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It's time to take back the blow job, ladies.
Forget the stereotype that giving a BJ is somehow subservient or anti-feminist. Choosing how to show your sexual affection however you want is as empowered as it gets.
Still, no matter how down you are with going down, in the throes of the (sometimes lengthy) act, you can't help but let your mind wander a little. Whether it's your favorite item on the menu, or you only like to serve it from time to time, here are 11 hilarious thoughts you've probably had while giving a blow job.
We've all been there. But hey, there's nothing wrong with placing value on your partner's pleasure AND efficiency.
They're not! Like objectively they are just not an attractive appendage. Not when they're staring you in the face at least...
The happy ending may be for him, but you're the writer of that story, baby.
Let's be real, good technique requires concentration and a hair tug can totally throw you off your rhythm. Not cool. More importantly, doesn't he realize you're trying to make this blowout last another day? Paws off.
Nothing like a little Queen Bey to remind him who's in charge in this situation. Plus, the spit soundtrack isn't exactly a turn on.
What is proper testicle etiquette these days? Do we squeeze them? Caress them? Is tugging fair game? No shame in avoiding that political hot potato.
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You know that point where you're in your rhythm and he's vibe-ing and it's just so damn good? Revel in your glory.
No matter how much you enjoy giving a good old-fashioned BJ, it's only polite to be respectful of your time and effort, right? Let's wrap this up pal. ( Here's how to make that blow job go faster .)
No matter how many times you've done this before, why is there always this hint of apprehension? Like suddenly you'll forget how to use your mouth or dip out too early and...well, no one wants that mess.
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Of all the sex acts out there, blow jobs are shrouded in the most mystery (maybe aside from anal sex or pegging, but still). For something that has to do with your mouth, there's not always a ton of communication that goes down between two people, pre-BJ. Here's to hoping we can clear up all the misconceptions someday, in a future that is bright and shiny.
1. I know what you're doing when I suddenly feel my head being nudged in a certain direction. Yeah, your "subtle" please-give-me-a-BJmove is not subtle at all. Women are all talking about this behind your back. We know what's going on.
2. The very first thought that goes through my head is, "Do I know when the last time this dude showered was?" Some penises smell foul, and almost always, those penises have not been washed recently. Especially in the summer, when all the little nicks and crannies of our bodies are filled with tiny pools of sweat, showering pre-oral sex is a nice courtesy. You can always just turn the shower into even more foreplay.
3. The very second thought that goes through my head is, "If boys don't wipe, is there, like, leftover pee dribble on this thing?" Seriously tho, can someone answer this for me? Should I be concerned about the pee residue?
4. When my face is that up-close to your dick, time moves at least four times slower than normal. Maybe this is because gravity's pull is stronger on objects that are closer to the ground, or maybe it's because penises actually bend time to make it pass more slowly. Who knows. All I know is that time comes to a standstill down there.
5. I have literally zero clue what to do about your balls. Like, do you want them included in this situation? Should I touch them? Putting my mouth near them seems ... gross. But please. Tell me. I have no idea.
6. Giving a man a blow job does not equal going down on a woman. Like, I am sure going down on women is difficult in its own ways, but having to concentrate on suction and moisture and looking hot while you're doing it, all while dealing with a gag reflex and tired jaw muscles is a chore .
7. It freaks me TF out when you're dead silent. Please gimme some feedback, some way of knowing that what I'm doing is even remotely OK. So many women are insecure about their BJ abilities. Maybe don't complain about how we don't give them enough when you make us feel terrified of screwing it up?
8. I start getting bored after, like, 30 seconds. It would be really ideal if all penises had a tiny little TV screen on them, so at least I could watch Netflix or something while I'm at it, but the human body doesn't have that customization option yet. Maybe in the 2017 model.
9. You absolutely do not get to come in my mouth/on my face without clearing it with me first. This is the best way to make sure I never talk to you again in my life and drag you online forever and ever. It will be so deserved. Do not be this person.
10. I don't have to swallow anything if I don't feel like it. And sometimes I'm in the mood for this, and other times I'm not. Women are nuanced beings. We can have different opinions on different days. Don't assume that just because I did something once, I'll do it every single time. This is why no. 9 is so crucial. ASK FIRST.
11. It's incredibly discomforting when you have zero pubic hair, TBH. I played with Ken dolls as a kid because Barbie needed a guy to hang out with, but I don't want to play with them anymore.
12. It's also a little cumbersome when you have a ton of pubic hair. Killing two birds with one stone is a great way to save time, in most cases. But flossing while getting your boyfriend off is definitely not one of them.
13. I'm going to stop the second my jaw gets sore, even if you haven't finished yet. Seriously though, in the immortal words of Samantha Jones, "They don't call it a job for nothin'." It's hard (LOL) work.
