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***My father impregnated me, threw me out of his house
***’My father has been raping me; now he’s threatening to kill me after I became pregnant’
***Man admits being father of his daughter’s child, blames alcohol
***Toddlers not spared: Man sleeps with 5-yr-old step daughter
***Woman bears 3 children for her son
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Over the years, the issue of sexual activity between two people who are very closely related in a family, such as between father and daughter, mother and son or brother and sister has become so rampant across the world especially in Nigeria.
Cases of incest are recorded almost every week.
There are tales of mothers having babies for their sons and daughters getting pregnant for their fathers.
The life of a 17-year-old girl (whose name is being protected) took a downward turn immediately she lost her mother last year and her father began to sleep with her.
The victim, who resides in Eket Local Government Area of Cross Rivers state said her father threw her out of his house after impregnating her.
Her story: “Shortly after my mother’s death, my father began to sleep with me until I became pregnant in December 2020.
“Later, my father threw me out of the house. I had no option than to come over to Uyo and find anyone who may be interested in my unborn child.
“Although I have never had any antenatal care and I’m almost due for delivery, I then started wandering about in Uyo looking for whoever would accommodate me.
“On Tuesday 21st September 2021, I was at a popular plaza asking people around if they needed a baby. I was desperate to have a family accommodate me until I give birth and handover the baby to the family.
“However, on Tuesday night, a man who saw me wandering about offered me accommodation to spend the night and I thought I had found succour. But the man took advantage of me and slept with me even as he saw that I was heavily pregnant.
“Nevertheless, fate smiled on me the following day when a human rights activist, Oga Yenne, with the help of concerned individuals located me at the plaza and rescued me.
“Oga Yenne then handed me over to the President of a gender-based violence committee, Notovole Foundation, Patricia Obot.
“The case has been reported to the Police at Ikot Akpan Abia where my medical needs are being taken care of and hopefully I will get all the help and necessary support”.
“My father has been raping me; now he’s threatening to kill me after I became pregnant”.
Similar fate has also befallen many other girls. Last month, on the 16th of September, a 45-year-old man, Olaoluwa Jimoh was arrested by Operatives of Ogun State Police Command for impregnating his biological daughter.
It was learned that the randy father with uncontrollable libido, was arrested following a complaint lodged at Ode Remo Divisional Headquarters by the victim, who reported that she had been living with her father for the past two years, but sometime in June 2021, her father forcefully had sex with her. Jimoh reportedly raped his daughter until she got pregnant.
According to the 19-year-old victim, “I have been living with my father for the past two years, but sometime in June 2021, my father forcefully had sex with me.
“Since then, he has been raping me severally and always threatened to kill me if I dared inform anybody.
“My mother had separated from my father a long time ago, and I had been living with my mother until about two years ago when my father asked me to come and live with him.
“I decided to report regardless of my father’s threat when I discovered that I was pregnant.” As usual, during interrogation, the victim’s father, Olaoluwa Jimoh blamed the devil who pushed him to continue to rape his daughter till she got pregnant”.
Also in August, this year, a middle-aged man, David Akpokpokpo was arrested by a vigilante group for allegedly raping and impregnating his teenage daughter in Amukpe area of Sapele, Delta State.
Akpokpokpo had carnal knowledge of his daughter which resulted in pregnancy. She has given birth.
Like Olaoluwa Jimoh, Akpokpokpo threatened to kill his daughter if she opened up to anyone.
However, when she could no longer bear it, she had to report to the vigilante group in Amukpe on Friday, August 27.
During interrogation, the suspect claimed to have slept with his daughter only once under the influence of alcohol but the victim countered him saying that her father raped her four times. Akpokpokpo also admitted being the father of the child.
Toddlers not spared: Man sleeps with 5-yr-old step daughter
For most of these depraved human beings, age isn’t a hindrance. They can violate a toddler the same way they violate a teenager. How else does one explain a 39-year-old Oladapo Akinola sleeping with his five-year-old stepdaughter, who calls him father?
Oladapo Akinola was arrested by men of Ogun State Police Command on Monday 20th of September 2021.
It was learned that Akinola was arrested following a report lodged at Adigbe Divisional Headquarters by the mother of the victim. According to the victim’s mother “while bathing my daughter, I discovered blood in her private part, and upon enquiry, she said that my husband who happened to be her stepfather had carnal knowledge of her.”
In some cases, it doesn’t just end with having canal knowledge and impregnating the victims, they go ahead to procure abortion for them to cover up their act. So it was for 52-year-old Jimoh Mutaliu who is currently in police custody for impregnating and procuring abortions for his teenage niece.
