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Can someone please ask their man to explain this to me. I have a pretty high sex drive, I would like to have sex atleast once a day. My husband can go almost the whole work week with no sex, but he jerks off almost daily. Is he just lazy? Or is he addicted to porn? We actually had sex today and then he took a nap a little later before work (he works nights), and I just seen that he jerked off while he was “napping”. It makes me feel so sh!tty, and I’ve confronted him before and he denies that he does it. I’m starting to think I’m just not enough for him? Is this a sign he not happy? Or is this just something guys do? Ugh. Do I need to confront him again or should I just accept that he does this? It makes me feel like he’s not satisfied sexually, but meanwhile I’m also not satisfied because he’s taking care of himself during the week too while I get nothing. I just want to know if you think this is something worth being upset about or if I should let it go. I don’t care if he watches porn if we’re apart but like I’m literally in the next room, why not just come get me??
Maybe because he wants to masturbate? Why are you confronting him about him masturbating? That's his business, its probably just easier and quicker for him to masturbate. I don't see why you can't just masturbate during the week if your wanting sex so much. 
this isn't helpful at all. read the whole post
this! I think people are concentrating too much on the her saying masturbating everyday and not her feeling neglected and not wanted sexually. sure masturbate everyday man, but make your wife feel desired and wanted too. I would feel the way she does completely.
okay bc I was reading this thread being like did this girl even read?! So infuriating 😂😂
Some people like to do that behind a computer so they can feel smart.
dude, did you even read her post? This isn’t about him needing to have sex with her when she wants it. It’s like you’re purposely misunderstanding just to have an argument and be pedantic and condescending
ignore mommybell25. She comments on almost every post here thinking she's an expert. But she clearly lacks comprehension skills - that's clear from her comments on this thread.
pretty sure mommybell25 is a dude.🤣
Ok but he literally has an issue with me masterbating so it is a double standard. He lies to me that he does it, and neglects me sexually during the week, I’ve confronted him numerous times about how I feel and so I came here to understand if this is something other women go through and how they dealt with it.
You didn't say in the post he was neglecting sex. You made a whole post asking why he masturbates... Its the internet not everyone is going to sugar coat.
Yeah, it is coming off a bit rude. Honestly I understand men jerk off but I just wonder if this is normal for men to do so often? Like I get it’s easier and whatever but he knows it bothers me and I feel neglected yet he still does it, and denies it even though I know it happens. I just have a hard time accepting that I need to start masterbating because my husband would rather masterbate? It makes me feel undesired...
I never said suck it up but go ahead and put words in my mouth and I wasn't rude at all.. She's upset that he masturbates which is weird, it's his body. You seem very overly upset over my comment that had nothing to do with you... You and OP are the only ones who seem to be so upset about someone wanting to masturbate
If he rather jerk off than have sex with me, I will question that? Maybe your ok with it, but personally I need sex in my relationship and if my husband is neglecting that, obviously it’s an issue.
Girl go cry a river somewhere else. No one in a relationship is obligated to have sex because the other is wanting it. 
Then get one? He still should be able to masturbate without being questioned about him touching his own body
For reference, this man has told me he doesn’t want me to get a vibrator because he fears I will replace him with it. 😳 I mean I might as well just go get myself a damn vibrator but I just don’t understand why jerk off by yourself when you have a partner to do it with?? Makes no sense to me.
Lol ok Again just because she wants to have sex doesn't mean he does. So because he isn't having sex with her when she wants him to it means she's not worthy.. lol
Lol no one's being mean but ok. It's his body he can masturbate. He isn't obligated to have sex with her because she wants it.. She literally says nothing in her post about "intimacy" with her husband. She spoke about HER wanting it during the week
I wouldn’t think too much about it. I love my husband and love having sex with him but I love taking care of myself too. That absolutely doesn’t mean he’s not enough for me. Think of it as another favorite activity. It’s nothing against you. Unless he pushes you away and spends his time taking care of himself I wouldn’t stress about it.
men just like to beat off. like stress release. sometimes my husband does it if he's got a lot on his mind. like, self care for men. i wouldn't take it personally.
My partner very very rarely jerks off, only when I have been away for a few days otherwise we have sex every couple days.
He is neglecting your needs, it isn’t okay to me when masturbation or porn is affecting your intimate relationship.
Honestly; half the time after I have sex, I end up masturbating afterward anyway. It just feels good. PEOPLE (not just men) masturbate because it feels good. You can’t take it personally, why don’t you do it yourself?
maybe because she craves and wants sex AND intimacy with her husband lol
It would be one thing to just masturbate but if he’s neglecting his wife who clearly has a high sex drive then that’s concerning?
That’s the problem with SOOOO MANY of you women here (not all). Y’all are CONTROLLING and extremely childish for no reason!! like grow TH up!!
Agreed! I think all these women crying about neglecting her needs skimmed over the part where he just had sex with her today and she got upset that he went and masturbated afterwards...he’s working the night shift. He’s probably exhausted and doesn’t have the energy to have sex everyday so satisfies himself real quick. If it was the other way around though these women would be talking about how she can do what she wants with her body lol. The double standards. 
My husband never and I mean never jerks off. We have sex everyday sometimes twice a day. He says he’d rather do it with me then masturbate because he gets more pleasure from me then his hand. If he was masturbating rather then having sex with me yeah I’d absolutely be concerned. Intimacy is a huge thing for both my husband and I, if he went a whole week without it I’d definitely have some red flags. Maybe just be open and honest and explain how you feel! And ask him why he’s choosing that over you!
