Women Anal Orgasm

Women Anal Orgasm

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It's like a regular orgasm on steroids, mmk?
Much like an assortment of chocolates, orgasms come in all different shapes and sizes. Stimulating different parts of your body can result in a variety of orgasmic sensations, and one of those parts of the body just so happens to be the booty.
"An anal orgasm is an orgasm that results from stimulation of the butt cheeks, anal opening, rectum, and prostate (if present),” says Kait Scalisi , MPH, certified sex educator and founder of Passion by Kait . “There are countless ways to stimulate the butt that could lead to the experience of orgasm and every body experiences sensation and pleasure differently.”
So when you're ready to take your orgasm to new heights ( orrrr holes—sorry!), here are the very best tips for achieving an anal orgasm.
Just like any other sort of orgasm, getting out of your own head is key to achieving an anal orgasm. “If you're running a script in your mind about the pain you're going to experience during anal sex, then that's probably exactly how you will experience it," says pleasure coach Tyomi Morgan .
Remember that you have power over your pleasure and over your anus, so be conscious of how your anus is responding to your partner's touches and control the relaxation of your anal sphincter muscles by relaxing. "The more you can release the idea of your anus being a forbidden, dirty place, the easier it will be to relax into the pleasure of anal stimulation without shame," says Morgan.
2. Lube is your lifeline—and so essential!
Any sort of anal penetration will not be enjoyable without any sort of lubrication. “When you think you've used enough, add a little more! The booty doesn't produce any lube on its own," says Scalisi. And lube not only protects you from irritation and small tears, it also heightens the sensation from every lick, stroke, and thrust.
So how do you go about applying the lube to your anal area? Insert lube into the anus using a lube tube, or apply the lubricant to the outside of the anus and onto the surface of your toy or partner's peen,” explains Morgan.
3. Start by practicing with fingers and finger-sized toys.
When it comes to anal penetration, it’s best to start small. “Use fingers and toys that are ‘finger width’ to introduce stimulation to the anus,” suggests Morgan. “Sometimes friction on the opening of the anus can be enough to produce orgasms.
Massaging the anus with the tip of any finger (index or thumbs are typical) creates ease in being penetrated without the idea of having to receive the fullness of your partner's girth. More fingers can be added if you feel you're ready for more pressure.
Communication is the key to pretty much everything, and anal sex is no exception. “Be vocal about what you are feeling and what you need," says Morgan. As the person being penetrated, you should be communicating often since your partner can not feel what you are experiencing. So, if something feels uncomfortable, let it be known in a gentle way. "Make requests of your partner and be patient because anal penetration can take some time to get it right,” advises Morgan.
Morgan suggests saying things like “can you ease in more slowly please?” and insists that mustering the courage to be vocal about your desires is key in achieving orgasm. "The more you speak up and ask for what you need, the more empowered you will feel over your body,” she explains. “With empowerment comes liberation and the ability to RELAX into the decisions you're making knowing that your safety is pleasure is being placed as a priority.”
5. Pay a little extra attention to the butthole.
Think of the butthole as the clit or the G-Spot of the anus. “The majority of the nerve endings are around the anal opening,” says Scalisi. “Focus there, whether you're using your fingers, mouth, or a vibrator. If using a toy, only put ones in the butt that have a flared base—called a flange—so they don't get lost up there.”
Even if you don’t think you hold your breath during sex, there’s still a pretty big chance you’re doing it. “Be aware of your breathing during your anal experience and remember to breathe deeply and send that breath down to your anus,” says Morgan.
Take deep breaths and allow your body to relax into the feeling of anal stimulation, without judgment. Observe how your anal sphincters become looser and more willing to allow your partner to enter. The more you breathe and relax into the stimulation, the easier it will become for you to reach orgasm says Morgan.
“When you tighten or pull in your anus, the sphincters are fully engaged and will not allow penetration to occur. When you relax your sphincters and let your anus ‘hang out,’ the force created by the sphincters is reduced, allowing your partner to come in without resistance.
