Wife Caught With Neighbor
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Wife Caught With Neighbor
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This thread is all BS. He is just here to try to quell his guilt. Don't come on here and then lie to us man. We don't care. If you want advice we can give it, if you don't then good luck. You have no clue what you have done. You habe destroyed your neighbor's family. You better think twice about going to see your neighbor tonight. If it was me, you wouldn't walk out of my house. I can imagine he is going to press you about what happened and then if you tell him what you told us he won't believe you and could get violent. Be careful.
His life just took a HUGE turn for the worst and he rightfully sees you as the cause.
(Man! If I could only get one wish in my life, I would wish that I could somehow lure that pig that slept with my wife into my home . . .)
JustGrinding is right. I would NOT meet with OWH. Domestic disputes are always the worst. If you feel it necessary to meet with him, go somewhere public or talk on the phone. It's their problem. You need to deal with your wife. Just get out of your neighbor's business. Completely.
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I don't know your wife. But if it was me, I would probably not believe that you had slept together. Adults just kissing. Yeah right.
We tried swinging a while back, have had a few "interesting" moments with other couples and she has in the past told me how the thought of me being intimate with another woman turns her on. But she runs hot and cold with these ideas where i am constantly running hot. She even gave me a hall pass with the exception of neighbors and friends, ironically i f***ed that up. I know she will forgive me, at least i hope she will forgive me, I just can't stand that this great relationship we had with our neighbors is now all messed up. I know its a confusing situation. I hate knowing how badly i hurt this guy.
I have no dog in this fight and I DON"T believe it myself.
Here is my version of how this ends. Let's see who may agree or disagree. Either way, you are only protecting yourself by not telling and you know it. Besides, it will eat your soul forever by NOT telling. You will never feel "right" in the relationship.
Your neighbor (being the morally upstanding guy he is) has decided to let it slide. He is committed to keeping your secret...until... he gets to ride this rollar coaster of denial, disbelief, pain and anguish. He hates his life, hates what you have done to him, and even though he has told you it is for the best to keep it a secret forever more, his brain burns with hatred of you (why not, easier to blame and hate you than his wife). And so, one day you come home from work a few weeks or even a few months from now, not a care in your mind. You've had a great day. You are getting along with your spouse again, maybe you've even put most of this behind you.
Your neighbor, on the other hand, has had a sh!tty roller coaster of a day. His hate on this particular day is near the boiling point. The kicker to it all is that he sees you get out of your car just at the moment your wife comes out to get the mail (water the flowers, greet you at the door, whatever). He gets to see you hug and give a kiss to your adoring wife. ...and then he thinks "I have been living this hellish nightmare for weeks/months and this guy gets to go on living his life like nothing ever happened! He gets his cake and he stole mine as well, and now I'm left in hell and he gets off scott free. F That!"
And that, my friend, is when he drops the bomb out of nowhere! And you get to watch as that rekindled love you are so proud of goes right in the crapper. As others have said, you will then be lower than if you had told her now. Don't ever let a man steal your thunder...good or bad. You revel in your accomplishments, and like a man, you take it on the chin when you need to.
Your neighbor (being the morally upstanding guy he is) has decided to let it slide. He is committed to keeping your secret...until... he gets to ride this rollar coaster of denial, disbelief, pain and anguish. He hates his life, hates what you have done to him, and even though he has told you it is for the best to keep it a secret forever more, his brain burns with hatred of you (why not, easier to blame and hate you than his wife). And so, one day you come home from work a few weeks or even a few months from now, not a care in your mind. You've had a great day. You are getting along with your spouse again, maybe you've even put most of this behind you.
Your neighbor, on the other hand, has had a sh!tty roller coaster of a day. His hate on this particular day is near the boiling point. The kicker to it all is that he sees you get out of your car just at the moment your wife comes out to get the mail (water the flowers, greet you at the door, whatever). He gets to see you hug and give a kiss to your adoring wife. ...and then he thinks "I have been living this hellish nightmare for weeks/months and this guy gets to go on living his life like nothing ever happened! He gets his cake and he stole mine as well, and now I'm left in hell and he gets off scott free. F That!"
And that, my friend, is when he drops the bomb out of nowhere! And you get to watch as that rekindled love you are so proud of goes right in the crapper. As others have said, you will then be lower than if you had told her now. Don't ever let a man steal your thunder...good or bad. You revel in your accomplishments, and like a man, you take it on the chin when you need to.
