Will Anal Sex Help Me Poop

Will Anal Sex Help Me Poop
My boyfriend and I occasionally have anal sex. A friend has said that over a period of time if it continues then the sphincter muscle becomes damaged ...
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I’m female, aged 19. My partner and I occasionally have anal sex .
A girlfriend has told me that over a period of time rectal intercourse can damage the sphincter muscle – making it unable to hold in waste products as it should.
Well, the anus does indeed become a little looser. That is why the actresses in blue movies so often have rather gaping bottoms.
This widening can lead to minor problems with ‘soiling’ of underwear.
Also, there are some hygiene risks in having anal sex – particularly the fact that the rectum does contain germs.
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Such as: It doesn't hurt so much as it's just uncomfy. PLEASE NOTE: I am not a doctor , just a Muggle woman who's had the occasional up-the-butt experience. (By the way: Use a condom. Just because you can't get pregnant doesn't mean you can evade the higher risk of STDs that comes with unprotected anal sex.)
1. It doesn't hurt. But it does feel like an alien is probing your butthole. If there is a crazy, sharp pain, something is very wrong. It's more like someone is sticking a Wiffle ball bat where it should not be, and you suddenly feel like you need to poop.
2. Sex acts themselves are never degrading — it's the reasons behind them that make them so. If you like anal sex, there's no reason to be ashamed of it. Having anal sex if you want to isn't a degrading act. Having anal sex just because your partner pressured you into it? That might feel a little more degrading.
3. Some women really like it. Others don't. Neither is a personal or sexual failing.
4. Your ass is capable of queefing. And let me tell you, it's epic. You don't know queefing until after anal sex. Whatever, everyone will have a good laugh and it will be fine.
5. If it starts becoming too uncomfortable and you want a break, don't tell him to take it out all the way, just tell him to stop thrusting. If he takes it out, then the uncomfy insertion process has to start all over again. It's much better to cease all movement, have him pull it out partway (but not too far out, because the head of the penis is the widest and therefore the most physically intense part), and take a breather. But if it full-on hurts , tell him to stop.
6. Missionary anal sex is possible, it's just not easy to start out with. Because you have less control over the penetration.
7. Generally, while the specter of potential poop is terrifying, it does not happen. I mean, you won't just suddenly let it all go. If anything, there might be a tiny bit that turns up on his penis, but that's part of the experience!
8. After you do it once, you might feel like you've set a standard for doing it often. You haven't, and say no freely if it's not what you feel like doing.

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Q: Background: I, a 21-year-old male, enjoy receptive fisting. I’ve also had constipation problems all my life. Question: I saw my doctor recently, and he tried to link my enjoyment of anal sex to my constipation. (Granted, I didn’t tell him EVERYTHING I do down there.) My understanding was that there was no causal relationship, assuming no serious injuries occur. Is there something I don’t know? Was my doctor just trying to be helpful? —Fearing Inner Sanctum Tarnished

A: “There are many myths about anal sex, but this is the first time I’ve heard this one,” said Dr. Peter Shalit, a physician in Seattle and a member of the Gay and Lesbian Medical Association.

It’s also the first time I’ve heard anyone associate fisting with constipation—typically when fisting is mentioned in the same sentence as constipation, FIST, it’s as a cure. But it’s a myth that fisting cures constipation, of course, just as it’s a myth that anal sex is inherently dangerous.

“Fisting is a safe activity, provided that both the top and bottom are sober at the time,” said Shalit. “It does not cause damage or constipation or any other type of bowel problem. The same applies to other anal sexual activities. There is a misconception that these activities can cause damage by stretching or tearing the tissue, when actually the anus is very elastic.”

Despite the fact that millions safely engage in anal play, many people believe that anal play does irreparable harm to the anus—or the soul—and that, sadly, includes many doctors.

“If a person suffers from constipation, that should be addressed as its own problem and not blamed on any type of anal sexual activity,” said Shalit.

Finally, FIST, if you don’t feel comfortable telling your doctor EVERYTHING you’re doing “down there,” you can look for a new doctor under “find a provider” at GLMA.org .

