Woman Giving Head

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Ever wondered if she’s actually enjoying herself?
If you enjoy going down on the woman in your life , there's a good chance she wants to return the favor. But have you ever wondered if she's actually enjoying herself when she gives you a blowjob? After all, the oral sex move has "job" in its title—it's only natural to second guess her excitement as she makes her way below your belt.
Of course, every person enjoys different things in the bedroom, and it's impossible to make a blanket statement about whether or not women like giving blowjobs. But we can tell you this much: some women definitely enjoy performing oral sex on their partners. Just peruse the hundreds of responses to this Reddit thread , which asked: “Women who like giving blowjobs, why?”
The women who responded had a variety of reasons for their love of giving head. On a psychological level, some said they enjoyed the power of having their partner at their mercy, and being able to control their pleasure with the slightest tongue flick. On a physical level, others said they liked the taste and the feeling of a smooth penis in their mouth. And then there's the emotional side to blowjobs: a number of respondents said they use oral sex to show their partner how much they love and appreciate them.
Just remember, not every woman likes to give oral sex. If that's your partner, be respectful, and don't worry—you can always get yourself a blowjob machine .
Here's what 17 women had to say about why they like giving blowjobs.
"Because I like receiving, and it would be shitty of me to expect enthusiasm down there if I wasn't willing to go to town on a guy's junk myself." [ via ]
"Turns me on, makes me feel sexy. I love feeling a guy grow hard for me. I suppose its also a control thing." [ via ]
“I feel in control... but most importantly, I just love pleasing him. My boyfriend is currently working 65-70 hour weeks, manual labor. He’s exhausted when he comes home. He eats dinner, plays on the computer 30-45 minutes, then drags himself to bed. He’s doing all this so I don’t have to worry about working while I’m in school.
"So, a few times a week, he gets a BJ. He’s too tired for sex, but that release helps him sleep, and keep his stress levels in check. I occasionally get sex in the process but not like we used to. That’s ok. This season of our lives will be over soon, and things will get back to normal.” [ via ]
"Everything! I love pleasing a man. I love hearing him moan. I love being in control of his pleasure. I love insisting that he relax and let me do this! I love the feeling of him inside of me. I love feeling him grow as he becomes more excited! I love the intimate connection that we form. And I love the taste of cum." [ via ]
"It's intimate and deeply satisfying. I like the feeling of having a hard or soft penis in my mouth. It's fulfilling for me." [ via ]
"I love sucking it from softness to hardness. It's so exciting feeling it growing in my mouth." [ via ]
"I love hearing a man moan and cum because of what I'm doing to him...but the moans are the best part. It sucks when a man isn't vocal." [ via ]
"I always enjoyed the feeling of giving pleasure to my partner with oral, but only in the past few years did that grow into more of a serious kink. I only really watch blowjob porn. If I am thinking about sex, it is about blowjobs. If I am having sex, (not always but most of the time,) I am thinking about giving him head. It is pretty much my number one desire in the bedroom now. I love deep-throating the most and all the other frills that go with it. But light teasing sessions are also really great, the slow build up for both of us is very exciting. I have absolutely no idea why I like it so much, I just do, but I have never had any complaints so never really worried." [ via ]
"Guys tend to be quiet and reserved with most sex acts, except blow jobs. We get responsive as hell reactions from you in this activity more than any other with minimal effort or personal distraction. Makes a girl feel sexy, and as such more likely to want more. Theres also a sense of power." [ via ]
"We have you at our mercy." [ via ]
"Cum tastes amazing. There's something to be said about making a man quake when all you do is roll your tongue around and purr to make your mouth vibrate. I also love the fact that it drives him wild when I do it." [ via ]
"I've always hated blowjobs and refused to do it. The most recent guy I'm with has an amazing dick. Its so beautiful and looking at it makes my mouth water. I love how it feels in my mouth, how he swears when my mouth goes on him. He smiles so happily and it makes me happy for making him happy." [ via ]
Does penis size actually matter? Let's discuss:
"I'm a pleaser in the bedroom so it really turns me on when I know that I'm turning the guy on. I love preforming oral more than I like receiving it because of the reactions. I wanna see your head fall back, I wanna see your eyes close and open repeatedly, I wanna hear you moan and groan, I want you to tell me what to do and how to please you. Plus foreplay is my favorite part of sex. The simulation and knowing that someone enjoys what I'm doing to them. If my jaw didn't get so cramped easily, I'd do it for as long as the guy wants." [ via ]
"I used to find it very boring. I knew it should be fun, because you get to feel in control. But I didn't get that vibe.
