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I am a disciplined wife who has studied the psychology of punishment in order to be the wife God meant me to be.
Ordered nudity or partial nudity as a form of punishment has been a practice for hundreds of years. Exposure and vulnerability inspires submissiveness. And when the order is delivered by her husband, it makes the wife want to seek her husband’s approval through obedience, affection and proper self-subjugation to her sovereign. It reinforces the roles and reminds her that her body belongs to her husband to pleasure and punish at his will. The costume of a submissive such as a diaper, little girl dresses or a maids uniform is equally or more effective.
That is the husband’s responsibility: to instil submission, obedience, dependency and the proper respect and deference to her husband.
My husband dresses me in clothing that keeps my bottom exposed while we’re home alone. When he enters the room, I bend over presenting myself out of submission and always get a hard smack. I take off his shoes at the end of the day and sit at his feet while he plays with my hair. I use submissive language never calling him by his name, only Sir. I present the implement for punishment. And of course, I ask permission for everything.
When he has me strip to my underwear for punishment or a lecture, I hand my clothes to him and he tells me I can have them back when he decides. Our friends have never seen him spank me, but they have heard him order me to the bedroom to strip, bend over and wait for the paddle. Though just being around us its obvious who makes the rules and who follows them. I still call him Sir and ask permission for everything.
I never disrespect or disobey my husband. But I do get punished for not getting off the phone as soon as he walks in the door, sub-standard housework, and cursing or using language he finds unladylike. But because of our way of life, I rarely get punished.
This is the husband’s responsibility. If he instils submissiveness and obedience in a loving but firm manner, he is almost certain to get a submissive and loving wife.
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There is a phenomenon in domestic discipline I’ve wanted to write about for a long time now. I call that phenomenon: the Tenderbutts. If you haven’t met them yet you will. No, it’s not wives with very sensitive bottoms. It’s not even people who love a more sensitive brand of wife spanking. It is those in the field — usually women — who not only seem to have a very sensitive notion of discipline, if not a romance-novel notion of it, but also who demand that their brand of domestic discipline is the only REAL one. Anything much harsher than their kinder, gentler correction is outside of the practice of discipline, and into the field of bdsm. It must be shunned.
I don’t have a problem with couples who practice a lighter version of discipline. I don’t believe it will be fully effective, but if it works for them, I recognize that it is part of the variety that makes up domestic discipline. The practice naturally comes in many folds. However, I do have a problem with practitioners who — and I believe hypocritically — kick out of DD anyone who gives longer, harder, or more frequent spankings than occur in their household. They are wrongly defining discipline. They are also behaving like busybodies, and finding any problem in another’s practice they can, so that they can be right. They can protect the world from hard spankings.
A few things in common with tenderbutts: They tend to be pushy. They tend to play the victim game — as the secular world does — and claim the women will be mistreated if she receives anything harsher than their idea of a romance novel spanking. They seem obsessed with placing this or that person into the field of bdsm, just because they don’t agree with the firmness of spanking, or the less-than-gentle words spoken to the disciplined wife. They consider you a miscreant if you sexually train your wife. They communicate constant offense at all these things, and nearly live to be offended. If it smells like harsh discipline, they get offended.
As you can imagine I’d say, the tenderbutts really need to give it up. Perhaps they need a new hobby or something. Domestic discipline, for anyone who has read widely and at length about the field, includes those who are harsher and milder in the punishments, and a wide variety of practices are commonplace. That includes various instruments, leaving bruises on the bottom, the use of commands which need to be obeyed, and sometimes the blending of sex with submission. None of these are fringe practices, but are common. Yet in the tenderbutt world, even those practices which are characteristic of dd, which can be found in an abundance of homes, are too much like bdsm for their liking. They need to protect butts out there. And they have been offended. Very offended.
I would not consider forms of discipline to fall outside of marital discipline, and inside of bdsm, unless they met multiple requirements. They would be something far less common in dd. They would also be common, or characteristic of bdsm. I would see multiple of them. I also tend to link the more extreme end of punishments, and punishments not given on the backside, with bdsm as well. But unless I saw multiple of those strong characteristics, I would not call something bdsm. That would be unrealistic and unfair. I might say it was harsher than usual. I might say a practice was more common in bdsm. But I would not try to claim the practice is not dd, or that the couple who use it don’t practice dd. It ends up grasping at straws unless you see multiple clear characteristics of the bdsm world. I used to have a number of friends in that world, and feel I can sense it character, and I’m also familiar with some of its common practices. In managing the website I occasionally keep out comments which are too heavily bdsm in character. I also edit others which enter the more extreme end of bdsm.
