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OMAHA, NE—Local man James Carlson totally got some Friday night when his wife, Shelly, "went all the way" after just one date night, the lucky husband reported. "I figured it'd be at least three date nights before she gave it up, but all it took was a modest dinner and a few glasses of wine, and she went straight home with me, no questions asked," Carlson said of his wife of eight years, with whom he has three children, James Jr., 7, Wendy, 5, and Sandy, 3. "After we paid the babysitter and brushed our teeth, she couldn't keep her hands off me." Carlson hopes to continue date-nighting his wife for the foreseeable future, seeing as she is such an easy lay.

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Me [30M] with my wife [27F] of 5 years, she has a date tomorrow night and she doesn't know I know everything
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So today I come back from work and hop infront of the tv. My wifes laptop is on the desk infront of me and I'm just too lazy to go to the bedroom to get mine, so I just grab hers. I wanted to check my FB to reply to my cousins message, but in the inbox I realize that my wife is still logged in. Lo and behold, there is my wife trying to set up a date for tomorrow night - fanfuckingtastic!
This soldier (let call him Stan) is 32 and he grew up in the same town as she did, but i think they only vaguely know each other.
So my dear wifey comes home about an hour after me and she immediately starts talking about the plans for this weekend: "Tomorrow night my friends from my hometown want to meet up. Stan, his sister Jessica and another girl Sam. I'm not sure if I want to go yet, but its okay if you don't want to come since they are all from my lame hometown." . Then immediately she starts doing plans for saturday and sunday. I wait for her to finish and then I say that I absolutely don't mind coming with especially since I want to meet her friends (or friend). She goes on for a little bit how its really going to be boring and how I go to sleep pretty early, so I might get grumpy (i wake up early for my job). I keep pressing that I would actually love to go, but she changes the topic as she is almost 100% not going to go anyway.
When she started watching tv I told her i have to use her laptop for my fantasy football (so I could see any new developments with her date). Then his message comes in and she nonchalantly exchanges the phone numbers just a few feet away from me (she used FB app on her phone, and I can't see the screen, but I could see everything on her computer).
Now, I don't want to confront her right away because she is going to find some lame excuse. I kinda want to see the excuse she is going to come up with tomorrow so she can go outside and leave me at home. It is eating me on the inside tho and can't sleep right now. Our marriage is not ideal - we had some tough times recently and the sex life is definitely not what it used to be. I love her, but I definitely don't want to be with a cheater. She cheated on me (also with a soldier - wtf) 4 months into the relationship when we started dating (not yet married) and I forgave her, but I swore to myself that this will be the only second chance. We don't have kids which would make the whole thing easier and we both have good jobs, so the alimony i'd have to pay would be minimal.
Does anybody have any suggestions on how to handle this? Should I confront her tomorrow morning, or should I wait for the date to take place?
So here I'm just going to go ahead and post her little convo (artisticly modified) just so somebody can hopefully please tell me that I'm crazy and looking way too much into it. Is it just me or is she really drooling all over that guy? Fuck, I feel like my head is going to explode because I'm so pissed off and now I have to go sleep next to her.
While I was typing he sent her another message to text him during work if she gets bored. Nice honey, I hope you have a very entertaining day tomorrow...
Stan!! How are you doing buddy!? It's so nice to see you're doing well!
Thank you Ashley!! Great to hear from you, how are you? What's new?
Oh nothing new! Moved to [our new city] recently from [old state]. It's good to be back home near the fam! Where are you around about? I have to admit I find your life is fascinating! I really hope you are doing well. Traveling much?
I travel a lot, live in [her and his hometown]. I am doing private security work in [one other city] for the moment. I teach some firearms and Law Enforcement/Military as well. Just trying to stay busy. I may go back to the Army. It really is great to hear from you! What are you doing now?
That's fantastic! I bet you are in very high demand right now! I bet you are enjoyed getting to use your skills on the home front side. I always regretted not pursuing a life in the military- settled with being a [her profession]. It's the typical corporate job but I stand out cause I am not fucking weird...that makes me a rock star:) so the corporate ladder is shorter for me. I move a lot 5 times in 6 years so I am still a vagrant. But I like that. There's something refreshing to me with travel and lots of it. You've got to go to some interesting places my friend! Probably not the reasons you wanted but I remember you being a very worldly presence. You fit in anywhere. I know you probably hear this often, but the way you've served this country is so incredibly admirable. I hope you get to hear that often enough:)
I am sorry for the delayed response, I want to thank you for the recognition you have given me, most do not say more than a thank you. Many guys see me as a reminder of what they have not done and that makes then somewhat defensive almost. Most women just see it as something hot or sexy. The best compliments come from older folk, younger people have no understanding of sacrifice or honor, but you are different. You really are intriguing and you see through and understand people, it seems. That is why you are successful I believe. It shows your intelligence.
