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[FONT=Verdana]My white girlfriend of 7 months, whom I love and who told me that she loved me, went and slept with a black guy, after we broke up for a month. After that month, I contacted her to try and get back together, unknowing of what she did, when she told me, she is seeing a black guy and has slept with him already. When she told me, I broke down and cried and told her that I loved her and that she has hurt my feelings. To which she said: "we were not together, so she did nothing wrong...", but also told me, that after hearing me say that I loved her...."she wanted to come back to me too, and that I am the only man she loved...". Her attitude of doing nothing wrong is technically correct, because at that time we were technically not together. However, I am finding it very hard to understand that she could just sleep with another man, so quickly and freely. I am having issues at two levels: (1) that she is seeing someone so quickly after we broke up and has slept with him, and (2) that it was a Black guy. I know this is a racist thought, and after analyzing my thoughts, I find that I may be a racist after all, but I am finding it impossible to change how I am feeling towards the situation and towards her. I am still drawn to her emotionally and I still love her and wish I could find a way to resolve this problem, but, I now find that I do not want to touch her nor want to kiss her nor be in physical contact with her. It is almost like I have lost the physical desire for her but the emotional desire remains. I don’t know what to do? Please help. I love her, and don’t wish to let her go, but I also am finding very difficult to keep hold of her from my own side, even though she said she would like to get back with me now. Every time I see her face now, I see the black guy having sex with her. I can’t get this out of my head….What can I do? I know I must be racist, but Please help.[/FONT]
LOL you have to be screwing around.
If you can't remove those thoughts from her head, leave her, she did nothing wrong.

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Oh well. You'd probably be just as hurt if she slept with any guy. The fact he was black just magnifies your feelings. Doesn't change a thing.
My white girlfriend of 7 months, whom I love and who told me that she loved me, went and slept with a black guy, after we broke up for a month. After that month, I contacted her to try and get back together, unknowing of what she did, when she told me, she is seeing a black guy and has slept with him already. When she told me, I broke down and cried and told her that I loved her and that she has hurt my feelings. To which she said: "we were not together, so she did nothing wrong...", but also told me, that after hearing me say that I loved her...."she wanted to come back to me too, and that I am the only man she loved...". Her attitude of doing nothing wrong is technically correct, because at that time we were technically not together. However, I am finding it very hard to understand that she could just sleep with another man, so quickly and freely. I am having issues at two levels: (1) that she is seeing someone so quickly after we broke up and has slept with him, and (2) that it was a Black guy. I know this is a racist thought, and after analyzing my thoughts, I find that I may be a racist after all, but I am finding it impossible to change how I am feeling towards the situation and towards her. I am still drawn to her emotionally and I still love her and wish I could find a way to resolve this problem, but, I now find that I do not want to touch her nor want to kiss her nor be in physical contact with her. It is almost like I have lost the physical desire for her but the emotional desire remains. I don’t know what to do? Please help. I love her, and don’t wish to let her go, but I also am finding very difficult to keep hold of her from my own side, even though she said she would like to get back with me now. Every time I see her face now, I see the black guy having sex with her. I can’t get this out of my head….What can I do? I know I must be racist, but Please help.
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But she wasn't technically with you when she did it..surely that counts for something

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But she wasn't technically with you when she did it..surely that counts for something
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Sorry to hear of the difficulty, But ultimately I think it would have been difficult for you regardless of the other man's race. The fact is you were broken up, So she actually did nothing wrong. Some people move on quicker, deal with things different.

Unless you can see past this, And both understand why you split up the relationship has little chance.

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I suggest you keep it to fantasy. Apart from the real risks of f-ing up your marriage and devastating you husband, you are more than likely to be disappointed. There's really nothing that different about a black man. Skin colour is not a reflections of ability in bed. It's probably got more sexual charge as a fantasy than a reality.

I aree with Ken, though, if you have to cheat you might as well end your marriage so you won't be breaking your vows.

@George :
Present company excepted. You're a great guy, and a bit of a hero.

Give up on your marriage, get divorced and have at it.

If you want to be free to indulge every sex fantasy that enters your mind, if you want to be free to bang whomever you wish, the solution is simple. End your marriage first.

end your marriage and don't hurt him at least. Oh one more thing, they ain't all that like you think, its all a myth !!

We dont do everything that we think about. These people rob banks and do other acts that damage others. Grown people have self control. You, not your thoughts or urges should consider carefully before you act.

If you want to destroy your marriage.

go head but do not date any black guy. That may destroy your marriage.

hmm. Call me weird.. but I generally want to bang someone because I'm attracted to them, rather than because they are a certain race.

As a woman that until recently has been faithful to my husband, I had a similar fantasy which nagged me for over 12 months. A friend who had been seeing a black man and had said it is the best sex she ever had. He had told her he would love to go to bed with me so she made the suggestion and after lots of butterflies I did it, it was the best sex I have ever had. Comparing him with my husband 6" long, black man a little bigger not much but o so much thicker, my husband would last about 1/2 to about a minute, black man I lost sense of time. My husband, never gave me an orgasm it was always up to me after, black man I lost count. I would say try at least once otherwise you will always wonder, what your husband never needs to know wont hurt him.

only and I repeat only if your husband is okay with the situation. he may want to watch and be with you when it happens and if that is what it takes to make him happy then by all means you should give him that. On a different note, I dont advise couples engaging in this type of activity. It will not be healthy for your marriage in the long run.

@Justright :
Did you just assume (if this post is real) her man is a cuck?

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