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Two anonymous women talk about what it's really like to fist and be fisted.
Have you only tried fisting with a serious partner, or in a casual relationship as well?
Woman A: Serious partner (male) — my first adult, long-term(ish) relationship. I don't think I'd want to/be able to with a casual partner.
How old were you the first time you did it?
Were you the fister or the fistee? Or have you done both?
And whose idea was it — yours or theirs?
Woman A: I think it was mutual — I really liked being penetrated by several of his fingers at once, and he might've suggested we try fisting since it seemed like something I'd enjoy. And then he went off and researched it, being that kind of person.
Woman A: We needed a lot of time and used water-based lube and latex gloves. Also trust, as having someone's hand inside you is fairly intimate! That relationship was quite sexually adventurous, for me at least, and fisting was at the apex of that. Oh, and you don't have your hand in a fist when you're entering your partner: more like a beak shape. Lots of fingering and gentle stretching helped.
Woman B: Foreplay — normal kissing, touching, fingers penetrating, etc.
Did it feel good? (Or conversely, did it hurt?)
Woman A: Getting there hurt. Neither I nor my partner had fisted before (that I know of, for him) and there were some very painful false starts getting there. Using gloves, different positions, a lot of lube, and much talking helped — "Is this OK?" "Now I'm going to go in a bit further," etc. — as did getting it right once because I knew when I got there again, it'd feel amazing. It's very, very, very intense, with your entire vag feeling stretched/pressure.
Woman B: It felt intense and slow and gentle and loving.
Woman A: The fisting itself didn't give me an orgasm but my partner playing with my clit while his hand was inside me did, over and over. Very intense as I said above!
Who enjoyed it more, you or your partner?
Woman A: I think I enjoyed it more. But while being fisted I wasn't really in a headspace to notice much else.
Woman B: I think we both enjoyed it as a very intimate thing. I enjoyed it the most when it was done to me rather than when I was doing it. I don't know which role she enjoyed more.
How do the sensations compare to other penetrative sex acts?
Woman A: Very intense and a lot of pressure everywhere inside you. It was different in that, once his hand was inside, he only moved it gently (not thrusting as with a penis or dildo or what have you). Also it could go on for a long time, until I'd had enough or his hand started to cramp. It was a bit removed, bodily. Normal penis in vagina sex you can be quite close and in fisting he was halfway down my body and a bit away. Also, I was sore afterward for a few days.
Woman B: It feels much more intimate. It isn't something I'd do with someone I didn't feel safe with and really connected to.
Is fisting a regular part of your sex life now? Why/why not?
Woman A: It isn't, mostly because I haven't brought it up with my current partner. I keep on thinking about it and then chickening out on asking. It requires trust and patience and lube and gloves and most importantly time, which isn't something I have a lot of. Writing this is making me think about it though!
Woman B: No. It takes a while to work up to it. It's not an every-night-25-minutes-of-sex type of thing. It's more like something that you do after having sex for an hour or two, once intensity is building up.
Do you have any advice for people who might want to try it? Or whose partners want to try it?
Woman A: Yes! Take all the time you need; use all of the lube. Gloves also help for letting things slip in a little easier — and don't be discouraged if it takes a few goes. And if you or your partner is hurting or doesn't think it's going to work, it's fine to stop. You might take a few goes or decide it's not for you. I would only consider fisting again with someone I trusted and was probably in a relationship with, but your mileage may vary. Also small/slender hands are a plus, and trim your fingernails.
Woman B: Make sure you feel safe and trust the person you're doing it to or having do it to you. To me, it feels very intimate. I think it would hurt if you weren't tuned into each other.
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Last weekend, I attended and presented at a Presentation Party Night (I highly recommend the experience, whether you attend or decide to present) and my presentation was on vaginal fisting. It was basically a how-to type of presentation that I made in Power Point that highlighted consent, safety, and method, all very important things but as I was in a room full of straight-up (and likely mostly straight) strangers, I didn’t want to fully out myself as a transsexual man that enjoys getting vaginally fisted. I made some allusions, but yeah, I wasn’t quite brave enough to stand up and be all, “Yo! I love being fisted and I have a vagina of steel! Let me tell you how it feels!”
