First Time Sex Without Condom
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First Time Sex Without Condom
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You may not want a baby—at least not right now. But you've been part of a couple for a while, and you're both really tired of having to take that awkward break between foreplay and the main event to fumble around for a condom. In fact, it's becoming a serious buzzkill. When, you wonder, can we stop using them?
The decision to ditch latex is different for every couple, and the right time to do it depends on many factors. But it's an issue that eventually crops up in just about every serious relationship. To help you figure out when it's time for you and your partner to consider going condom-free, we asked sex and relationship experts to outline a few healthy ground rules.
If you’ve been seeing your partner on a regular basis and you’ve both verbally agreed to practice monogamy, you can broach the topic—so long as you're confident that there's a solid level of trust between the two of you, says Sari Cooper, founder and director of the Center for Love and Sex in New York City.
Condoms are essential in non-monogamous relationships because they reduce the odds of either of you contracting a sexually transmitted infection (STI)—which is a definite possibility if one or both of you is sleeping with other people. If you suspect your partner isn't being honest with you and that they might be sleeping around, keep wrapping it up—your health could be at stake.
Speaking of STIs, before you go condom-free, you both have to be honest about any infections you currently have. Never been diagnosed with one? You're not in the clear. Many STIs have few or no symptoms, and you could still be infected and simply not know it. For this reason, both of you should undergo a full STI panel, which tests for an array of common infections such as chlamydia , gonorrhea, and HIV. If either of you gets a positive result, your doctor will advise you on the next steps, for example, prescribing meds that cure or treat it.
The caveat to STI testing is that the blood test available to diagnose herpes is not usually recommended unless you show symptoms, partly because it can give a false positive . And though you can go to your ob-gyn to be tested for HPV (human papillomavirus), HPV testing for men is not recommended by the Centers for Disease Control, nor is an approved test available. While genital herpes generally doesn't lead to a more serious condition, HPV can. Some strains of the virus are known to cause cervical cancer and other cancers.
For this reason, some ob-gyns recommend playing it safe and sticking with condoms for longer than you might want to. Orlando-based ob-gyn Christine Greves , MD recommends waiting at least two years before stopping condom usage. Two years seems pretty long, but her suggestion is based on the fact that it can take up to two years to clear high-risk HPV.
Still, she realizes that this may be unrealistic for many couples. “If you choose otherwise, know that your ob-gyn is here for you and that you aren’t judged,” Dr. Greves says.
Saying good-bye to condoms isn't only a matter of your STI status. Since you don't want to have a baby yet, it’s important to have another contraception method at the ready. (And no, pulling out is not birth control.) No form of pregnancy protection is perfect for everyone, but between the Pill and the Ring, as well as longer-term options like the birth control implant and an IUD, you should be able to find a method that works with your body and lifestyle.
If you feel uncomfortable bringing up the topic, it might be a sign that your relationship isn't at a place yet where you should stop using condoms. "If you’re not ready for that conversation or what could happen if you don’t use a condom, then there is nothing wrong with waiting,” Dr. Greves says.
But if you are, here are some pointers. Have the conversation on a date, at dinner, or somewhere you feel comfortable outside of the bedroom. Discussing in person, instead of firing off a text, opens the floor to both parties to share their STI history and where they stand in terms of having a baby, says Sherry A. Ross , MD, a Los Angeles-based ob-gyn and author of She-ology: The Definitive Guide to Women's Intimate Health. Period .
How to start this crucial convo? Let your partner know how much you care about the relationship, and also their health. Make it clear that you're ready to check in with your ob-gyn for testing and contraception, and that you expect them to step up and get tested by his doc as well. Hashing it out can be awkward, sure. But it will give you a sense of whether your partner sees the relationship the same way you do and that you're both on the same page.
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The First Time I Had Sex With Him… Without A Condom!
When you are in a long distance relationship, you know that sex is out of question. But when you do meet, you also remember that sex is AMAZING! Waiting for it makes it all the more exciting. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost five years now and last year when I moved to a different city, we didn’t have sex for months. Tough, yeah, I know.
Anyway, this one time I remember, we had a fight and we didn’t talk for almost a week. And when you fight in a long distance relationship, making up isn’t as easy as it is when you know you can just go and give him a hug, hoping it’ll all be fine. Things take their own sweet time and after seven days of not talking to him, I was missing him like crazy and all I wanted was to see him. So I booked my tickets and decided to surprise him. It was an impromptu plan. I skipped classes that day, packed my bags and just left.
In a relationship, once the honeymoon period ends, it’s difficult to get that spark back. You don’t feel the adrenaline rush anymore… Instead, it’s more about the comfort you share with that person. But that day, while I was travelling to see my boyfriend, I felt a new kind of excitement. It was a different feeling and I couldn’t wait to see how he’d react once he sees me at his doorstep. I hadn’t felt this way in a really long time. I had an overnight journey ahead of me and every minute felt like an hour. I didn’t sleep and kept imagining the moment when he’ll open the door and see me.
I had coordinated with his sister to make sure no one else would be at home when I reached his place. And so when I did reach, I rang the bell and hid. He came outside half asleep, looking for the person who rang the bell and I jumped and stood right in front of him. He opened his half-opened eyes in excitement and said, ‘oh baby’ and hugged me tightly (longest hug we’ve ever had by the way).
