Young Swingers Week

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Ellen Scott and Chris RickettMonday 5 Nov 2018 11:51 am
Oh, hey. We’re Ellen and Chris, two classic Brits uncomfortable being naked and talking openly about sex stuff.
So when we were offered a holiday to Hedonism II, ‘the sexiest place on earth’, ‘an all-inclusive paradise’, and an ‘iconic adult playground’, we had to say yes.
Hedonism II is, essentially, a sex resort. There are nude beaches, classes on fetishes, and necklaces that declare your sexual interests to other guests.
While we’ve been here, we’ve been writing daily diary posts about what it’s like at Hedonism II’s Young Swingers Week.
It’s our final day at Hedonism II, and I decide to end the trip with more traditional holiday activities.
No, thank you, we will not join the game of naked Twister in the sand. I’ll skip getting a whipped cream bikini that Chris can clear with his mouth in front of cheering swingers.
Instead it’s time for a couples’ massage, lounging by the sea, and finally enjoying the highly praised Japanese restaurant for dinner.
Our plans for a reflective final dinner are derailed when we’re move to a group table packed with Playful Pussycats – a large squad of swingers who’ve organised a trip out to Hedo together.
They’ve been pitted against the Young Swingers all week, in twerking competitions, costume judgements, and challenges of who can party the hardest.
But these pussycats welcome us in with open arms, cat ear headbands, and tequila shots.
We dunk tempura shrimp in a spicy sauce as a woman tells us how her husband loves to see her having sex with other men.
We ponder whether to go for the matcha cheesecake or the deep fried ice cream as a corseted woman with bunny ears and a fluffy tail sits on the lap of someone who definitely isn’t her partner, chatting to the guy’s wife in between shimmying her breasts in his face and putting her lips to his.
If all of this sounds seedy and thoroughly debauched, you’ve got the wrong idea.
These are people who are clearly deeply in love. They share the contentment of long-married couples (which most of them are) with the giggles and physical intimacy of twenty-somethings who matched on Tinder two months ago and haven’t looked back.
It might be my repressed British upbringing, but I’m entirely unused to seeing such open displays of longterm love. There are no chaste kisses or snarky comments to cover up genuine emotion.
The couples here are warm and open. They talk about each other with the highest level of respect and admiration, but chat about the challenges of their relationship and their sex lives with a candour that shocks me.
I’ve never met people who speak so honestly about love and its challenges.
These are couples challenging any idea of throwaway culture. When troubles arose and sex drives died down, they didn’t just chuck the relationship away. They didn’t decide that all the other bits of their relationship were pointless if monogamy wasn’t cutting it.
They changed the rules, they tried something against all common advice, they did something scary and pushed through all the natural feelings of fear and jealousy and guilt.
They came out stronger, more in love, and sharing a life filled with fun and genuine joy.
Every couple tells us that if either of them decided that actually, this isn’t for them, they’d stop immediately – no more trips to hedo, no more swinging.
Some couples won’t have penetrative sex outside their marriage, while others describe swinging as ‘using human sex toys’.
There are no defined one-size-fits-all rules for swinging, because the guidelines are personal and always open to change when needed. These couples have communication skills that would blow the minds of any couples’ counsellor, and a level of trust that’s incredible.
I’m not coming out of this experience ready to join swinging sites (although Chris did win a year’s premium membership), find people I fancy, and start hooking up with randoms every weekend. I hope it’s not vanilla to say that I still don’t find the idea of having sex with anyone apart from Chris particularly appealing.
But my mind’s been opened. I’m inspired not to throw out the rulebook, but keep it open and have a pen in hand.
If you find someone you adore, who you want to make a life with, but you also find you want to have sex with other people, it doesn’t make much sense to me to just end the relationship. I don’t see why we have to expect that the ‘right person’ will get rid of any attraction to other people.
If a time comes that sex with another person is something I’m curious about, it’ll be time to talk to my partner, not ditch them and run.
If in twenty years time I’m half as happy and loved up as a couple in the Playful Pussycats, splitting a cheesecake and adjusting each other’s fetish gear, I’m doing something right.
I splash my face with ice cool water and look at myself in the reflection of a bathroom mirror. It’s definitely me looking back, but also not me somehow. I softly repeat my mantra and head back out into the fray.
It’s toga night and there’s a foam party to round off the last evening of entertainment for Young Swingers Week.
I know, from checking, that there are no spare bedsheets provided in rooms, so I have no doubt whatsoever in my mind that ultraviolet light would reveal some goings on for costumed guests tonight – cocooned and neatly packaged in their own love juices.
