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Experience: I'm married but sleep with other men
'I still love my husband and he loves me, but physically it's been very frustrating. We make love only twice a year'
'If I had known 10 years ago that I would be doing this, I would have been disapproving.' Photograph: Lydia Goldblatt for the Guardian
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I didn't embark on an extramarital affair lightly. I've tried everything to improve our relationship. We've been together for 10 years; I still love him and he loves me but physically it's been very frustrating. We make love only twice a year. His excuse has always been the same: that he's too tired. He definitely has a lower sex drive than I have and doesn't seem that keen.
Broaching the subject with him doesn't work as he isn't comfortable revealing his feelings. I even tried sitting on the sofa in a sexy nightie to greet him when he came home, but he just apologised for not feeling up to it and I ended up feeling humiliated and rejected.
There was only so much I could do and I didn't want to leave him. We both have children from previous relationships but none together. Mine still live with me but they're teenagers who have their own lives, so I have plenty of free time. I'm in my 30s and feel my life isn't over yet, so when two years ago I saw an advert in a newspaper for a dating website for married people, I was intrigued. I wouldn't consider having an affair with someone at work – too messy when it goes wrong – but some male attention and uncomplicated sex seemed an attractive option.
I added my details, just to test the water, and soon got lots of responses. Some men were not slow in coming forward; when I requested a photo, more than one sent me a picture of their genitalia, which was just laughable. It's very easy to spot the dodgy men. I could tell that some men were creeping out of the marital bed in the night, judging by the time the emails were sent. It's telling that to join the website it is free for women but men have to pay.
I met half a dozen men over the next few months and slept with three of them. At first, we would meet for coffee. You don't waste time that way – you can tell instantly if there's any chemistry and you can quickly make your excuses if there isn't. Once I took one look at the man through the cafe window and didn't go in. Alternatively, one man I found very attractive couldn't meet when I could – I think his wife was suspicious, so we couldn't take things further.
After the coffee date, if there was a spark we would meet for lunch and after a few dates book into a hotel for the afternoon. The first couple of times I had sex, I felt a bit guilty. I do know what it's like to be cheated on – it happened to me during a previous relationship and it's not nice.
If I had known 10 years ago that I would be doing this, I would have been disapproving. But I carried on and learned to disconnect from the emotional side. If I saw a wedding ring, I didn't let it put me off. In bed, my dates sometimes suffered from performance anxiety, due to guilt and nerves, probably. One time a man wanted me to do things that weren't my cup of tea, including bondage and threesomes, so I didn't meet him again.
Then a year ago I met someone whom I decided to see regularly, and I stopped using the website. He is a successful businessman and very attractive. We book into a posh hotel once a month for the afternoon and also meet for coffee or a night out. The sex is fantastic – uninhibited and adventurous. It's not kind to compare but he can keep going for hours as opposed to the 10 minutes with my husband. He also makes me feel attractive and desirable. I'm flattered by the attention. It stays fresh because we always see the best side of each other – no boring discussions about the electricity bill or rows about whose turn it is to take the bins out. And no morning breath because we've never fallen asleep together.
The anticipation of meeting him is exciting but it's not like falling in love. I have to be strict, to not let myself develop an emotional connection with him.
When I come home afterwards, my husband is usually still at work, so he doesn't even know to ask where I've been. I'm sure he doesn't suspect a thing. I'm very careful not to leave any clues and always meet far from our home so I won't be spotted. What he doesn't know can't hurt him. I dearly hope he won't find out, though, as I don't want to lose him and the impact on the children would be terrible.
If I had to stop seeing my current man, I wouldn't go back on the website. Instead I would have to think long and hard about my relationship at home.
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DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife and I have been having a great time over the past year or so, as I’ve watched her having sex with other men.
We’ve been married for seven years and have a four-year-old son. I am 34 and my wife is 31.
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I had been trying to persuade my wife to try “hotwifing” for a long time and was thrilled when she agreed.
We were sure it would not endanger our relationship.
We joined a swinging club where they cater for things like that. It was an amazing adventure and my wife seemed to have a brilliant time.
She felt liberated and revelled in the attention and power it gave her.
We were a loving couple before we got involved — and it seemed to bring us even closer together.
Then everything seemed to go pear-shaped. Our little boy had pneumonia and had to go into hospital.
He’s OK now but the worry seemed to make my wife withdraw into herself while it made me tense and snappy.
We haven’t had sex for weeks and I asked her what was wrong. At first she said I was getting her down being so irritable and she had just gone off sex.
When I asked if she was having regrets about the swinging she broke down, saying she feels disgusted at what she’s done and how she has betrayed herself and everything she believes in — particularly her marriage vows.
I pointed out it was consensual and that she had done nothing wrong, but she is adamant. I tried to talk about the future but she says we haven’t one.
I’d be devastated to lose my wife and son but I don’t know what to do.
She won’t have anything to do with me physically — not even a kiss. Everything has gone wrong and my life feels like it is falling apart.
UP to 50 per cent of women suffer from a loss of interest in sex, sometimes due to lack of know-how, or often because of issues in their relationship or their past.
Partners can struggle to know how to help. My e-leaflet How To Light Her Fire can help.
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DEIDRE SAYS: I wonder if your wife has told herself that your son’s frightening illness was punishment for you two pushing the boundaries. Thank goodness he is all right now.
Rather than trying to argue with your wife about whether what you did was right or wrong, agree with her that it is something you will avoid in future and, if it has distressed her, that in itself means it was a bad idea.
Swinging and swapping can seem like fun at first but often leads to problems in relationships.
Stop arguing with her and work on having good family times together and I think her talk of you not having a future will die away. Obviously it’s best for your little boy to have two loving parents in a stable home.
Try to warm up your physical relationship very gradually, not pushing for sex but giving her loving kisses and cuddles.
If your longing for “hotwifing” troubles you, my e-leaflet on Kinky Sex Worries can help.
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On some Saturday morning in March of 2005, just a couple of hours after I caught my ex-wife cheating on me, I got a visit from the police.
The guy she was with heard that I’d found out about them and called the police, concerned for her safety. She wasn’t returning either of our calls.
The police checked the house and my text messages to make sure she wasn’t in the house with me and that I hadn’t threatened her safety. I’m not a violent person, but that day, I had taken down all the paintings in our house and cut them to shreds in the garage. One of the cops stopped on the way out and turned to me to say, “I know what you’re going through and I can see the kind of person you are. You are legally within your right to do what you want in this house so long as it doesn’t interfere with your neighbors’ well-being. But if you do tear this house apart, I can tell you’re the kind of guy that’s going to feel bad for it later. She’s not worth that.” Then he just walked out.
His words had all but robbed me of my anger. I was pissed because I wanted to continue to be angry at her, but he was right.
As emotional stability began to return, it hit me. I could still dismantle the house without damaging it. So, I grabbed my tools and in the subsequent ten hours, I dismantled everything in the house that could be unscrewed. I spared nothing.
The kitchen appliances, all the furniture in the study, the 3 bedrooms, the dining room, den, and finally, the living room. I was very careful not to damage anything. I neatly and gently stacked the parts and pieces of everything I dismantled.
I then put all the screws in a shoe box and took them with me.
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