Woman Threesome Sex

Woman Threesome Sex
by Claire Lampen and Korin Miller Published: Aug 10, 2021
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Korin Miller is a freelance writer specializing in general wellness, sexual health and relationships, and lifestyle trends, with work appearing in Men’s Health, Women’s Health, Self, Glamour, and more. She has a master’s degree from American University, lives by the beach, and hopes to own a teacup pig and taco truck one day.
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Make your ménage à trois hot, not awk.
So...you’re going to have a threesome. Maybe it’s the first time, maybe it’s the thousandth. Maybe the last attempt didn’t go as smoothly as you wanted. Whatever the scenario: This is the guide for you.
Threesomes might actually be more common than you think: In a 2016 survey of 274 heterosexual people ages 18 to 24, 24 percent of men and 8 percent of women reported previous threesome experience, while 82 percent of guys and 31 percent of women said that they’d be into exploring the possibility. Which is to say, there's definitely interest out there in a good ol' ménage à trois.
But interest alone does not a successful threesome make.
Speaking with eight people who’d involved themselves in threeways, Women’s Health found that most participants walked away from their encounters feeling satisfied and happy, but some viewed the enterprise as confusing, weird, and relationship-complicating. And certainly, maneuvering with all those limbs in play can get a little awkward. So how do you keep things hot?
“One thing in threeways you want to remember is that these roles of giving and receiving can change and change and change and change,” Dossie Easton , LMFT, a psychotherapist, relationship counselor, and author, tells Women’s Health . “If you are doing more giving at this time, you can be doing more receiving later, but there’s no limit to how much time you spend. We’re not in a hurry here, we’re not being efficiency experts. This is about pleasure.”
“The important thing is how do people feel, and what feels good, what feels comfortable to people, what feels inclusive, how people feel confident,” she added.
To that end, communication is key. Try the yes, no, maybe exercise: As a group, list out all the sex acts you can think of, then individually make lists of things you like, things you don’t, and things you’d maybe try under specific conditions.
Tell your partners what makes you orgasm, and ask them what they like best. Make sure everyone is included throughout the session, and give your partners feedback, Easton says. In a threesome, the lines of communication should be open before, during, and after.
And in the process of figuring out what people will consent to, it might help to familiarize yourselves with a few basic moves going into the act, with an eye toward keeping movement fluid. But once you get started, talk to one another as you move along, and positions will flow more naturally from one to the next.
Whether you’re an female-female-male (FFM) or male-male-female (MMF) triad, you can work the classic 69 position with a threesome twist, says Jess O'Reilly, PhD, of the Sex with Dr. Jess podcast . She recommends lying on your sides. “The 69ers lay facing each other, but with their heads in one another’s crotches, with one partner on the edge of the bed,” she says. The other partner approaches from behind for anal play, while standing next to the bed.
Threesomes don’t necessarily have to be in person . If you can’t all be together at once, try this trick from O’Reilly: Two partners sit in front of the screen while playing with a partner who is elsewhere. “You can give one another directions, put on a one or two-way show or play from afar with a vibrator that connects to an app,” she says.
Anticipation can be nearly as hot as the sex itself. O’Reilly suggests this move to really ramp things up: Have two partners lie on their backs next to each other, with the third partner taking turns going down on them. The recipients can use their hands on each other while waiting their turn, or “make one partner wait to built anticipation,” O’Reilly says.
Got a roomy shower? It’s time to use it. “If you have the space, take your threesome into the shower and take turns soaping one another up,” O’Reilly says.
You can each take turns being the center of attention. The recipient can lead against the wall while the other four hands and two mouths explore. “Switch roles and don’t feel pressure to orgasm on the spot,” O’Reilly says. “You can always move to a more comfortable location as arousal builds."
In this arrangement, the male (or person with a strap-on) penetrates a female who is giving oral to a female or male in front of her.
Everyone can lay on their sides, but if your bed isn’t big enough to fit all three people try this: One partner can bend over the bed while the penetrative partner stands on the floor behind them and the third person lies on the bed in front of them to receive oral, O’Reilly says. If you’re in the middle, she recommends guiding your partners with your hands, body, and words, adding, “let them know what speed, depth, and rhythm you prefer.” And, if you’re on the receiving oral end, “let your hands wander in any way that works for you,” O’Reilly says.
