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These moves will take you straight to O-town.
This article was written by Ali Taylor Lange and provided by our partners at Men's Health .
For us, oral sex could mean the difference between orgasmic bliss and a ho-hum time in the sack. In fact, most women need a variety of stimulation, including oral, in order to orgasm , as research from the Kinsey Institute shows.
If the dude in your life has already mastered the basics—taking his time, varying his pressure and speed, and resisting the urge to go straight for your lady parts without a little teasing—then you two might add these five advanced moves to your love-making repertoire.
Start on your hands and knees, and then have him slide under you (like an auto mechanic). He can then spend time warming you up as he has access to everything you want touched and licked.
“Kisses, breast and nipple stimulation , nibbles down the inner thigh are all part of dining out,” says Shanna Katz, a board-certified sexologist and author of Oral Sex That Will Blow Her Mind . She tells men, “Wait until your partner is hot and heavy, begging for you to go between her legs, rather than going in too quickly and killing the mood.”
He should watch your body's reactions as he ramps up the foreplay. It may be only minutes before you're imploring him to do more.
Nobody around while you’re in the pool together? Sit on the edge with your legs over his shoulders while he's in the water.
If you don’t happen to have a pool handy, this also works on the edge of a countertop, sturdy table, or washer. (Turn the washer on for even more fun.)
No matter where you decide to do it, you’ve both got to be all in, says Katz. This position allows him to use his lips, tongue, suction, and hands to their fullest. Plus, from above you’ll have a full view of your man between your legs, so you can guide him with your body movements as you get turned on. (Stock up on these fun sex accessories from the Women's Health boutique !)
Have your man lay down on a bed or other comfortable surface. Then, squat and sit on his face while he provides the oral stimulation.
You're now in a position to focus solely on the pleasure he is providing. If you're up for some fun, suggest that your man amps up his technique by tracing letters with his tongue.
“Instead of running through from A to Z, which can make it hard to choose favorite tongue motions, try a few letters at a time on repeat, or work on spelling a favorite word,” Katz tells men. He can also use his lips to provide some sexy suction: on your lips, hood, or even clit . It gives his jaw and tongue a break, and can help draw more blood to the area, helping everything to get even more engorged.
Brush up on these mind-blowing orgasm facts:
While facing each other in bed, your man should scoot down until he is between your legs and can rest his head on your inner thigh. With this position he is comfortable enough to lavish you with the time and attention you really crave.
“While some women might want less time spent between their legs, the vast majority want more,” Katz tells men. “So if you’re using cunnilingus as foreplay , consider doubling, tripling, or even multiplying your current time by six or seven.”
Women can be as rapidly aroused by porn as men, a recent study by McGill University found. (Supposedly, the magic number is about 12 minutes to make women aroused.)
So, instead of having only oral play going on, set up your position and location so that you can watch porn you enjoy while your man is between your legs.
Not only will you be stimulated by his action, watching erotic images will additionally rev your—and his—engines, says Katz. If you're into it, you can suggest the possibility that you reciprocate, giving your nab something to watch next time you pleasure him.
For more pleasurable positions, check out The Ultimate Guide to Oral Sex .