Training your sphincters to relax is the key to anal pleasure. Your sphincters will naturally have the response of tightening as your partner penetrates deeper, and when you feel that happening, breathe deeper, relax, and let it go. Anal plugs can assist with training your sphincters to relax, so don't be afraid to let go and experience your anal orgasm.
8. Combine anal with vaginal or penile stimulation.
As if anal orgasms weren’t great enough on their own, Scalisi says there’s a way to up your pleasure even more . “Put a butt plug or anal beads in during other forms of sex play, whether that's intercourse, oral sex, or hand play, and pull it out as the person experiences orgasm to double their pleasure,” she suggests. “That's because the pudendal nerve, which runs through the clitoris and tip of the penis, also has a branch that goes through through the anus. If the receiver has a prostate, look for a plug that is curved down to massage it.”
So, how do you know if you’ve actually made it to the finish line and achieved an anal orgasm?
Well, it feels a lot like every other kind of orgasm. “With anal play, you'll experience a build-up of tension accompanied by an increase in heart rate and breathing,” explains Scalisi. “During the experience of orgasm, there's often a sensation of release as well as fluttering of the pelvic floor muscles. Yes, the same muscles that get discussed for childbirth and peeing also run through the anus.”
Here’s to experiencing all the orgasms ladies, you are worth it!

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A LOT of the nerves and muscles in that region are all interlinked with your sexual organs.
Anal orgasms are somewhat of a mystery to most of us mortals. Can anyone have one, regardless of anatomy? How do you give a woman or vagina-owning person an anal orgasm? Are they just for people with penises who have a prostate (known as the P-spot)?
Sammi Cole, Lovehoney's sex expert told me everything you need to know about what I now will forever refer to as 'buttgasms'...
"Though the chances are slimmer than with direct genital stimulation, it is possible for people of any gender/sex to climax through anal play ," she says. "This is because a lot of the nerves and muscles in that region are all interlinked with your sexual organs, and for people with penises, the super-sensitive prostate gland that plays a vital role during ejaculation is most easily stimulated via the anus."
As with all sex things, Sammi explains there is no one-size-fits-all approach to anal orgasms, because every body is different. She stresses the need to relax both in your mind and your butt. After all, anal play is about as intimate as it gets, so it's super important you feel comfortable, trusting and in control.
"Firstly, remember that if you’re playing with another person, you need to feel comfortable communicating what is and isn’t feeling good for you so you’re both having the most enjoyable experience possible," she says. "Similarly, if you’re the one doing the penetrating or playing, make sure that you’re listening to and responding to your partner’s body. If you’re not sure they’re happy, ask them."
"If you’re not sure they’re happy, ask them"
The sphincter muscles of the anus are very strong, and need to be given time to relax for comfortable anal. "You also need to be in the right headspace for that to happen," she says. "If the brain’s not willing, the body won’t be either."
This is why you need need NEED to use a good quality lubricant designed specifically for anal. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn't self-lubricate and get itself wet. Therefore it needs extra stuff to make penetration comfortable, more enjoyable, and to protect you from injury.
Sliquid's range of organic, vegan, hypoallergenic lubes are good quality and made from the best ingredients - and their 'sassy' anal lube is incredibly long-lasting.
"Make sure that you start with something small like a finger to get used to the sensation," Sammi advises. "Then, when (or indeed if) you or your partner feel ready, you can move on to a larger anal sex toy (or penis/strap-on).
The best beginners anal sex toys to start off with are usually the cute, small, not-remotely-intimidating ones. Rocks Off do an amazing range of beginner's anal toys, including this adorable vibrating plug :
And while you're starting off small, start off slow. Never just go right in there. "Most of the nerve endings in the anal area are found in the skin on the outside, so be sure to spend some time experimenting with external stimulation to really get the excitement building," Sammi says. "After all, orgasm is a release of tension as blood flows back into the body from the genitals, so you’ll need to work up to it."