This takes a bit of coordination and cooperation from everyone.
To do it, lay on your sides and get into a spooning position. Two people penetrate the person in front of them, either vaginally or anally (in a MFF threesome, someone can wear a strap-on). Then, slowly thrust together. “Use lots of lube and play externally to build arousal before you venture inside,” O’Reilly advises. Then, she says, “do what feels good for you.”
In a MMF or FFM arrangement, one person can penetrate a partner, whether vaginally or anally, while the other strokes erogenous zones on their fellow participants, Annette Gates —a certified somatic sex educator and relationship coach—says.
In a MMF set up, “a male could be penetrating a female with their penis while having pressure applied to their perineum, getting their testicles massaged or licked, or being penetrated anally by the other male,” Gates says.
For FFM trios, two women can lie on top of one another and play with each others’ bodies while the male (or person with a strap-on) enters the woman on top from behind. This position is ideal for nipple play , clitoral stimulation, even a little rimming, during penetration.
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For MMF triads, Easton warns, double penetration can be “kind of advanced work” because figuring out where all the knees go is trickier than it looks. That said, double penetration needn’t necessarily require two penises.
“A female [in FFM or MMF] could be receiving double penetration vaginally and anally, with a finger or penis,” Gates points out. You can always use some of the many hands a threesome involves to achieve the same effect, if positioning proves too difficult.
With that in mind, MMF couples might try double penetration with one of the men lying down: The woman can climb on top and ride him while the second man enters her anally from behind. In FFM arrangements, one woman can digitally penetrate the other’s anus, or use a dildo or strap-on .
One thing to always keep in mind, Easton says, is that a threesome has six hands and three mouths to work with. While she personally finds it easier to concentrate on one-to-one oral pleasure, the Daisy Chain presents a solid opportunity to make use of all your mouths. It’s also easy to execute.
Each participant lies on their side with their face at their neighbor’s crotch, forming a circle. Woman one performs oral sex on the man, who is performing oral sex on woman two, who is performing oral sex on woman one; or, the woman performs oral sex on man one, who is performing oral sex on man two, who is performing oral sex on the woman.
Whether you’re an FFM or MMF triad, perhaps consider performing mutual fellatio on one (or both) of your penis-having partners, recommends Easton. One person can take the shaft while another sucks on the testes, or both can lick at once, or you can switch from mouth to mouth.
Arguably the best known of all the threesome positions, the Eiffel Tower blends oral and penetrative sex: If you’re in an MMF arrangement, the woman assumes doggy position while one man penetrates her from behind and she gives the third partner a blow job.
If you’re in an FFM triad, have the man lie on his back while one partner rides him and the other sits on his face. The women can also lean forward to stimulate each other from this vantage point, keeping everyone in the mix.
Plus, as Easton points out, keeping one person up by the prone party’s head allows for easier communication.
“Periodically stop and check in, get up to the person’s head and check in with them, just to make sure they’re still where you think they are,” she advises. “So to have somebody pleasuring the person’s genitals and have somebody else up near their head, either playing with their mouth or their neck or their nipples, gives a kind of extra connection.”
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Not every woman has a threesome fantasy , but for the ones who do, the type of threesome they fantasize about can say a lot about them. Of course, adding a whole new person to any pair in bed can be hard to pull off smoothly. Some women are more into the idea of another woman joining, since it means less focus on them, and more focus on the male partner.
"Depending on how they are oriented, some women prefer [MFF] because it allows her to share dominance with another that feels safe," says Van Kirk, "Also, she may be more attracted to having another female to 'play' with versus a male."
Sometimes (but not always), a threesome fantasy involving another woman as the guest star can mean that there's some bi-curiosity your lady is interested in exploring — but wants you there with her for the experience.
"Many of my bi-curious clients have this fantasy," says Corrine, "and have stated the reason as they'd like to explore their sexuality with their male partner or with a partner that they are already familiar with."
