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Hello there! I’m the author of this gentle femdom blog. My name is Goddess Nikki Kit, and I have been practicing online female domination since 2017. I have a passion for long term orgasm denial, mental domination, and feminization. This Empire is more than just a hobby or a job for Me. This Empire is My passion, My lifestyle, and My nirvana.
I genuinely love what I do. I not only enjoy making clips and writing blog posts. Training subs over the long term is what truly satisfies My urges. I have a transformation fetish, and I love to make a boy transform into a better beta. Even if you never start training with Me, I hope that you find this blog beneficial.
While I may be a female supremacist, I do not believe boys are useless. Men can be useful as long as they embrace female supremacy and learn how to serve. It is a man who has not accepted this universal truth or undergone any training that is useless to a woman. A man who has not accepted female supremacy will be chaotic and bring negative energy to his Domme. You want to be a good submissive, don’t you?
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Ever wonder how cuckolds have sex in chastity?

Well, I am using the word "sex" here loosely as it's generally not sex in the traditional sense.

But just because you are locked in chastity doesn't mean you can't have a kinky and fun sex life. On the contrary, I think that's one of the reasons why chastity is so much fun for your relationship.

It really opens up your … [Read more...] about How Cuckolds Have Sex In Chastity
Being a good submissive isn't as simple as "doing whatever she says."

In a female led relationship (FLR), it is important to do your best to please and satisfy your partner/dominant.

As in life, it really is the "little things" that matter.

Things like your attitude/energy, behavior, etc. A lot of time and energy is needed to cultivate a true dom/sub … [Read more...] about Femdom Guidelines for Submissives: 9 Rules Of Serving Women
Have you ever wanted to make a naughty video for your partner? Maybe you were sexting in preparation for a big date night.

Maybe it was a short suggestive video or maybe it was a full blown sex tape.

But the idea of creating a "cuckold fantasy" with your partner and recording it all sounds pretty kinky, right?

After all, we live in the digital age!

Yeah...it's … [Read more...] about 8 Super Hot Cuckold Fantasy Videos To Create With Your Partner
September 24, 2021 By MyFemdomRules
Using chastity to train your husband/boyfriend is a great idea.

When you lock your partner in a steel cage, he will instantly become more submissive. And once he is in the cage, he won't be coming out until you decide so!

As a result, he will be much more likely to obey you (actually, he doesn't have much of a choice)!

That's why chastity is a useful tool to train your … [Read more...] about 8 Hot Chastity Training Ideas For Your Wife Led Marriage
Are you wondering how to become a sissy?

Well, this has been a highly requested blog post from many of my readers so I am very excited to finally get around to this.

And I'd also love to get some feedback and hopefully help some sissies on their journey!

Alright...so how do you become a sissy?

Well, the first step to becoming a sissy cuckold is your … [Read more...] about How To Become A Sissy: 10 Ways To Become A sissy Cuckold!
Looking for some sexy bondage ideas to spice things up in your female led relationship? Well, you have come to the right place!

This has been a long requested blog post by many of you, so I wanted to share some beginner BDSM ideas focusing on "predicament bondage."

Now, some of these ideas involve other fetishes and kinks like teasing/denial, cuckolding, and chastity - … [Read more...] about 9 Sexy Bondage Ideas For Your FLR: BDSM For Beginners
Should you be ashamed to be a cuckold?

I think it is an important topic that needs to be discussed in this part of the community.

After all, there is a big mainstream view that cuckolds are betas in every sense of the word and aren't "real men."

However, cuckolding is a complex fetish because it involves a lot of emotions like excitement, happiness, jealously, and even … [Read more...] about Should You Be Ashamed To Be A Cuckold?
Do you really want to drive your cuckold crazy?

Do you really want to tease, torment, and mind fuck him?

Well, you've come to the right place! As one of the leading sources of cuckold blog content on this dirty side of the web, we've got you covered!

One of the really fun parts of leading a cuckold marriage is driving your cuckold crazy (especially if you have him … [Read more...] about 12 Ways To Drive Your Cuckold Crazy
As a cuckold there's nothing like cuckold date night preparation. After all, there are just so many things to do on the big night!

Serving your wife and her lover on their date or romantic getaway is such a privilege! So, you obviously don't want to screw it up.

That's why I decided to create this list of cuckold date preparations.

It is basically a list of your … [Read more...] about Cuckold Date Preparation: 13 Ways To Serve Your Superiors
Looking for some great chastity punishment ideas for your slave?

Well, you've come to the right place! Now, even though chastity itself can be a punishment for your slave, sometimes you need something else to punish him with.

After all, if you just keep locking him in chastity for longer and longer, it kind of loses its creativity.

As a keyholder, you should have a fun … [Read more...] about 13 Cruel Chastity Punishment Ideas: Tease, Torment, & Deny Him
Looking for some fun spiked chastity cage ideas for teasing your slave?

Well, you've come to the right place!

Spiked chastity is a great way to tease, deny, and torment your husband/boyfriend/partner.

Now, before I start, I would say spiked chastity is not a good idea for long-term chastity.