Q: I’m a 35-year old straight male, engaged to my girlfriend of eight years. While we have a good sex life, she often won’t let me finger or lick her. When she does, she enjoys it and easily climaxes while receiving oral sex. But her higher brain functions get in the way, as she has internalized our culture’s body shaming. She has likened me “sticking my nose down there” to “sticking my head in the toilet.” Whenever I sexy-talk about licking her, she reacts with a mood-killing “eww.” But she says she would enjoy it if she could let me. I can’t make heads or tails of it! When we have sex, she cuts foreplay short and gets straight to penetration. She feels pleasure and moans, but she really does not value her own orgasm. But I do, and I miss seeing her climax! I wish I could help her overcome her body issues—but when I “use my words,” she feels pressured and can’t relax. I am at a loss. Please help! —Loves Inhibited Carnal Killjoy

A: Try again to use your words—but don’t use them when you’re about to have sex, LICK. Do it at a neutral time when you can’t have sex, so she doesn’t feel like you’re attempting to initiate by raising the subject. First, ask her if she enjoyed oral when she allowed you to go down on her. If oral is pleasurable for her when she can allow you to go down on her, figure out what was different about those times—had she just stepped out of the shower? was she a little tipsy or high?—and give it another try.

Q: My boyfriend and I just got back from Berlin, and we had a great time—until the last night. There was a dark room in the basement of this gay bar, and my boyfriend wanted to check it out and I did not. We are monogamous for now—I’m open to opening things up down the road—and I didn’t see the point of going down there. I told him that drunk in a gay bar at 3 AM wasn’t the right time to open up our relationship, and he angrily insisted he wasn’t trying to do that. But if we’re monogamous and want to stay monogamous, why go into a dark room at all? —Dude Into Monogamy

A: If it was your boyfriend’s intent to reopen negotiations about monogamy while horny men circled you in a dark room, DIM, that wouldn’t be OK. But it is possible for monogamous couples to enter sexually charged environments like dark rooms, sex parties, or swingers’ clubs and emerge with their monogamous commitments intact. It’s advisable, even—or at least I’ve dispensed this advise to monogamous couples who want to keep things hot—to visit those kinds of spaces. So next time, go down there. You might have to bat a few hands away, but once the other guys realize you two aren’t there for anyone else, they’ll turn their attentions to others who are. v

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ye so i was wondering how you can have anal sex and not get s**t on your bobbie(penis)

because i have been "playing" with my girlfriend and we want to explore (but not have sex)and i suggested anal
and she said ok

so i was thining how do you not get aa **** covered penis..............?????????

and i know a have to use lube (or in other words spit) to get it in .....

Hey everybody, I'm on a long distance relationship and haven't had sex with my gf for about 8 months. Is it possible that my penis won't ...

My wife and I have a pretty good sexual relationship. I make sure to give her orgasm first .I try to give clitoral orgasm. But she sudden...

Well I am 17 years old and I sometime masturbate,it's been awhile since I did it,so I search up different ways to do it,and I found a ide...

Last month I (20, male, no health issues, gay) was having sex with my boyfriend (receptive anal sex). For no apparent reason, my pelvis s...

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All people have things they like and don't like. I really recommend if you have anal sex that you always use a condom because you can get a bacterial infection.

Anul sex or vaginal sex which loves girl more  ????

Dude I know a kid who did the bum wit no rubba and got a little poo up his snake eye and it got infected then he was to embarrassed to go c the doc and it got real nasty now he's pissin in a cathrider. Dude no lie

Im frm sri lanka. I started masterbating when i was 12 years old. Nw im 16 years old. Bt im not tall as my friends. Im just 5,2 . My mom alway scold me that im short because of the masterbation. I feel very sad about me. Please some one help me to stop masterbation. He or she will be a god to me. PLEASE....

ok so here is the correct answer, out of the gay boys mouth...ive only read here and there in this thread so not sure if this has been mentioned but if you are concerned about sheit on your ...uhm... bobbie then she just needs to use an anal douche an hour or so before 'the act'
Yes lots of lube and do only EASE in instead of thrust as it can be extremely painful at first if she is tense...
secondly...i do agree with turkee23...well said girl! LEAVE PEOPLE TO THEIR ******* OWN! I didnt see this guy enforcing his ways upon you, spreading you tummy down and legs open like a roasted chicken on his bed!! so **** off!
oh and beargizmo...what **** is that about the anus not being meant to expand like the mouth or vagina??? when last did you have a good poop? Did you not know, before writing that comment, that the rektum is made to stretch as to accommodate the poor sod who has been constipated for a week after stuffing his face at the xmas table?? Its said that the average rektum can stretch to about 3 INCHES in diameter....thick bloody **** thats going to invade THAT one...got a tel nr for him?
Anyways so my only 3 tips are:
1) douche
2) LOTS of lube AND condom
3) Gentle dude...GENTLE

islam relegion permit us to do anul sex with women

you cant believe people want to use a condom and lube to prevent tearing and infections? you're a dumb ****, greenery.
grow up

