Why Escorts Don't Like Black Men
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Why do Asian escorts like Black men?
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I presume you are asking this question because you have sought out the services of an asian escort. or a few.
Presumably, they have given you good service. And… you’re black?
While sex workers do indeed sometimes racially profile their clients, I have never known for them to voice a particular racial preference.
Maybe the escorts you booked were really good, and made you feel like #1?
Next time you meet an asian escort, why not ask them if they prefer black clients? Although I am sure you already know what the answer will be :)
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Asian escorts will usually refrain from servicing black or African customers.
Unfortunately, they are the ones who usually will cause problems for the escort, be it time wasting or physical violence.
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The Life and Times of Lance Vanguard
A few bad apples can spoil the bunch, especially if those apples are black.
Discrimination against Black men is a common theme in the sex worker industry and there are many reasons for why it exists.
If you peruse the ads of female escorts, it’s normal to see them list their catering preferences towards a Gentleman or an Upscale Gentleman, in hopes of attracting clientele of a higher economic and social status. No Blocked Calls or Texts is another common restriction to screen anonymous callers or people who want to trade pictures and have lengthy text conversations that would be a waste of the worker’s time. And aside from mentions of things that should be part of a normal person’s daily hygienic regimen (a shower, fresh breath) there’s the list of services they will and won’t do.
Sometimes there’s a ‘sorry’ at the end of the chosen disclaimer to lessen the blow of racial bias, but the apology doesn’t reduce the sting of discrimination for a decent Black man who wants nothing more than sexual satisfaction. It should also be noted that some Black female sex workers stamp these disclaimers against Black men as well.
A direct plunge into the waters of pay-for-play prejudice helped me get a better perspective about it. I once called an escort who was a beautiful, exotic mix of different ethnicities, and she didn’t have any restrictions for men on her ad other than being a gentleman. Since I have a nice voice and speak proper English, she was very polite and kind during our discussion. Then, the inaudible drum roll sounded as I asked if she was open to race. The cymbal crashed, her tone became more serious, and I was flooded with a barrage of questions as if I’d been detained by the Customs Department at the airport:
What race are you? How old are you? What profession are you in? What area do you live in?
She grilled me with even more questions about myself than those mentioned above. Even though I had no intent of acquiring her services, the interrogation would’ve killed any desire of mine had I intended to do so. But that might’ve been part of her avoidance plan to sway me from visiting. After ending the conversation, I wondered what would’ve happened had I not asked about or told her my race and been given the OK to show up at her place. Because of my voice, I’m sure she’d have expected a professional White guy. So, if she’d seen a Black man (though well dressed and groomed) through door’s peephole, she’d most likely have interrogated me from behind the door before opening it; that’s assuming she wouldn’t have ignored me altogether.
So who are the rotten black apples that make it bad for the rest of the bunch?
Cheapskates and Thieves. Some girls have noted experiences with Black customers that try to haggle down the price agreed to before meeting. Others have had Black men put the money on the dresser before the act, grab it, and rush out after the deed is done.
Well-Endowed Men. Some girls exclude Black men because of their size. Of course, not all Black men are hung like a horse and there’s plenty of scientific research to prove it, but myths and stereotypes prevail in this business. Since being a sex worker is a business and the body is the product, a sex session with any well-endowed man would require much more recovery time than the average (or below-average) customer who’s efforts aren’t muscle-exhausting, marathon performances. One or more of the escort’s orifices are the items being used repeatedly on a daily or nightly basis, so the smaller and least intrusive the better.
Disrespectful Youngsters. Young Black men have been typecast as being degrading to women both in and out of the bedroom thanks to certain aspects of hip-hop culture and the images it portrays of how men treat them; women should be referred to as bitches and hoes while having alcohol poured over the bodies and doing every sexual act the man wants. Some escorts have stated that younger Black men can be rougher and demeaning than their non-Black customers, reiterating what was mentioned about minimal product damage.
Pimps. The majority of pimps are Black men and some of them don’t want their girls to service other Black men in fear they might be lured away from the pimp or the escort business altogether. That would be a loss of income for the pimp, so they think it’s best to service men who aren’t Black. But the faulty logic in that restriction is that a client of a different race could lure her away just the same. However, it seems the biggest reason for the exclusion of Black men comes from pimps who hunt down independent sex workers and force them (sometimes violently) to work under their control.
What every man, regardless of race, should realize is that sex workers don’t do the job for the enjoyment of sex. It’s a business; the oldest form of commerce that exists in humanity. The women are there to make money and their bodies are the products used to generate revenue. The clients they entertain usually aren’t men they’d seek out for pleasure in real life and the sex they’re providing is an illusion of gratification that’s meant to make the client feel wanted and to satisfy his needs. There’s no enjoyment for the worker except the money she’s given for creating the illusion.