Maybe a prior Chris would’ve taken more issue, more shock or disbelief, at this.
It’s the highest frequency of unwanted erections in a given week since I binge watched the first season of Orange Is The New Black in a half term.
(My usual tactic is to do long division, something I’ve always been bad at, in my head. But this trip has made me weirdly proficient at it.)
It’s also the highest frequency of openly in-love couples, of every age bracket, that I’ve ever seen in a given week. Passionately making out with each other in hammocks, and holding hands together to watch the sunset.
We spend our last night as honorary Playful Pussycats, or ‘future Pussycats’, with five older couples.
Whether they’ve wound up here for companionship, or to watch their partner ‘blossom into a more confident and secure human being’, one thing is for certain; the swinging lifestyle has brought them closer together as wives, husbands, and friends.
‘It’s like building a house – you need a strong foundation to begin with’ says John, on his second annual getaway to Hedo, ‘I didn’t think it was possible to love my wife any more, but here I am’.
It’s this meeting around a Japanese Teppanyaki grill table that makes everything click in place for me.
Our YSW hosts described couples who arrive together at Hedo and then next see each other at checkout. But my view and experience of the lifestyle and what it can mean is much more intimate than that.
Swinging isn’t a hall pass to cheat.
It shouldn’t be born out of selfish reasons or personal lust.
It should be for the benefit of your relationship.
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It should be for the benefit of your partner.
You can live in this sexual Disneyland and make your way through the kingdom in willing hard swaps, soft swaps and solo play.
But when you leave, you exit those gates with the person you came in with.
It’s swinging if you leave in a stronger position than which you came.
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I’m standing in a pool in Jamaica butt naked and surrounded by a crowd of nearly a hundred people in their birthday suits just like me. “Who wants a shot!?” I hear someone yell. Out of the corner of my eye I see a woman get on top of a tabletop in the water and a line begins to form behind her. Where the heck am I and how did I come to spend a week at a clothing optional hotel in Jamaica for an event called Young Swingers Week (YSW)?
“Is this your first time here,” a young Jamaican woman asks as I approach the check-in desk. Nervously, I nod my head yes. “Welcome to Hedonism II! You’re a virgin!”
It’s my first time traveling to the clothing-optional Hedonism II resort located on Jamaica’s west coast about 1.5 hours from Montego Bay airport and 5 miles north of Negril. After handing me my room key I anxiously walk across the main lobby toward the YSW tables. What am I about to get myself into? I’ve only been to two nude beaches in my life, both of which were secluded and basically empty. I’m stepping outside of my comfort zone, but as nervous as I am, I’m filled with excitement.
“Welcome to Young Swingers Week,” says the woman behind the table. After a quick exchange, she asks my name and what color necklace I want to wear. Everyone who is a part of YSW wears colored necklaces as name tags that also identifies what they’re into. “I’ll take a red necklace,” I reply indicating that I’m comfortable swinging with others.
As the woman uses craft-like black and white lettered beads to spell my name I learn she and her husband actually created Young Swingers Week. She talks about how people typically associate swingers with negative societal stigma and being old. She and her husband were active members in the “lifestyle” and saw the need to create a space where couples in their 20s, 30s and 40s could escape to an accepting environment to meet similar couples. Being a journalist, I was allowed to attend as a solo male which otherwise would not have been allowed—couples only.
After the red necklace is around my neck I’m handed a lanyard that has an attached schedule for the week. The schedule is broken down by day and includes activities such as seminars led by Playboy Radio’s Holli and Michael on topics like Swinging 101, Couples Speed Dating and Playroom Etiquette. There are organized activities including naked yoga, pole dancing and bikini contests. Every day there’s a pool party and every night has a different dress-up theme including naughty school girl/boy, fetish, toga and rave. The entire week is extremely organized and designed to offer couples educational opportunities and mostly organized fun.
Hedonism II, which hosts the event annually, is known as a steamy getaway any time of year. The resort is self-described as a lifestyle-friendly, clothing-optional beach resort, and is made up of 280 rooms and suites, six restaurants, six bars, three pools, two beaches, a gym and spa facilities. The property as a whole is well maintained and very clean. Some rooms, like mine, are newly renovated with modern amenities like a glass-walled bathroom and shower while others are somewhat dated with a retro Miami motel vibe. All rooms have mirrors on the ceilings and A/C units. Restaurants include a mix of Jamaican-style buffets, outdoor grills, a Japanese Benihana-like restaurant, a chophouse and Italian cuisine. An all-inclusive resort, there’s pretty much an open bar within walking distance from anywhere for easy access to booze. As a whole, the resort facilities fall somewhere between a mix of both modern and older facilities. Hedo II isn’t a 5-star resort; visitors travel here for the experience.
