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Well, I must admit I am pleased that it’s almost been two weeks and until today, I haven’t witnessed my wife break a rule. She has been on her best behaviour.
Tonight, there was a mishap that I still felt had to be addressed if my word is to mean anything. While I was watching the inauguration, my wife was preparing dinner, and I heard a loud bang followed a very loud, FUCK! Not once, not twice but I think five times.
I went into the kitchen to see a huge salad spilt all over the floor.
Not to toot my own horn, but I was very calm and asked her if she said what I thought she said, and she looked like she saw a ghost. I calmly told her to stand in the corner, the corner I showed which is the designated punishment corner.
She apologized and said she should never speak that way. I told her I appreciated her apology, but she needed to stand in the corner immediately. I lightly took her by the arm, and brought her to the corner, positioned her and told her to think about the language she used and not to turn around.
Whew! The first step accomplished, and I had some time to prepare for the spanking. I decided to have her spend 20 minutes in the corner. I decided since it was her first spanking that I would use mostly my hand and then maybe 10 with the paddle.
After 20 minutes, I insisted she strip and stand in front of me.
I told her I was going to give her a spanking and I asked her why. She answered because I swore.
I put her over my knee and spanked her for about five minutes with my hand. She was quiet, but her behind turned pink.
I then grabbed my paddle, which I had next to the chair and gave her 10 fairly hard spanks. She was no longer quiet and begged me to stop. It was very hard for me, but I carried on and told her this would happen every time she swears. She started crying, and finally, I could tell by her sobbing, and the very red colour of her behind I had spanked her sufficiently. I sent her back to the corner and told her to think about her behaviour. She was crying still.
I made her stand in the corner for another 20 minutes. At the 15 minute mark, I made her turn to me, and I put a bar of soap in her mouth and told her to spend 5 minutes with it in her mouth.
She gagged a little and then I turned her back to face the corner.
I spent these five minutes lecturing her on how inappropriate it is for a lady of her beauty and intelligence to use such words. It will not be tolerated, and I hope that your behind will remind you not to. I could tell she wanted to speak but couldn’t because of the soap. When her corner time was finished, I let her spit out the soap and had her watch me put in a sealable bag reminding her that it’s her for future use.
I had her hang my paddle back up and put the soap in the medicine cabinet.
I then hugged her and told her she handled her punishment well. I told her to continue cleaning up and make dinner but to remain nude. And that is what she is doing now. I think I will let her put her clothes on after dinner and cleanup.
Well, for the first spanking, I think it went well. I remained calm, was very firm and gave her a good spanking. She was pretty submissive and very embarrassed. I think nude corner time with soap made her feel humiliated, which I feel was deserved.
I can’t deny that it was challenging to really spank her, but I am determined to steer her right and improve my marriage.
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Apr 9, 2014
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I ask that only the ladies answer this question and please let me know if you are married.
My wife and I have had a wonderful and extremely intimate marriage for nearly 40 years. Many people have told us they're envious of our relationship.
About 6 months ago my wife said something to me with no intent to harm. I honestly think that if she had committed adultery it wouldn't have hurt as much. It emotionally destroyed me; so much so that I told her I didn't want to be around her. She kept apologizing and tried to hug me, but I told her not to touch me.
I literally would have bet my life that she would have never done anything to hurt me so much. She felt terrible and couldn't stop crying. I started sleeping in another bedroom. A few nights later she came to me crying and told me she no longer wanted to live because of what her comment did to me and said, "I ruined our marriage, you'll never have the same feelings for me, it will never be the same and it's all my fault."
I asked her why she said what she did and she told me she doesn't know, it was just spontaneous and certainly didn't intend to harm me. After about an hour discussion she came to the conclusion that it had to do with her insecurity regarding an issue she has. Once explained, I told her I understood and hugged her. Our relationship is now as strong as it ever was.
Here's my dilemma: We have played with the sex toys, etc., and also engage in sensual spanking of each other. Once in a while we will get carried away and administer a rather severe spanking. Not even close to blister-type severe, but she has cried a few times. We have a paddle made strictly for spanking which can be VERY painful in a stinging way.
Even though we're as close as ever after our discussion, I asked her if I wanted, could I give her 50 severe swats with the paddle. Even before I asked I knew she would say yes, which she did. I can tell you that 50 swats with this paddle would have her screaming and balling.
I didn't carry it out, but I still at times have the urge/desire to severely spank her 20 times. This paddle stings so acute that she would probably begin crying after about 6. (I have no doubt she would let me give her 100 swats if that's what it took to satisfy me; our love is that strong.)
I honestly think I WOULD feel much better if I had her lie over my legs in bed and administered 20 severe swats. She certainly wouldn't like it and I'm concerned that it might affect her feelings about me. I need input from some ladies.
So causing your wife pain that's unpleasant and makes her cry appeals to you? Doesn't sound like love to me; sounds like a nasty person with control issues and an inferiority complex.
If my hb did that to me you can bet I'd never forget it.
What exactly did she say that was so horrible but she meant nothing by?
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If I were your wife and you tried this crap with me, you might do it one time, but you would NEVER get a chance to do it again!!!!