We stepped inside his room and we just couldn’t stop kissing. Soon we were on his bed, undressing each other. Things were getting hot and heavy and we couldn’t stop ourselves from NOT having sex. He asked me if I wanted to do it without a condom (since I had surprised him, after all) and I just nodded. We went on to have the most amazing sex ever but I obviously asked him to pull out. And to be clear – the sex wasn’t amazing because we did it without a condom, but because we did it after a really, really long time. After we were done though, we both realized that what we did was not exactly the ideal thing to do even though, at that time, we just wanted to be with each other. We spent the whole day together, lying on the bed, cuddling, watching Netflix and eating. Next morning I had to leave and so he came to drop me off. We kissed goodbye and as soon as I boarded my train, I started missing him again.
Few days later, I was supposed to get my period but I didn’t. I was late. I called up my boyfriend and told him. He got worried too. We were still hopeful that it’ll happen in another day or so but it didn’t. I tried whatever I could to get down. I ate papayas, I ate almonds, I did whatever my friends suggested would help me get my period but still, it didn’t happen. I was seven days late and I was going crazy. Every moment of those 7 days I was regretting having sex without a condom and my boyfriend felt guilty too. Of course, he wasn’t the only one at fault and no, we weren’t sure that we were pregnant yet but the tension was getting to me. I didn’t sleep for one whole night and decided that I’ll take the pregnancy test.
I woke up the next morning and when I was stepping out to go to the chemist, I got my period. I can’t describe how relieved I was. I immediately called my boyfriend and told him. He was relieved too and while we were talking, we decided never to have sex without a condom – ever again!
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Oh was so lovely and we both enjoyed much more. It is much better, no , messing about and interrupting things so can be spontaneous. I think the first time might have been a little quicker. My boyfriend found the increased sensation very stimulating. For me getting that big hot shot deep up inside was soooo good. I was on the contraceptive pill anyway, so that is the way it has been from then on.
First you gotta trust the guy is clean. Ask for proof if you have to. The first time I had sex without a condom it was amazing. I got to actual feel his thick cock slide into me and my wetness covered him as he was fucking me. It was sooo good. And the birth control I use is junel fe I believe.
personally my first time with out a condom felt really good but i was more focus on him pulling out in time
It was far far better! It was much slower, and since he is my husband I am not on any BC.
It was better. It feels so good. Better than putting a condom on. With a condom on sometimes I'd get like a little soft. The speed is the same. No difference there. I didn't use birth control. I went full raw dog, baby lol.
Yeah man condoms can make me get soft too
@HeresJames1 So it must be a common thing then.
D00d! Fireworks went off, tsunamis were created, and the ground beneath us trembled and shook as we collided and I was like
And at that magic moment u screamed Kaioken!
2nd time having sex I went without a condom with a virgin, felt amazing, I went slower cause it was really stimulating and they were super tight and a little nervous, no birth control
Well the first time without a condom I did notice it felt better. It was like he felt bigger inside me but maybe it was my imagination. We didn’t use birth control, he just pulled out.
my first time was unprotected and it was awesome, she was on the pill. I was always in a rush to make sure my partner was clean and safe so I could never waste a drop. Condoms take away all the feeling, intimacy, and excitement for me.
difference like day and night lol... you feel so much more. she was on bc
I have an IUD because I can't standd condoms. Being able to feel him inside you is a feeling I can't resist. Once I started having sex without condoms I could never go back. Also I love when he is able to cum inside of me.
I have a creampie fetish. I go rounds so the most I've ever came in someone was 5 times in a row
I experienced it the other way around. my first time was when I lost my virginity. but in general: without condoms has higher friction and is more pleasurable, I dry less quickly out and I love guys cumming in me. I'm on birthcontrol
It was like a whole new world, just beautiful (sheds a tear).
better, but there are some condoms that i can't feel the difference
It's excellent without rubber, I hate condom and hardly use it.
I think the sun started shining brighter and little rainbows and gnomes started dancing in the air
@Trenhard_ lol speaking of gnomes, i was talking with gym buddy and he was talking about being on acid or LSD or whatever, which I've never come close to so I'm what's it like and he was talking about all this trippy stuff, and he saw gnomes dancing around in the air hahaha I was like LMAO U w0t m8? hahaha
ahhhahahaha those kind of people are a trip man. fcking weird airheads.
Actually I have a funny story about garden gnomes. My ex boyfriend ( when he was at university) used to steal garden gnomes when he was out drinking, and doing the drunken stagger home. ( he had a bet with a friend who could get the most gnomes). Anyway, he used to storage them in the garage in the student unit, but the university got wind of it, and asked him to get rid of them. ( He has about 60-80 at this point) so he choose a house near the university ( so he didn't have to walk far) and left them on someone's front lawn. But he lined them up so that they all faced the front door. It actually made the front page of the local newspaper.
@Poppykate LMAO. Did you save that newspaper?
@Trenhard_ No I didn't. I wasn't dating him at the time. It happened about 6 months before I met him.
A couple a months into dating him, he told me what he did. It was one of those 'OMG- that was you' moments.
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