Why Does It Hurt When My Boyfriend Goes Deep

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Why Does It Hurt When My Boyfriend Goes Deep
At the age of sixteen, most girls will be surprised they have their menstrual period to worry about. While period cramps are common in women, It's not the only concern for girls. Having vaginal pain during penetration can be worrying . As you grow older, falling in love with someone and expressing your feeling through sexual intercourse may become necessary. Now you get disappointed on the first day with a severe painful penetration, vaginal bleeding, and lower abdominal discomfort. If you are having intercourse for the first time, you should know it's painful and may come with spotting for a few days. After your first sexual intercourse, some women may still get pain for months or years. Though, It could easily be prevented by using the right techniques. There are other reasons you could have intercourse after losing your virginity. It could occur if you have a urinary tract infection, vaginal infections, anxiety, lack of adequate vaginal lubrication or a forceful penetration. In older women and women who have given birth, sexual intercourse becomes less painful. Though, the vaginal trauma during childbirth may cause severe painful intercourse. This article explains the common reasons why you experience pain when your boyfriend enters you, what to do, and when you should worry. Why does it hurt when my boyfriend enters me? Here's Why 1. You've never had sexual intercourse before The age of first sexual intercourse varies from women to women; Though one thing is common, PAIN. The vagina in the early stages of a woman's life is covered with a crescent-shaped membrane with a small opening that allows blood from menstruation to flow through During you first intercourse with your boyfriend, you may experience severe pain when he enters you as the hymen ruptures. Pain may be very mild or severe and sometimes could be accompanied by vaginal spotting. Having pain the first time is not abnormal and should not bother you. In few months you will start enjoying intercourse with you boyfriend. However, it's possible you may still get pain later on. Here are some other reason it occurs 2. Your vagina is not wet enough Sometimes you may not have the urge for intercourse and you are pressured into it; If you are not in the mood or not stimulated before penetration, your vaginal area will hurt during penetration. Within the sides of the vaginal wall is the Bartholin gland which helps to release watery discharge during pre-intimacy, and intercourse. However, if you are not ready for sexual intercourse, your body is not stimulated to increase vaginal wetness. This will result in pain. One easy way to help ease the stress on your vagina is applying a lubricant. This commonly used by women to prevent pain, vaginal tear and improve sexual experience. 3. You have vaginismus Some women may have difficulty engaging in any form of vaginal penetration. This is called vaginismus and occurs due to spasm of the pubococcygeus muscle. Pain may occur during sexual intercourse - when your boyfriend tries to enter you, or while inserting a tampon or menstrual cup. In most women, psychological help with sufficient vaginal lubricant will help prevent pain. 4. You have vaginal infection If you are not expecting, you could get pregnant if you do not use a condom. That's not the only risk. Sexually transmitted diseases are mainly transmitted through unprotected sexual intercourse. Therefore, using a condom or abstaining from intercourse is vital to preventing this kind of infections. If you have an infection down there, you may experience persistent vaginal and abdominal pain during intercourse. Some common infections that could result in pain are Chlamydia, bacterial vaginosis, complicated yeast infection, trichomoniasis, and gonorrhea. Should you notice penetration pain weeks after unprotected intercourse, it's possible you may have an infection. Some other symptoms of vaginal infections you may experience are Unpleasant vagina smell Pain before, during and after intercourse Foul-smelling vaginal discharge Green vaginal discharge Yellow vaginal discharge Low abdomen tenderness Itching vagina with sore These symptoms indicate you may have an infection. However, you may have an infection and still not show any symptoms. Chlamydia, trichomoniasis and gonorrhea infections may lie dormant for months or years. If you feel pain after an unhealthy sexual practice, it advisable you inform your doctor. In fact, the World Health Organization and Center For Disease Control (CDC) recommends women less than 25 years to routinely check for infections yearly. This is important because gonorrhea and chlamydia may spread up to the uterus and fallopian tubes resulting in pelvic inflammatory disease. Long-term vaginal infections may also affect your chances of conceiving in the future or result in ectopic pregnancy. 