts, Calvin finds himself having to wear her stockings when they're not clean enough, the semen-stained hosiery joined by a bra and panties as she makes him perform for her again - and again! Find out how far he'll go in His Love of Her Legs .
A man denied will do anything for release, willingly wearing women's underwear if that's what it takes to be spared sexual frustration. If his wife wants him to swallow what he shoots as well, then that's a price he'll just have to pay - no matter how reluctant he may be about licking up his load once the moment has passed. There's certainly no doubt about who's in charge in these supervised masturbation stories, with submissive men having to perform for the pleasure of their keyholders. No matter how much they humiliate themselves in the process, however, you can be sure it'll be strictly the way she wants .
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Meet The 'Naked Therapist' Who Lets Men Masturbate To Their Feelings
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By David Ley — Written on Aug 23, 2016
Sarah White is the pseudonym of a woman who operates an online service called “The Naked Therapist.”
Via web cam, Sarah provides one-on-one interaction with men around the world, talking with them about their problems and issues. But, distinct from any other therapist or coach I know of, Sarah disrobes during the session and allows her clients to also disrobe ... and even masturbate .
Sarah’s business has gotten a lot of media attention , due to the salacious nature of her services.
Most of the attention has focused overwhelmingly on the skin and the sex, often dismissing — and even ridiculing — her claims she is providing a therapeutic service.
Sarah’s comments in these articles intrigued me as a psychologist. I’m not planning on getting naked with my patients, but her strategy of accepting sexualization in order to help men to express their needs and desires is compelling.
Sarah agreed to an interview with me, exploring her business and the philosophy behind it.
(We were both clothed during the interview, for those of you who might wonder, though fair disclosure, I wrote some of this while in my pajamas. )
Sarah turned out to be far more than the dumb naked chick portrayed in the media.
She was a thoughtful, poised individual, with a great head on top of her admittedly attractive shoulders.
Sarah’s Naked Therapy business started with an idea of offering naked coding and programming assistance. At the time, Sarah was working as a waitress, model and web designer — and realized people might pay her to discuss web design while naked .
Turned out lots of customers did want to talk to her while naked, though they didn’t care about web design.
Sarah had been around therapy in her personal life and realized that just talking to people — while naked — could be a powerful therapeutic phenomenon.
Since 2010, Sarah has worked with over 1,000 men, and feels her practice has improved as she's gained confidence and experience in developing insights into her clients.
Even as she has increased her fee, she hasn't experience any decrease in demand. She tried bringing in additional people offer the service under her umbrella, but found that it wasn’t a good match and continues to provide the service herself.
Sarah has been criticized as being merely a “webcam girl with a clever hook,” so I asked her how what she does is different from "other" services offered by naked women via webcam, as well as what distinguishes her services from mere pornography.
" A webcam girl is there to fully serve and please the visitor within her personal limits in whatever way he deems desirable. I'm a therapist, so my goal is to help my client achieve therapeutic progress. I do not simply 'do whatever the client asks' (even within my limits). Rather, I do what I consider most valuable toward achieving that ultimate goal: therapeutic progress for the client.
There is a world of difference between pornography and Naked Therapy. One is a mere sexual indulgence (and is perfectly acceptable) and the other is a therapeutic practice that involves the component of arousal. "
Sarah believes that by getting naked online, she can connect with men in ways which shortcut around men’s barriers and their fears of intimacy . She taps into powerful issues of acceptance, which, for men, are intrinsically connected to sexuality.
" Naked Therapy has several features that make it an exciting alternative to normal therapy. First, because nakedness is allowed, there is an immediate sense of intimacy, openness, and trust between the therapist and client, which many of my clients have said has made a huge difference in terms of what they're willing to talk about with me vs. a normal therapist.
Surprisingly, I have found that many men won't talk to normal therapists about a variety of issues, because they're too embarrassed, but they feel comfortable talking to me about them because they find my willingness to undress for them a sign that I trust them and that I won't judge them (which is true). "
Distinct from other forms of therapy (excepting perhaps the very limited service of sexual surrogacy), Sarah’s approach actually embraces — virtually at least — a client’s sexual expression.
In traditional therapy, a client’s sexual desires should be addressed and discussed only in the abstract. A client’s arousal towards their therapist would never, ever result in actual in-session sexual activity, without potential charges of misconduct.
But for Sarah, that’s where the real work actually starts:
" Naked Therapy engages sexual arousal as a vital part of thinking. Rather than pushing it aside, or claiming that it is simply an expression of a deeper longing, Naked Therapy says, 'Sexual arousal is important in and of itself,' and it utilizes the sexual arousal of the client to arrive at unique, powerful, relevant insights.
Asking a man to share his feelings in an environment in which sexual arousal is forbidden is like teaching him to swim on land. I just firmly believe that sexual arousal is so central to men's cognition that it must be openly embraced and accepted in the therapeutic context if men want to truly get to the bottom of their feelings. ”
Originally, Sarah saw some women, but over time she’s gravitated towards working only with men, and feels her style and approach is most effective and helpful in dealing with issues of masculinity.
Indeed, Sarah has become a defender of men and argues that masculinity is too often reduced to simplistic, stereotyped concepts which paint men as simple beings controlled by their sexual desires.
" Naked Therapy is man-positive. One just hears too many therapists these days — male and female — talking about how men have a hard time expressing their feelings (they even have a word for it: alexithymia ), how men don't want to be in therapy, how men are resistant and aggressive and often overly sexual toward female therapists, etc.
I'm probably the only ... therapist in the world who can say she has an all male patient list and not one of them is there because a judge or a wife made him go. 
