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11 Harsh Truths About Sorority Rush College Girls Should Find About Now, Not In September

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For any young woman that is about to go through sorority rush, here's what to REALLY expect.
There's a common theme of every sorority making it seem like rush is the best time in the world, and that Greek life is the best thing since sliced bread. While I'm not knocking the fact that some people probably really do enjoy rush, there are some harsh truths that I believe every young woman should know before heading into recruitment.
I gathered some quotes from different women from different sororities here at Jacksonville State to give you the most honest, unbiased, expectations and truths for going into recruitment.
"You're going to want a sorority that you're not going to get. 9 times out of 10 you won't go where you *think you belong. But-- where you end up is exactly where you're meant to be. My sorority was next to last on my list, but I decided that I was going to give it some time. Now, I've found my forever home. "
"Don't cater your personality to the sorority you think is best. You won't end up loving it because you won't connect with the girls. Be open-minded."
"My honest truth is that I thought I'd have to go in and put on a big smile and just be who they wanted me to be in order to get a bid. That's how I was in every single room except for the one that I got a bid from. I was only myself in the room I was sure I didn't want and because I showed my true colors, that's what made it my home."
"Rush is about finding someplace that is your home and that you belong. I would advise girls not to be heartbroken if it turns out that a Panhellenic sorority is not their home here at Jacksonville State, because they can find their home in other organizations! Rush is also an opportunity to find friends. So, get out there and build relationships with the girls you meet because that's what I regret the most- not being open to new friendships and being too nervous."
"Don't go into a room thinking that you're better than the women already standing in it. They've worked so hard all summer to perfect this week, for YOU. They are tired. They are nervous. They are excited. They might trip on their words. They might get uncomfortable if you act like you'd rather be dead than in their party. Even if you don't believe that sorority is your home, be nice. Your attitude in every room during rush will follow you."
"Recruitment is emotionally draining and you think it won't ever end, but it's so worth the sisterhood that comes from it."
"Umm, I would say recruitment is probably going to be one of the most stressful times that a girl is going to go through coming into college! You will feel pressure from every aspect just trying to make sure you make the right decision and end up in the right one. While we are all fundamentally similar it breaks down to very different girls and you need to make sure you stay true to yourself so you will actually enjoy the sorority and girls that you end up around. If you can just make it through and not care what others have to say about where you wanna go ( because people will try to tell you where you should go) stay true to yourself and do what's best for you."
"You don't always get the sorority you think you want, but it usually ends up being better for you in the long run. Trust the system."
"With all honesty, my best advice is to be yourself. Recruitment can be very stressful and sometimes a little overwhelming, but just go based off your heart. Do not let your friends make the decision for you because their choice may not be your best fit. You can still be friends and be in different sororities. Now there is a possibility that you are torn between two sororities and that's okay. Just breathe and think about who you see yourself with more and figure out what YOU want."
"While recruitment is very draining and stressful, take time for yourself to de-stress and relax after your parties. Get a good nights sleep, and think about your values and how you truly connect to the women you had met that day."
"Greek life is wonderful, but it's not the only place to find belonging. If you go through rush and don't find your home, don't be discouraged. You're not going to lose any of your friends because they joined a sorority and you did not. There are tons of other opportunities to get involved and make friends in other organizations."
I'm not writing this to scare anyone away from Greek life. I'm writing this to give, the young women who are about to rush, real and honest expectations and opinions from women who've already been through the process. There are so many benefits to joining a sorority. Lifelong friends, job connections, campus opportunities, connecting with others who share your values.
Even though Greek life won't be a perfect fit for everyone, you can still get these same things I just listed by joining any other campus organization. It's all about finding where you really belong.
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Fraternities and sororities are undergraduate Greek- letter groups designed to offer social and academic and support for their members. The organizations originated in the late 1700s with the Phi Beta Kappa Society. About nine million students belong to fraternities and sororities. The National Panhellenic Conference has 26 sororities and 69 fraternities belong to the North American Interfraternity Council. Along with these larger groups, there are a number of smaller fraternities and sororities that are not affiliated with these organizations.

College kids who are interested in Greek life typically go through a ritual known as rush, which consists of a series of social events and gatherings that allow prospective and current fraternity or sorority members to get to know each other. Each institution has its own particular style for conducting rush. Rush lasts anywhere from a week to several weeks. Depending on the university, rush may take place prior to the beginning of the fall semester, a week or two into fall, or at the beginning of the second semester. At the end of this getting acquainted period, Greek houses offer "bids" to those students they feel would be the best fit for membership.

