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Wifes First Time With Another Man Stories
Read Deidre’s personal replies to today’s problems
I THOUGHT it would be a real turn-on for me if my wife had sex with another man.
She agreed to do it, saying it was for me. Now I wish I could turn back the clock.
We have been married for four years. She’s 33, I am 30. I had read about this stupid idea and thought, like many men I guess, it would be fantastic.
I fixed up for her to meet this man through a hook-up website.
She has been sleeping with the guy for weeks now. He is 29. They always arrange to go to the same hotel.
She returns home next morning and tells me what they got up to. She always says the sex is brilliant.
She gets constant texts from him. When he messages her she cheers up and offers me favours to agree to her seeing him again.
I wish I could refuse and mean it but she knows how to get round me and always has.
I feel wretched every time her phone rings. I asked her how she feels about this guy.
She said she doesn’t love him but he is very well-endowed.
I wish I had never mentioned the idea. I almost had to push her into it to start with but now she gets moody when I ask her to stop seeing him.
She says that if I carry on being difficult about it we will probably split up. We have a lovely home, a good social life and jobs. I don’t want to lose any of those.
I love my wife dearly. I can’t sleep and I can’t eat. I can’t concentrate at work either. Why did I ever come up with the idea in the first place?
DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t let her comments about his physique get you down. Good sex isn’t just about inches. Keep telling your wife you love her and want to have a wonderful sex life with her. Work at that and your relationship generally.
My e-leaflets Thrilling A Woman In Bed and Looking After Your Relationship should help. Give it a while, then tell her she cannot continue having two men in her life, that you want her with you 100 per cent.
If you have made enough effort with your relationship and are firm enough that she has to choose, hopefully she will tell him it’s over.
If she won’t, I am afraid you have lost her anyway. That would be sad but you’re already unhappy. Continuing to share her indefinitely like this would wreck your self-esteem.
MY dad put a camera in the room where I slept when I visited him as a child. He sometimes climbed into bed beside me and I’d often wake to find him touching me under my nightie.
I am now a woman of 24. I have a partner but dare not tell him about this. He would go mental.
My parents split up when I was a baby. I was about 13 when I realised what he did was wrong and told my mum. She stopped me going there.
My dad now has a new girlfriend with a small daughter. What if he is messing with her too? Do I tell him I know what he did to me or do I tell someone close to him? I don’t want anything bad to happen to him but I need closure.
His girlfriend’s daughter has told me he goes to her room and tickles her back. He used to do that to me.
DEIDRE SAYS: I am sure you want to make sure this little girl doesn’t suffer as you did. Your dad’s girlfriend will have no idea of his history.
My e-leaflet Worried A Child Is At Risk? explains more but of course it feels scary to report him.
Start by talking in confidence to the NSPCC helpline ( nspcc.org.uk , 0808 800 5000).
Seeing this vulnerable child safe should help to give you the closure you need but in the meantime you can find understanding support through the National Association for People Abused in Childhood ( napac.org.uk , 0808 801 0331).
I FOUND a stack of my wife’s old mobile phone bills while going through some paperwork during a recent house move.
The bills went back six years or more and there were hundreds of text messages to the same number every month.
My wife is 33 and works part-time. I am 35. We have been married for eight years.
I did a bit of research and discovered that the person sending the messages was a male colleague of hers.
The nature of his work meant that he travelled about and that is when they texted one another.
I spoke to my wife about it and she just said this took place years ago and they sent messages to each other when they weren’t busy. Am I being paranoid?
Might she have been having an affair?
This is constantly on my mind and I find I keep checking up on her.
DEIDRE SAYS: If you and your wife get on well otherwise, accept her explanation and try to let the issue go.
Otherwise, you will be eaten up with jealousy and it will drive a wedge between you both.
Instead, try to focus on your relationship as it is now, especially its strengths.
Talk to your wife and figure out together whether any changes could be made.
This would be far more positive than brooding over what was probably trivial and a long time ago.
MY boyfriend is lovely and caring but our sex life, which was amazing at first, has started to crumble.
We have been together for a year. I am 30 and he is five years older. For six months now he hasn’t been staying hard when we have sex.
He said he would see the doctor but hasn’t. If I mention it he says he has a lot on his plate and can’t deal with the stress of sorting it out. It has been months since he has even pleasured me or wanted me to pleasure him.
