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Lane Moore is an award-winning comedian, actor, writer, and musician based in New York City.


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"I feel really sexy in a harness and it's really cool to have a penis."
If you've ever wondered what it would be like to "peg" your guy (aka put on a strap-on dildo and, well, put it in his butt and have sex with him), or if you've just wondered why some women would want to do that, a recent Ask Reddit thread asked women to reveal what they love most about pegging and they had plenty to say. If you don't kiiiiiind of want to try pegging by the end of this, I don't know what to tell you. 
1. "For me it's the way my boyfriend fucking moans and writhes while I'm fucking him. It's SO different and so hot. He's usually pretty quiet when he fucks me but he moans soooooo loudly when I'm pegging him. Our power dynamic definitely switches when we're pegging and he becomes incredibly submissive." — kinky_trees
2. "Oh god, the quivering as you brush back and forth over the prostate, it's delicious." — AProperVillain
3. "It's all about the reactions. Seeing them get sweet and needy and slutty just goes right to my crotch and my heart. Watching them feel so full is like nothing else." — ABinaryNunSweat
4 . "Watching your partner be all slutty and needy is just wonderful, especially if they moan and get all vocal. Mentally, one of the biggest turn-ons ever." — Not-Your-Valentine
5. "I love the switch, how I can go from being small and getting fucked to being strong and doing the fucking. It feels natural, and I love satiating my boyfriend's desires. It's so hot to penetrate him and to make him feel better than anything else does. It's awesome to put my hands on his hips and go to town. It's wonderful to push him in to the mattress and it's so fucking hot to have his ass in my hands and in my face. It turns me on so much that I'm dripping wet and about to cum just from sheer excitement. Just to hear his moans and satisfy him wholly and make him shiver and shake.... It's incredible. It's also a perfect bonding opportunity, because he has to open himself up and become vulnerable just as I have to. It gives him a better understanding of sex, and we really bond over the shared experience of vulnerability and newness. Holding him after, when he can barely move his legs and is just drained from all of the excitement is the best. Also I feel really sexy in a harness, and it's really cool to have a penis." — Gilly-flower-tho
6. "The most important thing for me is that my boyfriend moans, because that is the most sexy sound on the planet to me. My boyfriend moans quite a lot during the pegging and he sounds rather feminine too. If then he decides to beg me for dick and tell me how good it feels, I can't help but feel really accomplished. I have fucked my man to the point where he doesn't care how horny and feminine he sounds, he just wants more. It honors me as a woman that I'm capable to do such a thing with just a harness and a dildo." — Melly_K
7. "I'm in a D/s relationship and for me I enjoy the facial expressions, the way his body moves and especially the sounds he makes. The moans and groans really do it for me."— MissTyga
8. "I love his reaction to me pegging him and just wearing the strap-on he says makes me look sexy and confident. I do stand taller and feel more powerful when wearing it." — RedsChronicles
9. "To watch a manly, masculine man tell ME to fuck HIM and that he wants all of me inside him, it's bizarre and so sexy. It's bizarre because society teaches us that men aren't like that and that women are the submissive little bitches that need to lie down and spread our legs. In fact, I view a man as MORE manly and secure in his masculinity when he's so horny and virile and he's comfortable enough to want just another part of his body to be sexually stimulated. It's all the same at the end of the day." — Brianna-Girl
10. "The best part is knowing how good, awesome, hot, and amazing they're feeling because you're giving it to them. For me it's a lot less about the power dynamic and a lot more about the intensity, pleasure, and intimacy." — sparklylagomorph
11. "What I love about it is how it affects my husband ... It changes the power dynamic of sex. I love to hear him beg for my 'dick.' I like the act of fucking him, I like seeing him stroke himself, etc. It's super mentally arousing for me." — hamnapkin2
12. "I love talking about it before and after, like reminding him of what a filthy slut he acts like and how much he wants it. It's also a fun way to mix things up." — strawberry_pop-tart
13. "I really enjoy how powerful I feel. I never really thought about how vulnerable I am when I'm the one on the receiving end until I got to be the one to give it." — sexystuff123
14. "When I am working my BF up for a pegging session, I get so wet that it literally drips down my thighs. I don't know why but hearing his moans, seeing his face when he has multiple orgasms and squirts (Yes, he squirts before the big one) and all the positions I get to do just turns me on. Physically, I usually am so turned on that I cum by the slightest rub from my harness or against his thigh as I'm thrusting into him." — UnusualWoman
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Back in 2001, sex writer Dan Savage posited a question in his Savage Love column: “What term, from this day forward, will be the commonly accepted slang for a woman fucking a man in the ass with a strap-on dildo?” His readers answered: pegging .