Please be quiet your stupidity and Ignorance Is by far the most painful experience I have ever felt

Assuming we are all not Idiots here and Yes this is directed to you in the medical field Oral is actually called what "Oral sex" It still has something to do with sexual pleasure of a physical nature therefore If you have oral Sex then you are not a virgin same goes for th other two Vaginal and Anal and the human anus is a unique muscle that can widen tink of a snakes Jaw instead you muscles in this case have to ADAPT to this new act that is all

you guys are total ignorant fools about anal sex.  I cant beleive what Im reading.

I had a gay friend who said after his first few times he started having trouble pooping his pants.  I guess his partner was huge or he was extra small but it stretched out his muscle so much he had no more control.  He was only 19 at the time...I'd hate to have to wear Depends that young!  Tells me it's not natural!

Took awhile to figure out what was so funny..Then I noticed...wasnt  my fault it was Websters..
Dennis

hahahahahahahaha .....that made my day jim!.....thanks!

i want a virgina!.....lol

turkee 23  Thank God...you had me pretty worried there ;-)

pentetration of the Virginia??? my God people, LOOK OUT!!!

Jim

To set the record right here....webster defines the word "virgin" as follows...
" a person who has not had sexual intercourse....."
One does not loose there virginity by having oral sex....webster also defines sexual intercourse as..."intercourse involving penetration of the vagina by the penis "
So by definition, Anal intercourse is not sexual intercourse..So, the only way one can loose
there virginity is by having sexual intercourse...The penetration of the Virginia by the penis...

that wasnt directed to you jim just in general!....your still my boyfriend!...lol

Kristyn

forgive me...I generally add "in my opinion" to such a statement that I make.  And it is my opinion that the anus is not a natural recipient of an engorged penis, but far from me to tell someone not to do something they want to do or find enjoyable.

Jim

there is nothing wrong with anal sex...TO EACH THEIR OWN!...jeez why are people bashing anal sex so bad?...if YOU dont like it then thats YOU....dont go around telling people its not right to do something THEY enjoy.....

YES anal sex is SEX....vaginal, oral , or anal... you wont be a virgin anymore....

if your going to do it then make sure she doesnt have to use the restroom..or that she has in the past few hours.....and EASE your way in there...LOTS of lube, silicone based lube is the best for anal... and you might wanna use your fingers first....or get a toy and use that first b4 you put your penis in there.....

my hubby has never had a poopy penis after anal.....anal sex is NOT nasty....its up to YOU what YOU would like to do with your body....dont let other people tell you different

I've always felt that if the anus was meant for sexual activity one wouldn't need to use enemas before hand, artificial lubricants, etc.  The anus doesn't expand to accept a penis as the  vagina (or mouth) does and the anus is constructed differently than the vagina and there is risk of internal tearing and injury that can be dangerous...as somebody mentioned above, it is a body part designed for "exit" not "entry"

Jim

I feel that the idea of anal sex is very stimulating in a taboo type of way.  Most people get excited about it, because it seems like a very dirty, yet lustfully appealing act.  There were many good comments and advice given on this space, but I do feel that the Porn industry, has been negligent in informing people about health risks involved in this type of activity, because supposedly they don't want to scare away potential customers,  Yet I've heard true stories of people, such as a woman, who's boyfriend went in and out of both "holes", without washing.  And she got a nasty infection.  It almost became tumorous!

anal sex is sex hellllllllloooo.as the name suggest anal SEX im sure i dont need to explain why.Here's what never do it without a condom i dont care how clean you are whether you are circumcised or not use a latex condom. Most of the time, condoms work well. However, condoms are more likely to break during anal sex than during vaginal sex. Thus, even with a condom, anal sex can be risky. A person should use a water-based lubricant in addition to the condom to reduce the chances of the condom breaking sadly your spit cant do that so play it safe.

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