Haha now it's my turn to apologize for the late response! Well that's just about the nicest compliment I've ever had, so thank you. I wouldn't even pretend to imagine how difficult life can be for a soldier but I know that if you guys don't do what you need to do - regardless of the public stigma, countless other people will die. That's what the news doesn't put in their clips and that is what the general public doesn't quite grasp. What you guys do is the most self-less thing on this world and I could not imagine a more honorable but difficult life to live. I will always be jealous that you guys get to live with such conviction and purpose. There is a very small number of people that deal with that hardship and I hope if you ever want to talk to someone or you need someone to say thank you again - please always remember my info! I really wish I got to know you better when we were younger, but I don't see why we can't be good friends now!
Thank you Ashley. You were always a fun person with a big smile and, of course, very pretty. Smile and have a great day today. I will be in [our new city] when this gig is up to see my brother and maybe we can meet for some drinks and shoot the shit together
You have no idea how much I would love that!! You better let me know - I'll take it personal. You take care of yourself!
I will definitely let you know! Take care of yourself as well and I will see you soon. My brother lives in [half hour away], what area are you in?
I am in [specific part of our city]. Across the river from downtown. About 30 minutes from [his brothers place]. Everything in [our city] is about half an hour- I've learned!
Very true. Any good bars up that way? I like the [certain] area.
Yeah I'm pretty close to [certain area]. I am trying to learn the local dive bars though. ..the more local the better!
I may know of a couple you might like. I usually just go to the pub a block from my brothers so I can walk there and back without driving. [certain place] has a cool spot or two as well
[certain place] is great I've heard! So moral of the story, I will defer to your judgement!
Hahaha, I like any pub type and dive, not into the club scene. Who do you hang out with up there? And I take it you are working M-F 9-5?
Haha I mainly hang out with people from work right now since I'm still so new. I would not say 9-5 but I do [her profession] so it's more certain times are busier than others. But my office is incredibly flexible with time so it's a corporate office but more flexibility if that makes sense
That's cool. We just got our contract pulled so I should be in [our city] soon
Hey buddy! How the hell are you doing! ?
Doing good, and you? I was thinking about coming up to [our city] tomorrow. You got plans?
I do not actually! That would be great. It's been a LONG week!
Awesome, [his number]. I hope I can make it up there tomorrow night and hang out with you
Yeah! Ok I saved your number. I am [her number]. Let me know if you come down!
Stan - 9/4, 11:52 Sorry, been at the [some show]. I definitely will let you know tomorrow. Text if you get bored at work
My wife of 5 years has a date tomorrow night and she doesn't know I know everything. I don't know how to confront it and am leaning towards just waiting if she follows through and then break it off. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated, so I don't lose my mind
EDIT : No word on her plans for tonight yet. I didn't push it too much, so she wouldn't get suspicious that there is something off. I decided not to confront her immediately since I want to see if she is actually going to go ahead to meet that guy alone. I will keep asking to go with her, but i fear she will come with an 'i have to work late' excuse (if she really wants to meet him). I will try to find a way to figure out at what bar they are going to meet at and I will just go there and meet them. I think I will file for divorce if I see them alone. I can't go through the same shit again since it really affects my life and well being. I'm strongly leaning towards no counseling (if my worst fears come through) because I think there is huge gap in our mindset if she finds it acceptable to meet a guy on a friday night without telling me. I would never meet a 4 year younger women that i know from why back (and were not close friends as is indicated in their messages) on a friday night in a bar without telling my wife or not inviting her with us. I can't see how she doesn't know that's fucked up and how detrimental that can be to our relationship. She is definitely not an idiot to not see this and if she is willing to risk it then it just wasn't meant to be. My stomach is revolting from uncertainty and I slept maybe an hour last night. Damn, I hate this feeling..
ps. If worse comes to worst, I definitely don't intend to make a scene. I don't know that guy and I have nothing strongly against him (although he knows we are married) because its not about him - its about my wife's choices. Keeping my fingers crossed that she will make the right ones, but i don't have a good feeling.
"young people have no idea about sacrifice and honor" ....
I know huh. I don't even know if OP's wife has a chance, this guy has a boner for himself.
so honorable flirting with someone's wife
"young people have no idea about sacrifice and honor"
I was in the army and I cringed so hard at that.
Hey cut him some slack. He may be a Klingon.
There is some awkward ass kissing in those emails. it was kind of awkward to read.
