Dating A Quiet Guy

Dating A Quiet Guy

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updated on January 18, 2020 May 13, 2011 Dating

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Dealing with people who are quiet can be difficult in itself but when you are dating the person it can be even more challenging. The problem with quiet people is that you never really know what they are thinking. At times you almost want to shake them and ask then what is on their minds. The problem is this really will not help.
Some people are just quiet by nature and the only thing you can really do is learn new ways and means of opening your quiet guy up so that you can get those lines of communication going. There are several strategies when it comes to dealing with quiet guys and some of them may work better than others. However, be warned that some of the methods of dealing with a quiet guy can also backfire on you.
Sometimes when you get together with your quiet guy you may notice that he hasn’t much to say at all other than the normal pleasantries. This can be very frustrating, especially if you are sitting across the table from him at a restaurant. The next time that happens try actually initiating an intriguing conversation, possibly even one that is on a topic you know he likes. Many times people are quiet because they are not good at being the ones to start the conversation. Maybe there is a part of him that is shy and afraid that he will say something silly or ridiculous. Often times the only thing you will have to do is get the ball rolling.
If you have been dating for sometime and you still notice that your guy is unusually quiet, or a man of few words, you could try coming right out and asking him why it is he never talks to you. There is a good chance he is unaware of the fact that his lack of conversation is bothering you. Many people are just day dreamers by nature. They sit and observe their surroundings and just do not believe in making small talk. You may or may not get a straight answer but at least you can ask.
Another thing to watch for is whether or not the guy you are dating is quiet all of the time or if he just has moods he gets into. Believe it or not some men become quiet when they are irritated about something, especially those who are passive aggressive. Some men cannot deal with showing their anger toward women in an appropriate way so they will choose to sit quietly instead. This is almost like the silent treatment. If you have a boyfriend or a man who you are dating that tends to get in quiet moods you may ask him if something is bothering him. This could cause an argument if he is in fact angry about something but it is probably far better than sitting there wondering what the issue is.
There are many people who come from families that are not animated at all. There seems to be almost a void of personality in the home. There does not seem to be any specific reason for this it is just like this sometimes. If the man you are dating comes from a household such as this then you should let go of any illusions that he is going to change anytime soon. This quietness is probably ingrained so deeply in him that it would take a miracle to change him. You can either choose to accept that he is an over all quiet person or you can decide that it is bothering you so much that you cannot take it anymore. Just remember you own your feelings about how quiet he is. It is not up to him to change for you, it is up to you to decide if you can accept him the way he is.
This may hurt to accept but sometimes after a long period of time couples tend to find little to discuss. Your man may be more interested in watching the game than having a conversation with you. Do not feel that you are alone this happens often. This is especially hard in relationships that used to be very close at one point and have seemed to have drifted the two of you further apart. This happens in a lot of long term dating relationships. In this case you can either choose to do something drastic to try and rekindle the relationship or you can leave, the choice is yours. However, if your man does other things to show you he loves you then you just may need to realize that your relation ship has evolved and often that is what happens.
You may have a boyfriend who is great when it comes to talking to you when it is just you two but perhaps when he is in crowds he clams up. This is usually some level of social anxiety. Some people do not do well in crowds. If you notice that your date or boyfriend gets especially quiet when you are amongst friends do not push him to talk if he does not want to. There is nothing worse than being put on the spot or made the center of attention when you would much rather be invisible. Learn to read your man and know when to leave him alone. Chances are he will really appreciate you for that.
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Adventurous girls are often a little loud, a little reckless and a lot of fun. We aren't comfortable with a routine and are constantly looking for the next “best thing,” whether that's a new bar, a new band or a new job.
We like to be busy and tend to gravitate toward the quiet guy in the crowd. He’s a little mysterious and seems like a lot of fun to playfully mess with.
If he looks even a little bit socially awkward, we pounce. And, so far, this method isn’t too shabby; it can result in a fun romance.
Here are some reasons why the quiet guy is worth going after:
He doesn’t mind if you vent endlessly about that one snobby coworker or friend.
He’s pretty understanding and just likes to hear what you have to say, even when your rants get so irrational they are borderline hilarious. He smiles and nods, and sometimes lets out small chuckles.
He knows your favorite drink just by going out with you and watching. He’ll bring you Diet Coke for no reason or maybe your favorite candy bar. He pays attention to your little quirks.
He’s not a mind reader (because no one is), but he is attentive and is more perceptive than he lets on.
You’re always doing something new, which can be kind of scary or bizarre to people who aren’t the same way. You live on the edge of your comfort zone and he enjoys living there, alongside you.
He has no idea what he’s gotten himself into. He needs to prepare himself for sexy texts and even sexier one-on-one time. He's probably never met a girl like you. It's fun to watch his reactions to your flirtatious advances and teases.
He knows that you’re independent and not the traditional relationship type way. Your understanding of couples is the act of two individuals choosing to date, not the sudden morphing of two humans. So when you’re out with friends, he’s fine letting you go. He doesn’t need to be attached.
He surprises you by how respectful and considerate he is to you. This might be new for you because you’ve dealt with some jerks and are hesitant to let someone treat you like a queen. Don’t worry, though, he’s worth it.
He doesn’t express his true feelings to everyone, so people probably only know very vague information about him. It didn’t take him long to open up to you because you’re free spirited.
They don’t mind that he sometimes accompanies you and the girls. They don’t mind that he comes on road trips or goes to play video games at his house or is just lazy with all of you. You two have a comfortable and relaxed relationship, so most people want to join in on the sweet vibe.
It’s easy to get carried away by smooth talkers and loud, funny men. But the next time you’re out, pay attention to the boy in the crowd who is smiling, listening to his friends. He doesn’t need to be the center of attention, but is always part of the party.
You might miss him when you first survey the room, but you definitely won’t the second time around. Unbeknownst to you, adventurous girl, falling for him might be your biggest adventure yet.
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The guy I’m dating doesn’t talk much. He is an introvert. I’m always the one asking questions during our conversation. I want him to talk more and ask questions. How should I kindly talk to him about this?
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Definitely YES. I have been dating a quiet guy for 5 years now, I fell for his kindness and his generous heart. I am totally opposite to him. But as they say two opposites attract. These 5 years have been completely balanced by his calmness and my excitement. And it is not that he will be quiet the whole day, he does talk but only to selective people and he has changed a lot over these years ie he has become social.At times i do feel that i am the only one who keeps talking the whole day but he doesn't ignore me. He does listen to my every single concerns and gossip.
Definitely YES. I have been dating a quiet guy for 5 years now, I fell for his kindness and his generous heart. I am totally opposite to him. But as they say two opposites attract. These 5 years have been completely balanced by his calmness and my excitement. And it is not that he will be quiet the whole day, he does talk but only to selective people and he has changed a lot over these years ie he has become social.At times i do feel that i am the only one who keeps talking the whole day but he doesn't ignore me. He does listen to my every single concerns and gossip.
All that i want to say is that, didn’t we always want a guy with good personality, who was understanding and kind ? So what if he is quiet? as long as he loves you and is there for you, you know he is the one.
On an average guys are quiet, and girls are talkative. But the hypocrisy of dating rules pressurises guys into being talkative and interesting to impress a girl. This is the problem faced by every guy, where guy needs to put all the effort and girls just don't put the effort in understanding guys. Maybe, he is just tired that the conversations were all about you, and he doesn't see his existence being acknowledged. Why don't you start asking him about his passions, goals, aspirations, job etc. so that he opens up about himself ? Good luck!

