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I’m a firm believer that most people who use sex toys have a personal favorite that they own, or at the very least, a specific function that they prefer having in a sex toy. Maybe you’re into something as simple as a bullet vibrator or something more intricate like a flogger. Either way, those preferences may make some sex toys off limits for you…or are they?
For some people, certain sex toys are hard no’s, but this idea usually comes from a lack of information or fear of extreme discomfort. Take anal beads (or butt play in general!), for example. Some just don't know exactly how this type of sex toy can level up an orgasm, but this just in: They totally can and do. "I think anal beads are so misunderstood," says Amy Boyajian , co-founder and CEO of Wild Flower , an online sex toy shop with an emphasis on sexual wellness. "We disregard them, but they’re a really amazing tool—especially for people with vaginas."
As it turns out, anal beads aren’t as intimidating as they might seem. There are plenty of ways to slowly start incorporating them so that your comfortability level remains top of mind, like opting for a beginner-friendly set instead of shopping sets for more experienced users.
If you're ready to leave your expectations (and any negative stigmas) at the door, you can open yourself up to an even better sex life.
Ready to dive into all the deets? Here's everything you need to know about using anal beads and why they're so damn pleasurable.
Anal beads or balls are made up of shapes (usually spheres, but they can also be oval or pill-shaped) that are fixed on a progressive, long string.
And while there are several types out there, the best ones are completely silicone (including the string and beads), a body-safe material that’s flexible and easier to use, says Boyajian.
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At the end, there’s a stopper of some sort—often a loop—that allows you to grip it to insert it and pull it out. This also has the handy function of, ya know, preventing the toy from completely going inside your body.
Perhaps you haven’t thought of yourself as a butt play practicer, but know that anal balls are designed to deliver a *unique* type of pleasure that’s totally different from, say, penetrative anal sex .
"Thousands of sensitive nerve endings are located around the opening of the anus. While you don’t typically feel them inside of you, anal beads stimulate the anal sphincter muscles when inserted or removed," says Boyajian.
Meaning: It’s more of a titillating sensation compared to a fullness (like if you put a penis or butt plug up there). Think pop-pop-pop .
The anus is often overlooked as a source of pleasure even though there are many ways to benefit from it, says sex therapist and psychologist Tatyana Dyachenko .
"There is still a lot of stigma around anal play, but if you can get over that you're in for a whole new world of sexual fun," she says. "When the anal beads are pulled out they stimulate the nerve endings that surround your sphincter muscle. [It's] a very pleasurable feeling. How often you remove the beads and the speed you use to remove them is up to each individual involved."
You’re the best judge of what you like, but if you’re just getting into anal beads, look for one that’s relatively skinny.
You’ll want smaller spheres that gradually increase in size. Some small ones feature cylinders that are no bigger than the tip of a pinky finger, says Boyajian. That makes insertion easier (and more comfortable).
As you advance, you might also progress to a toy that has beads that are all the same size or random sizes. "Some people find it exciting to change shapes or add vibration," Boyajian adds. (Yes, vibrating anal beads exist!)
2. Always use lube with anal beads.
Very imporant! "The anus is not a self-lubricating area of the body. When it comes to butt stuff, the more lube , the better to make sure everyone is comfortable," says Boyajian.
Look for a water-based lubricant that's designed for anal play and compatible with silicone toys. These lubes will be thicker, so you don’t have to continually reapply. (Phew.)
3. Make beads a supporting role, not the main gig.
Anal beads can enhance any sexual experience, especially penis-vagina penetration or clitoral stimulation, says Boyajian. She recommends inserting the beads during foreplay, and as you get closer to climax, slowly pulling them out. Either you or your partner can do this.
"It’s like an extra boost to enhance the sensation of orgasm," Boyajian explains.
4. Explore with the first few beads.
You definitely don’t have to insert the entire string from the get-go. When starting, many people like to explore the first two or three beads to really get a feel for the sensation burst. You’ll also want to experiment with which sensation you like best—the inserting or pulling out.
If you want to insert the entire string, of course, you can. "Anal beads can be as long as 16 to 18 inches. We think it will hit a point in our body where it’s not safe, but that’s not the case," says Boyajian. "As long as it feels comfortable for you, it’s okay to go to that level."
