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So, you want to know the answer to the age-old question: "Does size really matter?"

It's a topic that's been debated by scientists, therapists and divorce attorneys alike. There have been legitimate studies dedicated to getting to the bottom of this issue, all for the sake of men's egos everywhere. In a 2014 poll , a promising 84% of ladies reported they were more than satisfied with their man's member. What does that mean for the other 16%?
Well, that's hard to say, especially since "all men and women have a different perspective on how much [penis size] matters and what the proper size constitutes," says Jenni Skyler, a certified sex therapist, sexologist, and licensed marriage and family therapist for AdamEve.com .
When it comes to exact numbers, we're looking at 2.8 to 3.9 inches as the average flaccid length, with the average penis being 4.7 to 6.3 inches in length. As for average erect circumference, that's 4.7 inches.
But even with statistics, Skyler points out that "some men and their partners fit together well and some don’t."
"Some women find a smaller fit feels great but larger men are uncomfortable," she notes. "Others find that smaller men just don’t fill them up and they really enjoy the larger size. For the most part, men who are in the average range will do just fine. Men on the extreme ends of very large or very small will have to find a partner who fits well with their size."
When it comes to the how you measure up down below, being average ain't all that bad. In fact, Skyler says "men on the extreme ends of very large or very small will have to find a partner who fits well with their size."

To find out once and for all whether the meat matters more than the motion, we went straight to the source. AskMen spoke with 16 ladies for their honest take — straight up, no chaser. Here's what they had to say about their ideal penis proportion .

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Bent, curved, thick, slim, big head, small head, circumcised or not circumcised — when it comes to penises, there’s plenty of variety to be enjoyed.
And that’s without even touching on balls, shades and veins.
The saying goes, it’s not the size that matters, but what you do with it.
Now, while I appreciate phalluses of all kinds, let’s be honest, some are more favourable than others.
You’ll struggle to find a woman declaring her love for the micro-penis .
In a recent study by Body Logic MD , it was revealed that 40% of the women surveyed preferred the ‘bender’, which tilts upwards and hits the sweet spot.
Runner-up was the ‘curve’, which is similar but with a less dramatic curvature, and it can go right, left, up or down.
The ‘chode’ — an overtly plump but short cock — wasn’t mentioned, but deserves a shout-out, too. It might not always reach the deep dark depths, but it’s a filler.
What makes an exceptionally good dick? To find out, I asked 20 women to share their preferences for the perfect penis.
It seems one size does not fit all.
Nothing too veiny or threatening. Some penises just sort of angrily stare at you.
A medium size is always good, pink and plush.
Dicks without a foreskin are nice, because they look much neater.
Some foreskin appears a bit saggy and sad. Girth is more important than length — about the thickness of a deodorant can.
And yes, I was in Boots checking out sizes as I thought about this.
I love an angry cock too, you know, all twitchy and veiny.
I had a bender once and it could touch corners that no-one had reached before.
It also went down my throat at the perfect angle.
I really dislike circumcised men, because I can’t cope with the actual penis.
With a foreskin, I know what I’m doing.
Otherwise, I’m not too picky, but no-one likes a really bendy one, do they?
Recently, I experienced a very girthy straight cock.
When I say girthy, I mean girthy; the same sort of circumference as a standard-sized coke can.
It was most delicious. Girth is where it’s at.
Doesn’t matter what it’s like, as long as it does the job right.
Although, I’m personally not into the chode and a bender can help hit the right spot.
I don’t really have a type, but I like ones that get really big and hard, although aren’t necessarily big when not erect.
Not a fan of circumcised penises though.
I feel like I’ve been able to work around all the dicks I’ve had.
Taking a really big cock can make things a little slower, so I tend to prefer ones that are slightly shorter and more versatile.
If I had to pick between girth and length, it’d be girth.
Although, my ex had a thick cock and it meant we weren’t able to have spontaneous sex, unless there was lube about.
I prefer a penis that still has its foreskin, but for functional reasons, rather than aesthetic.
And I love a thick vein down the shaft, so you can see it’s really hard. Not sure why else I’d enjoy a veiny presence.
Hair is OK on the balls and pubic area, but never on the actual cock.
The style of penis I prefer is any size or shape, wielded by a confident, enthusiastic partner who is interested in my pleasure, as well as their own.
I like a thick cock, veiny and firm.
And, I hate baggy foreskins, they make cocks look smaller. I don’t mind a curve and it doesn’t have to be long, but thick and proud is perfect.
A smooth solid penis is preferable, especially as I enjoy giving head and it’s nicer to do with a pretty penis.
As for intercourse, a slight bend is good but large isn’t necessarily better.
Too much length or girth is more hassle than it’s worth.
If my fingers touch when wrapped around his member, he’d better have a few tricks up his sleeve.
I like below-average in length and don’t care about the rest at all.
In my opinion, it’s more about technique than size and shape, but long ones are incredibly painful and not pleasurable in the slightest.
I’ve dumped guys for big penises, I’m not about that life.
Non-circumcised with a slight bend and proportionate length.
Think of my penis choice as the Beast from the East: a bit rough around the edges.
I never thought that I would have a preference, but recently I hooked up with someone who still had his skin and it was just odd.
Everything from how it looked when semi-hard to ‘oh my, what am I meant to be doing with this’ during the blowjob.
Generally though, you just work with what’s in front of you, right?
Just because you prefer one thing, it doesn’t mean that another will be bad.
Certain positions become uncomfortable with larger penises and things need to go more gently, which isn’t my preference.
As long as it does the job, I’m happy.
Genitals are pretty ugly anyway, but I’d rather have one that was evenly sized.
Not too aggressive or bright purple.
I prefer average or less, I find longer ones to be painful.
And, I also really like a big head.
However, there are many exceptions. It’s more about the person, their technique and openness to try new things.
Bigger and thicker than average, and not circumcised.
As long as it stays hard and tastes clean.