5. You had a rough intercourse Emotions and desire may sometimes drive urge for a deep and rough sexual experience. If you are not aroused with a dry vagina, this may result in severe pain. On the other hand, during deep penetration, the man's penis may hit your cervix very hard. This could cause inner vaginal pain or low abdominal cramps after intercourse. Most women will experience an increased desire for sexual intercourse a week after period. This occurs because of body changes during ovulation. During you ovulation period or fertile window, your cervix is soft and may be difficult to detect. Sexual intercourse during this time will not cause pain. However, immediately after the end of period or days before your period will start, deep penetration may hit your low-lying cervix with pain. 6. You are emotionally not ready Not being psychologically ready for intercourse could affect vaginal wetness and result in pain. The fear of getting pregnant, catching an infection, having a break up with your boyfriend or stress, may affect vaginal wetness or cause pain. It's important you are ready to prevent a painful experience. Why does it hurt when my boyfriend goes deep? Normally, vaginal intercourse should not be painful. If you are having intercourse for your first time, its okay if you feel some pain. During sexual intercourse, it's possible you could get pain when your boyfriend goes deep or hit your cervix from behind. This occurs because your cervix is low down in your vagina or you have inflammation of the ovary, fallopian tubes or abdomen. Possible causes of pain are intestinal diseases, ovarian cyst, ovarian cancer, or adhesions from previous surgeries or endometriosis. https://www.medplux.com/pain-after-sex-7-main-causes-of-belly-and-vaginal-cramps-treatment/ Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44
hypertension : At the age of sixteen, most girls will be surprised they have their menstrual period to worry about. While period cramps are common in women, It's not the only concern for girls. Having vaginal pain during penetration can be worrying . As you grow older, falling in love with someone and expressing your feeling through sexual intercourse may become necessary. Now you get disappointed on the first day with a severe painful penetration, vaginal bleeding, and lower abdominal discomfort. If you are having intercourse for the first time, you should know it's painful and may come with spotting for a few days. After your first sexual intercourse, some women may still get pain for months or years. Though, It could easily be prevented by using the right techniques. There are other reasons you could have intercourse after losing your virginity. It could occur if you have a urinary tract infection, vaginal infections, anxiety, lack of adequate vaginal lubrication or a forceful penetration. In older women and women who have given birth, sexual intercourse becomes less painful. Though, the vaginal trauma during childbirth may cause severe painful intercourse. This article explains the common reasons why you experience pain when your boyfriend enters you, what to do, and when you should worry. Why does it hurt when my boyfriend enters me? Here's Why 1. You've never had sexual intercourse before The age of first sexual intercourse varies from women to women; Though one thing is common, PAIN. The vagina in the early stages of a woman's life is covered with a crescent-shaped membrane with a small opening that allows blood from menstruation to flow through During you first intercourse with your boyfriend, you may experience severe pain when he enters you as the hymen ruptures. Pain may be very mild or severe and sometimes could be accompanied by vaginal spotting. Having pain the first time is not abnormal and should not bother you. In few months you will start enjoying intercourse with you boyfriend. However, it's possible you may still get pain later on. Here are some other reason it occurs 2. Your vagina is not wet enough Sometimes you may not have the urge for intercourse and you are pressured into it; If you are not in the mood or not stimulated before penetration, your vaginal area will hurt during penetration. Within the sides of the vaginal wall is the Bartholin gland which helps to release watery discharge during pre-intimacy, and intercourse. However, if you are not ready for sexual intercourse, your body is not stimulated to increase vaginal wetness. This will result in pain. One easy way to help ease the stress on your vagina is applying a lubricant. This commonly used by women to prevent pain, vaginal tear and improve sexual experience. 