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I have a weird problem that I’m sure you will think is just is just ridiculous. To cut to the chase, I’m in my second year of college and living in the dorms. I also happen to be gay.
This year, the powers that be decided to pair me up with a ridiculously hot jock who I’m 99% sure is straight. I mean, he hasn’t come out and said it but that’s just the vibe I get off him.
All he ever talks about are the girls he’s banged. Well, that and sports. What else am I supposed to think?
But here is the weird thing. On three separate occasions, we’ve gotten into wrestling matches. Each time, he’s popped wood. The last time it happened, I could feel his stiffy through his sweats.
When I pointed this out to him, he looked at me and said, “You know you want to suck it.” When I joked back and told him I would, he replied, “Go for it!”
Well, I obviously haven’t done it (yet). It’s not like I don’t want to because I totally do. But I’m afraid it could get weird afterward. Any thoughts?
It sounds like you are in a situation that a lot of guys who visit this blog can relate to. Well, either relate to or fantasize about.
I can imagine this whole thing has been difficult for you. From the sound of it, your roommate is the stuff of “lick and yum” as some folks like to say around here.
So, in reading your post, my sense is you are really attracted to him. Moreover, your roomie also appears to be attracted to you.
We know this because he’s getting an erection while wrestling with you. Well, that and because the guy all but told you to service him.
It doesn’t get any more direct than “go for it”, does it?
I couldn’t tell you if your roomie is [closeted] gay, bi or simply curious . At the end of the day, it’s kind of a moot point because he’s obviously interested.
The essential question for you is, should I sleep with him?
Here’s the thing Jimmy, there’s no right or wrong answer. Much depends on this guy’s emotional makeup and mental maturity. The truth is things could go either way, meaning bad or good.
If you look around this website, you’ll find all sorts of stories about things going splendidly with curious men. But you’ll also read about guys who would never “feed of the seed” of a “straight” roommate.
What may be helpful is to fast-forward your mental tape and play things out. In other words, based on your own experiences of your roomie thus far, how do you think he’ll act afterward?
If you aren’t sure, that could be an indication that maybe, hooking up with him isn’t a smart move. On the other hand, if you feel he’ll be cool with it, then why not enjoy?
Here are a few other things to consider as part of the dynamic. One, if you do go down on him, will he take this as a green light for more activities in the future? Will things escalate?
Additionally, what are your expectations here? In other words, do you want him to reciprocate? If yes, what if that’s not something he’s willing to do? Are you OK with merely giving him bro-jobs at his beckon call?
Finally, is there a part of you who has feelings for him? I’m not saying you do. Instead, I’m merely asking. The reason is that sometimes, gay men end up falling for guys who are emotionally unavailable.
This happens when we start crushing on men who can’t provide us with what we need (if that makes sense).
For what it is worth, I had something similar happen to me when I was in college. The guy who lived down the hall from me started showing interest.
Like your roommate, I figured him as straight. Later, I would find out that he was closeted and that all of his trash talking about the women he had f—– was a bunch of BS.
In my case, I did end up messing around with him. But it only happened once. The reason?
He didn’t want to reflect back what I was doing to him (AKA oral). And to me, that was just a deal breaker. Call me old school but I just think it’s only fair to want that. Maybe I’m wrong – who knows?
Anyway, Jimmy, I encourage you to carefully consider hooking up with your jock bunkmate. Make sure you’ve thought it all out and play that mental tape I mentioned earlier.
If you do end up draining his main and things are cool in the days that follow, that’s totally awesome. Now you’ll have a built-in f-buddy for the school year.
That’s kind of nice on cold winter nights, right?
On the flip side, should you decide against getting with him, don’t question your convictions. Most of the time, your inner voice is going to be right.
Need some dating help? Email Jack, the Gay Dating Coach at: askus@mensvariety.com
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With theater doors bolted shut for the next…foreseeable future, we’re thrilled to see some Broadway talent pop up in the pilot episode of Boy•Friends , a new comedy based off the My Gay Boyfriend web-series.
The show centers around two college roommates, one gay and one straight, and their “journey through college and into adulthood to become the homo-hetero power couple of the ages.” But not before one learns about the other’s soft spot for tentacles. You know, normal college stuff.
In the Boy•Friends universe, the jocks are the underdogs and the a cappella troupe are the popular kids, so you could almost place it in both the comedy and fantasy genres. We love a crossover.
The full pilot, directed by Darren Stein ( Jawbreaker, GBF ) will premier on the MGR YouTube channel on Sept. 29th and features an all-star Broadway cast including: Noam Ash, Jay Armstrong Johnson ( Quantico ), Mike Heslin, Isaiah Frizzelle, Jennifer Damiano ( Next To Normal ), Julia Murney ( Wicked ), Andy Mientus ( SMASH, The Flash ), Nicolas Wilson, and Kathryn Gallagher ( You on Netflix ).
Kinda looks like a gay baiting movie.
Cute-ish, but I’m not paying $4.99 to join MGR Youtube in order to watch it.
It’s a YouTube channel, there is no cost.
This looks bland, White-washed, and something that would have maybe existed in the early 2000s. The actors look a lot older than college students. Even if this was intentional, it doesn’t come off as humorous. The 2 Black supporting characters seem to only exist as the casting director’s shoddy attempt at racial inclusion. College today is way more diverse and dynamic than this.
This feels like a campy dream project from someone whose never went to college or got their proper college experience.
it’s based on a Broadway production, that’s the formula of any successful broadway show.
This looks AWFUL! For starters, Darren Stein’s work is so over-the-top (in a bad way) and littered with bad performances and ugly camera work. The guy just doesn’t have a feel for where to plant his lens. And then there’s the sea of bland whiteness with the one token black guy. Who approved this casting?! AVOID AVOID AVOID
With the equipment now readily available at a reasonable cost there is no longer any excuse for any production to look this amateurish and crappy. Bad writing and actors playing students who look more the age of what should be their teachers has nothing to do with budget, just delusion. We are no longer so starved for gay themed content that we’ll watch poorly made entertainment just cuz it has gay characters in it. This truly looks awful…
I’m going to watch it. It looks like fun. And I’d rather watch a rom com than some of the stuff on tv.
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Also, my 'straight' friend was single. Yours is not. You have to consider that you just enabled him to cheat on his girlfriend. Not a good situation to put yourself in.
Forget what happened. Put it out of your mind. He was insanely drunk. Even accounting for the fact that he might remember some of what happened, it doesn't mean he's bisexual, secretly gay, or that you're his magical "exception." He was drunk out of his mind. He might not have even realized (or fully acknowledged) that he was fooling around with you.
Don't even let yourself entertain the notion of a relationship. For that to even be possible he has to do two things. First, he has to come out to you as either gay or bisexual. Second, he has to leave his girlfriend. For there to be any hope - any hope whatsoever - he has to do both of those things first. The likelihood of him doing even one of those things is next to zero, and if one does happen it is likely that his girlfriend dumps him because he slept with you.
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It sounds like you're on the right track. I've seen other gay guys that fell for a straight guy (typically a friend) and wanted to delude themselves into believing that a relationship was possible. I did it once, years ago, and it was a major mistake. It never ends well. Never.
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