That being said, she really should be honest with you about going to see him, but it doesn't sound like its a "date". He does seem a LITTLE smitten but honestly the conversation is pretty innocent. It would make me very angry that she's lying and purposefully trying to avoid bringing you though.
Honestly, I would just confront her about it and ask her why she doesn't want you to go and that the ONLY reason you're not trusting her right now is because she's hiding it from you. If she invites you along after the conversation, great! If not, she may have had some pretty questionable intentions.
EDIT: also, a lot of people are saying "she's totally going to cheat, that's why she didn't say she's married!" Uh, I'm a married woman and I don't feel the need to identify that Im married to every male I talk to just to set the standard that I am "taken". It's unfair to assume that just because she didn't mention her husband while catching up with an old friend who NEVER EVEN KNEW THEM AS A COUPLE, she's getting prepared for a fuck fest. It's not like all of a women's conversations should be "hi! It's so nice to see you again. I'm married though. So I belong to this man over here."
What the hell was that conversation? I read that scene in my mind like in Anchorman 2 between Kirsten Wiig and Steve Carell.
I agree about it not seeming like a date, especially because of her use of the word "buddy." That's the word I use when texting/messaging guys that I feel like might get the wrong impression; it's my subtle way of reinforcing that we're just friends. A couple of months ago I had a conversation with a friend from high school who's in the navy that looks very similar to OP's wife's conversation above, and I can tell you, I had/have no intention of cheating on my husband. Sometimes it's just nice to reconnect with someone who knew you when you were younger and see where life has taken them. I imagine she's hiding it because she doesn't want her husband to get the wrong impression, though of course if that's the case then it's come full circle and become a self-fulfilling prophecy.
The only worry I have is that she will come with some lame ass excuse and then obviously she wont go. That would be a poor consolation for me since I realize I was pretty lucky to catch her in a lie. Will I catch it next time? And how many times so far I actually didn't catch it?

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A British couple’s much-anticipated date night is taking the Internet by storm this week after the blogger behind LadBaby , shared a video he titled “When you don’t have a babysitter for date night.” 
Sitting on the couch, we meet a couple who’s discussing their plans for a long-awaited date night “tomorrow.” 
The dad behind the viral video protested with his wife that a date night is too expensive because of the cost of a babysitter. 
“We don’t need date night, do we kid? We don’t need to spend money on a babysitter. We’ll get takeaway if you want.”
He’s not wrong either. Growing up, I babysat almost every weekend. At $12-$15 an hour, it’s no wonder parents can’t get a night away! And if they can, McDonalds is the only justifiable dinner, otherwise you’re spending hundreds of dollars on a kid-free night with your spouse! It’s a luxury, really. 
After his wife clarified that staying in and eating takeout would not cut it for date night, the husband and father of one then agreed to take her out. 
“Go get your hair done and whatever, and come back about 8,” he said. “And we’ll go out on a date.”
With the camera rolling, the husband captured his wife’s reaction when she returned home for their date the next evening. 
Dressed in a pretty black dress with her hair done and fresh red lipstick, she was feeling flirty and ready to have a night out with her husband. 
But her excitement quickly turned to contagious disappointment when she learned the babysitter was not there, and date night was a no-go. 
“Oh no… No date night,” she said perplexed. “I thought we were going out.”
He reassured his wife that they were in fact still having a date night, they just weren’t going out. 
He promised her their child was asleep before leading her through the house to the backyard where he revealed his master plan. 
In the yard sat their favorite local spot—an inflatable ‘Air of the Dog’ pub. 
Inside, he treated his wife to her favorite glass of wine, and even dropped a flirty one-liner: “Do you come here often?” To which she giggled, “Yeah, it’s the garden.” 
No detail was too small as he pulled out nuts, pistachios and even “swanky” olives—all in little bowls—his wife’s favorite. 
You could tell he’d nailed it because with every word that came out of his mouth, his wife’s face filled with even more joy than before! 
With the baby monitor accompanying them at the table, the couple kicked off their very special date night with a replica of the games the’d find at their favorite spot. 
Flip card pub game, a “cheeky” game of tiny-portion beer pong, and even a whirl on the dance floor—equipped with a smoke machine and colored lights. 
I have to wonder what their neighbors were thinking through all of this! 
At the end of the night, it was clear that his wife had thoroughly enjoyed his well-thought-out date. 
Of course, he couldn’t just leave it there. He asked if they could keep the inflatable pub and use it for all their dates! 
Proud of himself, the LadBaby husband told his wife, “It’s the best of both worlds: date night and we haven’t got to pay for a sitter.”
Shout out to LadBaby Official —you, sir, are truly killing it at the husband game.
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