"I hate this place. It gives me comfort." - Dig
Survive Her Affair Kevin Jackson
You need to tell your wife. There's no way out. Apologize from all your heart, beg for forgiveness, do whatever you need to do. Be prepared for her decision to move out of the neighborhood and accept it without a word. It's the best thing to do if she decides to forgive you. Realize how akward and embarassing is gonna be, everytime you she walks on the street and sees these neighbors?? I can't begin to imagine how humiliated she will feel.
DO NOT mention to her that you wanted her to stay friends with the OW . This adds to the insult !! With "friends" like this woman, who needs enemies? Cut all contact with her, forever . If you see her H, apologize to him sincerely, then cut contact with him too- your presence doesn't make him any good. I know, you lost your friendship and it sux, but you should have thought about it before,now it's nothing that you can do, but try to save your marriage.
Tell your wife. She might forgive you. Good luck.
God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change ; courage to change the thing I can ; and wisdom to know the difference !
Everyone keeps saying that I care more abt the other family than my own, but that isn't true. I just think my wife and I are in a better place then they are and will recover from this a lot easier than them.
I plan on telling my wife tonight. My neighbor wants me to go to his house tonight after I get off work to discuss things since the wife and kids are out of town.
The whole "affair" lasted a month in a half. We didn't sleep together, just a lot of texting, we kissed a few times, and i touched her butt. However he doesn't believe us, I wouldn't believe us either. He thinks we had sex and that this had been going on for a year. I hope my wife believes me.
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Badguy- You say that you cheated on your "loving wife" with her "best friend" and her husband was your "good friend". Really? With a friend and husband like you, who needs enemies.
If you and your wife are swingers, don't you think you two opened the door to something bad like this happening? I have never heard of an "open marriage" ever turning out good.
Tell your wife, because as many have said it will be better coming from you. And if this woman was her best friend or a good one, she would not have slept with you. IMO!
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Badguy- You say that you cheated on your "loving wife" with her "best friend" and her husband was your "good friend". Really? With a friend and husband like you, who needs enemies.
If you and your wife are swingers, don't you think you two opened the door to something bad like this happening? I have never heard of an "open marriage" ever turning out good.
Tell your wife, because as many have said it will be better coming from you. And if this woman was her best friend or a good one, she would not have slept with you. IMO!
I hope you took my advice and gave your friend next door a free pass at your wife, its the only acceptable thing to do in this situation!
I hope you took my advice and gave your friend next door a free pass at your wife, its the only acceptable thing to do in this situation!
Did you tell ur wife yet? How did she take it?
Sad thing is he hasn't been on since yesterday. He'll probably come back in without reading anything since his last post and totally miss some good advice.
Typical "I really didn't do anything wrong" kinda dude.
"I hate this place. It gives me comfort." - Dig
Survive Her Affair Kevin Jackson
I'm guessing he hasn't reported in because everything hit the fan last night.
I'm betting wife goes ballistic on OW.
Please tell me: while you were ‘just kissing’ her, was your phallus inside her body? That is an accident that sometimes happens, unless one is very careful. Worse still, it is an accident that can repeat itself with uncanny accuracy, for some people.
If your neIghbour’s husband was one of those foolishly faithful (how else can we describe it, in today’s world?) men who never stepped out of his marriage, and viewed his marriage, family and home as his most genuine achievements in life, you have just nuked the quintessence of his being a man. And just because you and your wife share a more elastic marital bond (so you say), you dare to discuss it here rather frivolously.
You have killed a man’s sense of self, injected slow poison into a good marriage, and destroyed a home as it existed. And you are now looking for the loosest noose, so that you can slip through. Best of luck with that.
I wager that you are two feet taller and two stones heavier than me, but right now, if you were standing in front of me, I would have taken a swing on behalf of a good man whose life you have serial raped.
You wanna take it outside?
Confess to your wife, everything, leave no detail out, do not trickle truth, lie, minimize, blame shift.
After you have done that, log back on here and say what you need to say.
Cheating is unjustifiable, it is intrinsically evil, 100% selfish. Confess and ask for forgiveness and prepare to make reparations, you h ave changed your marriage forever. Your wife will NEVER see you the same EVER again.