A spiked chastity cage is meant for SHORT-TERM wear (i.e. a few hours at a … [Read more...] about 11 Spiked Chastity Cage Ideas For Teasing Your Slave
Is permanent chastity a thing?

Is permanent chastity possible?

For obvious reasons, the idea of permanent chastity is a BIG fantasy for a lot of submissive men.

After all, who wouldn't get hard at the thought of being locked up by your wife/girlfriend and never feel pussy again in your life?

Instant hardness just thinking about that!

However, in reality, … [Read more...] about Is Permanent Chastity Possible? Tips & Tricks You’ll Need!
Here are my latest (and hopefully best) chastity belt captions.

Hope you enjoy! And you better be wearing your cage while you're looking through all of these :)

P.S. check here to see all of my captions!

I'm sure you want to cum...

But guess what?

I lost your key!

So I can't even let you out even if I wanted to (which I don't)

When am I going to … [Read more...] about Chastity Belt Captions
This post will be a list of femdom related dirty talk ideas to say to your cuckold husband to really tease, humiliate, and mindfuck him.

After all, what good is your sex life without any dirty talk, right?

Talking dirty to your slave husband/boyfriend is a great way to kick off a kinky night. There's nothing like a little foreplay to get him nice and hard in chastity, … [Read more...] about Femdom Dirty Talk: How To Tease, Humiliate, and Mindfuck Your Partner
Does chastity lead to cuckolding?

I get this question in my inbox several times a week so I figured I would write a blog post about this!

The answer to this question can be a little tricky.

So I wanted to tackle the question by first answering why chastity CAN lead to cuckolding in your marriage.

But the short answer is, not necessarily. Cuckolding isn't something … [Read more...] about Does Chastity Lead To Cuckolding?
Interested in learning how to bring up cuckolding with your partner?

Well, it's a good thing you stumbled onto this blog post! Bringing up cuckolding with your partner (no matter if you're a man or woman) can be a really nerve-racking thing.

After all, it seems like such a weird request! But that doesn't mean your partner won't be interested.

After all, if you're in … [Read more...] about How To Bring Up Cuckolding With Your Partner: 8 Simple Ways
By popular demand I am releasing some of my "cuckold femdom quotes".

These are sayings I have posted over Twitter so be sure to follow me there to get more of these captions!

These femdom quotes are my opinions on how I would structure my FLR or cuckold marriage. But it isn't what everyone wants or needs.

As a result, I'd recommend taking these and adapting it to your … [Read more...] about Cuckold Femdom Quotes: FLR Rules To Live By!
Interested in trying some super hot cuckold wedding ring domination ideas?

Every since I wrote the blog post about cuckold wedding fantasies, people have been tasking me to write another one.

So that's where this one comes in!

This is going to be a post focused SOELY on your wedding rings - specifically how to involve them in your cuckold play.

Involving your … [Read more...] about 10 Cuckold Wedding Ring Ideas For Dominating Your Husband
Welcome to my new cuckold interview series!

Interviewing couples in the lifestyle is something I've wanted to do for a long time so this is something super exciting for the blog.

Anyways, the big goal of this new type of content is to:

1. Help people better understand the cuckold lifestyle - what it's really like, how it can be different among couples, how it's not … [Read more...] about Cuckold Interview With Roxy and Benjamin Dover
Hi everyone!

This is something I have wanted to do for a while so I am really excited to announce this.

For the longest time, I wanted to create a section on this blog where people could share their real life cuckold experiences.

