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Announcements Why Do Men Always Want Sex?
Understanding why men always want sex can give you a deeper understanding of the dynamics of your relationship. In this article, we’ll learn why men want sex all the time, signs that we’re frustrated, and what you can do (from a guy’s perspective).
For men, sex isn’t JUST about the physical. It’s connected to so many other aspects in our lives like confidence, self-worth, connection, and validation.
For some, it’s a means to feel valued/validated/needed by their partner.
For others, it’s a means of connection. Sure it might be hidden behind all that machismo, but in most, if not every guy, there’s a need to connect emotionally as well and the physical connection is a means to provide that.
Since sex is rooted in so many aspects of a man’s being, the desire for it seems non-stop.
It’s true, men think with their dicks. And we’re not the most emotionally intelligent either. To be honest, I’m not sure if most men even realize sex is more than just about the physical. But whether it’s realized or not, it can’t be denied otherwise sexual frustration wouldn’t rear its ugly head in all these different ways.
Sex is a means for emotional connection and when there’s little sex, there’s going to be little emotional connection. When we’re not feeling connected, you might find that we are not communicating with you as much, or wondering how your day was…you get the idea.
Is the once stable and supportive man…no longer stable and supportive? Mood swings much? If his valleys seem lower than normal, the lack of connection stemming from the lack of sex could be destabilizing his emotional core.
Do you find that he’s investing more time at the gym? Or golf? With his friends? Work? Not to say he shouldn’t be, but there is a healthy balance and if you feel like he’s not wanting to just be with you, he might not feel as connected with you. The more connected, the more time he’ll want to spend with you.
Dealing with sexual frustration is a JOINT RESPONSIBILITY. Men need to be making EVERY effort to meet his partner at their emotional connection points. When that’s happening, then ladies…
If his priorities were always placed before yours, that would be horrible. Just how you need communication and emotional support, your partner may need sex. Again, not just for the physicality, but because of everything it’s tied to (validation, emotional connection, and more).
Your reasons are ALL VALID. It’s when the excuses are consistent that it makes us feel less of a man and not wanted. Imagine everyday for a week, if he were too tired to talk about your horrible day? Or even 6 out of the 7 days he was just not emotionally available to you? It would be a horrible feeling and the same applies here. Consistent excuses communicate a lot.
It’s more than just sex for men. It’s really difficult because men and women often approach connecting with each other on completely opposite sides of the spectrum. This is a generalization, but women find connection through quality time, words of affirmation, emotional support. It draws them closer to their man and it culminates to sex. Men on the other hand, often feel the emotional connection through the physical.
I’m not proposing that women just give it up to keep a guy happy. Instead, I’m proposing to see his desire for sex as a desire to be close to you.
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Like forreal I was at the club and like four guys came up to me on different occasion and were like "hey baby, wanna have sex". I was like "***** go away". And then my bf wants to have sex with me like 3 times a week like forreal its annoyin

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I'll try to help you out with this one. Let's see.....OK,.....there you have it, I've officially removed you from my "to do" list.

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I dun't know why, i wish i wasn't cause i wanna do it like all the time but my girlfriend doesn't so you know. Its affects some of us as well. :/

3 times a week isn't that unusual, my bf wants it everyday usually, sometimes even twice

and its biological i guess

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You're a troll forreal its annoyin.

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( Original post by KellyKellyFan411 )
Like forreal I was at the club and like four guys came up to me on different occasion and were like "hey baby, wanna have sex". I was like "***** go away". And then my bf wants to have sex with me like 3 times a week like forreal its annoyin

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Like forreal I was at the club and like four guys came up to me on different occasion and were like "hey baby, wanna have sex". I was like "***** go away". And then my bf wants to have sex with me like 3 times a week like forreal its annoyin

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( Original post by RELAXED )
Is 3 a week a lot Plenty of young couples have sex every night. Jeesh.

Anyway, you want an answer to question: it's testosterone. The hormone that makes you want to have sex. Young men have MASSES more of this hormone than women.

It makes you bald. puts hair on your chest. encourages muscle growth. and lots of other things. By age 50, as a man, your testosterone has decreased by about 20% compared to when you were 20.

High testosterone basically is what makes me crazy if I don't get laid.

Don't like? Get an older guy.

...Another opinion (seriously) is to take a look at your feelings towards sex. A lot of people, especially girls (from what I've learned) have hang ups around sex. I'm not really an expert, but there must be those sex advice people on Sunday night radio shows for a reason right??

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( Original post by newts2k )
What do you mean by girls have hang ups about sex?

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( Original post by RELAXED )
Is 3 a week a lot Plenty of young couples have sex every night. Jeesh.

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because girls are fit?

The disparity arises because men's horniness peaks in his late teens, whereas women's peaks in their early thirties. So if you get a couple in their mid-late twenties, their peaks overlap and they're doin' it like three times a day. Late 20's girls are awesome

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( Original post by KellyKellyFan411 )
Like forreal I was at the club and like four guys came up to me on different occasion and were like "hey baby, wanna have sex". I was like "***** go away". And then my bf wants to have sex with me like 3 times a week like forreal its annoyin

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( Original post by Indiesaurusrex )
It's not just guys that are horny, it's just girls are less vocal about it

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( Original post by py0alb )
because girls are fit?

The disparity arises because men's horniness peaks in his late teens, whereas women's peaks in their early thirties. So if you get a couple in their mid-late twenties, their peaks overlap and they're doin' it like three times a day. Late 20's girls are awesome

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( Original post by newts2k )
Is that true about girls getting hornier later? Did not know that

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