The most interesting thing I learn about the Hedo II setup is that there are two sections, a “prude” and “nude” side. The prude side—the majority of the resort—includes two pools, a beach, the main dining facilities and rooms. Here, patrons can choose to wear clothing or be naked. Most of the time guests on the prude side are partially, if not fully clothed. Many people have asked me, “Is everyone naked all the time?!” The answer is, no. On the nude side, there’s a beach and pool with a swim-up bar, grill and rooms. Nude-side resort goers must be naked and it’s actually enforced by security guards (who also protect privacy by prohibiting phones and cameras).
During my tour, I ask what the resort looks like when it’s not YSW. I learn that throughout the year there are numerous groups that use Hedo II for their events and vacations. There are weeks designated for “Women and Men At Large,” LGBT groups, “Wild Women Vacations,” tantra groups and more. Hedo II welcomes groups that are sex positive and offers all types of travelers an opportunity to explore themselves, their bodies and fantasies.
Over my first two days at Young Swingers Week I fall into a routine. I go to the gym in the morning, eat breakfast, attend lectures, mingle with fellow swingers, soak up some sun at the nude beach, party at the nude pool and go out in my theme attire for the night (which are given in advance for packing purposes). I find myself somewhat of an “expendable third wheel.” As an outgoing person, I have no problem making friends, but there’s a clear difference between being a single male versus being a single woman in the swinger community. Most swinging couples are generally looking for other couples or single women to play with, not single men. As I go to sleep on nights one and two, I’m disappointed I haven’t made any physical connections.
So here I am, in the naked pool on day three. After taking my first ever booty shot, I head to the bar, order a drink and walk with a group of new friends to the hot tub on the opposite end.
After hanging for nearly 15 minutes, my eyes scan the surrounding area and then I see them. Immediately I know—that’s the couple. I watch an athletic pair apply sunscreen to each other and head to the bar in the naked pool. I keep an eye on them, leave the hot tub, order a drink from the bar and look for my in.
“So what’s your tattoo?” I ask. He gives me an answer and I toss out a joke. I introduce myself and we engage in some small talk while I notice their red necklaces. I learn that they’re in their late 30s and have been together since their early 20s. After a decade of monogamy, they decided to try swinging and have been active in the lifestyle ever since. I get right to the point. “So what are you guys into?” Couples, single women and single men they reply. Jackpot!
As the three of us continue to talk it feels natural and right. Conversation flows with ease and there’s an unspoken attraction. After a few more drinks, I invite the couple back to my room (having a personal hot tub in a renovated room is high currency at Hedo). As for what happens next, I’ll leave that up to your imagination.
Dinner rolls around and I head to the disco with friends for “Rave Night” where we dance to EDM/House music. A half hour later I see my couple. We say hello, mingle and I ask them, “Have you been to the playroom yet?” They respond, “No. Do you want to come with us?”
As a single male, the only way I can get into the playroom is if a couple brings me as their guest. The three of us walk in, disrobe and scope out the scene.
There are two main sections. First, there is a large open air space that during the day serves as the spa facilities which includes lounging areas and hot tubs, but after 10:30pm there are large mattresses on the floor for couples to use. The other area acts more like a 50 Shades of Grey “Red Room” where the walls are literally painted red. There are ropes, cages, a shower, beds and toys. Both rooms are packed tonight. The three of us find an empty area in the spa-side facilities that has a lounge chair and a 3-sided glass wall that feels like viewing windows for us to put on a show…which we do.
Waking up on my last day, I pinch myself. Was it all a dream? As I sit in the front lobby with my suitcase waiting to be shuttled to the airport I’m grinning ear to ear.
The Hedo II (and Young Swingers Week) experience is about so much more than sex. It’s about being accepted for who you are without judgement and having the freedom to explore your fantasies. During my entire stay I am surrounded by open-minded, warm and welcoming strangers who make me feel like I belong. I meet people that were like me and we became fast friends. Regardless of everyone’s story, race, appearance or sexual orientation, YSW at Hedo II offers a place where we feel accepted for who we are. And that is the naked truth.
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That’s it? That’s the whole story? The entire article? Hell, the underwear section of the Spiegel’s catalog is more exciting than this crap!
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