Lesson 2 - Why are you losing this fight?

Why do you fail?

96% of people who try to better their lives fail.

This is a scientific statistic from a study I referenced.

Imagine that 96%. Almost everybody.

What does reading this make you feel? What does it make you think?

“I am not going to fail, I will surely be amongst the victorious 4%”

Wrong.

96% of you will fail – If left to yourself.

You will continue on the same path of self destruction without an opposing force to stop you.

Law of inertia

No this is not an arrogant statement from me, this is not moral grand-standing.

I am not sitting on a throne and talking to you like peasants.

I may be sitting on a throne, but none of you are peasants.

You are Kings in the making.

I am just brave enough to tell you the truth.

Why are you going to fail?

I will tell you.

By the end of this lesson I will also show you how to think so that you do not fail.

I am a proud man. I am a student of excellence.

No reader of mine will fail. No brother of mine shall fall.

We will take this parchment, this statistic that brands the majority of you with failure and burn it to the ground.

We write our own statistics here in the Phalanx.

None of you shall fail.

I will show you how NOT to.

How? – I have failed enough times to know what not to do.

I am your case study.

Let us first explore why do you fail?

I’m sure you have tried several times already.

This isnt your first attempt,

Of course not.

You have tried and failed over and over again.

This is a good sign.

Why?

Because it brings us to the first reason.

1) You have no desperation.

All magnificient acts of surreal transformation, emerge from desperation.

Quiet, painful, desperation.

Obese to fit, Drug addicts to sobriety, Alcoholics, Financial hardship, heartbreak

Any act that requires a tremendous change takes birth here, in this place.

It is sacred ground.

Desperation is a powerful emotion.

When your back is against the wall, there is nowhere to go but forward.

When you have no desperation, all attempts are cerebral, logical.

Transformation is spiritual, it comes from within. From the soul.

There is no logic here.

There is only raw, unfiltered emotion.

We will use this.

Some of you are already desperate, Yet you fail. You are frustrated, You dont want to feel this anymore.

Why? Why do you fail eventhough you are desperately seeking not to?

2) You focus on the end goal, Not on the process.

Transformation is a process.

It is replacing your belief and habit systems with new ones.

Most of you approach it with an end goal that consumes you.

I want to stop smoking – This is your goal.

The goal consumes you.

This is all you think about.

This is your mistake,

The goal is an anchor.
You fix it and let it go.

Then you build systems that get you to your goal.

You focus on perfecting the systems and the goal will materialize without effort.

I will teach you everything.

• How to set goals

• How to build habits

• How to form systems that get to you to your goals

All in detail.

3) You try to be a lone wolf.

This isnt a movie.

You arent Liam Neeson fighting a pack of wolves or rescuing your daughter.

You are someone who needs help – There is zero shame in acknowledging this.

You don’t need to do this alone.

You have ZERO reason to do this alone.

Trust me and do this -

Find someone you love dearly and tell them this -

“For the next 6 months I am going to try my hardest to turn my life around and be the best I can possibly be”

Say this and watch their eyes light up.

This will give you all the strength you need to power through this mission.

Because now you have someone you dont want to disappoint.

This is real accountability with honesty at its very core.

NOTICE :

Everyone of you must Join my channel chat. Why? - To Discuss, share progress or just casual converstaion. This journey doesnt have to be a chore. Turn this into a fun adventure with allies. They are all seeking for the same things that you are.

You have your fellow members with you.

None of you are alone.

Join The Nexus

4) You have no devotion.

What do I mean?

Devotion is loyalty, faithfulness and worship.

It can be towards a person, a diety or a task.

To master your life, you need to be devoted to it.

Your mind has the keys to your vehicle of existence. It drives everything, and all decisions bloom from here.

To be a master of anything in life is to devote time to it - learning and perfecting.

Your attempts have failed because you havent been devoted enough to this task or journey.

To Put it simply,

This wasn’t your first priority.

It was an afterthought.

A something you need to do.

Change this into – THIS MUST HAPPEN AT ANY COST STARTING TODAY.

5) You operate from a place of darkness

I am living a terrible life, I want to leave this darkness behind, I am a failure, I want to change.

I am Negative – I want to be positive.

This is how you operate. Scrap this.

Remember who you are.

I am giving you a new frame of operation now.

My light is losing its strength due to my actions. I have to shine brighter again.

You are positive – Returning to positive.

This is how you will operate.

This is your mindset moving forward.

Take away all attention from the negative.

To change this 96% failure rate to 100% success all my readers MUST have all the above.

If you don’t, manufacture it.

But it needs to be there.

I cannot help you with Desperation and Devotion – You need to find it.

I will help you with processes, systems, mindset and having a brotherhood to back you up.

This is my promise.

By the end of this series, you will live significantly better lives.

And the person who you love – who you made the promise to?

Your stock just went up a 100% in their eyes.

Its worth it.

End of last lesson, I asked you to stop pornography.

You will begin to see why In a few days.

It gives you more drive to do things.

Drive is what you lack, it is what you need at the moment.

As an exercise today I will Ask another thing of you,

20 minutes in meditation everyday.

Whenever you can, any method you choose.

Go on youtube and find a simple one.

Everyday without fail.

This will keep you calm. Will help you focus.

Thank you to all of you who DM'd me on twitter and on group chat.

I read every single message, though I do not have time to respond to all.

I am grateful.