"Then I realized: what's the point of a blow job if he's not tied up?
"With a new kinkier lover I can't get enough of it. Get those limbs under control with some rope and there isn't anything stopping me from playing for a couple of hours before finally allowing relief :)" [ via ]
"Personally, I enjoy going down in my husband because I not only have control, I am also showing him in action just how much I love and appreciate him and everything he does for our family. I feel that head is a very intimate act, and it definitely helps get the point across.
"I also enjoy giving him a blow job because it's a great stress reliever as well. I like knowing that he can come home to me and I can make his stress fall away with just one action. But most of all, when I take care of him, he always returns the favor. ;)" [ via ]
"The feeling of knowing my attention is solely concentrated on the most tender parts of him and he trusts me. The way he looks at me, the noises and movements he makes, knowing when he is going to orgasm and feeling this satisfaction that it's something we enjoy together. The fact he tastes amazing and it can be hot and slutty or sensual and slow. It's just the fucking best to be honest. And he knows I love it. Like I don't think I would ever say no to it because I just want him to feel that good because of me." [ via ]
"I like it because it's both dominating and submissive at the same time. I love the sounds he makes, and the way he grabs my hair. I love the way he feels in my mouth. He is so generous in making me feel good, that I like it doing it for him. And yes, I swallow." [ via ]

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What’s running through her head when she’s giving head?
We already gave you an inside look at what goes on in a woman’s head when you’re going down on her , but what about the things that runs through her mind when she’s the one taking a trip down south?
Here’s a secret: most women love it when you go down on them a lot more than they like giving blowjobs, but we do it anyway because A) hey, it’s a nice thing to do for someone you like, and B) we know you love it, and C) it’s the fastest way to make sure you’re reciprocating. But while she’s making magic with her mouth, you really should know what’s cooking in that head of hers.
“I am about to rock your world.” Aside from the fact that she’s making you feel amazing, many women love giving head because it leaves them in full control of your sexuality. There’s a certain sense of power that comes from being in control of your pleasure, and believe us when we say, women are a big fan of that.
“Please tell me you showered today…and please be groomed.” Cleanliness and hygiene are key when she’s going to put your penis in her mouth. Weird smells and effects of a similar kind are definitely not welcome, so please, remember to shower and groom if you’re expecting some love below the border.
“If you push my head down one more time, I swear to God I will smack your hand away.” First of all, you shouldn’t be touching her head while she’s going down on you unless you’re stroking her hair lovingly. Aggressively pushing her head down and forcing her to take you deeper is not very sexy, and is actually a turn off for most women, so it’s best you retract your hands and grab your own hair, should you feel necessary.
“I really should have put my hair up.” Loose, long hair + blowjob = hair in mouth. Not too enjoyable, considering she already has a dick in her mouth. That’s just one too many foreign objects at a time.
“I wonder if I look okay from this angle…” Can you tell that she hasn’t washed her hair in 4 days? How many chins does she have from your viewpoint? Did she leave the stove on? All things that run through her mind.
“He’s moaning, he loves it. This is a porn star level blowjob. I would give myself a high five if my hands weren’t full.” Those little noises you make are music to her ears, because she knows you love what she’s doing. If you’re just sitting there in silence, save for the slurping sounds of her mouth on your junk, she won’t be able to tell if you’re enjoying it, and that’s bad. So go nuts. Moan, swear, gasp, be vocal.
“No teeth no teeth no teeth.” Please keep in mind that concealing all 32 teeth while focusing on pleasuring you isn’t the easiest task, considering all of the multitasking that’s going on. She’s bobbing up and down, swirling her tongue, using her hands, making eye contact, and trying to keep her lips over her teeth at all times…all while you’re in heaven.
“Do I touch his balls or nah? …definitely touch.” She doesn’t want to leave the rest of your manhood without any love, but there’s also a small debate in her mind that’s trying to decide if you’re the type of guy who likes his family jewels polished. But she will take the risk, because hey, going back and forth for 10 minutes straight gets a little boring.