It sounds like you want to hurt her back for the unintentional hurt she caused you. I don't understand the want to hurt someone you love. You want her to hurt physically, yeah that wouldn't fly with me, especially if you know she would agree out of guilt.
First off, you should quit lying to your wife. If you tell her that you understand whatever caused this transgression, then it's over. If you want to hit her until YOU feel better, that's a far, far cry from "understanding".
Lying and violence? Yep. Would absolutely affect my feelings for someone.
Or...
You ask her permission for this punishment spanking. And if she agrees, you set the number and agree on a safe word. Once it's done, it's over. You may not ever bring up or feel rotten about the comment again. If you can't do that, no. Don't spank her.
Married 29 years and we enjoy some spanking too!
"Some women are blessed with multi-orgasmic ability for a reason and I'm damn sure not going to waste a blessing" ~FrenchFry
"Vaginas are tricky creatures." ~Lucy999
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So causing your wife pain that's unpleasant and makes her cry appeals to you? Doesn't sound like love to me; sounds like a nasty person with control issues and an inferiority complex.
If my hb did that to me you can bet I'd never forget it.
What exactly did she say that was so horrible but she meant nothing by?
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So, you want to physically hurt your wife, quite a lot by your own admission, in order to punish her for having said something that hurt your feelings? After you've already told her you forgive her and understand that she did not intend any harm to you? And you want to know if most women would be okay with this?
Well, no, I don't think they would. Nor most men either, I think. Are the two of you in a taken-in-hand type marriage? If not, now's not the time to try to make that happen. If you are, then there should already be a procedure in place for this situation.
That must have really been some comment she made.
You'll find that many of the truths we cling to depend greatly upon a certain point of view. - Obi Wan Kenobi
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Apr 9, 2014
Or...
You ask her permission for this punishment spanking. And if she agrees, you set the number and agree on a safe word. Once it's done, it's over. You may not ever bring up or feel rotten about the comment again. If you can't do that, no. Don't spank her.
Married 29 years and we enjoy some spanking too!
I'm not going to disclose what she said, but I very much appreciate your input.
Incidentally, many people have told me I'm one of the nicest persons they've met and I definitely don't have control or inferiority issues. If I had control issues do you think I would let her spank me?
Oh, and this is a WAY FAR cry from a sensual spanking. This is punishment and retaliation. Unless you two are already heavily into a consensual lifestyle of this nature, don't try to equate sexual play with physical punishment.
You'll find that many of the truths we cling to depend greatly upon a certain point of view. - Obi Wan Kenobi
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Apr 9, 2014
So, you want to physically hurt your wife, quite a lot by your own admission, in order to punish her for having said something that hurt your feelings? After you've already told her you forgive her and understand that she did not intend any harm to you? And you want to know if most women would be okay with this?
Well, no, I don't think they would. Nor most men either, I think. Are the two of you in a taken-in-hand type marriage? If not, now's not the time to try to make that happen. If you are, then there should already be a procedure in place for this situation.
That must have really been some comment she made.
This is 2014, not the dark ages, and you are NOT in a role playing game either.
At least your username is spot on.
People don't get a free pass to cheat just because their marriage sucks.
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I agree with lifeistooshort and Rowan on this.
She's saying yes because she wants to please you, not because she actually wants it. She's afraid to lose you.
Also, it's punishment under a guise of what's supposed to be bedroom pleasure
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When I asked if I could spank her 50 times she said yes, but after that I don't want you to ever bring it up again. You must think a lot like her. If so, your husband is very fortunate.
"Some women are blessed with multi-orgasmic ability for a reason and I'm damn sure not going to waste a blessing" ~FrenchFry
"Vaginas are tricky creatures." ~Lucy999
What is a "taken-in-hand" type marriage? This is the first time I've heard that term.
Make no mistake about it, what you want to do is cruel and sick. A nice person wouldn't consider this appropriate payback for hurt feelings. A loving husband certainly wouldn't entertain it.
I could give up chocolate but I'm not a quitter.
I gots too know ......what did she say that was sooooo hurtfull?
It might make the advice that people give you better or more complete.
People survived concentration camps, earthquakes,tornados,war, etc,etc. Now no matter whar your going through its survivable!
if it can give you the catharsis you need, and both of you can move past it, go ahead.
have a safe word. administer the punishment spanking. then never ever bring it up again.
if you DO spank her and STILL end up holding it over her head, it will be a huge blow to her trust for you.
"I am the wiser in respect to all knowledges, and the better qualified for all fortunes, for knowing that there is a minnow in the brook." -Henry David Thoreau
That seems like a very heavy punishment for a comment , Addled.
Are you really wanting to do this in her best interest?
One of the deepest feminine pleasures is when a man stands full, present, and unreactive in the midst of his woman's emotional storms. When he stays present with her, and loves her through the layers of wildness and closure, then she feels his trustability, and she can relax. -- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man
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My favorite from this company was where one young lady was receiving a severe paddling and the guy said at one point “there you are, now would you like to receive 5 more?”
She replied “no sir, I am done.”
He said “oh, you are done, are you?”
So hilarious and so fucking hot.
Can anyone help me find this video?
It also had 3 or 4 other girls getting paddled.
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