... I seriously don't have the time for everyday.
Lol me and my husband both have a high sex drive so it’s what works for us!
I totally understand where your coming from but then again I’m okay with my SO doing it. I know it’s a relaxation thing. I mean before we got together I was doing it like 5 times a day! I also use to watch porn all the time. It’s a good way to learn new things!
I don't think its controlling at all. I'm totally fine with my husband jerking off if are intimacy and sex life were fine, but you're obviously feeling neglected which is the bigger issue here not the jerking off. He still wasn't pleasing himself and still feeling that lack of sexual need with you I imagine will make you feel the same way. My husband and I sex life took a huge hit this last year we went from everyday sometimes twice a day to 2 maybe 3 times a week, but like I said he doesn't jerk off anymore, but even this makes me wonder if he's still satisfied. now, if he was watching porn every day and neglecting my need too I would feel the way you do. if.it were on the other foot the man will be upset. if i went days without having sex or showing interest in having sex with my husband, but watch porn constantly I'm sure he feel some type of way. also, he shouldn't control you masturbating thats weird and don't let him. I say marriage counseling to help communicate these things.
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"Let's just make sure this is muted 19 times."
1. It always begins with him either not even realizing he's masturbating or realizing he has an hour to kill. Every time. Either we're just scrolling through Twitter and realize we've unconsciously had our hand in our pants for the last 15 minutes, or we have nothing to do so we're like, "Guess we might as well crank one out." Idle hands and all that.
2. Channel surfing for porn just like he would if he was watching TV. There is too much porn on the Internet that it makes masturbation paralyzing. What if the next video is even better? What does the title "Sex gymnast gets gold fucking medal" even mean? Should we click on that video that has a thumbnail of what looks like an alien? It's like we're Lewis and Clark exploring the Louisiana Purchase. That would be an apt comparison if Lewis and Clark had been jerking off the whole time and the only thing they discovered were a bunch of breasts. Eventually, we settle on a handful that we queue up before going to town, and finally pick one we're going to definitely finish with. It's our Pacific Ocean, you know, if, when Lewis and Clark got to the Pacific Ocean they had jerked off in it. Whose to say they didn't though, you know?
3. Freezing whenever he hears any noise because of the deep fear that he'll be caught masturbating. Anytime guys hear a creak or a far-off sound, they'll freeze, hunched over their keyboards the way primal man would hunch over his fire staring out into the dark when he heard the howl of a wolf. Even if we live alone, our fear is that someone, anyone, would come in and discover us masturbating. A burglar, our mom checking in on us randomly, the mailman, or Jesus gathering everyone for the rapture could come in and see our secret shame: milf-orders-big-sausage-pizza.mp4. In any of those cases, we'd rather be attacked by the aforementioned wolf.
4. Deciding whether he's going to navigate his computer with his dominant hand or masturbate with his dominant hand. This isn't a problem for guys who just use their imagination (not everyone watches porn, obviously). But for everyone else, there are pros and cons depending on which task you assign your stronger hand. Frankly, using your non-dominant hand to click around is pretty risky, as if you screw up a click, you could wind up in some weird place that you can never unsee.
5. Checking multiple times to make sure his computer is muted, at an acceptable volume, or his headphones are super plugged in. Unless we live in a log cabin in the middle of the woods, it's always better to be safe than to run the risk of a roommate or neighbor hearing what we masturbate to. Also, anyone who moves to a log cabin in the woods does it specifically to jerk off to loud porn. Anyone.
6. Debating whether it's worth running to grab lotion or not. Not every guy uses lotion, and some guys swear by it. Some guys use lotion if it's around, but once you start the Boner Train, there's no stopping it until it gets into the station (the station is Orgasm City, population: that guy).
7. Browsing his porn stash like a perverse Scrooge McDuck diving into his coins. Yes, you can stream porn, but some dudes still download it. Some dudes bookmark it. Some guys don't care. Hakuna matata.
8. Reaching for the tissues and realizing there aren't any. We're faced with three options here: our hand, a piece of clothing, or just ejaculating into the wind and hoping for the best. Most guys go with their hands, I think, but honestly, I don't think a scientific study has ever been done.
9. Wondering what just happened. It's kind of like waking up from a dream in the sense that you can't quite remember exactly what you were watching or why it was arousing in the first place.
10. The bathroom shuffle. There's that moment where we have to do a weird dance to get into the bathroom without getting our ejaculate on anything.
11. Copy/pasting several YouTube links so that porn star's name isn't his next paste. Although it is awkward to watch cute animal videos after masturbating. They don't deserve that.

get a girl, or have some self restraint, we don't do that all the time so why do guys?
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You don't know what it's like to be a guy, so don't pretend like you do. I'd like to see you walk around with a bucket of testosterone in your blood. I know personally if I don't let loose for a few days I walk around with nothing but sex on the brain, which is neither healthy nor productive. And as much as I'd like to phone a girl just so she can come over and get me off, sometimes it's easier and less time-consuming to just crank one out yourself instead of putting up with a woman's bullsh*t.
That's me all the time all i think about is sex and pussy & i look up porn to & jack off benjamintyfresh
Whoa, where do you get off telling a guy what to do with his penis? We jack off so much because it feels good. There's no harm in it, so why use restraint? According to what I see on this site I probably masturbate less than most girls do but whatever, I'm a sexual person and if I was in a relationship I'd probably still do it.
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