“You better return the favor, buddy.” We know you don’t reciprocate oral sex as often as you should , but women are still hanging on to the hope that you’re going to go down on them next. It’s the least you can do.

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Because fellatio can be feminist too.
Back in my teenage years, when sex seemed like a strange tribal ritual on a distant shore, the concept of giving a blowjob was much more in vogue.
Although I never ran with the crowd who were experimenting with their sexuality from a young-ish age, I was intrigued by their stories of what had happened at the latest house party.
Regardless of the rampant professing of adolescent girls that their sexual prowess was well and truly on point, I had difficulty believing putting an erect penis in your mouth, moving it up and down, and enduring the salty shock of an ejaculation either in or on you was, “not that big of a deal”.
However, the reason for these reservations wasn’t only physical. It was because girls who gave head in school were hailed as bigger sluts than girls who were having vaginal sex. Fellatio was stigmatic; an obliging submissive act in which you were putting yourself wholly at the service of whichever guy you were pleasuring. There was nothing in it for the woman but a pair of sweaty balls in the face and an inconvenient gag reflex. If you liked it, you were the worst skank on the planet.
As I moved into the adult world, and the mysteries of sexual activity were unveiled one by one, blowjobs became less of a big deal and more of a go-to. A lull in the lovemaking? No problem! A little oral stimulation and you’re both back on track. Easy, simple, effective, and most importantly, reciprocal. However, even in my mid 20s, the ugly stigma attached to a woman providing oral sex for a man remained and has continued as I’ve moved toward my thirties.
While I’ll often hear a guy proudly declare, “I love going down on a girl, it’s so hot!” which is met with affirmation from his peers and titillation from the women present (after all, the idea of a man making a women heave and sigh with good feels isn’t considered a submissive act on his part, on the contrary, he’s the sexually dominant one, fulfilling a woman’s most basic physical need with a few choice moves down below); whenever a woman announces she enjoys fellatio, it’s greeted either with silence, condescending laughter, or groans of dissent.
“They don’t call it a ‘job’ for nothing!” is an oft-recited Sex and the City quote. And funnily enough, women will rarely announce it around men. Their enjoyment of blowjobs is revealed only in the sanctuary of girly coffee dates.
Most pointedly, rather than being seen as the dominant sexual partner, the woman is seen as succumbing to a man’s will. The idea of her giving pleasure of her own prerogative, as something she actually enjoys doing, is instinctively dismissed among the majority of social groups.
I only started to think about this seriously a couple of weeks ago. I was chatting to a girlfriend about a guy she was fooling around with, and she was getting the gleeful blow-by-blow (so to speak). After describing how he had ripped her clothes off like they were Tarzan and Jane, she launched into a blushful explanation of how she had immediately given him a blowjob. As soon as it was out of her mouth (no pun intended), she stopped talking, and a look of anxiety came over her face.
“Oh, I did it because I like doing that, you know?! Like, not for him, for me. I like it!” she said, the desperation in her justification audible.
I nodded, and she continued her (very enviable) story. But I wondered why she thought she had to justify her enjoyment of giving oral sex at all.
In spite of the apparent sexual revolution of the 21st century, female sexuality and sexual pleasure is still considered, by men and women alike, to be secondary. Women talking openly about sex isn’t yet considered normal to the extent it is with men. Just ask Amy Schumer, who has been labelled a ‘sex comedian’ because she mentions sex a lot. The myriad of male comedians who do the same don’t get labelled anything but ‘performers’.
I cop strange looks and the assumption I’m either sexually frustrated or a nympho whenever I talk about sex around men. Even though my parlance is actually less sexual than theirs, I’m treated like an oddity. A woman voicing her enjoyment of fellatio to other women equates to her being happily submissive, and therefore anti-feminist. If, heaven forbid, she admits it to men, it’s considered a come-on. She’s automatically an ‘easy lay’ . And that is one colossal, cataclysmic shame.
So isn’t it time we updated our archaic perceptions around women when it comes to oral gratification? Blow jobs needn’t always be associated with the bored, gag-filled acts we see in porn. Nor need they be seen as purely submissive. Oral sex can be one of the most enjoyable, empowering sexual acts you can share with someone, both on the recei
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