Wife Toy

Wife Toy
Mon., Feb. 19, 2018 timer 3 min. read
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When I first met my wife of four years (dated three years) she seemed very conservative — a good fit for my personality style and upbringing.
After six months, she moved in. While unpacking, I found a book I didn’t realize was her diary.
The first pages described a sexual affair she’d had with a married man in his 50s, when she was 23.
I stopped reading, and never brought it up.
When we married, my wife’s long-time friend and her husband came for dinner.
The friend became intoxicated and recounted their university days when they played strip-poker with four guys, which ended in an orgy.
My wife and I fought for a month over this. She claimed that her friend was mistaken and exaggerating in her drunkenness.
We now have children. While looking for a missing TV remote in my wife’s nightstand I found several sex toys, lingerie and platform “stripper” shoes.
I’ve never seen those items before. She’s always very conservative in bed.
Should I confront her? I feel there’s a hidden side to her. My instincts say to leave.
If you believe your wife truly leads a double life as a stripper or sex worker or having affairs, your instinct’s right.
However, if she has a regular job in a workplace, or is occupied at home with youngsters, and without other evidence of an alternate life, then it’s your pride telling you to leave.
But with seven years of history together, you need to know more than you’ve written here.
Confront her (not accuse). Ask her why she keeps those sexy items around.
Maybe she fantasizes but presents a conservative sexual side because she thinks that’s all you want.
She may have hidden passion that she feels she must suppress. You need some answers.
Then, getting marital counselling together might reveal the story behind the one you’re playing in your head, without knowing what’s true.
My parents divorced in 1997 and I’m now 30. My dad’s still with the woman he married several years later.
My parents still fight and argue. My younger sister still has resentment toward my dad.
She recently had surgery and both parents were at the hospital. They soon didn’t get along and my dad made a comment about my sister still living with my mom.
I’m getting married soon and my mom wants me to never mention my dad, or involve a group text with him and her both in it…. and more.
I don’t want to sabotage my relationships with friends, my boyfriend, my work life, etc. over them.
I don’t get why they just don’t stop fighting. I think it’s affecting me now more than ever.
Their whole dynamic may’ve been win-lose and push-pull, so nothing’s changed.
Or, one side can never forgive the other, or neither accept that they too may’ve contributed to the split.
Meanwhile, you no longer have to feel “in the middle” or a victim of their animosity.
Her orders about how to behave with your father are her needs, not yours.
Even if you don’t text them together, you can still have whatever relationship with him that you choose.
If she finds out, it’s no longer her business.
The only thing about them that can “sabotage” your own relationship is if you continue to dwell on their negative one.
See an individual therapist to hear professional feedback about ways to separate your own decisions and choices from theirs.
Don’t break up a family over hurt pride; learn what’s true and why it happened.
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Here Are the Best Sex Toys for Women Over 50

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In season 3 of the hit Netflix comedy Grace And Frankie , Grace (played by Jane Fonda) unveils her state-of-the-art sex toy for older women. It has everything: a lightweight grip handle, glow-in-the-dark buttons, and flexible angled head. If only her design were real! In lieu of Netflix launching their own licensed Grace and Frankie vibrator, we scoured the Internet for reviews and recommendations to bring you the best sex toys for women over 50.
If your sex toy search has left you unsatisfied, you’re not alone. Women over 50 struggle to find sex toys for a number of reasons. You may have rheumatoid arthritis , which makes any sort of gripping or vibrating uncomfortable on your hands and joints. For women experiencing menopause or postmenopausal symptoms, a non-penetrative device is key. And for every woman, regardless of age, finding the right sex toy can take trial and error. But you deserve to feel sexy!
Here are the hottest sex toys for women over 50 from bestselling brands with high-quality products. We’ve also included the reasons that make them accessible, comfortable, and, most importantly, fun! If you’ve only used one kind of sex toy, it may be time to try something new. If you’ve never tried any toy or sex aid, these are great options for novices and experts alike.
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The Palm Power Massager comes highly recommended for women with arthritis . It has one easily clickable button, which you hold to increase intensity. The long handle absorbs the vibrations of its powerful head, so it won’t hurt to hold. It’s lightweight and ergonomic with a bendable neck for effortless positioning. The adaptable device also features a removable head that you can swap out for a variety of shaped attachments . It’s ideal for newcomers who want to keep it simple, but who may also want to branch out in the future.
Unbelievably soft and squishy, the compact Iroha Yuki vibrator is best for women who have pain or discomfort with penetration. The snowman shape allows for a little insertion, while the silicon body works for external and clitoral stimulation. It’s rechargeable, discreet, and cute!
Touted as a “technological breakthrough in orgasmic response,” the Eroscillator 2 is unlike any other vibrator or sex toy. It comes with the enthusiastic endorsement of sex therapist (and woman over 50) Dr. Ruth Westheimer. The secret? It oscillates rather than vibrates, making it the ideal device for women with arthritis to grip and maneuver. An extra tip for maximum pleasure: try it with the fan-favorite soft fingertip head!
The We-Vibe Touch X Vibrator is the go-to travel vibrator for many women. Its sleek, fully waterproof design and travel lock make it worthy of your carry-on. With 8 intensity settings and 7 pulse patterns, it isn’t one-note either. Plus, you can choose between two fashionable colors: Crave Coral or Green Velvet.
The Volta is a highly-reviewed, distinctive toy for those who find traditional vibrators boring. With its range of 6 intensity levels, the fluttering split-tips can provide pleasure all over your body—or your partner’s body, regardless of gender. Its ergonomic handle is solid and sturdy. Perfect for partnered play or a solo session!
Fun Factory, which also makes the Volta, reuses their same sturdy handle for the ribbed Patchy Paul G5 Vibrator. Don’t be afraid of the size either: the tip begins at 1.1 inch diameter and slowly increases for your comfort.
For those who need a no-tech option, this is the perfect toy for beginners . It comes in two thin shapes made of body-safe silicone with a suction-cup end. You can bend it into any position with ease.
The Magic Wand is a classic, beloved massager for a reason. The cordless option is more convenient than the plugged-in original, and the simple front buttons make it uncomplicated to operate.
A super discreet pick, the Je Joue Mimi Soft Luxury Vibrator is as sensual as it sounds. It delivers powerful vibrations in 5-6 speeds and patterns. A clitoral vibrator is ideal for women who experience postmenopausal symptoms , or who cannot reach orgasm from vaginal penetration .
Another clitoral stimulator—this time with suction—the We-Vibe Melt is a showstopper. The round silicone head surrounds the clitoris and gives it all the attention it needs. The ergonomic shape is easy to grip and the extra suction means there’s less vibrating and adjustment necessary.
This one's not exactly a sex toy, but this supplement will help take your libido to a whole other level. ORGASM GLOW is an herbal blend that gives your body balance so you can enjoy maximum pleasure. Ingredients like Damiana, and Tribulus Terrestris increase sexual desire, while Ashwagandha reduces stress, and Zinc reduces inflammation. This perfect blend will have you feeling fresh, relaxed, rejuvenated - and ready for pleasure!
Not a “sex toy” in the traditional sense, but a great addition to any toy or sex session, the Liberator Wedge is an accessible option to make your next experience effortless and effective. Your pelvic floor will thank you!
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