Women Eating Out Pussy
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Women Eating Out Pussy
By
Shaun Galanos ,
October 26th 2017
In which we discuss the real reality of eating pussy.
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A lot of guys are terrible at eating pussy.
After going down on them, they say,
“Wow. OK. Most men have no idea what they’re doing. That was refreshing”.
Not all the time of course. But often enough to know it’s a problem.
Either because they don’t like doing it, or they have no idea what they’re doing.
Don’t despair gentlemen (and women who want to get better at eating pussy) read on to find out how to upgrade your pussy eating skills in five simple ways.
I do. I’ve eaten a lot of pussy over the years.
It sounds vulgar when you put it that way, but it is what it is. Why pretend like I don’t love going down on women?
If you’ve been sexually active for 20 years, there’s a good chance you’ve either eaten a lot of pussy or sucked a lot of dick .
Hopefully, you’re good at it by now. Some of you are, more of you aren’t.
I can count on one hand the times when I haven’t gone down on my partner before having intercourse with her.
That’s great for my lovers because women love oral sex. They do. They go nuts for great oral sex.
But bad oral sex? No one likes bad oral sex.
Someone once said that sex is like pizza. Even bad pizza is good and the same goes for sex.
Ain’t nobody got time for bad pizza or bad sex. That includes bad oral sex.
At best it’s just meh, and at worst it can hurt and completely ruin the moment.
No thanks. That’s a hard pass for me.
Eating pussy is the most efficient way I’ve found to make a woman orgasm .
It’s pretty much a universal truth. Look it up.
Women reach orgasm quicker and more often from oral sex than from penetrative sex.
Most women can’t orgasm from penetration alone. There has to be some clitoral stimulation either before or during penetration for an orgasm to happen.
I like it when my partners’ orgasm.
I try to make sure they orgasm before I orgasm.
When men ejaculate, their desire to continue having sex decreases significantly. The same applies to me, so if my partner wants to orgasm, you know I’ll be eating her pussy first.
Keep in mind; this isn’t a step by step guide.
That’s coming soon, and you’re not going to want to miss it.
In the meantime, enjoy these five steps to making you better at eating pussy.
That means foreplay and lots of it.
It turns me on and cranks my partner’s arousal up significantly.
It’s a win-win because women rarely get enough foreplay. Men tend just to stick it in and forget all about the foreplay. I’m not saying there isn’t a time and a place for a quickie, but those moments are few and far between.
Take time exploring your partner’s body.
Her back, her thighs, the back of her knees, the nape of her neck.
Try to lick and kiss every part of her body.
Try to stay away from the pussy as much as possible. You can graze her outer lips or brush up against her bush, but under no circumstance are you to touch her pussy for at least 20 minutes.
It’s a great way to get her riled up and to remind you to concentrate on other parts of her body.
Her pussy isn’t the only erogenous zone. Find five areas that drive your partner wild, and remember them for next time.
The slower you go, the crazier she’ll get.
Once she’s writhing and thrusting her pussy at you, that’s a great indicator that she’s dying for you to lick her.
Women take longer to reach a peak state of arousal than men do.
If you care about your partner’s pleasure, and you know that most women can’t reach orgasm through penetration alone (no matter how awesome you think your dick is) that means settling in for more than five minutes of eating pussy.
Set yourself up for success and get cozy as fuck.
You don’t want to be scrunched up on all fours, or halfway falling off the bed.
Ask your partner to scoot up on the bed and to orient herself on a diagonal so that you can cozy up between her legs without falling off the bed.
The more comfortable you are, the better off you’ll be.
Not sure how to tell if what you’re doing is working? Curious if your partner is getting turned on? Wondering if they’re getting close to orgasm ?
Pay attention to your partner because she’s most likely giving you all the information you need to know.
Pay close attention to how she moves her body.
Is she subtly rotating her hips with your timing?
Is she thrusting into your mouth to meet your tongue? Is her skin is getting flushed?
Can you see moisture dripping from her pussy?
Is she grabbing your head and holding it to her pussy and yelling “DON’T STOP.”
Great work. Keep it up, and you just might make your partner an incredibly happy woman.
Whenever you do something different, whether it’s increasing the tempo, pressure, direction, or adding some stimulation (playing with her nipples, inserting fingers into her vagina, putting pressure on her mons pubis) it’s important to notice whether this change has a positive effect on her arousal.
Did she pull away slightly when you increased the pressure of your tongue on her clitoris?
Did she stop moaning when you changed from putting constant pressure on her g-spot to sliding your fingers in and out?
Did she say “don’t do that” when you tried to slide your finger in her anus without asking her permission?
These are all possible signs (except that last one, that’s a definite sign) that whatever you’re doing doesn’t feel great.
Pay attention. Look at her face. Look at her chest. Pay attention to her breathing. Listen to her moaning. Notice how she moves her body.
She’s giving you almost all the information you need. You just have to look for the signs.
