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My wife is a fitness instructor. Today she exercised for 5 hours in various ways. She was up half the night with insomnia. When we made love this evening she winced when I put it in. I could feel her insides were swollen and she was in pain. She told me before she was exhausted and sore all over. She even asked me if she felt swollen inside.

I did not ask her if she's been with someone else but it's the obvious question. Is it possible that a woman's vagina could be swollen and sore from too much exercise and loss of sleep? Or should I be assuming the worst?
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You were banging your wife after she told you that she was in exhausted and sore all over, even to the point of wincing when you entered her and you're asking if she was unfaithful?

What an assh*le.

I did a Google search. Turns out if she had been doing something like a spin class she can be saddle sore and have a swollen vagina. Who know!

@Snowyangel :
Note to self: Forget about trying that spin class!

@phillygirl :
It WILL leave you sore. I don't know why they have those tiny little uncomfortable seats on them. I went back to reformer pilates.

It is completely normal!! I do an hour of spin class three times a week and I'm always sooooo sore in my vagina from sitting on a hard cushion! She's extra sore because she's a fitness instructor, they have to go above and beyond for their patrons. They have to act like they're not hurting or are tired, but really she's sooo uncomfortable. I find it very respectful you're asking others before confronting her with possible false accusations. If you really wanna help, purchase her a soft cushion seat cover for her bike on Amazon or whatever and tell her it's because you care so much about her and her vagina's well being. Watch how much sex you get then ;) it's all about compassion.

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Communities > Sexual Health > Not able to enter my wife's Vagina

Hi, I have recently got married. When me and my wife have sex i am not able to penetrate her vagina. I mean when i put my penis in her vagina only my head is able to go in. I tried to put my finger in her vagina to see if i am putting it in the right place but it didnt help. It felt as if there is just no place for my penis to go in. how ever in my previous sex with my ex girl friend i was able to put my full penis in her vagina. I can not understand as to why i am not able to penetrate my wife's vagina?

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her pelvic bone has shifted, see an Urologist & get x-rays. my ex doctor told me to try different positions. my new doc took x-rays and told me about my pelvis. my sex life was never a problem til now. i don't know if your wife has had any operations lately, i feel that they didn't put me back right. when my husband tries to enter it feels like he's hitting a bone. the pain is excruciating.. check it out with a Urologist. that's my next step. I feel for you & your wife. just remember its not you or her fault.
IN THE SAME BOAT

You might try using vibrator to get her started stretching out. Just start slow and use lots of lubrication.

SquirreliciousAngel
Dec 18, 2008

is your wife able to penetrate herself manually? she may be nervous and therefore her PC muscles will be tightened. the first few times you have sex it may be difficult but the more relaxed she becomes the easier it should be for you to penetrate her.

Best of Luck!
~S.A.

i guess your wife is still virgin and it's always hard to have sex(penetrate) for the first time. it will be fine if u keep doing sex...

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Why I photographed 100 vulvas
Most women have no idea what’s down there – there’s no such thing as ‘normal’