Some people find just using a finger around the anus to be very exciting, whereas some prefer the sensations of analingus (aka our old pal rimming ), where a partner uses their tongue instead of their finger. Using a vibrator on the outside of the anus can also help with relaxation, too, as the motion of vibration massages the muscles.
"If you’ve never experience an anal orgasm before, then you may find that your best bet for getting there the first time is to combine anal stimulation with other play," she says. "Try combining oral sex and gently stroking the anus and perineum if you’re with a partner, or grab a hands-free sex toy such as nipple clamps if you’re playing solo so you can light up more than one erogenous zone at once.
She warns never to go from anal to vaginal (or anywhere else) with toys or fingers. This is know commonly as 'double-dipping' and it can lead to infections and all sorts of awful things you don't want in your butt or vulva.
"People with vulvas may also find that, just as with a G-spot orgasm , it can be easier to experience an anal orgasm if you climax in your ‘preferred way’ first," she recommends.
Climax in your ‘preferred way’ first
"So if you’re someone who usually needs clitoral stimulation to come, have your first orgasm that way, then move onto the anal fun. This can also help to relax your anal muscles, too, making things more comfortable."
Often, the key to anal orgasms for people with penises is prostate stimulation. " You can feel the prostate gland a few inches inside the anus on the wall closest to the stomach as a firm, round, textured area about the size of a walnut , and just like the G-spot in women and people with vaginas, it generally requires firm (but not rough!) stimulation for maximum pleasure."
To rub against the surface of the prostate, Sammi suggests either using fingers or a prostate massager that delivers a ‘come-hither’ motion. That way, you can experiment with different pressures and strokes to find what works for you/your partner. The LELO Loki Wave is a fancy AF (but totally worth splashing out on, if you love butt stuff) as it literally waves inside you, targeting vibes and pressure to the P-spot.
For some people with penises, this prostate massage is enough to bring them to climax without any extra stimulation. For others, however, it may need to be combined with added play to get them over the finish line. But what you may find is that during prostate play, there’s a lot more pre-cum that comes out before ejaculation occurs - this is a result of what is known as prostate milking.
If you want to keep it as poop-free as possible
Sammi says if you're worried about any potential mess (hazard of the job, unfortunately) "make sure that you’ve gone to the toilet a couple of hours before play, and had a shower or wash before you head to the bedroom."
She also says some people find that adding an anal douche for extra cleanliness can help their peace of mind, but adds that it’s very much down to individual preference.
This extra petite butt plug is perfect for beginners who want to (and should) take things slow. It has a rounded tip for easy insertion and has 3 inches of insertable length.
If you want a beginners anal vibrator, this petite plug from Rocks Off is perfect. It's super slim, has 7 speeds to choose from and made from silky soft silicone.
Anal beads are a lovely toy for beginners as they're slim and start with the smallest bead, meaning you can insert them slowly and comfortably. Plus, when you pull them out they feel amazing.
This vibrating butt plug from Lovehoney is powerful and has 20 vibration patterns and speeds. It has 3 inches of insertable length, is rechargeable and waterproof.
Sammi says it's super important to bear this in mind: "If you don’t get there, don’t worry - anal play can still be intensely pleasurable without an orgasm, so just enjoy the experimentation."

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Learn how to harness the power of your butt.
It should be fairly common knowledge (at least to readers of Men's Health ) that people with penises can stimulate the pleasure-inducing prostate gland to create earth-shattering orgasms. But did you know that women can have anal-based orgasms, too?
Yup, anal orgasms are open to anyone down to explore them. If you and your partner are down to unlock a whole new realm of pleasure, you might both want to do some exploratory butt stuff.
Here, we’re going to break down the male and female anatomies that lead to anal orgasms—basically, how the heck these things work—and provide some tips to help you and your partner(s) achieve that monumental climax.
The prostate is a walnut-sized gland tucked roughly 2-3 inches inside the anus, between the bladder and rectum. Its main function is to produce fluid that is expelled as part of semen during ejaculation. The prostate is surrounded by thousands of nerve endings that feel very good when stimulated just right. In fact, some people can ejaculat
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