Twenty years on, pegging ’s popularity is only on the up. Online sex toy retailer Lovehoney reported that sales of strap-ons were up by nearly 200% in 2020. Depictions of pegging in TV and popular culture have also become more commonplace: in Peep Show , Jeremy gets pegged by his kinky girlfriend Michelle, while Abbi Abrams pegs Jeremy Santos in an iconic 2015 episode of Broad City .
Most recently, in millennial comedy-drama The Bold Type , Kat pegs the guy she is seeing, Cody. Initially, she is sceptical. “You know I’ve never liked being dominant in the bedroom,” she confides in Jane. “And I’m not very good at it. It’s not for me.” But Jane encourages Kat to try it, which she does, and enjoys. “I guess I thought it would be physical, and sexual, and primal, [which] it was, but it was also intimate, you know?”
This chimes with 22-year-old Joanna’s* experience. “I’m actually incredibly submissive and I don’t particularly like feeling dominant,” she tells me. “[But] it gives me pleasure to see how much he’s enjoying it.”
She first tried pegging with her boyfriend, who is also in his early 20s, after he brought it up six months into their relationship. “He was nervous of how I’d react when he first told me but I was actually super open to it,” she recalls. “This was during the first lockdown last year, so we didn’t see each other in real life for months but we spoke about it quite a lot. I was interested in it, so when we saw each other again we started experimenting.”
“I started out really nervous because I was scared of hurting him but once you get into it, it’s fun,” Joanna continues. “At first I made a few mistakes, like being too rough or going too fast, but you learn. My boyfriend says I get better every time we do it.” She adds that as her partner is disabled and the number of positions they can do is limited, pegging has been a great way of keeping their sex life fresh and exciting. “A new way of having sex has been good for us.”
Megan*, also 22, has been dabbling in pegging too. She once pegged a close male friend of hers, after a conversation where they both expressed a desire to try it. “We were just talking about how interesting the power dynamic would be and then we were like, actually, this could be more than a topic of conversation – this could be something really interesting to try,” she recalls. “It seems like this really niche thing but actually I think the more it becomes a topic of discussion, the more people are into the idea.”
Meanwhile, 25-year-old Claire* is yet to peg anyone – but it’s certainly a fantasy of hers. “I think pegging would make me feel powerful. It’s the idea of bending over the guy and putting them in that vulnerable position,” she says. “Also I think the guy would like it and I like the idea of a guy who would even just be willing to explore it. It’s exciting to be able to kind of have equal footing but then also both be vulnerable at the same time.”
There has long been a taboo surrounding pegging which, in no small part, must be related to a reluctance to embrace sexual fluidity. Though the stigma is slowly getting chipped away, many misconceptions about the act still abound. This has certainly been Claire’s experience when it comes to broaching the topic of pegging with heterosexual men. “They often question if it’s ‘gay’,” she says. “That always makes me laugh. Why is your masculinity so fragile and associated with dominating girls?” Joanna agrees that this is a wrong assumption. “People [assume] that someone receiving the pegging can’t be straight – but quite a lot of straight cis men I know are into pegging, including my boyfriend.”
Gillian Myhill , sex therapist and cofounder of the BARE dating app , hopes that open discussions about pegging will help us all to become more accepting and understanding of sexuality as a broad spectrum. “There is definitely a link between the rise in popularity of pegging and the rise in open discussion currently surrounding gender and sexuality,” she says. “For too long these have been taboo subjects and it’s wonderful to finally see ongoing and open discussion in these areas.”
Megan adds that another common misconception is that people assume women who are into pegging must also be into kink . “One of the biggest misconceptions is that to do it you have to be this massive domme, but you can actually do it very lovingly,” Megan says. “It doesn’t have to be this really kinky thing, it can actually just be a source of pleasure for both of you.”
Megan’s right: Myhill explains that stimulating the prostate – aka the male G-spot – can be hugely pleasurable for cis men. “It’s a highly sensitive area due to the number of nerve endings contained,” she says. “Not all men find prostate stimulation pleasurable but most do. Prostate stimulation can produce a completely different kind of orgasm.”