3. You have vaginismus Some women may have difficulty engaging in any form of vaginal penetration. This is called vaginismus and occurs due to spasm of the pubococcygeus muscle. Pain may occur during sexual intercourse - when your boyfriend tries to enter you, or while inserting a tampon or menstrual cup. In most women, psychological help with sufficient vaginal lubricant will help prevent pain. 4. You have vaginal infection If you are not expecting, you could get pregnant if you do not use a condom. That's not the only risk. Sexually transmitted diseases are mainly transmitted through unprotected sexual intercourse. Therefore, using a condom or abstaining from intercourse is vital to preventing this kind of infections. If you have an infection down there, you may experience persistent vaginal and abdominal pain during intercourse. Some common infections that could result in pain are Chlamydia, bacterial vaginosis, complicated yeast infection, trichomoniasis, and gonorrhea. Should you notice penetration pain weeks after unprotected intercourse, it's possible you may have an infection. Some other symptoms of vaginal infections you may experience are Unpleasant vagina smell Pain before, during and after intercourse Foul-smelling vaginal discharge Green vaginal discharge Yellow vaginal discharge Low abdomen tenderness Itching vagina with sore These symptoms indicate you may have an infection. However, you may have an infection and still not show any symptoms. Chlamydia, trichomoniasis and gonorrhea infections may lie dormant for months or years. If you feel pain after an unhealthy sexual practice, it advisable you inform your doctor. In fact, the World Health Organization and Center For Disease Control (CDC) recommends women less than 25 years to routinely check for infections yearly. This is important because gonorrhea and chlamydia may spread up to the uterus and fallopian tubes resulting in pelvic inflammatory disease. Long-term vaginal infections may also affect your chances of conceiving in the future or result in ectopic pregnancy. 5. You had a rough intercourse Emotions and desire may sometimes drive urge for a deep and rough sexual experience. If you are not aroused with a dry vagina, this may result in severe pain. On the other hand, during deep penetration, the man's penis may hit your cervix very hard. This could cause inner vaginal pain or low abdominal cramps after intercourse. Most women will experience an increased desire for sexual intercourse a week after period. This occurs because of body changes during ovulation. During you ovulation period or fertile window, your cervix is soft and may be difficult to detect. Sexual intercourse during this time will not cause pain. However, immediately after the end of period or days before your period will start, deep penetration may hit your low-lying cervix with pain. 6. You are emotionally not ready Not being psychologically ready for intercourse could affect vaginal wetness and result in pain. The fear of getting pregnant, catching an infection, having a break up with your boyfriend or stress, may affect vaginal wetness or cause pain. It's important you are ready to prevent a painful experience. Why does it hurt when my boyfriend goes deep? Normally, vaginal intercourse should not be painful. If you are having intercourse for your first time, its okay if you feel some pain. During sexual intercourse, it's possible you could get pain when your boyfriend goes deep or hit your cervix from behind. This occurs because your cervix is low down in your vagina or you have inflammation of the ovary, fallopian tubes or abdomen. Possible causes of pain are intestinal diseases, ovarian cyst, ovarian cancer, or adhesions from previous surgeries or endometriosis. https://www.medplux.com/pain-after-sex-7-main-causes-of-belly-and-vaginal-cramps-treatment/ Lalasticlala, seun, mynd44 Good morning bro, pls I need your attention on something. How can I reach you pls?
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I've never been able to enjoy deep thrusting, which makes a lot of guy's favorite positions uncomfortable. Doggy style, for instance, always has me gritting my teeth in pain. I've been having sex for 10+ years and my checkups are always fine. What could be the issue, here?
