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You’ve got problems, I’ve got advice. This advice isn’t sugar-coated—in fact, it’s sugar-free, and…
This week we have a man who’s unhappy with his wife’s career in the adult entertainment industry.
Keep in mind, I’m not a therapist or any other kind of health professional—just a guy who’s willing to tell it like it is. I simply want to give you the tools you need to enrich your damn lives. If for whatever reason you don’t like my advice, feel free to file a formal complaint here . Now then, let’s get on with it.
After 20 years and two children my beloved wife entered the adult entertainment industry against my wishes two years ago. We do not have money issues. Great sex every other day. She has a learning disorder and never could excel in the professional world. Looks and a hefty dose of narcissism is all there is. My wife is an outstanding mother to our children. It is killing me that she is willing to ruin our life together... Don’t know what to do next.
On one hand, if you’re not okay with what she’s doing, then you’re not okay with it. That’s all there is to it. There are a lot of risks involved in sex work, so it’s understandable to be concerned. And if she’s having sex with other people things can get real complicated (is she cheating on you or working?). Also, this is going to be hard to explain to your kids, if they found out. If you haven’t already, you need to tell her that you think it’s going to ruin your life together. If she knows you just can’t take it, and that you’d be willing it end it all over her career choice, maybe she’ll give it up. Maybe .
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But I’m guessing you’ve already tried that, LiSF, and it didn’t work (it has been two years, after all). So you need a different way to approach this. First, you need to stop treating this situation like a relationship nuclear bomb. Outside of this problem—however horrible it may seem to you—your life sounds great. You’re in love, you have a decent marriage (with a woman who is a great mother), you have sex regularly, you have no money problems, and two children. I mean, if this porn thing was that big of a deal, you wouldn’t have plopped around whimpering “please don’t” for two years while it happened.
Second, you need to look at this situation from her perspective. Why do you think she’s doing this in the first place? You say it’s narcissism that led her to this, but that’s not really fair, Mister “I don’t want anybody looking at my wife, even if she wants you to.” It could be that she wants some attention that you haven’t been giving her. Or perhaps it’s because she’s a little bored with your “perfect” life and wants something more. She’s a great mother, awesome, but maybe she wants to be more than that. Her learning disorder kept her from excelling in the professional world and now she’s found something she can (presumably) excel at—something that makes her feel fulfilled and good about herself. Dang, LiSF, she wants to be good at something besides just being your wife. And that’s okay!
So, instead of asking her to change for you, see if there’s a way to compromise with her here. Maybe you can overcome your prejudice against sex work and at least try to be supportive. In return, maybe she’d let you set forth some ground rules that would make you feel more comfortable about it all. For example, you could ask her to stick to camming, ask her to avoid contact with other entertainers, ask her not to show her face in her videos, etc. It’s possible she just likes being watched, so maybe there’s a way you can address that desire another way (like sex clubs or voyeur shows) so she doesn’t feel the need to display herself online. Expand your boundaries here and find out what your real limits are, LiSF, then talk to her about it. I doubt her intention is to make you miserable. When it’s all said and done, if you honestly can’t muster a way to be supportive in some capacity, you should at least try to help her find similar fulfillment elsewhere. It’s obvious she wants something more. Help her find it, or accept her for who she is now and move on.
That’s it for this week, but I still have plenty of blunt, honest advice bottled up inside. Tell me, what’s troubling you? Is work getting you down? Are you having problems with a friend or a coworker? Is your love life going through a rough patch? Do you just feel lost in life, like you have no direction? Tell me, and maybe I can help. I probably won’t make you feel all warm and fuzzy inside, but sometimes what you need is some tough love. Ask away in the comments below, or email me at the address you see at the bottom of the page ( please include “ADVICE” in the subject line ). Or tweet at me with #ToughLove ! Also, DO NOT EMAIL ME IF YOU DON’T WANT YOUR REQUEST FEATURED . I do not have time to respond to everyone just for funsies. ‘Til next time, figure things out for yourself.
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What it’s like to date one of the world’s biggest porn stars
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I have met many couples in the adult industry who are in open relationships. For them, making the transference to porn is just a matter of being open and on screen.
But is it possible to be a porn star and still be monogamous?
This is the case for Joanna Angel, an award-winning adult star, director, producer, author and CEO, and her husband Aaron, who is also an award-winning adult star.
That might be a difficult concept to get your head around considering they both get paid to have sex with other people for a living, but this also allows us to see how different sex is on screen.
You will hear people say that porn sex is not real sex. While it does involve two (or more people) engaging in sexual acts, it’s the fact that the intent is not the same as in real life and the intimacy is not there that allows some porn couples to keep their relationships monogamous off set.