According to the father of the 16-year-old victim who lodged a report at Adatan Divisional Headquarters in Ogun state, “when I discovered that my daughter was pregnant, I asked her who was responsible, she revealed that my brother, who is her uncle was responsible for the pregnancy.”
Jimoh Mutaliu revealed during interrogation, that he actually committed the crime, he also affirmed that he had procured two abortions for her with the help of a nurse.
Ironically, men are not the only culprits in this menace. Though not as common as the men, a few women have joined the men in the incest trade.
Recently, an immigrant from Benin Republic, Fati Sime, was arrested by the Nigeria Security and Civil Defence Corps (NSCDC), Kwara State Command for allegedly having carnal knowledge of her biological son and bearing three children for him. Adamu Sabi Sime (son) and Fati Sime (mother) were also discovered not to have the necessary papers to stay in Nigeria and the suspects were handed over to the Nigeria Immigration Service for background check and further action.
Within the last three months, over thirty cases of incest have been reported in the country.
Reacting to the rampant cases of incest in Ogun state, retired Commissioner of Police, Edward Awolowo Ajogun advised mothers to be very watchful of their female children, and that they should not allow men to play with them no matter their relationship with such men.
However, despite the numerous arrests of suspects involved in incest, only few have been successfully prosecuted across the country. One of such cases was 38-year-old Patrick Ayesen, who was sentenced to 10 years in prison in May 2020 for raping and impregnating his 18-year-old daughter, at Okosa village, near Iguobazuwa, headquarters of Ovia South-West Local Government Area of Edo State.
Police investigations revealed that in January 2020, Ayesen had unlawful carnal knowledge of his biological daughter, resulting in pregnancy for him.
Also, 47-year-old Godwin Allu was sentenced to seven years imprisonment with hard labour by a Benin Chief Magistrate’s Court for having carnal knowledge with his 12-year-old daughter on November 20, 2012, at number 19, Omono Street, off Stadium Road, Benin City.
According to the prosecutor, his offence contravened section 208 of the Criminal Code, cap 48 Vol .11 of the defunct Bendel State of Nigeria, 1976, which is applicable to the present Edo state.
The Chief Magistrate, Mr Peter Obaseki, while delivering her judgment in 2012, described the heinous act as cruel for which the accused deserved no mercy.

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Submitted On August 18, 2009

This a very personal journey of survival and healing, I hope to inspire and give insights.
(incest - refers to any sexual activity between closely related persons (often within the immediate family) that is illegal or socially taboo.)
I was adopted as an infant into a family. I was one years old when the adoption process was complete and I went home to live with them. By the time I was four or five years of age the first incest attack on me occurred. As an infant I did develop the same bonds with my mom and dad as if they had actually been my birth parents. The incest assaults were all very brutal, gradually as I got older even more and more painful, my father used cruel malicious mental mind games on me and twisted the truth and twisted my thoughts to suit his needs. I was beaten unconscious on many occasions, on 3 separate occasions he beat me so severely I believed I was dying. He had 2 natural born children and at one point he put a shot gun to my brothers head and said he was going to blow his brains out. We including mom, were beaten and abused every single day. I will not speak of specifics because it is not beneficial in any way and would only attract predators and repel survivors because it would be too shocking and too painful to read.
For the first 3 or 4 years of my life I believe it was normal. For the next 8 to 9 years I lived through unspeakable horrors at the hands of a Psychopath Pedophile. As a pre-teen I would fight him and curse him and he would beat me mercilessly. I ran away several times and each time I was returned home once by police and once by a concerned family. The severity and the duration of this level of abuse broke me inside, it fractured me mentally into a million different pieces all of those pieces were damaged and had his mind manipulations stamped into them. At 12 years of age the last incest assault on me ended the reign of terror because my father left and moved to California to work for an elementary school as a bus driver.
What follows is my journey through devastation of what had happened and my gradual recovery. By sharing this with the world I hope to reach fellow survivors for the purpose of inspiring and maybe gaining insight into the recovery process. Not everyone will be able to relate to me, not everyone's abuse was this severe, some survived much worse. No matter what level of survival you come out of I still hope that by sharing my struggles and my journey of healing with you that you can find inspiration and take away from this some insights or some knowledge that will touch your life and be helpful.