13 Blow Job Myths That Just Need To Die
1. Myth: You should swallow even if you're not a fan.
2. Myth: All men are obsessed with blowies, so if a dude doesn't want one, he hates you.
3. Myth: Deep throating is the key to an excellent BJ.
4. Myth: There's basically only one blow job position.
5. Myth: A blow job isn't "real sex."
6. Myth: It's normal for guys to push your head down.
7. Myth: If your teeth touch his penis, it'll fall off.
8. Myth: You always have to perform a blow job to completion.
9. Myth: Your mouth can always provide enough spit to make the act enjoyable.
10. Myth: If your BJ skills are up to par, it should be over in a few minutes.
11. Myth: You need blow-job sorcery for uncircumcised penises.
12. Myth: If you give your mouth a break, you have to start from the beginning.
13. Myth: You have to love giving blow jobs in order to be sexy.
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Oral sex can seem baffling if you think about it when you're not turned on. You're supposed to put your mouth where? And you would want someone's face in your most private spot why? But in the moment, when you're with someone you're into, oral sex can seem like a more genius invention than the lightbulb. The only annoying part is when you're having sex with a guy and certain blow job myths get in the way of both of you enjoying the act as much as possible. Here, 13 blow job myths you should stop believing, stat.
Unlike green smoothies, semen is not some nutrient-rich elixir. When you treat someone to a mouth-induced orgasm, they don't get to judge what you do after the fact. Spit, swallow, move out of the way so it doesn't get in your hair, whatever. As long as you're not like, "Ew, this is disgusting, you're a beast," there shouldn't be any complaints.
There are so many reasons a guy may not be up for a blow job. Just like some women love receiving oral sex and others prefer different forms of clitoral entertainment , he might be into a different kind of foreplay. Or he could be saving you from encountering his sweaty post-workout package. Or maybe he wants to talk about his feelings instead of having sex. Point is, it doesn't automatically mean he doesn't like you or thinks your blow jobs are awful.
If you can deep throat without issue, go for it. It's an awesome skill that you unfortunately can't list on your résumé, so use it when you can. But you can also give a stellar blow job without the head of a penis provoking your gag reflex.
Actually, there's a whole wide world of oral sex positions out there beyond you kneeling in front of him. You can try 69, lying next to him, your head hanging off the bed, lying down while he kneels on top of you, and so much more.
For some women, getting face-to-face with a penis is more intimate than having PIV sex. And even if you're not one of them, you can definitely still get sexually transmitted infections from giving a blow job because you're exchanging bodily fluids (and you can also get STIs like herpes and HPV from skin-to-skin contact).
Great if it turns you on. But if it makes you feel weird, ask him to stop. Blow jobs should be good for both people, not just the one receiving them.
The world won't end because you experience a little teeth-penis contact. As long as you're not scraping them up and down his shaft throughout, it's probably not an issue. Depending on the guy, he might even like it! But definitely ask before doing it intentionally.
You could. Or you could trade off, so he goes down on you for a bit, then you continue giving him a blow job after. Or you could stop before he comes and have sex until he orgasms . Or you could break up intercourse with some bouts of oral sex. The end goal doesn't always have to be orgasm.
Cotton mouth happens. Luckily, flavored lube exists! Just be sure to use a type that's compatible with condoms if they're a part of your sex routine, and also check that it's safe for intercourse if you plan on doing that after.
So many factors can influence how much time it takes a guy to orgasm: when he most recently came, what he's thinking about, whether he's holding out because he wants it to last longer...
An uncircumcised penis is still sheathed in its foreskin, which covers the head. A circumcised penis no longer has a foreskin, so the head is exposed. That's the only difference—they're both still penises, and guys still like it when you touch them.
Yes, the two types sometimes require different kinds of stimulation, since uncircumcised penises often have more sensitive heads and there's more skin to play with. But if you're used to one kind of penis and encounter another, don't freak out. Just ask the guy what he likes! You have his penis in your hands. He probably won't mind if you ask exactly how he'd prefer for you to handle it.
If he's right on the brink of orgasm and you call a time out, yes, you'll probably have to put in some extra work to get him back to the point of no return. But if you feel like your jaw's seizing up, give it a rest. You can use your hands to keep the good feelings going.
You know that whole idea of how nothing's hotter than a woman who loves giving blow jobs so much, she can practically orgasm from them? False. Enthusiasm is always attractive, but you don't have to worship at the blow job altar to be attractive yourself.
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It’s one of the most intimate and private acts a couple can enjoy—which may be why there’s so much mystery and misinformation surrounding oral sex . And while indulging in this once-taboo sexual activity (it used to be a punishable offense in some states, amazingly) can be a healthy part of any romantic relationship, there are definitely some things to keep in mind.

“I talk about this with patients almost every day in my practice,” says Mary Rosser, MD, assistant professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Columbia University Medical College. “Of course, I’m usually the one who’s bringing it up. Not many women want to or think to ask about it.” That may be because oral sex still has kind of a risque reputation to it, even though it's a pretty standard part of a typical couple's sexual repertoire.

Here’s what she wants those women—and anyone engaging in or thinking about having oral sex—to know about the awesome benefits and potentially worrisome risks.

Surveys show that many people—including many young adults and teenagers who want to preserve their “technical virginity” —don’t consider oral sex to be the real thing. Maybe it's because oral isn't penetration in a traditional sense, or perhaps it's because the act can't lead to conception.

But doctors say that oral sex is still sex, especially because it carries many of the same risks as intercourse if it’s not done responsibly. “A lot of women focus on, ‘Well, I won’t get pregnant,” says Dr. Rosser. “But I say there’s another very serious issue with unprotected sex, whether it be vaginal or oral, and that is the transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. As doctors, we tell people that, in that sense, oral sex still counts.”

How many couples indulge in oral? Here's an idea: In a 2016 study in the Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality , approximately 900 heterosexual college students were surveyed about their most recent sexual encounter. More than two-thirds of those participants reported that oral sex was involved.

But which sex gives and gets the most is a bit of a buzzkill. Slightly more women than men (59% as opposed to 52%) reported giving oral sex to their partner. Unsurprisingly, more men than women (63% versus 44%) reported receiving oral sex. Men were also less likely to reciprocate after women went down on them, breaking a major rule of sexual etiquette: 26% of women and only 10% of men reported giving oral sex but not receiving it.

