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Women have become more verbal about their desires and one study has even found the most common fantasy of a married woman
We live in a post- Fifty Shades era where sexual fantasies are more openly discussed and in many cases, practiced too. Taboos are finally eroding and couples are learning the art of sexual communication. Thanks to these changing times, women have become more verbal about their desires and one study has even found the most common fantasy of a married woman.
As per the research titled ‘What Exactly Is an Unusual Sexual Fantasy?’ the most common fantasy of a married woman or women in general is — submission and dominance.
In their paper, the researchers shared that “Submission and domination themes were not only common for both men and women, but they were also significantly related to each other.”
They also found seven other common sexual fantasies of women. So if you’re married and haven’t been able to share your sexual fantasy with your husband still, its time to come out and share your desires openly.
Scroll down to see which one is on your list and which ones you’ve already ticked off. Either way, it’s totally normal.
Sexual fantasies are completely natural and allow us to explore our sexuality. But more often than not, we refrain from sharing them with anybody, including our partners. However, these fantasies are extremely common and in case you feel shy to share them, know that you are not alone in wanting them.
Giving or receiving head is one of the top fantasies of a married woman. While this is not a very “out there” act, it is still not your conventional missionary position and is viewed differently by different people.
Some women consider it to be a submissive position, while others feel pampered to take what’s there’s. There are also those who secretly want it, but refrain from going ahead because…OCD!
Either way, if this has been on your list its certainly something you need to try before you completely dismiss it.
Yes, you read that right. Sometimes the idea of being with somebody other than your partner may excite you. It could be the danger of getting caught or the newness of a new connection.
But as with most fantasies, have one doesn’t mean you need to act on it. And if you do, make sure to explore the ethical non-monogamy factor in your own relationship first.
Over the many years you’ve lived with your husband, perhaps he’s been the one to initiate sex. Or perhaps he’s been the one taking control each time. So there is a chance that you fantasise about being the one in-charge for a change.
It can be incredibly hot to call the shots in the bedroom, especially since we still live a world that systematically tries to strip us off our powers both inside and outside the bedroom.
From ribbons to ties à la Christian Grey, to ropes and cuffs, many women find bondage extremely hot. Being unable to move or being restricted while your partner pleasures himself or you can be both painful and pleasurable.
But do your research on it before you start tying yourself or your partner into ropes you can’t get out. Some might find this act claustrophobic or traumatising, so communicate with your partner before you go ahead.
Your partner might be used to seeing you in certain types of clothes. But when you get out of your comfort zone and try something suggestive unexpectedly, you can certainly turn the heat on in your bedroom.
Maybe you’ve fantasised stripping for your partner or teasing them by masturbating in front of them. Whatever your exhibitonist fantasy, try it.
This is perhaps one of the most common fantasy of a married women. After years of living with the same person and indulging in the act in the same way, a sense of routine kicks in. But you can spice your love life with roleplay.
It may have already been in your list of fantasies and if so, there is no better time than now to try it. Play the sex kitten, slutty nurse or the boss and secretary, there is a lot to explore.
This may seem strange at first, but lets be honest, once you get married, sex becomes and feels more like a chore. You have to work on making it hotter. And what better way than to infuse a bit of romance into your bedroom.
If you like roses and champagne, lay them out before you go to bed. Gaze into your partner’s eyes and whisper sweet nothings in his ears. Gently caress his body and slow down your movements. No matter the manifestation, reconnect with the partner you’ve been banging.
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Every woman on earth has fantasized about some explicit sexual fantasy that she may or may not have been too ashamed to talk about. Whether it's your girlfriend or your wife, this top ten list is sure to touch on a forbidden fantasy of her own.
Although most women prefer to leave their fantasies at that, others have a list that they are slowly but surely accomplishing. So the next time your woman seems to be wandering off in thought, who knows, she may be cruising around in the mystical world of sexual fantasy .
So do you think you can guess what some of them are? This list took a lot of time to comprise (and a few bottles of red wine as well), and the women's names have been changed to protect their privacy.
So the next time you're engaging in pillow talk with your lady of the night, her fantasy may be more common than you might think.
Keep in mind that fantasies are a normal and healthy part of our sexuality . They are either taken from past experiences or may even be entirely imaginary. Sometimes these fantasies are taboo, or socially unacceptable, therefore they are only available through fantasy. But as you'll figure out today, the modern woman marvels at sex and sexuality.
10. Strangers in the night Many women relish the idea of meeting up with a mystery man and going to some no-name motel with him for a wild night of uninhibited sex. Sometimes women feel like the only people they can truly let loose with are strangers simply because they won't be judged. And who cares anyway? They'll probably never see the beautiful stranger again.
Francine divulged her perspective, "The idea of sharing a passionate night with a stranger and behaving like a sexual predator doesn't just sound inviting; it sounds delicious. And leaving after we're done without even knowing each other's names is the best part."
9. The more the merrier Group sex was a popular one among the ladies. "The freedom of being nude in front of a bunch of people who are equally exposed, allowing different men and women to touch and penetrate your body simultaneously is incredibly erotic."