5. Wash anal beads after every use.
These are going up your butt, and let’s not pretend that poop doesn’t live there. You know it does; your partner knows it does.
To properly rid them of bacteria, anal beads can go in the dishwasher (if you live alone or your roomie’s open-minded). Or boil them in a pot as if you’re cooking pasta. I mean...same thing, right?
Another option, says Boyajian, is mixing a weak bleach solution of 1:9 parts bleach to water, leaving the toy to sit in the solution, and then washing in hot water with a gentle soap.
Either way, clean them between every. single. use .
It’s a good idea not to share anal toys. Technically, you could as long as you properly clean them between you and your partner, but you’re probably not taking a sex break to go boil beads.
If you and your partner both like the sensation, you should each have a set. Think of it like his-and-hers, or hers-and-hers, or his-and-his, or them-and-them sinks—except slightly dirtier. (Wink face.)
Wanna get a li'l wet and wild? Dyachenko explains that while anal beads can be used in the shower, she recommends using a silicone-based lube , noting that water-based lubes can wash away quickly, leaving you dry. And since the lining around the anus and rectum is very delicate, it can tear easily, increasing the risk of infection.
Anal beads and butt plugs can both be used for anal play, but they work in different ways. "Anal beads give you pleasure through movement, whereas a butt plug works by making your anus feel full which puts pressure on the surrounding tissue," says Dyachenko.
"Most people use a butt plug before they have anal sex to ensure they are sufficiently stretched and ready," she adds. If you’re unsure which is the best option, you can always try both out and see which works best for you.
For the best results , Dyachenko suggests pulling out the beads just as you're about to climax. "This process stimulates the soft tissue around your anus which creates immense feelings of pleasure," she says.
If you’re using anal beads with a trusted partner, Dyachenko recommends slowly leveling up the way they’re incorporated: "If you're new to anal beads, I'd suggest inserting a few small ones and leaving them in their while your partner stimulates you. If you feel comfortable with that, you can move onto having penetrative sex with the beads still inside you."
But anal beads are not limited to the time you spend with a partner. They’re also a great option for solo play . "Inserting the beads and masturbating as you normally would can totally heighten your experience," Dyachenko adds.
There's always potential for things to get a little messy during anal play, but there are a few ways to lower your chances of that. Dyachenko recommends showering and laying a towel down beforehand. Some people like to invest in enemas beforehand although it’s definitely not a mandatory step, she adds. (P.S. Never try to make your own enema!)
Whether you end up liking or not liking anal beads, either result is okay. Striving to meet certain expectations might be more harmful than helpful.
"Go slow and enjoy the process. There is no end goal when it comes to anal beads. They are simply made to be enjoyed in any way that feels good for you," Dyachenko says.
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Anal beads seem—how should I say this?—kinda scary. They look similar to rosary beads, except they're chunkier, and instead of praying with them, you put them in your butt. Despite their intimidating design, anal beads are a great way to get prostate or anal stimulation , and they feel a lot different than butt plugs and prostate massagers . Plus, you can use 'em for a fun interactive experience with a partner (more on that later).
When I first tried anal beads a few years back, I was shocked by the sensation. I felt so “full,” and initially, I was surprised by how many beads I was able to fit inside of myself. (I actually said out loud, “Where the hell do they all go?”) After getting over my booty’s magical disappearing act, I started to pull out each bead one by one, and that was when I realized the power of anal beads.
“Unlike butt plugs or prostate massagers, anal beads are designed to be repeatedly taken out and re-inserted,” says Sammi Cole, sex expert at Lovehoney . Personally, I find it arousing—both physically and psychologically—to have someone pull the anal beads out of me. When you “pop” each ball out by yourself, you know it’s coming, but when someone else pulls out the beads, the element of surprise makes it feel even better.
Curious about using anal beads? Here's everything you need to know.
"Anal beads are a sex toy that offers a great way to get your body used to anal stimulation," Cole says. Typically, they're a series of graduated, conjoined spherical beads with a flared loop or handle at the end. (Seriously, make sure your toy has a flared base if you're putting it up your butt. Otherwise, it may get lost up there, and you'll have to take an embarrassing trip to the emergency room!)
Anal beads can be slowly inserted into the anus to stimulate your internal erogenous zones , Cole explains. For people who have a prostate , this internal stimulation can feel extra amazing. "They offer a gradual ‘filling’ feeling that many people find pleasurable, plus the slim neck between each bead creates a ‘popping’ sensation as they’re inserted and removed," Cole explains.