Angel and Aaron met six years ago, before he was in the adult industry. Angel had promised herself she would never date another porn performer after a messy breakup, however, dating what she calls a “civilian” (someone outside of the porn industry) also has its challenges around the concept of going to work.
“Aaron and I dated for a good month and I didn’t do any scenes, but then eventually that changed. I would explain to him when I was on set that I’m the director as well, so I don’t have a lot of time to do texting and calling.
“At first he was fine. He was, in fact, a fan. But in the middle of the day, he would sometimes feel like he was going crazy. He was very honest with me when he felt insecure. He didn’t feel like he was as good as the guys on set and it hurt his ego.”
Angel’s marriage with Aaron is monogamous. It’s a decision they made after she struggled with jealousy in a previous relationship.
“Before my relationship with Aaron, I dated another civilian, but I was feeling insecure about my job, so I told him to go and have fun with other girls.
“I thought that’s what I needed to do to make it fair. But I couldn’t handle it, I didn’t want an open relationship, but I felt due to my job I had to.”
She explains she “went insane” after a girl her partner was seeing started posting things on social media, realizing there was a clear difference between his emotional intimacy with her, and the work she was doing.
When Aaron got into the industry — he goes by the stage name “Small Hands” — Angel began to experience what he used to feel.
“I don’t do that many scenes anymore. I do 12-14 scenes a year. And now he does 12-15 scenes a month. The tables have turned, and I feel like I’m the civilian dating someone in the industry.
“We then had to have the same conversations when we were first dating, and I learned that I cannot pretend to be OK with things.”
Angel explains that just because she is also a porn star, it does not mean her husband working in porn always feels OK.
“If I feel uncomfortable I say it. There have been two times with two girls that whatever there was, I felt uncomfortable. It doesn’t happen very often.”
And as if being married in porn wasn’t complex enough, Angel is also sometimes the boss and can put her director’s hat on when it comes to working with her husband. “I direct my husband all the time and it’s not weird at all. It’s probably weird for the other girl. For the next hour, I’m not his wife. For the next hour, I tell them to … give me a good scene. If I sense a girl is holding back because of me I leave the room.”
Professional porn is a controlled environment and it’s that context that allows those in monogamous relationships to be at ease when it comes to their partner doing a scene with another person.
“The controlled environment really changes everything, even if you are having sex with your own husband on set.
“If you are in bed in the morning and you surprise him, that’s spontaneous sex.
“That’s not the way it happens on set. It’s still him but it’s a different version of him. And being a guy in porn, you are an athlete. You have to do something that is not natural.
“You have to be aroused for a long period of time, change angles to allow the right shot for a camera and then ejaculate when you are told to. That is not something any guy can do at home.”
It’s clear monogamy is a complex term. While some might think that not having sex with others is a way to be monogamous, others will be hurt by emotional connections, online flirting or non-physical intimacy with someone outside of a relationship.
Angel and Aaron might be having sex with other people while at “work,” but the sex they choose to freely have at home is different, spontaneous and full of intimacy as well as pleasure. There are no cameras, no characters and no strict start and stop. That is the way they keep their union separate from their roles as adult stars.
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A woman has opened up about what it’s like to be married to a man who is a pornstar.
While many people couldn’t handle even the idea of their partner sleeping with another person, Katy Bampton has revealed it doesn’t bother her that her husband sleeps with a different woman twice a week.
In February, 29-year-old Bampton married adult entertainer Robbie Oz, but said in an Instagram video for Hashtag Our Stories that she’ll sometimes “forget” that their marriage is an unusual one.
She said: “I forget sometimes that this is our life and we live this way every day … and that I’m actually married to a porn star.”
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But, it wasn’t always like that, as she said it took some adjusting after initially judging Oz’s career choice before their first date.
She explained: “The first time I saw Rob was on Instagram. I judged him for being a sex worker. I saw his page and I thought, ‘This is not something I’m interested in.
“I was judging, because I thought, ‘Oh, he’s been with a lot of girls,’ and I didn’t want to put myself into that scenario.”
Bampton said she came around and realised it was mainly her “conditioning from society” that was getting in the way.
When they became a couple, Oz said the sex he has at work and at home are two different thing.
Oz explained: “For me, sex stopped becoming so much about the physical, it’s actually about the energetic exchange. That’s something that we have really strongly between us.”
He said he gets tested for STIs every two weeks and wears a condom 90 per cent of the time while working.
Bampton admitted some of her friends and family are baffled by their situation.
She said: “Some don’t really understand. Other, don't understand but don’t judge.”
She continued: “I have no need to be jealous that he’s going to go off with another girl. I know where Rob is every day of the week, as in the job he does, whereas some don’t.”
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