And, since sex workers are using their bodies as the means to create the illusion, discrimination laws don’t apply and they can refuse service to anyone they choose. Not to mention their profession is illegal in most parts of the world, so there’s no reason to start a social movement against the biases of an illegal profession without attempting to eliminate the profession altogether.
Discrimination is an ordinary experience in a Black man’s life, even in the most trivial of situations. The denial of basic, sexual pleasure from those who offer it should be no surprise, especially when there are some who’ve distorted the perception of suitable Black men who bear no malicious intent towards anyone, sex worker or not.
If the rotten black apples spoil the bunch, let them rot… there are still choices of workers out there who’d prefer the decent and ripened apples of all kinds.
Interesting article. Thanks for tweeting me about it. I must say I do not have any exclusions based on race, but I must admit that I don’t have many black clients. I had never thought about it, so this was a bit of an eye opener.
Though I roughly agree on the full article, I would like to give a couple of thoughts as well. As an escort I think I do have a couple of things to say, but also as a woman!
First, let me say that Escorts can enjoy their business. At least, we try. Therefore we exclude unhygienic guys, and also the rude ones. The ones that start with complaints about expenses. I don’t mind the color of their skin, just get out and take your money somewhere else. Sadly there are also racist restrictions.
I do see a lot of racism in ads. I think it is short-sighted, but I must admit I’ve never had any problem with a guy, thinking his race had anything to do with his misbehavior.
If someone honestly believes that a rotten apple from the pas was rotten because of his ethnicity I get sad. I think it’s the most unsuccessful protection because you are simply not understanding that violent people are sadly not recognized by skin color. But , we are trying to be protective, and though I will never agree with racism, I must admit, some of my restrictions will probably block more often blacks than whites…
For instance, I prefer guys who can write proper Dutch.
Also, I do not like Hip-hop culture. It must be said, the whiter they are, the ruder they seem to me.
Also hard-drug users I refuse. To be honest, I have refused two men on this restriction, and I am sorry, they where not white. But if they were, they would have, off course.
By the way, I like your blog a lot. It gives ma lots of inspiration!
I enjoyed reading your posting. It’s important to have the perspective of the person that actually does this for a living.
Black guys can’t even afford a slice of pizza so any black customers or the majority will rob rape and kill them.
I am so glad that the sex working is almost gone due to covid-19. There were numerous white and Hispanic prostitutes who used to deny sex to black men for their money. Being black is not a sin. In Florida, there is even discrimination against black men by white and Hispanic prostitutes. In 2006, i left my house in Broward County to go to Doral to fuck a Hispanic Woman for $250. While talking on the phone with me, her voice appeared so sweet that my dick started to be very hard. I arrived at her place in 1 hour due to high traffic. Once there, i paid her for the sexual act and she undressed self. After the first session, i told her that i would be ready for the second session shortly. Then she told ,me with a harsh tone: ONE-TIME COMING IN MY PUSSY, NEGGAand i left her place.
You’re disgusting and you’re not stopping not because online is thriving so you look stupid. Now she can go give it to someone she can stand to look at and not you
Comin’ from where I’ve been this particular post deserves viral exposure. The way the Writer brought it to a close; “Bam”. Drop it while those who’ve read nod in unison. Oh yes, I like this.
Great Story.
I am from Northern California and I will say our Provider Blacklists are a big part of why a lot of Online Providers refuse to see Black Men.
I Myself would simply ask and screen with a reference when I first started in 2004 on A popular site , that is no longer with us.
As long as they had a trusted reference and were polite. I was happy to see them. I always ask your age, ethnicity ,occupation ,where you are from and if they had a different area code I would ask visiting and for Business or personal, just so I know who is coming to my door.
I have been in this business in all the various ways except Brothels since 1987 and I remember the No Black Men rule , early on from another provider. Being a Pimp was her reason for this.
I have never heard the “size” for a reason. I can vouch that is not necessarily true , in all cases.
But in our Blacklists there is all types of Rapists, stalkers, abusers, Robs etc.. But ; unfortunately there are a lot of horror stories about African American Males. I personally have never had a bad experience in any of my sessions. Knock on wood. But, I had my very BestFriend story that was horrifying She was Raped, Robbed & Strangled almost to death for several hours by a Black Man , he was a serial Rapist , possibly Murderer.If he hasn’t killed yet, FBI said he would have been very soon. Ofcourse This affected my world tremendously . She No longer does Sex work but before she retired , she refused to see Black Men. Even Ones she already knew and trusted.PTSD. I realize he is a sick human and it is not his Race but I understand why Providers are hesitant.
I myself have two Of my atf’s Guys that happen to be African American Gents. One is a Guy’s (i know this sounds terrible )that over the phone, you would never guess is a Black Gentlemen, he sounds like a Caucasian Male.