He is going through a lot with his ex and I feel I am selfish if I mention it again.
I have been patient and haven’t even thought about sleeping with anyone else but I can’t survive like this.
DEIDRE SAYS: It isn’t selfish to want a fulfilling sex life.
Your boyfriend is feeling overwhelmed but ignoring the problem just adds to the stress he’s under. That in turn makes his erection problems worse.
Take the lead to get the two of you kissing and cuddling and touching again. Don’t aim for full sex, just build intimacy.
Make an appointment for him with his GP, as this could be a symptom of a health problem.
And my e-leaflet Solving Erection Problems might also be of help.
MY ex called round to collect our daughter, saw that I had put on a dress and done my hair and make-up, and automatically assumed I was meeting another man.
I was going for a drink and a chat with my sister, as I do every week, but he sent angry texts all evening insisting he’d bring our little girl back early. He slammed the door so hard when he arrived that he damaged it.
I made light of the incident for our daughter’s sake as she is only seven, but I am so stressed. I only get that one evening off each week. It is my one break.
My ex and I parted on bad terms. He is 40, I am 32.
If I don’t do as he says he threatens to tell Social Services that I am a bad mother.
He uses our daughter as a weapon to spite me but she is always bottom of his list of priorities.
DEIDRE SAYS: You’re right to try to keep the worst of the conflict from your little girl but she will be picking up on the tension.
Talk to your ex when she is not around. Say you want him to be involved with her as it is good for her to know she has a loving dad, but that you need better ground rules as you both need to lead your own lives.
Ask him to come with you for family mediation. You can find a family mediator through the Family Mediators Association ( thefma.co.uk , 01355 244 594).
My Kids In The Middle booklet can help too – download it at thesun.co.uk/kidsinthemiddle .
GOING through my dad’s papers after he died, I discovered he was adopted. He never told me and it’s made my grief over losing him even worse.
It feels as if I never really knew him.
He was 78 and his death was not unexpected as he had been very ill, but I am still trying to cope with the shock of losing him. I am 46 and his only son.
Through research, my sister and I have discovered his biological parents’ identities. It looks like his dad died and his mum couldn’t afford to keep him.
He wasn’t happy with his adoptive parents (as I now know they are) and they lost touch long before I was born. It’s so sad and I’m hurt he never shared this.
I am still grieving for my dad and uncovering this mystery seems to have made losing him worse.
The saddest thing is now it is too late to talk to him about it and understand why he kept this to himself.
DEIDRE SAYS: I can understand your hurt but he is the same person he always was – the dad you loved.
His generation were brought up to believe personal issues were best kept private and it was probably tied up with painful memories for him. You were part of his fresh, happier, start in life.
How you feel now is part of your grieving and you can get support for that through Cruse Bereavement Care ( cruse.org.uk , 0844 477 9400).
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Please keep me anonymous. I am very stupid for forcing my lovely and beautiful wife to sleep with another man because of money. These how it all started...We have been married for 2 years and was quite doing fine but along the way my two shops was burnt by a mystery fire. I was very devastated but my wife assured me all will be fine as she started carrying the family at this point. But that didn't last as another tragedy strike when she lost her job in the bank during the reccession. We were now at the mercies of neighbours and relatives that took pity on us. A day came when I decided that enough of this hardship and decided to go to my friend with my wife to help us. When we get their,we told him what we came for and he said he will help us but on one condition? That my wife had to sleep with him before he can render any help. I feel like killing him,but a beggar has no choice. My wife was very angry at him for saying that and will told him that we think about it. After a week I told my wife to go and sleep with him in order to help the family. She Slapped me but after pleading with her for more 3 days she agreed. The deed was done and the idiot fulfilled his promise. Now my wife is now down with HIV due to my foolishness because the idiot insist skin to skin or no deal. She has moved out of our matrimonial home and now staying with her aunt. Will she ever forgive me for forcing her against her wish when I go to beg her?Or I should forget about it so that he doesn't hurt me their? Distraught man. lalasticlala mynd44
predmine20 : Please keep me anonymous. I am very stupid for forcing my lovely and beautiful wife to sleep with another man because of money. These how it all started...We have been married for 2 years and was quite doing fine but along the way my two shops was burnt by a mystery fire. I was very devastated but my wife assured me all will be fine as she started carrying the family at this point. But that didn't last as another tragedy strike when she lost her job in the bank during the reccession. We were now at the mercies of neighbours and relatives that took pity on us. A day came when I decided that enough of this hardship and decided to go to my friend with my wife to help us. When we get their,we told him what we came for and he said he will help us but on one condition? That my wife had to sleep with him before he can render any help. I feel like killing him,but a beggar has no choice.
consultancy : guy, fabricate another story Its OK if it's fabricated . but this cud be a real story that exist in the real world... Nothing is impossible where we live in...