It is natural that there is some overlap between two fields which both use headship, obedience, and punishment. We should expect some overlap. However, the field-marshall aggressiveness of tenderbutts seems to imagine that there is some great barrier between them, or that they are entirely unlike. This is wrong. One will find they have similarities, including similarities in techniques, instruments, rituals. If we were to use the tenderbutt logic back on them, we would have to declare that they do not practice dd either. We would slice their particular lightweight variety right out of the fold, and define it as a separate discipline. We’d then have to give them some name for their more sensitive spanking predilection. We could call it DD “Lite” or something. We could define them alternately as compassionate conservatives, or erotic novel fans. Anything but DD. Just because they have their own, distinct variety. That would be the tenderbutt logic used back upon them. How comical it would be.
There’s also the sneakin’ suspicion, as we’ve seen already once on this website, that some who act like tenderbutts are privately AGAINST DD as a whole. They are just keeping that to themselves so they can sound credible when they criticize this or that practice, say how horrible it is, or compare it to bdsm. If they came out for what they really are, such criticism would be meaningless. The one who appeared on this site very quickly outed herself as a feminist, and a socialist to boot. I’m not saying this is NORMAL of tenderbutts, whom I conceive of as simply misguided and pretentious users of discipline. The average one does approve of male leadership and discipline, they just demand everyone bow down to their light-weight brand as the authentic one. It must be noted though, considering the language they sometimes use, and their hostility, that these more feminized denizens of the spanking world may be, underneath it all, nothing but feminists.
Lastly, I have to say this. Beyond calling men and women with these tendencies to repent, I want to say that a sensitive and romantic image of spanking is unrealistic in the first place. A wife does not get to control how much force goes into a swat on her behind. She does not get to decide how often she needs correction, or exactly how she will be spoken to. She is going to have to deal with firm words, and hard correction. Discipline in marriage does not involve coming home and stripping down and throwing yourself on your husband’s lap declaring: “I’m ready for my spanking now, honey. Give it to me good!” It’s not just there as foreplay to sex either. These attitudes can be counter-productive, since they pretend that the wife can be in control and that the wife’s desire of what discipline is like should be fulfilled. That’s wrong. Trying to fulfill all her desires is probably what got her in trouble in the first place! She needs to submit to her man, and accept a correction which she does not decide on. A spanking is for discipline, and it will hurt. It is generally not something you want to experience. That is not any extreme bdsm kind of attitude, but comes as normative to marital discipline. Some women like to write their own romance novel to imagine just what discipline will be like. But I assure you this: your fantasy will sizzle during a thorough and burning correction.
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aronhusband, I think we would value hearing some more of your thoughts around sexual training. What do you expect, and how do you train a woman to please you in the ways you want.
Thanks Katrin. I will post the occasional article on that subject. I actually have one mostly written now, but I have a few more to post before it. It is focused on sexual training to instill submission, but naturally includes a wife learning to please and meet her man’s desires.
We just use spanking playfully. It’s more about the scenario of me submitting to Ben. in surrendering my body to him, allowing him to dominate me and for me to be vulnerable there is something that we need in our relationship. But I am not a fan of pain and Ben has no desire to inflict pain or any wounds on my beautiful behind. His spanking never hurts, but I do find it thrilling. Being in that position does stir me. Ben gets something out of it too. It is a playful part foreplay for us.
But we are a playful couple. We love sex and foreplay. We love roleplay and acting out fantasies.
Thanks for sharing your experience, Jenna. Couples use spankings for all kinds of purposes. I’m certainly not against milder spankings, or erotic spankings, but am taking aim at those who claim that anything harsh amounts to abuse or to bdsm. If there are those who find a milder spanking can instill submission, go for it.
There always needs to be enough power behind the spanking to correct the problem she has.
That is a good and succinct way to put it. Thank you.
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