I think it is a great way to build a stronger community and to also give new couples a little insight of what cuckolding is like for both … [Read more...] about Real Cuckold Experiences: Cuckold Stories From Readers
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I like the fact that kinky topics get covered on mainstream sites these days, but I do wonder about their sourcing. Often feels like one writer will pick on a random and somewhat obscure kink related trend, and then it’ll show up in a rash of articles like it’s the newest and hottest thing. The latest one seems to be the ‘Praise Kink’ – which has shown up here , here , here and many other sites. As far as I can tell it started life on TikTok before getting jammed into the internet’s content making sausage machine.
I’m all for praise as part of a scene. Always makes me glow to get a ‘Good Boy’ or a ‘Well Done’. But is that really a kink? Doesn’t (almost) everyone like getting praised? Particularly when it comes from a source you admire and respect. Humilation or degradation are clearly kinks, because most people aren’t wired to enjoy them. But saying nice things? It reminds me of the classic onion article – Area Man Has Naked Lady Fetish .
Maybe it’s a sign that people are starved of positive encouragement and compliments in their daily lives. Or maybe it’s a sign that content sites have an inexhaustible appetite for material to publish, particularly if it has got any kind of sexual edge.
Not sure of the source for this image, but he looks like he’s being a ‘Good Boy’.
I couldn’t do a series of posts on old femdom art without featuring the scenario that’s inspired more classical kinky artists than any other – Phyllis and Aristotle. If you don’t know what I’m talking about then check out this prior post from a few years back . The tale is sadly apocryphal, but artists can spot a believable excuse for kinky imagery when they see one. The example below is from the Swiss painter Joseph Heintz the Elder and dates back to the 16th Century.
Continuing the theme of old artwork that would work equally well as modern femdom shots, here’s something from 1807 by John Henry Fuseli . Created when Napoleon ruled France and Thomas Jefferson was the third President of the US, it’s a scene that’d look totally at home in modern femdom porn. There’s a bound naked man and a partially clad lady relaxing while admiring his suspended bits.
The full title is “Brunhilde Observing Gunther Whom She Has Tied to the Ceiling.” Clearly Mr. Fuseli was a believer in honest and descriptive titles. This inspiration for this is the Nibelungenlied , an epic poem from Germany written around 1200.
Here’s proof that there’s really nothing new in the world. This painting is called ‘The Pedicure’ and was created by Hermann Clementz in 1903 . Shoot the same scene as a photograph today and it’d fit perfectly into kinky femdom twitter. There’s an attractive scantily clad woman reclining in comfort while staring into the ‘camera’ with an attitude of superiority. There’s an older man paying close attention to her feet while she affects to ignore him. There’s even a cute dog lurking on her shoulder. It’s got every femdom twitter trope in play, 100 years before twitter was even a thing.
Amazingly this sold for just $5,400 last year. Clearly the auction marketing department didn’t do a good job here, as I’m sure there must be a few wealthy foot fetishists out there who would have loved to hang the original on their wall.
I think this is quite a clever shot. It looks to have been inspired by the bondage furniture of Allen Jones from the early 70’s and it does a good job of recapturing the vibe of that period. There’s even an Eames chair peeking in the side. It’s also surprisingly practical. There’s a small cushion to support his back and – unlike most forniphilia shots – the person using the furniture actually looks comfortable.
After much online hunting, I tracked the source for this down to a short 2020 film called ‘Bad Furniture’ by Randall Maxwell . It’s worth checking out .
I thought this article on the positive benefits of being scared was interesting and indirectly kink related. Admittedly, the fear inducing activities featured are things like roller coasters and haunted houses, rather than whips, bondage and ladies with a love for sharpy containers. However, a lot of the dynamics seem familiar.
The sympathetic nervous system handles the fight-or-flight response we experience during a threatening encounter, and the parasympathetic nervous system is responsible for the relief and sense of presence we feel after it has passed.
A play session can often feel like a roller coaster. There’s that fluttery nervousness as you inch towards the starting point. The flood of adrenaline as you lose control and drop into the moment. A sense that you just need to hang on and go with it. Then that happy blissful buzz as you come out alive and energized on the far side. Plus, there’s no need to queue for hours surrounded by screaming kids or pay a fortune for overpriced theme park soft drinks. Win-Win!
Personally I’m more of an adrenalin junky than a fear junky. But a little dose of danger and uncertainty can add a little zest to any scene.
Nothing scary happening here. Whimpering noises from the trunk is a well known fault on many big old American cars.
Captioning is of course from the endlessly inventive Servitor .
I’d not heard of them before, but apparently there’s something called the Sexual Freedom Awards . They’ve been around for years and honor ‘pioneers in sexuality, striptease artists, sexual service providers and their allies’. They’re particularly relevant to this site because their 2022 winner for Sex Worker of the Year was Mistress Eva Oh .
It’s seems a little odd to pick a single sex worker of the year from the hundreds of thousands of workers who are potential candidates. However, that said, Mistress Eva is certainly a worth recipient. She’s shared a lot of great content with the #teakink and safeword podcasts. She’s also widely written and been interviewed about sex work and kink , providing a positive representation to mainstream media.
I’ve never personally played with Mistress Eva . I suspect our respective styles would not mesh all that well. However, I have played with a number of dommes who know her, and all of have been uniformly gushing about her approach and attitude. So congratulations to Mistress Eva Oh on her award!
You can find Mistress Eva’s professional site here , her personal site here and her twitter here .
Moving on from yesterday’s picnic in the park to a walk in the forest. I like the simplicity of this shot. No heavy fetish gear. Just a cute sundress, a leash and a small crop for correction.
While I enjoy the idea of this kind of scene, I actually don’t like playing outside. I think that’s because it feels like an uncontrolled situation. Too many variables and unknowns that aren’t under the domme’s control. As you might guess from my kinks, I like rules and orders. I want to surrender to a domme knowing that she is fully in control of our environment and everything that happens to me. It’s hard to do that when random wildlife or passersby can suddenly inject themselves into the moment.
I’m afraid I don’t have an attribution for this image.
Continuing the outdoor theme with this striking image. It features Lucy Sweetkill , Lily Kasai and Amalia Valentine . I’m guessing their shiny doggie is be Pain Puppy .
It’s from a tweet promoting the return of Torture Garden in NYC on June 25th. Tickets available here . I doubt there’ll be an actual garden or a picnic involved, but spankings and floggings from these amazing dommes will be on the menu.
I thought I’d heard of most kinky dynamics but Ecofetish – as described by this article – is a new one to me. The couple featured in the article run Sacred Sadism , which ‘uses plant life as the inspira
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