I’m not a mind reader. And nor are you.
While I’ve gotten better at identifying the nonverbal signs, nothing beats talking to your partner while going down on them to know if what you’re doing is working.
I’ve developed some techniques that I routinely employ to bring pleasure to my partners, but everyone is different. What might feel fantastic to one woman might not to another.
Being able to talk about sex is a huge turn on. Plus it’ll get you the information you need to help your partner achieve orgasm.
“Do you prefer constant pressure on your G Spot, or do you like the in and out motion?”
“Do you like a circular motion on your clitoris or more of an up and down motion?” “Should I use the flat part of my tongue or the tip of my tongue? Here, let me try both and tell me which you prefer”.
Women are turned on by men who can effectively talk about sex while having sex.
The best way to find out if what you’re doing is working is to ask.
Women are different then men. You can’t just hammer the clit to orgasm the way you hammer your cock.
Women take longer to reach a state of arousal and to reach orgasm.
When you’re eating pussy, settle in. Get comfortable, have fun, take it slow, and don’t stop until your partner asks you to stop.
Often the miracle orgasm is right around the corner, and if you don’t rush it, you’ll have a much better chance of helping your partner reach orgasm.
And for God’s sake, when your partner yells “don’t stop” whatever you do, don’t stop. Don’t change a thing. If your tongue gets sore and your neck starts to crick, suck it up and keep going.
In fact, don’t stop eating her pussy until she physically pulls your face off her pussy, or says “you can stop now” or “I’d like you to fuck me now please.”
Until one of those two things happen, don’t stop.
I’ve learned a lot about how to please women over the years, especially with my hands and my mouth.
But I still always fall back on using the most effective tool of all, my words and my ability to listen to find out exactly what my partner wants and how I can help.
The best way to eat pussy is slowly, with no agenda other than to bring pleasure to your partner.
If your partner is capable of having a clitoral orgasm through oral sex (not all women can) and your skills are on point, you’ll make her day (and maybe her week depending on how many useless pussy eaters have come before you).
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A no-nonsense guide to eating pussy
Eating pussy, licking out, going down on someone, eating someone out...there are a million different ways to talk about oral sex . But as Shakespeare once said, a rose by any other name would smell as sweet...and being licked out can be serious fun for women and other people with vulvas, regardless of what words you use. Cunnilingus focusses on clitoris stimulation, which can be seriously enjoyable when done right: even more so than penetration for many people.
If you're wondering how to lick someone out really well, give this step-by-step pussy-eating guide a read, courtesy of the sex blog How To Make Me Come . And want to really level up your oral sex game? Keep scrolling for sexpert tips on the Kivin method - an oral sex hack which claims to make someone orgasm within three minutes - and how to use your mouth and hands at the same time , too.
Make your way south of the river. To spice amp up the tension, mark this path with small kisses beginning from their neck and proceeding down to their pelvic region. You're at the vulva/vagina! You made it! Wow, what a trip.
Eye contact is fine. It's an intense move, but depending on who you're going down on, it could be very creepy or it could be very hot. You feel it out and consider the context of the hookup – is it someone you’ve just met (maybe pass!) or is it a longer-term relationship (see how it goes!)?
Before you take the plunge, experiment with some sensual kissing up and down their inner thighs. Not totally necessary, but I'm just saying they probably wouldn't not be into that – a little teasing like this can increase the anticipation.
Now get in there. Don't tiptoe around it— find that clitoris and dive in. In case you're unsure of what that is, it feels a lot like a bean and can be found on top of the labia (the fleshy “lips” of the vagina).
Before you really get started, you need to keep in mind that the clitoris is super sensitive and has more nerve endings than the penis. It’s incredible - and it's the source of orgasms for most women and people with vulvas.
So basically, familiarise yourself with the clitoris. If you know what you're doing (which you should have a better idea of by the end of reading this), you can make someone convulse with pleasure just by stimulating that tiny bundle of nerves. Start thing off right by DJing ( using your fingers to rub the clitoris) and then stuffing your face in between their thighs.
Start off by licking all around the clitoris, don't just go in there right for the bullseye. You've got to build up the sensations! Once you've teased them enough and they make it clear that they're into it, use your tongue to lick their clitoris.
Lick it up, down, and all around, but remain focused on and aware of the pressure of your tongue on the clitoris. Start off lightly and gradually increase the pressure and speed if their body responses and noises point to yes. You can also play with the shape of your tongue on the clitoris in order to mix it up. Some people like a broad flat tongue, others like a more pointy tip. It really is a matter of personal preference and exploring what your partner prefers by listening to how their body reacts.
You can also try the Kivin Method , if you're feeling really brave. It claims to get women and people with vulvas to orgasm in a matter of minutes... Whether you believe that or not, it's fun to try! It’s actually really simple: instead of coming at oral sex from in between your partner's legs, approach it from the side and lick up and down.