During the 8 years of incest my only goal was to survive to be an adult so I could escape and be free. (I did not know at the time that being free would mean 8 years of hard work in intensive therapy sessions.) As a child I clung to the belief that somewhere, somehow I could find a place and people who would love me and not abuse me. I clung to that belief; it helped protect my sanity and that incredible hope also helped to keep me alive. When I was very young and the incest assaults would occur I would repress the memory of it as soon as the assault stopped. I did not know it had happened. I became increasingly wary and terrified of something trying to destroy me but I couldn't tell you what it was. As the incest assaults continued I learned how to disassociate from my body completely and even at times I would remember a floating sensation and looking down on the scene. I became a very light sleeper and the tiniest of sounds would wake me instantly. Gradually the full weight and burden of the memories and uncountable incest assaults came into full consciousness and I began an impossible task of suppressing the thoughts and trying to maintain control of the absolute chaos in my mind. My disassociations from my body during the abuse was a relief and helped me to survive but slowly I realized that I was maintaining a level of disassociation from my body all the time. This was a problem cause someone once or twice held my hand and I would look down at the sensation of a sudden awareness that I had a hand and it was so tiny and warm in their hand. I will talk more on this in future posting.
I tried as a child to make the abuse stop by telling friends, strangers, teachers. I told a police officer in Lousiana that I was being abused and he did nothing to help me and took me home cause I was running away and my father saw me delivered to the house in a police car and later beat me to unconsciousness. I told my mom, grandmother, and neighbors I was being abused no-one helped me they turned their back on me and my grandmother beat me so badly blaming me as she was yelling at me. I was so alone.
(sidebar here: if a child tells you they are being abused by their dad the last person you call is the dad or the family. You are endangering that child's very life cause in my case my father took special pleasure in beating me so severely on those occasions I thought he was killing me I was blacking out and thought I was dying.)
So when a concerned person I had told I was being abused, called Child Welfare, I was well into high school and when I got pulled out of class to the counselor's office I was in such fear for my life then my first and only intervention came way too late...because at one point my father had held a shotgun to my brothers head and told my brother he was going to blow his brains out, so I decided that this man would probably kill one or all of us. So I did what I felt I had to do and I denied everything, sobbing hysterically; that the social worker begged me to step forward and they would protect me, but I didn't see how and my fears were so ingrained in me and since I had lived this long why risk that evil man murdering me when I am so close to freedom so I denied everything, in tears, in absolute fear for my life. It was too late.
My mother and father got divorsed when I was 12 his last abuse was public humiliation. But at 17 I moved out of my home town and out of all of those peoples lives for nine years I never spoke to anyone in my family. As for my father, I chose to never to speak to him ever again.
So if you find yourself in the midst of abuse seek help, you deserve to be safe and from the 70's when I was trying to get help to now, there is a greater awareness of incest and more facilities to reach out to for help. I hope my writings help to give you hope for your journey of healing.
My experience left me with total chaos inside my mind and a body that was numb and out of touch with reality. All the thunderous extreme and very intense emotions of pain, shame, humiliation, disgust, all those type of feelings are common and they do with time and counseling become like a faint whisper that you can barely hear and when you walk through the darkness, believe you will find the end of the tunnel and you will emerge out into the light and your heart will soar with joy and peace and love. I know cause I am out into the light and have been out in the summer sun for many many years it truly gets easier. Please hang on and take inspiration from me. I have come back into the darkness to write for you, to grab your hand and say come this way with me out of the darkness and into the summer sun. Be brave and walk with me on this journey you are no longer alone.
Let me say to you, from my heart to yours, you must seek out professional help and make a commitment to never to be like those people, ever. Never allow the abuser to win. Incest is generational abuse, make your stand right here and right now, do not allow incest to pass from you to your children's generations. Now your true journey to healing and recovery begins. Have courage and take it slowly this is not anything that can be rushed.
In Dallas you can seek out Pastoral Counseling and Education Center and also Incest Recovery Association. Both of these agencies were instrumental in my recovery. My heartfelt blog is not meant to replace professional help. Books to read...Nobody's Ever Cried for Me, Wounded Heart, Bold Love, The Shack.
You cannot know, right now, how deeply your abuse has altered your thinking, your behavior, your belief systems, your sexuality, self esteem, self worth, future relationships, everything about you has been altered by your perpetrator but now its time to make up lost ground. Take back your thoughts by doing this: take a thought to its origins to find out if its based in truth or based in the lies of the abuser.
These are simple examples, there are much deeper and more complex thoughts within all of us:
I used to think that I deserved to be abused. Well that's just not truth. Its a lie from my father that he used as part of his mind control over me.
I used to think that I was a bad person and somehow it was my fault. Well thats just not truth. Its a lie again set up by my father to shame me and control me.
Seek out the thoughts you have and write them down please do this with a counselors guidance its for your safety and to make sure you are getting down to the truth. Take that thought or belief back to its origins and find out if it is grounded in the truth or in the lies and this is how you truly begin to set yourself free.
Dallas Pastoral Counseling and Education Center as well as The Family Place are great agencies to seek out. Another great book, "The Shack".
Our thoughts become our behavior, start reclaiming your thoughts from the abusers control and In the next posting I will discuss behaviors....
Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes; you will rise up again whole and renewed.
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