I felt kind of bad when, during the question and answer segment, a woman in the audience pointed out that I didn’t say anything about how it feels or many positives aspects of it. She was right, I didn’t say much about how it feels and I over-focused on, “Use lube! Don’t wear rings! Trim your damn fingernails!” This is my chance to rectify that situation.
You know that moment when you’re completely connected to your body, and your mind, and your emotions, and your sense of trust? I usually don’t feel that. But if somebody I love or trust or love and trust has their fist up in me, I experience that combination and it is euphoric. It’s a culmination of all the great things. It’s the sexual simile to watching the X-Files and cuddling while talking about yur day.
I was born female but I’ve lived as male for the last ten years. I know a lot of trans men feel incredibly uncomfortable about penetration but, obviously, I don’t. I’ve had plenty of sex with cisgendered men, and I’m okay with penises and stuff, but my favorite sexual pleasure will always be getting fisted by a woman.
Let me break it down for you: if I take my pants off for you, you are special. Granted, during specific manic phases I’ve been known to show my nether-regions to people who are practically strangers, but those cases are few and far-between. If I let you get me off by penetrating me, you’re even cooler.
If I ask you to shove your fist in me, you are golden and I have established trust and communication with you. I will totally ask somebody I don’t love to fist me, but it feels so much better if I also love the person. It makes me feel incredibly connected to them, and that makes for a very arousing experience. It almost feels spiritual, even though I am not a spiritual or religious person.
The best thing about getting fisted is the emotional connection it can bring on (though not always). I can get off with two adept fingers (or a less adept penis, or an even less adept strap-on) for sure, but there’s something special about being spread-eagle on a bed and letting another person insert a rather large portion of their body in me. My junk is all out in the open, for their eyes to see. That’s hard for me to do as a trans person — let it all hang out.
And if I want a person’s fist in me, I want their eyes to look at me while they’re doing it. I want them to know what they are doing, and how I am reacting, and I want to know how they are reacting. Having a fist in me promotes communication. “Is this okay?” Those are magical words to me and get me even hotter.
Don’t even get me started with “Does this hurt?” Yes, it hurts and it is wonderful, and please, please do it harder.
To me fisting can be a very intimate act. There are a few moments when a chosen partner is working their hand into me, before it’s a fist, and the situation is all body language, eye contact, and verbal communication. It’s me letting go of myself, letting walls fall (because I have a great deal of anxiety around being touched in an even non-sexual context) and opening up (pun intended.) It’s knowing that I might ejaculate, and that might freak my partner out or embarrass me, so it’s also me letting myself be very, very vulnerable. Even just the act of saying, “Will you fist me?” puts me in a vulnerable position. They could say no, and then I could feel embarrassed about this little kink of mine.
Physically, it is amazing. I love getting fisted while being kissed. It’s the perfect set-up and it makes my body feel taken care of. And I know it sounds gross, and straight-up straight porn-ish, but I love feeling full. I like feeling as much of a person as I can, and them feeling me, and feeling a part of my body that most people aren’t allowed to go near. I like the communication surrounding how it feels for both parties; I like feeling safe enough to tell them when it hurts too much, or when it doesn’t hurt enough. I like being in control of when I’m ready for them to extract their fist so I can feel my body orgasm on its own, and I like having an orgasm when a fist is still in me, because there’s nothing hotter than muscles contracting and fixing a wonderfully stimulating hand where it’s at until things settle down.
I don’t know how it feels to be fisted as a woman. I wasn’t that adventurous when I was femaleidentified. I also don’t know how it feels to be anally fisted because my butt is off-limits. (And guys, I know the “Oops, wrong hole!” trick — don’t try it. I’m onto you.) I can only tell you what I know as a sensitive, slightly masochistic, and pervy transman. And I can tell you that it’s amazing and emotional, and if you really want to make me happy in bed, ask me if you can fist me. Because sometimes having to ask my partners all the time gets old.
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