Some couples say that performing oral sex on each other helps them feel closer , says Dr. Rosser. But research suggests that people often engage in oral sex even if they don’t really like it, especially women. That 2016 Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality study, for example, also found that men were significantly more likely than women (52% versus 28%) to report that giving oral sex was “very pleasurable.”

“I tell my patients that yes, giving and receiving oral sex can strengthen certain relationships, but it can also put pressure on others and make them feel like they need to do this to make their partner happy,” says Dr. Rosser.

You probably already know this, and science backs it up. In one 2016 study , nearly 70% of women described receiving oral as "very pleasurable." This could be because of the direct clitoral stimulation oral offers. A third of women said that they need this kind of touching to reach climax, according to research published in the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy from 2017.

Although these sexually transmitted infections usually manifest in the genital area, they can also appear in the mouth and throat. “I have seen infections in which people think they have strep throat and they go to the student health center,” says Dr. Rosser. “When they test positive for chlamydia or gonorrhea, they have to come to me for treatment.” Curing either bacterial STI usually entails a course of antibiotics.

Herpes can also be transmitted from the genitals to the mouth and vice versa, says Dr. Rosser. “Traditionally, we thought that herpes type 1 caused oral outbreaks and herpes type 2 caused genital outbreaks, and that one stayed upstairs and one stayed downstairs,” she says. “But now we know that’s not true—you can get either kind in either place."

In 2016, a French woman became infected with the Zika virus not long after her male partner had returned from Brazil. Doctors determined that she probably got the virus—which is usually spread through mosquito bites—by performing oral sex on him.

The couple had participated in both vaginal and oral sex since the man’s Brazil trip, but he had only ejaculated during fellatio, doctors wrote in the New England Journal of Medicine . It’s possible that she could have been infected with the Zika virus from “pre-ejaculate secretions” or “deep kissing,” they wrote, but it’s more likely she got it from swallowing his semen.

Doctors used to think that human papillomavirus (HPV), the most common sexually transmitted infection in the United States, couldn’t affect the mouth. But recent research has them rethinking this notion. Scientists have now shown that the same high-risk strains of HPV that lead to cervical cancer can also be transmitted by oral sex and potentially cause head, neck, and throat cancer, as well.

Rates of HPV-related throat cancer are on the rise in men, especially those who smoke or have had five or more oral-sex partners, according to a 2017 study in the Annals of Oncology . The overall risk of developing an HPV-related cancer is still low—for both men and women. And most people who have HPV (even a high-risk strain) will not develop cancer. But if you have throat pain or notice strange symptoms that persist for more than two weeks, check in with a doctor.

Really, this happens. In a recent BMJ case report , dentists detailed how a patient who regularly performed oral sex on men developed a strange lesion on the roof of his mouth, due to “blunt trauma” during fellatio. The sucking motion associated with fellatio may have also played a role, the authors wrote, causing blood to pool and clot in this area.

Women should pay attention to how their vagina feels during and after oral sex, says Dr. Rosser, and make sure that it’s not being irritated by scratchy facial hair or a too-enthusiastic tongue, for example. Oral sex can also alter a woman’s natural pH , at least temporarily, but her body will usually self-regulate and bring things back to normal fairly quickly, before an infection can set in.

The key to making oral sex safe is to avoid mouth-to-genital contact and the transmission of any bodily fluids. Condoms, including flavored varieties, can be used to perform oral sex on men. For going down on women, thin sheets of latex called dental dams can be purchased online or in sex-toy stores. There's also the female condom, but like dental dams, these aren't as easy to come by as the male version.

If you don’t have a dental dam, use a DIY option. Plastic wrap can also do the trick, says Dr. Rosser. “You can even cut a condom open lengthwise and use that if you need to,” she adds.

The dentist’s chair may seem like the last place you should be getting quizzed about your sex life, but some doctors think that should change. In an article published in January 2018 in the Journal of the American Dental Association , a group of physicians argued that dentists are in a unique position to screen for and speak with their patients about HPV-related cancers and the risks of unprotected oral sex.

Knowledge about the link between HPV and throat cancer varied among dentists interviewed for the article; some reported already discussing the connection with their patients, and most reported conducting cancer screenings. But dentists should do more to create awareness and increase patients’ knowledge about HPV, the authors wrote—including providing information about vaccination and prevention practices.

If fellatio and/or cunnilingus become a regular part of your routine, either can seem ho hum after a while—just as any other sex act can get when it becomes your go-to pleasure move. Luckily there are many variations to cunnilingus
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