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Why Are Guys Assholes
Again, from what I see on this site daily, it seems to prove my point.
Why are (a lot of) guys such insensitive assholes?
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Because nice guys get trampled on. I'm sorry to tell you that most guys will get crushed in this world by trying to be nice to everyone. As far as dating goes it is literally suicide for a guy to try and be nice. It's a guys best interest to be aggressive and take what he wants.. in his best interest to show little to no emotion. If he is looking for a serious relationship or wife then sure.. but I wouldn't understand why I guy would be doing that at a younger age. Also you should probabaly stop acting so bitter and stereotyping every guy to be an insensitive asshole. You had one experience.. that doesn't make us all terrible.
I said a lot of, not most of... but I can tell that you are one of them by that answer.
You have no idea who I am at all lol. Further proves how bitter you are.
Unfortunately they don't have enough experience or haven't learned that being an, "alpha male" (being a man whore wo gets laid everyday) never pays off. Same for the, "nice guy" who has to learn to focus inside and learn who he is and why girls don't necessarily like him. (I was that nice guy) but tjis summer I've learned a lot about relationships from male and female perspectives so I feel good regardless of being teased about being single and a virgin
A very insightful opinion. Guys like you give me hope for the future of man kind
Pray for me girls my age think I'm weak because I'm smart and skinny and wear glasses yet I have the most common sense out of the majority of my peers. Pray that I find some kind of girlfriend before highschool ends I'm gonna be a junior this year
Let me tell you thIs. I never had a boyfriend in high school. I was smart and focused on my academics. I felt like there was something wrong with me because I didn't have a boyfriend. I actually didn't end up dating and losing my virginity until I was 24 in University. It's just the way things happened. I actually met someone who appreciated me for me. So, don't give up hope. It may not happen when you want it to, but it will eventually you will find a girl who likes you for you and is not concerned about some silly immature norm. Best of luck
Thank you so true I won't I'm already working on me
Most of my experiences with the opposite sex were negative until I started college about 4 years ago. I've met a lot of nice guys there, so I know they're not all the same. But I just think it's funny how many guys act do act like assholes, but then if another guy turned around and acted that way towards their daughter, sister, or someone they love, they wouldn't think it's so funny then -_- Then again, it is assholes we're speaking of. They still probably wouldn't care
I don't know, girl. I'm trying to figure out the same thing. You have to know that not ALL guys are ass-wholes, though. There are some great guys out there. I've met like... Two of them in my lifetime.
Oh not again! Can we just accept the fact that there is good and bad in both genders. And if someone is an insensitive asshole, it has nothing to do with gender but it's rather an individual thing
I sure hope so because there are A LOT of them on this site
but if you was a guy you would be asking why are girls such insensitive bitches... oh no wait a minute. some of us dont feel the need to think in such general terms. we are all different and whilst you may have bad experiences, if you start man hating then you won't see the ones that do care
I know. I try not to generalize, but the way some men are in the real world and the way a lot of guys act on here makes it hard to believe.
but if you go down this path dont you see that you will just become a lonely manhater. there is a term for it but i can't think of it right now but basically you are sabotaging your own chance of happiness
I understand. It's just disheartening the amount of guys on here that bash women constantly. I don't go out of my way to bash men, I really don't. I just feel like the hate on here is disproportionately skewed towards women for no valid reason.
most of them aren't 'men' there are lots of boys on here
If we always pandered to everyone's sensibilities we wouldn't be able to make decisions in the face of criticism and lead other men to accomplish things. The reality is that most people don't give a fuck about your feelings, they tend to care about the people close to them like their family and close friends... So until you become someone important to them, they probably don't give a fuck about you...
I see. Even to the nice girls that did nothing to them? welp there's karma.
@RBD12 Just because someone doesn't coddle you, that doesn't mean they did you wrong. The world is a rough place so sometimes a little bit of grit helps to prepare you for the rest of your life. You have to learn to deal with people, and people are not always going to be nice to you.
The same reason why (a lot of) girls are shallow gold-diggers. It works both ways, you see.
@Nomad69 Thanks mate! And see, already two downvotes from butthurt females!
That's probably what the gold diggers say we are asses
@Nomad69 Strange, isn't it? The upvotes from men and the downvotes from women, both keep increasing!