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You can have anal beads inside you while masturbating , receiving oral , or having penetrative sex . You can also use them to train yourself (i.e., loosen your anus) for bigger things, like pegging .
If you’ve never used anal beads, you should first use them on your own while masturbating to get used to the sensation, explains Gigi Engle , ACS, certified sex educator and author of All The F*cking Mistakes: a guide to sex, love, and life .
Like with any sex toy you put up your rear end, you want to use a ton of lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus is not self-lubricating. Each set of anal beads will list in their instructions if they’re safe to use with silicone-based lube or not. If you can use silicone-based lube with the toy, you definitely should. Silicone lube is thicker and dries out less quickly, making it ideal for anal play . If it specifically says you can only use water-based lube , then go ahead and apply that liberally to your anus and to the beads.
Anal beads really get up in there, especially if you’re using more than two or three balls. Given how deep anal beads are inserted into your anus and rectum, you should clean out your anus with more than taking a shower. You should use a douche or enema. (If you’ve never cleaned your rectum before, no worries, we got you covered .)
Some anal beads only have three balls, whereas some anal beads come with ten balls. You may think since you’re new to anal beads, it’s worth it to purchase the one with three balls, but honestly, it’s still likely better to get the one with ten. You don’t have to put every single ball inside your anus. You can insert as many as you’d like. Over time, as you get more used to the sensation, you’ll likely want to insert more balls, so it’ll be good you got the anal beads with ten spheres!
Anal play is messy, and we're not just talking about poop. You have to use a lot of lube with anal play, and unless you want to wash your sheets right after playing, it's a lot easier to put a towel down. It's also great to have wet wipes handy so you can give your booty a little wipe when you're done playing with the beads.
“Start slowly,” Engle says. “If you’re new to anal beads, it’s best to use beads with ‘graduated sizes,’ meaning they start small and grow in size as you move up.” Start by popping the first small ball in and out to get used to the sensation. See if it feels better when you do it slowly or quickly, Engle adds.
“The pelvic floor muscles are incredibly powerful and when we orgasm, our body naturally spasms via these muscles,” says Alicia Sinclair , certified sex educator and founder/CEO of the anal sex toy company, b-Vibe . “Clenching and releasing them consciously (i.e., squeezing your anus), prior to orgasm, not only feels pretty incredible but also intensifies your orgasm.”
The best part of using anal beads with a partner is that you can let them control the beads. “Giving your partner control over how they use the beads on you can be a sexy-ass power play,” Engle says.
Even if you're squeaky clean, you can still easily transfer icky bacteria from your anus to another partner's anus. I've also seen porn where the performer will remove the anal beads and directly put them into her mouth or put them into her vagina. Don't do that! If you plan on putting anal beads in another orifice or plan on sharing anal beads with someone else, put a condom on it and switch condoms before switching holes and partners.
Sinclair suggests that either you or your partner pull out the anal beads right as you’re orgasming. “Pulling anal beads out (gently, please—you’re not starting a lawnmower!), during climax adds a tremendous amount of intensity,” she says. “This can often lead to what people refer to as ‘full body orgasms’ because of the additional sensation during your most intense physical moment.”
Like with any type of anal play, you want to use a ton of lube , Cole says. "Listen to your body, and if anything hurts, stop. Anal play can be very pleasurable when you relax, but you should never feel like you have to ‘push through’ the pain." You should always check in with yourself and your partner along the way to make sure you’re both enjoying the experience.
You need to be careful, otherwise, you'll end up with anal fissures (which are skin tears in and around your anus that are very painful).
"Anal beads can be made of lots of different sex toy materials, but the most common kinds are made from silicone, plastic, PVC, or other flexible materials," Cole says. Warning: if you're using anal beads made of silicone, avoid using silicone lube , because it will erode the toy. Use a water-based lube instead .
Anyone who's interested in trying them out! Anal beads can be used by anyone, regardless of gender, sexual preference, or experience level, Cole explains. While it feels particularly good for people with a prostate, it can also feel great for people with a vulva , too, because through the backdoor, it’s possible to stimulate the so-called G-spot (on the front wall of the vagina) and A-spot (also on the front wall, but closer to the cervix).
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