as told to Lisa Harvey 11 February 2019
“My labia felt like big elephant ears”
“I don’t define myself as a woman anymore”
“My vulva reminds me of a pink cupcake”
“ Whatever you’ve got is wonderful ”
“I’m unlikely to conceive naturally”
Contains adult themes, explicit imagery and very strong language
“Where would you normally see another vulva?” photographer Laura Dodsworth asks me. “Mainly only in porn,” she answers. “Especially if you’re looking online. But there’s a world of difference between how you see vulvas in porn – and how you see them in real life. It’s so important for women to know what vulvas look like. It can help with body image anxiety. We really need to talk about them because many women haven’t looked at their own. They don’t know what’s down there.”
I first met Laura, a photographer from Surrey, in 2015 following her exploration of 100 women’s relationships with their breasts.
The campaign reached its crowd-funding target of £10,900 in a day and featured powerful, untouched images and stories of anonymous participants aged 19 to 101.
In 2017, she focused her lens on penises to examine the concept of masculinity.
Now, her latest work puts vulvas and vaginas in the spotlight thanks to her new book Womanhood: The Bare Reality and forthcoming Channel 4 documentary: 100 Vaginas.
And when 100 women share intimate photos and deeply personal experiences relating to their vaginas, the result is a tender yet taboo-exploding message of women reclaiming their womanhood. At least, that’s what Laura set out to achieve.
“I never thought I’d do this,” she says. “In my mind, I’d already covered women’s stories through breasts. I also didn’t want to do it because I hadn’t faced myself in that way. I think a part of me was shying away from that intimacy because I would have to address my own related experiences. You can’t go into a project where you interview women about their vulva, and not think about your own. And although I’ve had pleasure, I’ve also experienced bad sex, traumatic birth and deep shame. In short: I’d have to confront the big stuff.”
“Three things, actually,” she says. “I read a report about how 200 million girls and women around the world have suffered female genital mutilation (FGM), which angered and sickened me. Shortly after, I came across a PDF health leaflet that disrespectfully referred to the vagina as ‘a front hole’. The correct language and understanding of female genitalia is so important to me: the vulva is the whole external package, the vagina is a muscular tube which leads from the cervix (the neck of the womb) down to the vulva.”
Later, a BBC report about girls as young as nine seeking labiaplasty – surgery that involves the lips of the vagina being shortened or reshaped – because they were distressed by its appearance, had Laura reaching for her camera again. “The idea that girls and young women think their vagina is ugly and want to change how it looks is just wrong, and sad.”
Consultant gynecologist Dr Pandelis Athanasias says “there’s no such thing as a normal vagina – they naturally vary in size, shape or colour.”
There’s also a misconception that the labia is supposed to be a certain length. “Studies have found that the labia majora (outer lips) length varies from approximately 6 to 12cm, and labia minora (inner lips) length varies from 2 to more than 10cm,” he explains. “Labia can be thin or thick, darker or lighter and sometimes longer on one side. The key is not concentrating on the size or shape but whether it affects your physical or emotional wellbeing. And if it’s impacting your daily life, that’s when a gynecologist consultation is recommended.”
Despite the expert assurance, Dr Athanasias believes labiaplasty is “on the rise.”
Dr Naomi Crouch, chair of the British Society for Paediatric and Adolescent Gynaecology, has also noticed a “marked increase in girls and young women seeking labiaplasty” over the last few years.”
She believes a cultural change amongst adolescents and young women, who now choose to remove or style the pubic hair, coupled with a lack of understanding about vulval anatomy, is fuelling the rise. “The vulva takes many years to develop,” she says.
“The labia minora are usually first, and sometimes more prominent during the early stages. But it can be hard to find accurate information about this.”
Which is where Laura’s project comes in. “I thought perhaps the rise in labiaplasty wouldn’t be happening if people understood more about what other women looked like,” she says. “Some people will be shocked by my images, but I think they form an educational purpose.”
The idea that girls and young women think their vagina is ugly and want to change how it looks is just wrong, and sad
Although Laura admits to being nervous at the beginning. “I hadn’t knelt before a woman with her legs spread before.”
That said, within a couple of weeks of putting a call out for volunteers, she had over 100 willing participants from all over the UK. “The hunger for this was fierce,” she recalls. “It’s chiming with something right now. Maybe it’s in the wake of #MeToo and #TimesUp – women want to reclaim their bodies, and their stories. It’s why I wanted to represent different ages, ethnicities, backgrounds – as well as women’s different experiences relating to their vulva.”
Photographing this intimate area led to some unique and deeply personal stories. “Each one has stayed with me,” she says. “The 46-year-old virgin. The woman who endured FGM. The woman who had her vagina removed because of cancer.”
But she also heard positive stories of sexual pleasure and pregnancy. “One woman had an orgasm when she gave birth, another talked about the different types of orgasms she can have, which inspired me to think about sensuality differently. Then there was the 70-year-old woman who has ‘a lawnmower of a vibrator’. I loved that, because interviewing women who have been through the menopause and still have incredible sex lives sends out a beautiful message about womanhood.”
All 100 women photographed in Laura’s project
However, sadly, many of the conversations she had with her participants were tied with a disturbing thread of abuse. “I was really shocked by how many women brought up sexual assault. I’d be talking to someone whose story I thought was about their wonderful sex life or a health condition, and they’d open up about being raped or an experience in childhood of grooming.”
Even though she refers to it as the hardest part of the project, Laura believes including so many of these harrowing experiences adds to the impact of her message – because there is no singular female experience.
“Some of the women I met had looked at themselves lots, some women had never looked and didn’t want to see it, and some women saw it for the first time on the back of my camera, which was a big deal. They asked me, ‘Is that what it’s supposed to look like?’, and I found myself explaining what different parts of them are and telling them that’s everyone’s different.”
The idea that women are turning away from pleasure because they’re worried about what they look, smell and taste like has unearthed a fundamental message for Laura.
“Shame is a really big problem for human beings,” she sighs. “Where I’ve found that, generally, men are under pressure to be ‘enough’ – big enough, getting laid enough, rich enough, man enough – women feel like they’re ‘too much’ – too fat, too hairy, too saggy, too female. Frankly, we just need to be as we are. Yes, you can look at the photos and go ‘Wow, we all look really different’, but it’s also about connecting with the honesty of these stories. Because if you find yourself feeling admiration, pride and inspiration for another person, it becomes easier to apply that to yourself, too.”
Does she expect any backlash? “There’s nothing gratuitous about what I do,” she says. “I’ve always made a conscious attempt to photograph body parts in a way which is simple, comparative and non-sexualised. That doesn’t mean I think breasts, penises and vulvas can’t be sexual. But I photograph them so we can simply go, ‘That’s what they look like’.”
With that in mind, she couldn’t not confront her own vulnerabilities. “When I first looked at my vulva I thought, ‘Whoa, there’s a lot going on there!’ But taking part has been transformative for me: I’m more comfortable in my skin as a woman. It’s a pivotal experience to do something like this because it’s so exposing.
“I feel like I’ve been a creative warrior for women, helping them reclaim their bodies and their stories – and I’m fiercely protective of them. I hope it’s a game changer, especially for young women. If I’d seen and read this when I was 18, I think my entire life would have been different.
"I’m not exaggerating, I think it would have changed everything for me.”
Whether it’s power, pleasure, impassiveness or pain, each woman’s relationship with her vulva is completely individual. These six anonymous women – who bravely bared all for Laura’s project – prove just that…
When I masturbated when I was younger, I used to hate it when my clitoris got bigger – I thought it looked like a penis. I felt very self-conscious about it. I thought my labia were too big as well. I had to be drunk to have sex and I never let anybody pleasure me.
I thought the area of the vagina should look like the ones that I’d seen in porn on the internet, and they looked polar opposite to mine. Porn made me feel like shit in all sorts of ways – I think I wasted 12 years of my life suffering because of what I thought my vagina looked like.
I watched a documentary that talked about porn stars who were having operations to make their labia smaller. I realised it was something you could have done so I went to my GP and I had a bit of a breakdown. The consult
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