How do you maintain a relationship with a very quiet person? The guy I’m dating talks a lot when he is comfortable, but sometimes there’s a lull in conversation and only so much conversation pushing I can do. It’s like he’s nervous or something.
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Originally Answered: How do you maintain a relationship with a very quiet person?
The guy I’m dating doesn’t talk much. He is an introvert. I’m always the one asking questions during our conversation. I want him to talk more and ask questions. How should I kindly talk to him about this?
Sometimes my boyfriend and I have nothing to say to each other. We are both generally quiet people, and the silences can be jarring. How should we handle this?
My boyfriend and I don't have many good conversations. I have tried to talk to him on various topics but he doesn't do it himself. Are we doomed?
I'm very quiet. How can I maintain a longterm relationship?
Why can't I keep a conversation going with my 6-month boyfriend? Something has always been off especially with the awkward silences and him telling me "I have nothing to say, you talk". He's very sweet and loyal but very boring.
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Originally Answered: How do you maintain a relationship with a very quiet person?
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The guy I’m dating doesn’t talk much. He is an introvert. I’m always the one asking questions during our conversation. I want him to talk more and ask questions. How should I kindly talk to him about this?
Sometimes my boyfriend and I have nothing to say to each other. We are both generally quiet people, and the silences can be jarring. How should we handle this?
My boyfriend and I don't have many good conversations. I have tried to talk to him on various topics but he doesn't do it himself. Are we doomed?
I'm very quiet. How can I maintain a longterm relationship?
Why can't I keep a conversation going with my 6-month boyfriend? Something has always been off especially with the awkward silences and him telling me "I have nothing to say, you talk". He's very sweet and loyal but very boring.
My boyfriend was never very talkative, but lately he talks less than he used to. I know he loves me and everything, but even then I feel lonely because he does that. What should I do?
Why can’t I hold a conversation with my boyfriend? It always gets boring and quiet and no one knows what to say.
My boyfriend is a quiet and introvert person. He asked me to bear with it. But we just started a relationship around 4 months and I want to know about him further. What should I do?
My boyfriend says that I don't talk to him much. When we talk, he seems extremely uninterested in the conversation. He loves me a lot but he complains that I’d rather talk to my friends than him. What should I do?
I am quiet and my boyfriend is talkative. He wants me to talk more with his family and friends when we meet them. Is he trying to change me? Are we incompatible?
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