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Master requested I make a list of punishments and rewards. This is always challenging for me because there is a fine line between punishment and erotic stimulation.
During punishments it is important for Master to ensure I understand I am being punished and that he express his disappointment in me. It also helps if I am made to explain or retell what I did wrong, as I hate to verbalize my mistakes. If we are in the middle of a session and he is training me, then I think that is a different situation from punishment. That is just corrective training and it may be a quick smack to let me know I am not pleasing you in the moment.
Many of my punishment ideas may be used as part of our normal sessions or during a marking session but I believe if I know I am being punished, and you increase the intensity to an uncomfortable level, they will work for punishment as well. As for true punishment, there is a certain build up of anticipation for the punishment session which I admit I enjoy. It gives me a rush of dread and worry that I can’t explain. Here is a list of ideas I have for my punishments:
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Any ideas for rewards in a BDSM relationship? We're currently looking for more ideas that would be romantic or sexual in nature. We've got a few but any ideas you'd be willing to share would be greatly appreciated.

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Any ideas for rewards in a BDSM relationship? We're currently looking for more ideas that would be romantic or sexual in nature. We've got a few but any ideas you'd be willing to share would be greatly appreciated.

What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a reward to some, may not be so great to another. Ultimately I would say communicating about what may be a reward with your partner would be the best route. Or if you pay enough attention there has to be some things that your partner either likes that you don't do often which could possibly be rewards. Hope this helps.

What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a
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What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a reward to some, may not be so great to another. Ultimately I would say communicating about what may be a reward with your partner would be the best route. Or if you pay enough attention there has to be some things that your partner either likes that you don't do often which could possibly be rewards. Hope this helps.

What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a
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What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a reward to some, may not be so great to another. Ultimately I would say communicating about what may be a reward with your partner would be the best route. Or if you pay enough attention there has to be some things that your partner either likes that you don't do often which could possibly be rewards. Hope this helps.

Any ideas for rewards in a BDSM relationship? We're currently looking for more ideas that would be romantic or sexual in nature. We've got a few but any ideas you'd be willing to share would be greatly appreciated.

Any ideas on what to include in it OH?

The punishment: no sex for one week. The reward: sex at least once a day for a whole week.

Ummm Ok, I'll spill some beans. Punishment: Person gets tied up so as to def not be able to get loose and has to watch the other pleasure her/himself royally. Should last over an hour. Some good sound effects should be
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Ummm Ok, I'll spill some beans. Punishment: Person gets tied up so as to def not be able to get loose and has to watch the other pleasure her/himself royally. Should last over an hour. Some good sound effects should be included. That could be a reward or punishment. Lvs, will that go in the box ?

Any ideas on what to include in it OH?

Mmmn, don't forget about the vibrating plugs as well. They must be used in a public setting...

How bout Oral for X minutes and no orgasm allowed? That could be either a Reward or Punishment.

Ummm Ok, I'll spill some beans. Punishment: Person gets tied up so as to def not be able to get loose and has to watch the other pleasure her/himself royally. Should last over an hour. Some good sound effects should be
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Ummm Ok, I'll spill some beans. Punishment: Person gets tied up so as to def not be able to get loose and has to watch the other pleasure her/himself royally. Should last over an hour. Some good sound effects should be included. That could be a reward or punishment. Lvs, will that go in the box ?

And I'm sure there should be some" spanking" slips in your box. Some with how many love taps, to which part of body and what type of instrument or with bare hand. Also I would think you would definitely want some plug play
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And I'm sure there should be some" spanking" slips in your box. Some with how many love taps, to which part of body and what type of instrument or with bare hand. Also I would think you would definitely want some plug play included. Slips can say how long person is to wear it, in public, private and which types. Including parading bare in the house with wagging tails or gems. Lvs, I'm sure you already have these in our box. Right ? Can you share some of your favs ? I'm aware you have quite the arsenal.

Mmmn, don't forget about the vibrating plugs as well. They must be used in a public setting... How bout Oral for X minutes and no orgasm allowed? That could be either a Reward or Punishment.

Interesting ideas so far, keep them coming. Thanks!

Interesting ideas so far, keep them coming. Thanks!

I don't actually like having oral performed on me. I've had a few boyfriends try it but I don't like it.

Besides some of the items you already have reviewed and mentioned here and there, do the two of you use dils and/or harnesses ?If so then members may give you suggestions on those.

Besides some of the items you already have reviewed and mentioned here and there, do the two of you use dils and/or harnesses ?If so then members may give you suggestions on those.

It might be a Reward for him, if you so choose. It's just a thought...

I don't actually like having oral performed on me. I've had a few boyfriends try it but I don't like it.

Well, there you go. For your punishment slip, you get tied up and he performs oral on you for 30 mins. As a reward, he gets tied up and you perform on him. Or for his punishment, he gets tied up and u perform but do not allow him to
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Well, there you go. For your punishment slip, you get tied up and he performs oral on you for 30 mins. As a reward, he gets tied up and you perform on him. Or for his punishment, he gets tied up and u perform but do not allow him to O. Stop and squeeze tight !

Any special ways to touch each other?

You know, the worst punishment is to be tied up and tickled ! Talk about torture !

There are a few ideas in this tread currently, but I'm still looking for more if anyone has any. Thanks!

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