You have killed a man’s sense of self, injected slow poison into a good marriage, and destroyed a home as it existed. And you are now looking for the loosest noose, so that you can slip through. Best of luck with that.
I wager that you are two feet taller and two stones heavier than me, but right now, if you were standing in front of me, I would have taken a swing on behalf of a good man whose life you have serial raped.
You wanna take it outside?
Why don't you beat up the neighbors wife while you're at it? Or any other guy who she had sex with? She's the one who broke the marital vows, not the guy you're challenging to a street fight. She made the decision to allow the "poison" into her own marriage, the other man could be anyone.
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A 59-year-old physically challenged man, Mr Olaiya Adeagbo, has pleaded with an Igando Customary Court in Lagos to dissolve his 23-year-old marriage, accusing his wife of infidelity.
He told the court on Monday that that his wife with whom he had four children, was having an affair with his neighbour.
“I always received a tip-off from our neighbours that my wife is having an affair with one of our neighbours who was a bachelor.
“That fateful day, I came back home earlier and could not find her in our room, two of my neighbours told me that they sighted her when she sneaked into her lover’s room.
“I went to knock on his door but he refused to open after hearing my voice.
“I continued knocking and he later opened his door, and I saw my wife hiding behind his door sweating and panting, I greeted her and left.
“After some days, her lover died and my wife disappeared from the house without taking anything and refused to come back.
“My wife later went to marry another man, who also died after some months of their marriage,” he said.
The petitioner also told the court that his wife fights a lot with their neighbours.
“My wife fights a lot, she fought with our pregnant neighbour but the woman died the following morning.
“Every house we rented, we are always evicted because of her frequent fighting with me and neighbours; she once stabbed me with a knife” he said.
He urged the court to terminate the marriage as his life was not safe and that he was no longer interested in the union.
In her submission, the wife, Mrs Taiwo Adeagbo, 46, also accused her husband of committing adultery.
She told the court that man her husband saw her with was her benefactor not her lover.
“I am not having any affair with that our neighbour, he was only my benefactor who always meet my needs as my husband is not responsible, but unfortunately he is no more.” she said.
The mother of four, said her husband had at one point eloped with her best friend.
“My husband always bring home different women claiming they have one problem or another; he once ran away with my best friend to unknown destination for three-months,” she added.
She begged the court to grant her husband’s wish and terminate the marriage as she too was no longer interested in the union.
The President of the court, Mr Adegboyega Omilola, after listening to the couple, adjourned the case to May 10 for further hearing.
I was at a party this past weekend with my wife and in the middle of the party I lost my wife. When I tried to find her, she was nowhere to be found. Finally, I went out to chekc our car and she wasn't there. Ont eh way back I noticed a guy sitting in a car with his head back, I looked closer and found out that my wife was going down on him. I immediately opened the door and pulled her out and proceeded to do the same to him and beat the crap out of him. I got arrested in the process.
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On some Saturday morning in March of 2005, just a couple of hours after I caught my ex-wife cheating on me, I got a visit from the police.
The guy she was with heard that I’d found out about them and called the police, concerned for her safety. She wasn’t returning either of our calls.
The police checked the house and my text messages to make sure she wasn’t in the house with me and that I hadn’t threatened her safety. I’m not a violent person, but that day, I had taken down all the paintings in our house and cut them to shreds in the garage. One of the cops stopped on the way out and turned to me to say, “I know what you’re going through and I can see the kind of person you are. You are legally within your right to do what you want in this house so long as it doesn’t interfere with your neighbors’ well-being. But if you do tear this house apart, I can tell you’re the kind of guy that’s going to feel bad for it later. She’s not worth that.” Then he just walked out.
His words had all but robbed me of my anger. I was pissed because I wanted to continue to be angry at her, but he was right.
As emotional stability began to return, it hit me. I could still dismantle the house without damaging it. So, I grabbed my tools and in the subsequent ten hours, I dismantled everything in the house that could be unscrewed. I spared nothing.
The kitchen appliances, all the furniture in the study, the 3 bedrooms, the dining room, den, and finally, the living room. I was very careful not to damage anything. I neatly and gently stacked the parts and pieces of everything I dismantled.
I then put all the screws in a shoe box and took them with me.
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