"There's this gorgeous Puerto Rican woman who teaches class at the boxing gym that my boyfriend and I work out at on the weekends," says Cassie, 22. "Her body is slamming, total fit body goals. I've never had any kind of sexual encounter with a woman before, but in my fantasy I imagine her approaching me after class in the locker room after everyone else has left — except for my boyfriend, who's waiting outside. She brushes against me, 'accidentally,' and then tells me how good I did in class, and that I worked really hard today. She starts massaging my shoulders as a reward for my hard work. Then her hands move down my thighs, and finally she slips her hands down my yoga pants and starts gently massaging my clit. It feels so good that I cry out — and my boyfriend runs into the locker room to make sure that I'm OK. He sees what’s going on, and approaches both of us. He does me from behind while the instructor is still in front of me caressing every part of my body. When it's over it isn't weird at all. She gets her stuff together, smiles at us on her way out and says, 'Same time next week?'"

by Amanda Chatel for YourTango Published: Jul 26, 2016
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Threesomes are far more common than you might think . While many straight men have dreamed about two women at once, a lot of women are actually down with them , too. Perhaps threesomes are the sex wave of the future?
At least, the app 3nder definitely thinks so. The ménage a trois tool aims to make it easier than ever to find a third party to join you in bed.
Intrigued? We asked men and women who've had a threesome experience (or two or three) to share the lessons they learned from that sexual adventure.
"I had a threesome with a friend and a guy I was casually dating, and it was great! We had a lot of fun; there was zero jealousy (thank you, alcohol), and it was a very enjoyable experience. However, when we tried to go for a second round a couple months later, it was a disaster. Call it bad timing or an error in the line-up of the stars, but it made all of us realize sometimes you just shouldn't repeat the past." —Brigitte, 33
"My first threesome was to a soundtrack of L.A. Style's 'James Brown is Dead.' (Shut up, this was in the very early 90s, OK?) The naked time was fun, but that song on repeat was downright maddening." —Sarah, 36
"My old friend with benefits was super into male, male, female (MMF) threesomes, and I thought I would be, too. But every time he suggested one, I was like...nah, I'm good. On the other hand, I was always down for having a threesome with him and a girl—like the time his other friend with benefits came over randomly, and we all had sex ." —Anna, 29
"I lived my whole life thinking that a threesome would be the greatest thing ever . Two women to myself? Yes! But the one time I did it, I couldn't get it up. It was too much pressure. The humiliation that followed killed all future threesome fantasies." —M., 29
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"The thing I learned about threesomes is it's the most fun if you're the third party. I've only been with previously established couples. That way I can just focus on enjoying myself without paranoia about my relationship afterward." —Colleen, 30.
"The open communication people use [while] preparing for (and during) a threesome should extend to twosome sex encounters, because it's really great. In my experience, everybody asks, 'Is this OK?' 'Can I do this?' 'Do you want to ___ now?' It ensures everyone is comfortable, plus, logistically, it keeps you from bumping into each other." —A., 25
"I've found I prefer my threesome (or more-some) participants to be of the same sex. I've had MFF and FFF, FFFF, FFFFF and the Fs were more fun. I'm too ADD for the genital switch-up of a male and female partner. How you treat each is so vastly different that I find it jarring to go from one extreme to another. I haven't had a MMF, but I'm certainly not opposed to it. That would be in keeping with the ADD rule. It's just hard to find men who are comfortable in that situation." —Samantha, 30.
"What I learned from my one threesome is that if not everyone is getting equal attention, someone will cry. It seemed like everything was fair to me, until one of the women cried because she felt left out. It immediately ruined the mood, because then we had to switch gears to console her. It was really weird." —Kevin, 31
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And I literally wouldn’t have had it any other way.
“Okay, but I’m definitely not going to eat her pussy,” is a text I sent my then-boyfriend the night before our first threesome .
As you might imagine, the whole threesome thing was his idea—and yes, pretty much any sex expert will tell you that having a threesome you don’t really want to have just to please your boyfriend is literally one of the worst possible reasons to have one. But because I, like our lord and savior Samantha Jones, will try pretty much anything once, I was down to give it a whirl. Not to mention, I had a growing feeling monogamy wasn’t really my bag and thought a threesome might be a convenient, boyfriend-sanctioned way of exercising my non-monogamous tendencies—one that might even become a gateway to the open relationship we both knew I secretly wanted.
There was just one problem: I had never been with a woman before and was pretty sure I had no desire to. The closest I’d come to hooking up with another girl was a New Year’s Eve kiss with a college friend. I was definitely in no position to be going down on anyone with a vulva—especially not a professional.
Of course, that part—the hiring a pro part—was my idea. Because it would be my first time with a woman and my boyfriend’s first threesome (I’d dabbled in MFM th
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