opinions

i want to love and be loved like a dog, unconditionally, needily, sloppily, playfully

i don't believe in gods or an order to the universe besides science

i want to carve out a corner of the universe to purge the chaos from and make my own

i believe that defining ourselves out of the chaos and meaninglessness is what the goal of life should be

i believe that people are the sum of their actions, not intents

i believe that all forms of organized religion are the archaic remains of systems used to control societies and oppress people

i believe that all forms of religion attempt to give meaning and direction to protect societies and uplift people

i believe that sex is extremely important in our lives, and should be celebrated and treated seriously and not seen or used worthlessly

i think our culture commodifies sex and that's a net negative

i don't know if i love my parents

i don't know if my parents love each other

i like getting breakfast with people more than dinner

i hate eating alone because it reminds me of high school and covid

i don't really enjoy the process of eating but i do it to survive, to get bigger, because it sometimes tastes good, and because i'm proud when i cook well

i hate how prevalent sugar is in everything and how addicted to it i am

if i don't exercise, i eat less because i don't need the calories

i don't like people that don't see the value in exercise or can't appreciate the work that goes into being strong or fast

i get annoyed when women get tired while on top, not because i enjoy being on bottom, but because i feel like i'm putting in way more work than them to make the sex good

i think i'm good at sex because i ask a lot of questions and pay attention and try hard

i only like receiving oral sex as a way of feeling like i'm in control and i'm powerful, the sensation has never been amazing

i sometimes hurt my partner during sex because i get carried away and bruise their cervix and i feel guilty for enjoying that

i like falling asleep next to someone, but not in their arms because i get too hot and my arm goes numb

i think that going grocery shopping with someone is a good way to get to know them because you get to see what they consume, what their system is for shopping, and how they react to you watching them

i want other people to hurt the way i do sometimes

i believe that no one will ever truly know another, as we are all seeing the shadows of other people on the walls of the cave our consciousness inhabits

i believe that like the atoms that make up molecules, the cells that make up organisms, and the neurons that make a mind, the human race can be viewed as essentially one entity, perhaps the most complex organism ever made

i don't want to be degraded or to degrade others sexually, but i want to be controlled and control others, to tell and be told what to do

i like making people laugh because its a way that i can feel valuable, liked, and in control

i like making people cum because its a way that i can feel valuable, liked, and in control

i think that anxiety, adhd, autism, and trauma are overdiagnosed, and the normalization of these conditions marginalize them and lead people to excuse their shitty behaviour by hiding behind labels.

i hate the phrase "everything happens for a reason". i think that this leads people to believe the universe wanted them to get cancer or miscarry. i think that we can find a reason for anything because humans are clever, but i think that its more important to find a way to turn everything into something we can use to move forward.

i hate that alcohol is the de facto social lubricant even though it is addictive, causes cancer, can easily hospitalize you, inhibits muscle growth and promotes weight gain, and just doesn't taste good on its own

i believe that weed is only illegal because of comically villainous racism, and that it should be legalized to the point that alcohol is

i like weed because it makes me feel good, whereas alcohol doesn't always do that

i think that weed can be harmful in high and regular doses, and that stoners downplay the effects it has on memory and sleep cycles

i think that lsd and mushrooms should be legalized as a prescription drug because while it produces profound and valuable experiences, i recognize the harm it could cause if taken without a psyc eval or supervision

i am in therapy because i've been depressed for a long time, and i'm finally asking for help so that i can succeed in life instead of failing on my own terms

i am very distrusting of people who use therapy words in casual conversation because it is like a layperson using scientific jargon to justify why their opinion is correct.

i think therapizing every emotion or thought leads to reducing their significance and allows people to dismiss other's emotions.

i think that cultural appropriation is a concept invented by guilty white people and minorities that want to feel some kind of power, and that cultural acceptance and integration comes from sharing identity

i think that its weird how white people can make fun of europeans and russians and their accents but not japanese, korean, or chinese people, considering how places like the balkans or romania are far worse off economically than any of the asian economic powerhouses

i think that european and asian countries are far more casually racist than america

i think that transgenderism and nonbinary genders are fundamentally philosophically opposed to one another, as transgenderism enforces a binary and the idea that femininity/masculinity is tied to gender and nonbinary-ism does away with the roles of gender entirely.

i think that both transgenderism and nonbinary-ism are in most cases (not all) symptoms of people who feel othered by society and need a way to drastically differentiate themselves so that they can discover their identity

i think the sudden uptick in transgenderism and nonbinary-ism in the past few years is indicative of it being a social contagion, but it is impossible to concretely conclude that.