The men I see are also deeply capable of recognizing and expressing their feelings. I have never found them aggressive or resistant, and in embracing their sexual feelings toward me, rather than shaming them for having them, I have had countless intimate dialogues with men in which they've talked to me about things they've never told anyone in their lives.
Talking about these things has allowed them to better understand, come to peace with, and/or put behind [them their] experiences. "
Sarah says there are four general "types" of men who are willing to pay to talk out their issues while she, and they, take off their clothes:
1. Men who are curious and/or frightened.
She says this kind of man has "reached a point where he wants to try something new in his life, usually of a sexual nature, but he's confused about how to pursue it — so we work together on understanding his desires, becoming brave and figuring out a way to realize his urges."
2. Men who lack confidence and/or are shy.
This client is a man who "feels like he can't talk to women, can't sexually perform with them, or doesn't understand how to be a 'good man,' so we work on helping him gain confidence and we talk a lot about the reasons he feels uncomfortable around women and how he can start to feel stronger and more knowledgeable around them."
3. Men who feel unmotivated and/or depressed.
With a man in this category, Sarah says, "We do a lot of work on optimizing arousal and finding things that can help him feel excited to live and pursue goals."
4. Men who are sexually obsessed and/or frustrated.
Sarah believes a man of this nature "has a sexual 'addiction' of some type that he's concerned with, which is most often pornography, so we work on coming to terms with his desire for porn and figuring out a way he can either stop or look at porn in a way that makes him feel powerful and in control."
The latter category hits an interesting issue, as male sexuality is frequently synonymous with the modern issue of porn or sex addiction.
So-called sex addicts are overwhelmingly male. Some have argued that Sarah's Naked Therapy is either treating, or even encouraging, porn addiction through her work. Sarah says that she doesn’t use or adopt the sex addict label, but finds that it does come up quite a bit in her work.
" I meet with a lot of clients who state openly that they have an 'addiction to porn.' ... In general, I try to steer my clients away from thinking they have an addiction and toward a more thorough analysis of the hole in their life they're trying to fill with that activity — the positive things that activity does or can bring into their lives, a larger understanding of how that activity might fit into a healthy, positive, self-acceptable way of behaving, how it might bring them power, how they might lose the shame, etc.
[I treat men who are] looking to make a change, and I help them understand and achieve that change in whatever way we together come to believe it is best.
I received an email from a man who lives in Saudi Arabia who said, 'My wife will not have oral or anal sex with me, so I am addicted to pornography that contains these. Can you help me please?' This man is not addicted to pornography. He has a fully understandable desire to take part in certain types of sex, and his wife, because of (I imagine) her religious or family beliefs, will not take part in those types of sex.
So then HE is an addict? No, SHE is an addict to traditional values that restrict her from exploring certain sexual activities that are perfectly fine to partake in.
When a man says he is addicted to pornography, what I do first is to talk with him about his life situation, and beneath every 'addiction' I generally find a wife who is not interested in sex, a man who is afraid to talk to women, or a man who has been told that sex and/or masturbation are shameful and wrong. But, of course, we are very sexual by nature, so we WILL have sex one way or another, and often that's through watching pornography, which there is absolutely nothing wrong with.
What I do is help men come to understand how they can solve whatever is causing them to watch pornography (if they want to stop watching it) or I help them understand how watching pornography can actually be a perfectly acceptable part of a sexual existence.
Naked Therapy helps men achieve better lives. "
Despite her grounding and theoretical understanding of some aspects of psychotherapy, Sarah isn’t a licensed therapist, or even a self-described life coach.
She has a disclaimer on her website stating that her services are not intended to be therapeutic, but informational only.
Her work does seem to be more than titillation, or mere entertainment, however.
Sarah looked into going to graduate school and pursuing a degree and license in therapy, but was told that to do so, she’d have to stop doing Naked Therapy. She believes strongly that what she does is therapeutic, and helps people, but thinks it is best for people to know up front that she is not offering a licensed service.
"I had to choose: stop practicing Naked Therapy and get my license, or keep practicing Naked Therapy unlicensed," she said. "I chose the latter."
She believes strongly that what she does is therapeutic, and helps people, but does believe it's best for people to know upfront that she is not offering a licensed service.
Sarah’s not worried about professional licensing boards coming after her for use of the terms “therapy" or "therapist,” but she is cautious to avoid using words such as counselor or psychologist, which could result in sanctions.
As Sarah’s work crosses state lines via teleconferencing, she could find potentially find herself subject to licensing boards in other states. This seems somewhat unlikely, but as many licensed clinicians have learned, professional boards can be mercurial, vindictive and unpredictable at times. Some have recently taken action against coaches and other advice givers who cross state lines using teleconferencing, though such actions have typically emerged after complaints by clients.
Given the sexual nature of Sarah’s work, I can imagine that in such a case, being seen as merely a “webcam girl” could actually be a protective measure for her, as clinical licensing boards might not feel her services appear credible enough to restrict.
Regardless, Sarah knows her limits. She refers clients to licensed therapists when she feels they need more than she can offer, such as dealing with clearly organic issues such as schizophrenia and brain injury, or where she feels they may benefit from “more advanced help,” and specialty services, such as EMDR .
Sarah believes she is being ethical and careful by being upfront and honest about her limitations and abilities, and about the nature of her service.
“I am a firm believer," she said, "In patients knowing what they're getting into …”
She clearly distinguishes her approach from therapists who cross ethical boundaries and become sexual with their patients. She argues that such patients aren’t treated properly or ethically, as they enter treatment thinking rules and expectations such as ethical boundaries around sex will be enforced.
“ It's all about acting in accordance with what is laid out in the beginning so that no one feels taken advantage of and treated unfairly. ”
Though she might not describe herself this, Sarah is supporting her clients’ rights to determine for themselves what they need — enacting a unique form of client-directed therapy.
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