Women are usually expected to visit each sorority in order to meet its members so that sisters in the house can get a feel for their personality and determine if they are a compatible fit. Sorority sisters may sing or put on the show to welcome potential members when they visit. There's usually a short interview for prospective candidates and those who make the cut may be invited back for an additional meeting that might include dinner or an event.

If you're a good fit for the sorority, they will likely offer you a bid to become a member of the house. Unfortunately, some women who really want bids don’t get them and wind up with hurt feelings instead. You can always go through rush again, or if the process feels too formal, informal rush usually takes place throughout the year so you can have the opportunity to meet the sorority sisters and get to know them in a more relaxed atmosphere.

Fraternity rush is usually less formal than that of sororities. During rush, prospective candidates get to know the brothers in the house and vice versa to determine compatibility. The frat may host some type of informal event, such as a touch football game, a barbeque, or a party. After rush, fraternities give outbids. Those who accept become pledges. Most frats have a fall pledge class and another in the winter. If you don't get in, you can always rush again.

Greek life is portrayed as one big party in the movies, but in truth, there's much more to it than that. Fraternities and sororities that participate in philanthropic work have raised more than $7 million annually for a number of charities since 2011. They're also very focused on education and often require members to maintain a minimum GPA to remain in good standing.

However, socializing is naturally a large part of Greek life, with parties and events scheduled throughout the year. The chance to meet new friends in an organized atmosphere is a big draw when students consider Greek life. In addition, older frat and sorority members can mentor new students who are adjusting to life on campus. That mentorship proves to be important as students who join fraternities and sororities have a 20 percent higher graduation rate than those who don't.

Fraternities and sororities can also have an impact after students graduate and are moving on to the career phase of their lives. Connections made via fraternities and sororities can carry over when you're job hunting and are especially valuable for networking. Even sorority sisters and frat brothers from colleges other than the one you attended will feel at least some affinity for a job candidate who shares their Greek connection. It may not land you the job but it can often get you in the door.

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Contact the office of Greek life to learn more about rushing. Call or refer to the website for the office of Greek life at your university to find out when rush will take place, how to register, and the registration deadline. [1]
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It is a good idea to do this at least 3 months in advance so that you have time to fill out any registration forms and gather together any additional requirements.

Some universities begin recruitment in the fall and may even begin before classes have started. Other universities hold rush in the spring or have a less formal rolling recruitment process. [2]
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Rush can last anywhere from a few days to several weeks. At most schools, going through rush will take up quite a bit of your time, so make sure that you research how long rush takes at your school and plan accordingly. [3]
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Make sure that you are aware of any prerequisite requirements that you will need to fulfill before your registration will be accepted, such as obtaining a minimum GPA.

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Register for rush. Register for rush online by visiting your school’s recruitment website. Fill out all any registration forms online with as much detailed information as you can. Sororities will be looking for members who will positively contribute to their culture and who will actively engage in social, educational, and charitable events, so list any extracurricular activities that you have participated in on your registration form.

There will likely be a registration fee, so make sure that you are aware of these costs and plan accordingly.
At some schools, the office of Greek life will require or recommend that you include letters of recommendation with your application. Ask for letters of recommendation well in advance as these can take some time for people to complete.

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Explore the different sororities at your school. Look into which sororities have chapters at your school. During recruitment, you will have the opportunity to talk with several members of each sorority. Researching ahead of time will make you aware of the types of social events and charitable organizations each sorority is involved in so you will know what to ask about during rush.

If possible, go to charity events or other extracurricular activities put on by sororities on campus prior to rush. This will give you an opportunity to get to know some of the members ahead of time.
After submitting your registration, you may be assigned a recruitment counselor who can provide you with some resources to help you familiarize yourself with the sorority chapters at your school. [4]
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Plan your outfits according to the dress code for each round. Refer to your school’s recruitment website to find out if there is a dress code for each round of rush. If no requirements are listed, ask your recruitment advisor or talk with experienced sorority members to assess the appropriate attire for each round. [5]
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At most schools, each round gets a little dressier, so it is a good idea to plan your outfits ahead of time. [6]
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The dress code for rush varies widely, but as a general rule of thumb, try to avoid wearing an
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