i think that transgenderism clashes with the idea that you can have traits outside of your gender's stereotypes

i think that nonbinary-ism clashes with the ideas of societal norms which help us find our place in the world by interacting with them

i think gay people are pretty cool sometimes and live a very difficult and confusing life, and that there's nothing wrong with them

i'm attracted to femininity, so i find some twinks cute, but i would never act on this because there's a deep part of me that wants me to remain uncomplicated and be able to say that i'm just straight

i hate that i have this many opinions on transgenderism and nonbinary-ism because it indicates that the media really wants me to pay attention to that instead of more important things like actual politics

i think that people are more separated by class than by race, but they are also separated by culture

i wish we didn't have so much inter-connectivity throughout the internet because it allows us to sit at home and feel like we are being socially productive when we aren't

i hate how people will let a 60 second clip served to them by an blind, unfeeling algorithm affect their opinions more than a book or a conversation

i hate how the internet allowed for such niche interests and subcultures to flourish and make people so complicated and self-important

i think that the internet has and continues to rob children of their innocence and i hate that you sound like a crazy person for wanting to turn it all off

i listened to music constantly while growing up and felt that my taste was different from others

i still think that my music taste is different from most others, but its not as niche as a thought

i think that constantly listening to music might be bad for you in the way that constantly watching tv is

i hate people that derive their personality from being niche and then gatekeep it

i hate people that build their personalities with the vapid sitcoms and shallow games they consume

i like people that build their personalities with the movies, books, or music they consume

i think that the world of the 90s might have been the peak of culture, and i have absolutely no way to back this up or justify it other than the fact that a lot of my favorite movies are from the 90s

i hate professional wrestling for its fakeness and overwhelming machismo

i hate drag shows for their fakeness and overwhelming effeminacy

i want to build a family but i feel guilty about bringing children into a world that i enjoy so little and seems like its only going to get worse, what with the shrinking of the middle class, climate change, inflation, the internet, and the solidification of power dynamics in the world

i think that we need stricter restrictions on guns, but i think they're really fun

i could never own a gun because the opportunity to kill myself would be too easy

i hate the two party system

i would've voted for Bernie, not because i agree with every policy, but because he seemed sincere about his beliefs and crazy enough to hold onto them after being elected

i think that men are women are fundamentally different, and part of the beauty of a heterosexual relationship is bridging this divide

i think that men and women have a hard time being friends, because sex usually gets in the way

i think that men tend to be more stable, violent, and system-oriented

i think that women tend to be more socially manipulative, altruistic, and emotionally intelligent

i think that women forget how lonely it is to be a man, to be only valued for what they can do and to be more emotionally isolated than women

i think that men forget how lonely it is to be a woman, to be only valued for their sex appeal and to be physically weaker and taken less seriously than men

i think that silence is valuable

i think that loneliness is harmful

i think that all we have is each other

i'm scared of connecting to other people because i worry that i'm unlikable a lot of the time and i don't want to be hurt or manipulated

i think that the concept of self-love is misinterpreted by many people as loving yourself for who you are, but i think it should be loving yourself for doing things that you're proud of

i hate fancy graphics that come at the cost of performance or usability or simplicity, whether it's in website or game design

i am a minimalist, not aesthetically, but in the sense that i hate owning more than i have to

i hate having hair, and if i looked decent bald or if it was normalized, i would shave every part of my body

i love having sex because it makes me feel wanted and sexy and it feels good to do the thing that i think and daydream about so much

i feel guilty and weird about being so sex-crazed

i think i use sex and masturbation sometimes as a coping mechanism for depression

i hate the men that make the porn industry financially viable. if someone has spent money on porn, they are pathetic to me

i think that porn is the most addictive drug because it is available instantly, culturally normalized, and it taps into a part of the brain that is more integral to human intimacy and procreation than any other drug

i think that porn is horrible for our minds because it creates a false sense of intimacy and creates strange fetishes and unrealistic expectations

i think that cheap romance movies and novels are horrible for our minds because they create a false sense of intimacy and creates strange standards and unrealistic expectations

i believe that most of the unhappiness in the world is caused by the two separate and contradictory needs of human beings to both feel like an individual and also part of a community

i've felt isolated from people for most of my life, and i crave their approval and attention because it feels good to fit in and be liked

i hate consumerism but i love money because it represents pure value and liquid liberty

i hate how much i hate, and i realize that i would be happier if i found more things to love

i don't like telling people i love them because that's how i end conversations with my parents, and it also feels like manipulation