14. I'll give you a blow job when I want to, and only when I want to. The myth that women either hate or love doing this is wrong. I mean, obviously. Some women like it, some women hate it, and for most women, it just depends on the parter and the ~vibe~. Know that when I do it, it's because I want to. And when I don't, that's the end of the conversation.
15. Just because I'm on my period and don't feel like having sex does not mean I'm going to give you a blow job. Maybe I will if I'm feeling generous and flirty, but probably if I'm not in the mood to get off, I'm not in the mood to get you off either.
13 Blow Job Myths That Just Need To Die
1. Myth: You should swallow even if you're not a fan.
2. Myth: All men are obsessed with blowies, so if a dude doesn't want one, he hates you.
3. Myth: Deep throating is the key to an excellent BJ.
4. Myth: There's basically only one blow job position.
5. Myth: A blow job isn't "real sex."
6. Myth: It's normal for guys to push your head down.
7. Myth: If your teeth touch his penis, it'll fall off.
8. Myth: You always have to perform a blow job to completion.
9. Myth: Your mouth can always provide enough spit to make the act enjoyable.
10. Myth: If your BJ skills are up to par, it should be over in a few minutes.
11. Myth: You need blow-job sorcery for uncircumcised penises.
12. Myth: If you give your mouth a break, you have to start from the beginning.
13. Myth: You have to love giving blow jobs in order to be sexy.
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Oral sex can seem baffling if you think about it when you're not turned on. You're supposed to put your mouth where? And you would want someone's face in your most private spot why? But in the moment, when you're with someone you're into, oral sex can seem like a more genius invention than the lightbulb. The only annoying part is when you're having sex with a guy and certain blow job myths get in the way of both of you enjoying the act as much as possible. Here, 13 blow job myths you should stop believing, stat.
Unlike green smoothies, semen is not some nutrient-rich elixir. When you treat someone to a mouth-induced orgasm, they don't get to judge what you do after the fact. Spit, swallow, move out of the way so it doesn't get in your hair, whatever. As long as you're not like, "Ew, this is disgusting, you're a beast," there shouldn't be any complaints.
There are so many reasons a guy may not be up for a blow job. Just like some women love receiving oral sex and others prefer different forms of clitoral entertainment , he might be into a different kind of foreplay. Or he could be saving you from encountering his sweaty post-workout package. Or maybe he wants to talk about his feelings instead of having sex. Point is, it doesn't automatically mean he doesn't like you or thinks your blow jobs are awful.
If you can deep throat without issue, go for it. It's an awesome skill that you unfortunately can't list on your résumé, so use it when you can. But you can also give a stellar blow job without the head of a penis provoking your gag reflex.
Actually, there's a whole wide world of oral sex positions out there beyond you kneeling in front of him. You can try 69, lying next to him, your head hanging off the bed, lying down while he kneels on top of you, and so much more.
For some women, getting face-to-face with a penis is more intimate than having PIV sex. And even if you're not one of them, you can definitely still get sexually transmitted infections from giving a blow job because you're exchanging bodily fluids (and you can also get STIs like herpes and HPV from skin-to-skin contact).
Great if it turns you on. But if it makes you feel weird, ask him to stop. Blow jobs should be good for both people, not just the one receiving them.
The world won't end because you experience a little teeth-penis contact. As long as you're not scraping them up and down his shaft throughout, it's probably not an issue. Depending on the guy, he might even like it! But definitely ask before doing it intentionally.
You could. Or you could trade off, so he goes down on you for a bit, then you continue giving him a blow job after. Or you could stop before he comes and have sex until he orgasms . Or you could break up intercourse with some bouts of oral sex. The end goal doesn't always have to be orgasm.
Cotton mouth happens. Luckily, flavored lube exists! Just be sure to use a type that's compatible with condoms if they're a part of your sex routine, and also check that it's safe for intercourse if you plan on doing that after.
So many factors can influence how much time it takes a guy to orgasm: when he most recently came, what he's thinking about, whether he's holding out because he wants it to last longer...
An uncircumcised penis is still sheathed in its foreskin, which covers the head. A circumcised penis no longer has a foreskin, so the head is exposed. That's the only difference—they're both still penises, and guys still like it when you touch them.
Yes, the two types sometimes require different kinds of stimulation, since uncircumcised penises often have more sensitive heads and there's more skin to play with. But if you're used to one kind of penis and encounter another, don't freak out. Just ask the guy what he likes! You have his penis in your hands. He probably won't mind if you ask exactly how he'd prefer for you to handle it.
If he's right on the brink of orgasm and you call a time out, yes, you'll probably have to put in some extra work to get him back to the point of no return. But if you feel like your jaw's seizing up, give it a rest. You can use your hands to keep the good feelings going.
You know that whole idea of how nothing's hotter than a woman who loves giving blow jobs so much, she can practically orgasm from them? False. Enthusiasm is always attractive, but you don't have to worship at the blow job altar to be attractive yourself.
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