Now don't mistakenly assume that all women want to engage in group intercourse, and gather up all your buddies for your next date (unless, of course, she asks you to).
8. Who's your daddy? If there's one thing that women are dying to do, it's dominate a man like never before. The creative ideas that flowed from this topic were quite interesting, to say the least. They included:
7. Lay me out on display In today's world of confident women, I was not surprised to learn that many of them fantasize about having an audience whilst engaging in sexual acts with a partner. I guess the idea of knowing that others are getting excited by their "performance" provides them with a feeling of empowerment.
"Imagining that people are watching me while I'm taking my partner's manhood into my mouth gives me a feeling of satisfaction because it makes me feel sexier." Perhaps these women feel as though they're participating in an erotic movie... speaking abstractly, of course.
6. Sexually ravaged Although most women agreed that they fantasize about having a master, their role in the scenario differed. Whereas some women said that they would surrender to their master's demands, others opposed the idea and said that they would resist and disobey his commands.
Vicky said, "Having him instruct me on how to lick and suck his member or at what pace to ride him will make me orgasm faster than I can say Yes, Master ." On the other hand, Denise interrupted saying, "It depends. In some fantasies I obey, yet in others I fight him and refuse to do anything he says until he finally ties me to the bed and calms me with his rhythmic penetration."
Whew, is it hot in here, or is it just me???
5. I taw, I taw a putty tat Come on, guys, I'm sure you smelled this one coming from miles away (no pun intended... seriously). Yes, virtually every woman wants or will share her body with another woman. Are you jealous because you get left out? Don't be, most of these women want their man to watch them while they work... or play, as the case may be.
"The idea of touching another soft, hairless body and softly sucking her tongue, amongst other things, seems very erotic," said Sara. Actually that does sound pretty inviting, but won't it be difficult for you guys to sit in the corner and just watch? After all, these women don't want you to participate -- okay, one of them did.
4. Leave a good tip Keeping in mind that the women interviewed are professionals with commendable careers, some of them fantasized about being strippers, while others took things a step further and imagined being prostitutes. Obviously, the fantasy is romanticized beyond belief because the life of either is not so glamorous that women would opt to have it as a career choice.
"While I'm performing a lap dance for my customer, he hands me a $100 bill and requests that I perform the lap dance... minus his pants," Tina boldly stated. When I asked Amber about her prostitution fantasy, she said, "The gentleman would pick me up in his expensive car and I would ride him in the driver's seat in some dingy back alley. He would pay me my fee and I'd be on my way."
3. Two can chew Most men enjoy being spoiled by two women who fawn over them simultaneously. In the same instance, women also fantasize about having two men all over their bodies. Some wanted a more gentle erotic scene, while the rare few wanted porno-like sex.
One of the most interesting statements regarding two men was having one penetrate her while the other licked her clitoris. It sounds virtually impossible (especially if the guys are not bisexual), but nevertheless intriguing.
Other good ones include having two guys perform cunnilingus simultaneously, or having one guy perform oral sex while the other sucks on her breasts. Oh, and this goes on for hours by the way.
Another woman made no secret of the fact that she wants to be nasty and do all the taboo things that most women would find degrading. She wants to be penetrated from the anus and the vagina, she wants the guys to release their load all over her, and craziest of all, she wants to be blindfolded through it all.
2. Strap me on, I'm going in By far, one of the most popular fantasies women have is being the man for one night... literally. They would like to act and dress up like a man, and I mean straight down to the penis. That's right, I'm referring to a strap-on penis .
One woman actually had the opportunity to fulfill her fantasy and took full advantage of her boyfriend's willingness. "It was absolutely incredible to be able to penetrate a man and feel the empowerment usually associated with being the aggressor."
"There's something about having a man in a vulnerable position that is an incredible turn-on." Carol admitted. The idea of knowing that we're in the position that is usually assumed by men is probably the most aphrodisiacal element of it all.
1. Ooh, my virgin ears Although saying "rape fantasy" sounds somewhat unthinkable, that's exactly what most women call it. They want to play the innocent, naive, unknowing little girl who gets taken advantage of by the devious, predator-like man.
Forcibly pushing her against the wall and "pinning my arms above my head with one hand while the other hand has made its way under my skirt and is fondling my vagina," received nods of approval by all the women in the room. Andrea went even further expecting the man to "rip off my clothes, force open my legs, penetrate me, and concurrently smear my lipstick all over my face with his forceful kiss." Hmmm, interesting.
Guys, please keep in mind that these are fantasies; don't read this article and take it as a reason to get medieval on your women. The reason fantasies are so cherished is because the majority of them will never be realized.
So have you ever heard any of these before? Or better yet, have you ever participated in any of them? Women of the new millennium have established their position in this sexually charged environment... and I mean that exactly how it sounds.
So gentlemen, protect yourselves at all time, and start doing that by getting yourself some condoms. Until next time, enjoy the femme fatale of your fantasies!
APA Reference Staff, H.
(2009, January 4). Women's Top 10 Sexual Fantasies, HealthyPlace. Retrieved
on 2022, September 8 from https://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychology-of-sex/womens-top-ten-sexual-fantasies

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