Our first convo was a long list of references and then he asked if him being African American was an issue. I said No, I am so happy I did. He is a wonderful Man and Before he Called Me Apparently he had set up an appointment with another provider that was a 5 star and when he arrived at her door She opened the door said “I don’t see Black guys ” and slammed the door in his face! I was shocked by his story. How Rude! I understand if she has her rules , it wasn’t really the Message she had but the deliverance of the message that was not a 5star attitude ,lol. I myself was New and was building my 5 star reputation and ratings. I was next on his list and I was happy to oblige.
As Far as Cheapskates ! I will say All Races can be offensive with that one. Lol, I would say the Mexican Men in my opinion are the worst. Not Mexican-Americans but the actual Mexico Mexicans. I am Irish and Mexican so I am not by any means being racist. I do not advertise Latina because I am a Bad Chicana and do not speak Spanish. I have never had a Black Guy low Ball me.
As Far as I see it. You can’t judge a book by its cover. Look at Ted Bundy. His Stats , occupation and from what I understand his charm would have him looking like an ideal Client too most Providers amongst a lot of other serial killers ; Rapists.
Thank you for the response and for sharing those experiences. I really appreciate you taking the time to give your perspective from the point of view of someone in the business. I also learned a lot from your description of the Provider Blacklist and the types of individuals who are denied service.
Avoidance of pimps seems to be the consistent reason for excluding all Black men, since the majority of pimps are Black. Even though there are Black men who are educated professionals and seek to harm no one, it’s easier to exclude an entire race because of a few bad people in it. But there are bad apples in every group and I know that if a woman has a bad experience with a White guy, she wouldn’t exclude all White men since they’re the majority of their providers (and the majority of society).
People of color are always the easiest to disregard because they compromise the smaller groups of society (and the worst stereotypes that some unfortunately strengthen with their actions).
It’s horrible what happened to your friend and understandable that her PTSD forced her to make a decision against Black men, even though she already had Black clients that she trusted. It also brings to light that decent Black men are always on the edge of being outcast if the provider is open-minded but has a bad experience — once again, something that White guys wouldn’t be punished for if there was an bad encounter with a White guy. That individual would be put on the Provider Blacklist, not the entire race.
Like you said, a profile of Ted Bundy would read like every provider’s ideal client. Highlighting issues in the sex worker industry also reflects how things are in many social environments outside of it. People are shallow and take the easiest route of judgment, especially when it comes to business and money.
Pathetic. As a black women I may start to identify as another race. Black men are completely conquered scum bags. Image white men complaining if Asian or African women refuse their business for sex. These men would not care or make articles discussion about from non white sex workers. All black men care about is sleeping with women of other races. It’s good to know why slavery happened lol you don’t even care about other black men lmao. Can’t make this up. Y’all have no shame or dignity as men. Just worthless and ugly as ever. Who wants an ape inside them? I heard about this online and I’m laughing at what I just read. The fact that these women don’t want to sleep with you is racist? So white women can’t prefer their own race, it’s racist? I wonder if black women are called racist. The new generation of black women I hope gets away from you trash. I hope you all get the non black vagina you’re so desperate for a fall off the earth breed out or natural cause happens. This is just pathetic. The self hate is so great lol
The fact that you think you are “decent” yet you are going around paying women for sex is the most ironic statement I’ve read in a long time.
There’s the stigma.
You would be very surprised with who comes to see me and pay for my services.
Not the stereo typical “johns ” that society has depicted of sloppy, fat, old and ugly. I see Men from all walks of life. I myself am someone you would pass in the grocery store and never guess I was a Sex Worker.
I pay my rent like everyone else. I worked for a major corporation before lay offs. I have been Married . I care for my Dad with Alzheimer’s and I’m not a drug addict or trafficked like society has tried to tell you. My clients are your co workers, Brothers, Uncles, Neighbors and even a few Judges, Doctors and Celebrities .
Why is something I can give away illegal to Sale? Was the first commodity and will be the last.
Not all Clients are Bad people & perverts . Yes, a lot of very “Decent” Men too.
Next time you see a typical Man just know if he hasn’t paid for it , he probably thought about it. Decency has nothing to do with this. I was not a promiscuous girl growing up , I was raised by a southern Belle , with both parents in the home and no daddy issues. I guarantee you would be surprised at the “Decent” Gentleman who have paid for my services.
I would rather be with a Black or Hispanic person if I were in the business. You know you have a lot of Donald trump type white men that get upset over things you would never expect. You don’t know when a lot of white men who feel they are better than you and entitled will flip off and kill you just because you don’t think like them. You see white women and men getting killed all around the country by demented white men. You know the most that could happen to you with a black or Hispanic guy but a white guy may be nice one moment the nest moment they are finding you somewhere. Look at that white guy who was going around killing prostit
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