@unpleasentruth Thanks for the acknowledgement!
LOL even one female agreed. its just a sad fact that women are often shallower than men.
@unpleasentruth I know, right? Women can be as shallow, if not more than men. But unlike men, women usually don't admit that they are shallow!
@HyperNova hit the nail on the head, men are more honest.
Why are ( a lot of ) girls are sluts? Not a ( lot of ) darling because I am pretty sure you never dated more than a 100 guy in this world and if you dated all the guys in the world then it's your problem to assume that ( a lot of ) guys are insensitive assholes
I'm mostly basing my opinion of men on this site. I hope it is not a reflection on men in general.
Ahh on this site , well it's the Web what do you expect , any coward can write anything behind the screen
They don't think they are because if you don't put up boundaries they will keep crossing them. If you do say something and he continues it then loose him because apparently he is one & doesn't care. Trust me if you were a girl of his dreams he wouldn't dream of being a jerk.
Why are (a lot of) girls such insensitive assholes? :v Wait... we're playing the generalisation game? I thought we were? :v #GeneralisationsEverywhere
Beacuse the nice genuine guys get trampeled all over. Even the ones who show geniune interest by flirting etc. beacuse until girls hit thier mid twenties they are kind of 'rebelling' in the sense of they will date someone who they know thier parents won't approve of ergo they date, emtionally distant arseholes who only care about themselves But also people seem to have this notion that nice guys are boring both in life and in the bedroom. I know that's false
It's what women are attracted to. Obviously no girl ever admits it, but it's true. Being an insensitive asshole, or at least having some of the traits, will give you more success in the dating world Just is what it is
Success in sleeping with more women perhaps, but not relationships.
Most girls are stupid. They want rich insensitive assholes... yet they cry about it later. WTF?
@unpleasentruth immature girls but not women. I am an independent and financially sound woman on my own, I have no interest in dating men with money. I just feel men in general are insensitive when it comes to relationships.
Not sure how to answer this... Its not just guys, realize that.
Thank you so much for saying "a lot of" and not "all". We the select few appreciate it. I have no answer though, some guys are just selfish pricks.
True people will be assholes you just have to deal with it. Karma will catch up.
It gets them laid cos females go for it whilst their good friends (who are still physically attractive) who treat them nice, only see their innocent side.
Dude I heard this question 1 million times... LITERALLY... At this point I'm gonna say since girls are still asking... Because you're choosing the wrong kind of dudes LMAO
But most of the guys on here are insensitive pricks. It really reflects poorly on men in general.
Well... Thought shit... Men don't care about their self image, hell you girls care for us more than we do ourselves... Doesn't mean that all are like this solely on the basis of your bad experience love.
To counter a women's emotions. The Ying and the yang. You may expect me to realize that you are upset and cancel plans to hold you because your 2nd cousins dog died. My natural reaction to that would be. Jesus Christ, here we go again.
When someone do something it is because it has worked for them in previous experience, no matter the gender
I don't know but I'm a sensitive asshole what does that make me?
Because the women who date them allow them to be that way
Not speaking of myself ))). The reson is; reflection
i think its their only way to know how not to be a doormat.
Because you only like and hang out with those guys?
I love it when someone kicks the wasp's nest like this xD



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Why do they talk to you about literally everything. then next time u see them they don't talk to you but glanced at you often. then next time u see them they choose to sit near you even though the seating area you are at there's ton of open chairs. Then they don't say anything so I say something and he acts cold / not interested. Then walks away to talk to a teacher then when walking out and past you they glance at you but keep walking!! ughh I'm so sick of crushing on men they getting hurt and confused!! I can't take this anymore setting ting on this is our college more specifically a seating area on second floor of college whatshould I do/how should I act Wednesday if I see him?