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it's your cervix. I don't know what you can do to stop it from hurting except for trying different positions that won't let it go in so deep. and not all guys need to go deep to get off. more guys like the tight feeling of sex and all guys just get off from having sex in general. so some positions that could work for you is laying on the bed with your legs together while he stands on the floor and enters you that way, and a good way to do doggie style is you laying down on the bed with you on your elbows and your legs spread a little and him going in from behind. the wider you open your legs, the deeper he can go in so the positions that prevent that from happening are the best for you. and I would say something to your boyfriend because sex shouldn't hurt, it should be pleasurable for both. you don't have an issue, you have a short vag and should be dealt with in that matter. I'm sure if you talk it over with him that it hurts to have sex like that and say that you guys should both try out new ideas, I'm sure he will be very understanding and willing to want to "work" on how to make it better for the both of you. best of luck in the sheets!
Ya, it's not an every time occurance. I just like to let him "let loose" now and then... not about getting off, more of a psychological thrill.
yeah but there are ways to go around the pain part and still getting that "almost" deep thrusting thrill. I kind of had the same problem but because my boyfriend is bigger than anyone I've been with. I like doggie so we had to alter things til I got used to his size. but if you really want to get this problem over with, I'd have him stay deep inside you for 10 seconds at a time. our vags can stretch to get babies out, I'm sure it can stretch to fit a certain penis size in them.
True story ... Never tried to stretch vertically, the way that you have to to fit girth. Interesting concept.
it's just an idea, I don't know if it's fact. worth a shot though right?
dude. tell him that he's hurting you! >< wtf. i'm sure he can get off FINE without causing you pain...
Guys need to have that kind of sex sometimes...
most guys would not want to hurt their women like that...
That's why it's better for him to not know. Pleasing a guy in bed is a pretty big priority to a relationship. Giving a guy the kind of sex he is craving at least occasionally is a fundamental to a relationship.
idk... I personally wouldn't be OK with being in that much pain... and him not seeing that is kinda worrisome.
Yeah but you're in agony in the process. Just tell him to take it easy back there. Unless he's a selfish prick I'm sure he'll understand.
Well, after 10 years of dealing with it ... I've kinda come to terms with the fact that sometimes sex is going to hurt. Him understanding doesn't mean he won't still crave that kind of sex now and then.
the guys penis is most likely hitting your cervix , some girls' cerxis' are lower than others
Ugh. This is what I am suspecting too. Ever know anyone else with this problem? What did they do?
I have this sometimes. in certain positions, life your legs, or move your body in a certain way. when I'm in missionary with my boyfriend is will sometimes hurt, so I left my legs and cross them over his back, etc!
umm, I don't know what to do to not make it hurt, but sometimes it hurts for me, sometimes it doesn't. I usually tell him to take it slow at first, and once I get more into it, it's fine. or to make fast small thrusts, not hard and fast or really hard and slow. other than that I'm not sure, haven't really figured it out for that position. just try different things
Try for positions where hard thrusting still isn't that deep. Wider legs can allow deeper in missionary, but I think generally, its pulling knees towards your chest that REALLY lets him go deep. Instead of doggy, try you lying FLAT on your stomach. It 'wastes' an inch or two because he can't get the base quite to your vagina, but it has the same 'dominant' feel as doggy style. Its just not as deep.
Is there a position that would make me actually deeper, or would that only encourage him to go harder and even deeper?
Hmm . I don't know. I think maybe yes, some positions 'lengthen' the canal. I will point out, though I (frustratingly) have no personal experience with this that I have actually spoken to a couple of women who found anal _easier_ then vaginal sex for deep thrusting. I guess anal is tight, but actually deep. I don't know if you've considered that/try it. The only other thing I can wonder is whether angle matters. Do you have as much trouble with deep missionary as deep doggy?
I've never gotten accustomed to anal sex I know the majority of other women are good at it and that I need to keep trying...But it hurts as well. Hmm , not sure with the angle thing -- we might need to play around more. I don't want him to know that it hurts me, though. How to play with deep thrusting without giving him the impression that its something I want all of the time?
I'm not sure that 'the majority of other women are good at it'. My wife refuses outright to even try. Is it mainly doggy, or do you run into trouble with mis
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