So, what advice would Joanna and Megan give to someone who’s keen to try pegging? Both are quick to say that you definitely shouldn’t skimp on lube and Joanna adds: “Go super slow and steady – less is more at first.” Megan also stresses the importance of communication. “Make sure that you talk about your emotions afterwards,” she advises. “Talk about your comfort and about how you’re feeling, because it could be quite an emotional experience for both of you.”
Ultimately, if both you and your partner are keen to experiment with pegging, it’s probably worth having a go. “It’s nothing to be ashamed about – no matter you or your partner’s sexual orientation or gender identity,” Joanna says. “If you’re interested in it or would like to experiment – go for it! It’s also fine if you end up not enjoying it. Communication is key.” Which, surely, is sound advice for anyone having any type of sex.
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Can pegging make your partner a better lover? Some people, including experts in the sex and relationships field, certainly think so.
"When I have sex with cisgender men, the ones who receive anal penetration are much better lovers than those who haven’t," says kink-friendly sex therapist Liz Powell . Well, if that's not enough motivation to explore this misunderstood and even controversial activity, I don't know what is.
Of course, the decision to try pegging with a strap on is completely up to the individuals involved, and many folks are wonderful sexual partners regardless of whether they're interested in this form of sexual exploration. But what is pegging, why is it so hot for some of us, and what supplies and knowledge are needed to try it safely? Allure spoke with Powell and a professional dominatrix to learn all you need to know.
Traditionally, pegging refers to a cisgender, heterosexual male receiving anal penetration from his cishet female partner with a strap-on dildo — and, actually, it's a word surrounded by a bit of controversy.
As our understanding of gender and orientation expands, some folks ask, why not just call this anal sex, strap-on sex, or just sex? Why do cishet guys need their own word for anal penetration when the rest of us have been enjoying it as is? Powell understands this line of thinking, but they also say that giving an activity its own word, be it fisting, squirting, or pegging , can help us talk and think about what we’re doing.
"Having a term for pegging can, in some ways, be helpful," Powell explains. "A lot of cis straight men are interested in pegging because when they find out that there’s a term and that it’s common they feel a lot more OK about wanting that." Talking about pegging specifically can help normalize it and debunk outdated thinking about cishet men and prostate pleasure.
"Could we just call it sex? Sure, but there are lots of things we could just call sex," says Powell. "Having more terms doesn’t necessarily make it worse; I think that pegging is more stigmatized because it is about a cis straight dude. A lot of people are still really uncomfortable with men receiving penetration."
Everyone's butthole is lined with erogenous nerve endings, which is why people of all orientations, genders, and bodies can enjoy anal sex. And having a prostate is a fun bonus.
“A lot of prostate owners don’t get to stimulate their prostate, and that’s a whole other orgasm available to you. You’re opening yourself up to other avenues of pleasure," says New York City dominatrix Domina Katarina. The prostate, or P-spot, is roughly three to four inches inside the rectum, about an inch in diameter. The person with a prostate can usually let you know when you've found it as they'll start to feel sensations reminiscent of an orgasm .
Outside of the physical pleasure of prostate and anal stimulation, both partners, commonly referred to as the bottom (receptive partner) and the top (penetrating partner), may enjoy the "taboo" of a role reversal, if receiving penetration is new for the partner with a prostate or penetrating someone is new for the top. "The power dynamics are amazing," Domina Katarina says. "Especially as a woman who is typically seen as submissive, it really does put you in a different position. You get a rush, like, yeah, I have this control."
While some simply want to be penetrated for the prostate stimulation, for other straight couples, they may get off on the role reversal. Submissive cishet men may enjoy the erotic power exchange that occurs when their partners become the ones with the dicks. "I get why dick owners walk around like they’re the shit," Domina Katarina says of the place of power she entered through her experience pegging.
Pegging can also (but doesn't have to) be a part of BDSM dynamics . All BDSM involves consensual power exchange, and for some cishet men — who, in our patriarchal society, still tend to harbor the most power — submitting to a woman or other person of a marginalized gender gets them off.
Pegging also requires immense trust; being penetrated anally with a strap-on dildo by a pro-domme or dominant partner allows cishet men to not only receive anal pleasure but become vulnerable and submissive, which is a common sexual desire.
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