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That’s backed up by new research from Clue , which not only revealed that kindness is the most important thing women look for in a partner , but also that the majority of straight women would prefer a male partner to have an average sized penis, rather than a massive penis.
This might surprise a lot of men who’ve long assumed that the monster schlongs you see in porn must be the ideal.
Not so, men. The research found that while women weren’t especially likely to mention penis size in their desired attributes, when they did they tended to fancy an average sized one – an ‘average penis’ came up in 8% of the qualities listed as the most important, while ‘big penis’ was mentioned in 3% of instances.
FYI, a small penis was mentioned less than 1% of the times, so it’s not that women like things that are cute and miniature, but that average is better than big.
It seems to come down to physical sensation, discomfort, and how a man’s perception of his penis size might influence his sexual skills.
It’s often assumed that if a man has a big penis, he won’t try as hard, while someone who’s insecure about his average or smaller penis will ‘make up’ for a lack of girth and length with fun techniques and extra foreplay.
Plus, a big penis can very easily be too big, making parts of sex difficult. Giving head to someone with a massive dick is a real choking hazard, for example, while penetration can leave you sore.
‘Too big a penis actually hurts in many cases, and it’s harder to be versatile with positions and thrusting depth,’ Gemma*, 25, tells Metro.co.uk.
‘Also, in past experience, I’ve found that guys with huge dicks think it gives them a free pass not to participate in foreplay and just go straight to penetration.’
Lacey* agrees: ‘I’d prefer normal because my vagina is only like 4-5 inches deep, so there’s not a lot of benefit in a huge cock.
‘I do like a decent girth, but honestly in my experience men who are average tend to have fewer hang ups about it, but also not be lazy in bed.’
That’s important to mention – while men tend to talk about penis size in terms of length, circumference can be more important. But again, it’s possible to be too big.
‘I had sex with a guy who had what I’d describe as a Coke can,’ says Amelia, 28. ‘It sounds great in theory but it was absolutely awful.
‘It was so difficult to get it inside, so every time we had sex there was this awkward bit where we had to check if I was relaxed enough to get him in, then try more foreplay for five minutes, then check again, then foreplay, then check again.
‘Even lubed up it made me wince, and obviously anal was out of the question. He said his penis had caused genuine problems with dating – when he was in his teens and trying to have sex for the first time with his girlfriend, he just wouldn’t fit.
‘He never complained about his penis, just told me that story when I asked if he’d had problems before. I can’t imagine him getting much sympathy if he went to his friends and said his penis was too big.’
When asked about blowjobs, Amelia responses with a simple ‘nope, nope, nope’.
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A big penis may be a lovely idea in theory, and it may make a man feel especially manly to know he’s packing something huge in his pants, but it can make sex pretty challenging.
And when the person who experiences the pain and challenges of a big penis is the woman, it makes sense that while men may think a big penis is great, women would far prefer a more average pecker.
Don’t be too miserable if you’re cursed with a giant dick, though.
As we said, penis size really isn’t very high on women’s priority lists. Kindness, supportiveness, intelligence, education, and confidence are the big hitters, according to that Clue research, and in terms of physical stuff an attractive smile and great eyes are considered more important.
Plus, there’s one concern about a massive member you can easily rectify.
While the stereotype goes that men with big penises don’t bother with foreplay or any fun stuff, it’s pretty simple to break that myth. It doesn’t matter how big you are – if you’re prioritizing your sexual partner’s pleasure, you’re doing brilliantly.

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Published online 2001 Jun 8. doi: 10.1186/1472-6874-1-1
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Masters WH, Johnson VE, Kolodny R. Heterosexuality. New York, Harper Collins. 1994. [ Ref list ]
Deaux K. From individual differences to social categories. Amer Psychol. 1984; 39 :105–116. doi: 10.1037//0003-066X.39.2.105. [ CrossRef ] [ Google Scholar ] [ Ref list ]
DeKeseredy W. Women abuse in dating relationships: The role of male peer support. Toronto, Canadian Scholars Press. 1988. [ Ref list ]
Eisenman R. From crime to creativity: Psychological and social factors in deviance. Dubuque, IA, Kendall/Hunt. 1991. [ Ref list ]
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