Lol, Na wa o, bloggers don run out of ideas
Blodklat, when I was thinking u had a story. Retardinho lomo yi ohhh
This is #$uper$tory ! Very poorly constructed post, storyline too linear. Guy, go back and complete your #LaiMohammedInternship!
Young man becarefull, mine yourself...wait do we look lik a child before you.You fabricated these Godforsaken story for us at the expense of getting to FP. Well, let me help you. Take this script to nollywood they are waiting for now. Next time dont try dat;befoe i call thunder that will carry some one from Aso rock to "Dura" watever.
Oga this your fabrication is too glaring.
Foolish man. Wait o...... This story is false
QueenSuccubus : Its OK if it's fabricated . but this cud be a real story that exist in the real world... Nothing is impossible where we live in... yea, a lot of shocking and unbelievable things happen in life, but this very one is...
Nollywoodish story ...poor storyline and easily predictable .
khalazi : I swear I don watch Naija film wey be like this. The man Wey bin ask for sex from the wife was Pete Edochie. I can't remember the man or woman buh I vividly remember Pete u sure its not kanayo o kanayo . Only nollywood will come up with such mumu storyline . Tell me why the neighbour no wear condom wen doing d do with the wife.. Ohhh when he went to the chemist to buy a condom the chemist had already closed for d night.
consultancy : yea, a lot of shocking and unbelievable things happen in life, but this very one is... Have u heard of love-vendor? They pimping their wife/live-in partner for sex & money or even drugs... So, whether the OP is telling his story or nah.. The point is, what u gonna do if this is true?
QueenSuccubus : Have u heard of love-vendor? They pimping their wife/live-in partner for sex & money or even drugs... So, whether the OP is telling his story or nah.. The point is, what u gonna do if this is true? this use to happen back years ago in Nigeria. some nothern states offer their wives to visitors or guest as kola
Martin0 : this use to happen back years ago in Nigeria. some nothern states offer their wives to visitors or guest as kola Kola? Hahahhaahhahaha U juz killed me here..
predmine20 : Please keep me anonymous. I am very stupid for forcing my lovely and beautiful wife to sleep with another man because of money. These how it all started...We have been married for 2 years and was quite doing fine but along the way my two shops was burnt by a mystery fire. I was very devastated but my wife assured me all will be fine as she started carrying the family at this point. But that didn't last as another tragedy strike when she lost her job in the bank during the reccession. We were now at the mercies of neighbours and relatives that took pity on us. A day came when I decided that enough of this hardship and decided to go to my friend with my wife to help us. When we get their,we told him what we came for and he said he will help us but on one condition? That my wife had to sleep with him before he can render any help. I feel like killing him,but a beggar has no choice. My wife was very angry at him for saying that and will told him that we think about it. After a week I told my wife to go and sleep with him in order to help the family. She Slapped me but after pleading with her for more 3 days she agreed. The deed was done and the idiot fulfilled his promise. Now my wife is now down with HIV due to my foolishness because the idiot insist skin to skin or no deal. She has moved out of our matrimonial home and now staying with her aunt. Will she ever forgive me for forcing her against her wish when I go to beg her?Or I should forget about it so that he doesn't hurt me their? Distraught man. lalasticlala mynd44 **We are all pencils in the hand of the creator** Singing: This is Super story.....
QueenSuccubus : Kola? Hahahhaahhahaha U juz killed me here.. yeah Benue state is one of them, I know but the humans from there will always try to convince me it not true. but there's absolutely nothing they can do coz I have a witness who I went along with ... state to the home of yam and peeled nuts
QueenSuccubus :
Kola? Hahahhaahhahaha
U juz killed me here..
waow I like that state coz I always got that chilled cold water for my garri
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