Seriously, ask if they like it. Not only does this add a good intro to dirty talk (very important!), but also, not all vulvas are the same – far from it. Vulvas come in all shapes, sizes, colours, sensitivities, so you're going to run into many different preferences depending on your partner at the time.
More pressure or a certain tonguing may be better for one person versus another. They may prefer it slow, or hard, or in circles, or up and down. If you're already passing this with flying colours, asking how they like it is a 100 per cent turn on anyway and opens the door to more honest sexual communication.
Using a sex toy while going down on someone could give them an orgasm fast track. If they're okay with it (you need to ask beforehand), you could use a bullet , wand vibrator or clit vibrator on their clitoris while fingering them or licking them out. Oh, and we can't say this enough: try out a touch of flavoured lube to make the experience all the more exciting for you...
The same way some guys and people with penises like to have their balls played with during a blow job , you might want to stimulate other parts of your partner’s vulva or body while you're busy licking them out.
Run your fingers down their thighs, grab their hips, or reach for their breasts/chest and massage those too if that’s what they’re into. There are plenty of options.
Use your fingers if they have given enthusiastic consent. Slowly insert a finger into their vagina and wait for their response to see if it feels OK (or ask!) Move it in and out slowly to start with, curling your finger up towards their stomach to hit the G-spot . Massage it gently, and if they like it and agree, you can go harder and faster.
All the while remember to *never* neglect the clitoris.
Keep switching it up (unless they're clearly really enjoying it and don't want you to stop). The clitoris is very sensitive and if you play with it too hard for too long, it might be too stimulating and cause discomfort or pain. Experiment with pressure and dot some light kisses on that clitoris.
The Kivin method , previously touched on above, is an oral sex technique often touted as a "cunnilingus trick" that apparently helps women and people with vulvas reach orgasm in just three minutes. We know, it sounds dubious as hell – and it’s not really a good idea to start timing your partner’s orgasms or implementing any “one size fits all” rules when it comes to sex. Everyone is really different, so there's no way the Kivin method can work for everyone. But, as long as you know that, you can just have fun trying it.
So how does the Kivin method work? Basically, you come at it from the side. Yep, instead of positioning yourself between your partner's legs, get beside them. Raise their clit and steady it by popping your index finger and thumb on either side of it. Then, instead of licking up and down, go from side to side across the clit or clitoral hood (depending on how sensitive they are and what they like – keep asking what works for them).
If they orgasm (because not everyone will, and that's OK!) be sure to keep doing what you're doing when they're getting close. You can tell they're about to come because they'll either tell you explicitly or you’ll be able to guess from their body signals: their breathing might quicken and they might grab your hair. But whatever you do, don't stop what you're doing until they've ridden that wave.
Don't be disheartened if they don't orgasm - it's not the end goal of sex and doesn't determine whether someone felt pleasure or enjoyed a sexual experience.
In case you needed any further guidance, humans of Reddit have explained how to lick someone out really well. Remember, all bodies are different and like to be stimulated in different ways so this is by no means a comprehensive guide.
Many people supplement their diets with probiotics, but you can also find this type of 'good bacteria' in the human body тАФ specifically in a woman's vagina . Instead of shilling out for bougie probiotic yogurts or drinks, why not take a trip south of the border ?
The vaginal ecosystem contains lactobacillus, a bacteria that grows to regulate vaginal pH, according to the Pharmabiotic Research Institute.
Lactobacilli produce lactic acid, keeping the pH in vaginal fluid at a healthy 4.5 . Vaginal secretions typically contain Lactobacillus crispatus , Lactobacillus jensenii , Lactobacilus iners , Lactobacillus gasseri and can also contain Lactobacillus reuteri.
Recently, the company Order of Yoni brewed a beer that contained vaginal bacteria.
One woman even used her vaginal secretions to make yogurt, and described her culinary endeavor in a 2015 post on Motherboard.
Lactobacillus is also present in your gut, where it is usually termed 'probiotics,' Broadly pointed out. Probiotics aid digestion, allowing good microorganisms to balance out your gastrointestinal system, according to Medical Daily.
Eating probiotics can prevent illness, the Cleveland Clinic reported. They can also boost your mood and help alleviate depression , according to Medical Daily. Sounds good, right?
Broadly asked the Mayo Clinic's Dr. Helena Mendes-Soares if it was possible to gain these benefits from giving a woman oral sex.
"I think it would be possible, but probably unlikely," she said. "I don't know of any study that [has] addressed it."
Some people even believe that probiotics you can buy over the counter aren't particularly beneficial because they aren't the same species as natural bacteria present in the body. "Compared to the complexity of the GI microenvironment, probiotics contain just a few bacteria, and not even the most common bowel organisms. It is safe to say that the тАЬgoodтАЭ bacteria so highly touted in probiotics are but a minor constituent of a complex flora," Mark Crislip, an infectious disease doctor and probiotic critic, wrote.
Dr. Mendes-Soares explained that a gram of vaginal fluid conta
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