To the people saying Girls and people in general are assholes!! IM NOT AN ASSHOLE so I don't deserve to be treated like I am!!! I deserve to be treated with respect like any other person! I'm probably one of the sweetest person ever! I like when people are upfront with shit like if he's not into me FINE!!! But TELL me then don't just ignore or act rude (Asshole like) to me or the person
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Realize when I guy is really attracted, d part of his brain shuts down due to a chemical release. he can't communicate so well. But if that isn't it, then he seems socially awkward like he doesn't know how to respond to you. Almost like he has a fixation on you, but doesn't know how to communicate. I'd confront him nicely and see how he responds. try to find out what he is thinking. I'd takeit slow with that one and be careful. make sure you feel safe.
my brain definitely shuts down due to chemical release, when i like a guy. sucks i draw so many blanks.
@Azara It takes practice but you can get past it. Men have the same issue with a really done up woman who overwhelms them, it is hard to approach them and they are intimidating. Look at him differnetly. realize he is a flawed human being with a little boy inside. Realize he has insecurities. Just see him as human and that will help. work on your self confidence by practice and just be in the moment.
Oh I didn't mean I feel insecure I literally meant when I'm attracted to someone my brain just goes south. I can be really happy and comfortable and still have difficulty thinking.. it wears off with repeated contact just like any drug
How should I confront him? Like what should I say?
most girls put themselves in the guys space and let the guy make the move, it is a game girls play. In this case, he's acting weird around you. he could be a creek, he could be interested and not confident, or he was, but now he's not. What you are reacting like is it feels like rejection... e. g. he talked to you then he didn't. like you did something wrong and you are confused. So next time you see him, I'd walk up to him and just talk about anything going on. "hi, whats your name again? Nice shirt. How was the test. make conversaion. See how he reacts". Learning to think in the moment is about confidence in yourself, that you are ok, there is nothing wrong with you and you will be ok either way this goes. I'm going to write something on the subject of "a-holes" so you have another perspective on that issue. follow me so you can read it...
The same reason some women are assholes. Assholes come in both genders and there can be a number of reasons the person is like that in the first place. A person that acts this way has problems and you have to decide if you are going to take on their problems or walk away.
crushing is a waste of time, its crushing.. just ask him out. if he's acting weird bc he's confused title solve it. if he's acting weird bc he's untested you'll find to and will be free to move on.
because you asking him out will alleviate his confession, and he will stop acting weird. IF thats why he's acting weird. if he likes you but confused and you ask him out you'll clear things for him so he have no reason to be weird. if thats not the reason, and he's just being how he's being or any reason but is not interested, you'll know what you need to know to move on.
its becoz they are themselves when you two are together by yourselves and then when he's with his friends and out in the open, it hard
The same reason some women are bitches... You win some you lose some
The same reason women are assholes; they just ARE.
Men act guarded when they are shy/nervous... The same way that women act bitchy when they are on their period. Maybe it's you that's glancing at him causing him to glance back. Or he just knows you like him but isn't attracted to you. Also, how the fuck is he an asshole for being shy? You're a bitch for talking about him this way behind his back.
No every time I looked at him he was looking back but look away so yeah! Oh yeah if he's not into me why would he literally tell me who's he's voting for in politics, random things about him ( he writes, his sister, what he does for work, town he lives in ) volunteerly
why are some women assholes? why are some people assholes? just the way of the world. there are i'm sure in depth reasons why each person is who they are. generally there is a data point in their nurturing that may have caused them to treat people or behave a certain way.
I don't understand... He's not paying you as much attention as you'd like, and is therefore an asshole? Is that your reasoning?
Awww who hurt you kiddo? #MenAreAssholesPost number - 49386059863095861093875113.
That's it? I think you should add more zeros xD
@AleDeEurope Aye mate, Come to think of it i may have missed a dozen or so digits.
You are expecting them to be a certain way? A guys an asshole because he can't or has a hard time approaching? Its girls like you that get guys turned off.
Ughh how? How he have a hard time approaching if first time we talked he approached me first and started talking to me about random things about him
Perhaps you were sitting there staring at him and not contributing and he was struggling.
You are making everyone guess here, we need more details. Could it be perhaps you were not contributing?
Contributing to what? I'm the one who started the conversation not him! I'm the one who had to overcome anxiety to even say two words to him! He's not contributing
Literally everyone is confused as to what the actual situation was. I think if you let your anger out then come back to the idea of approaching your next time will be better
He probably thinks that he's harassing yii, so he stops talking. Then starts the vicous cycle
Well, @KelPel000, we guys can sometimes be assholes when we make you ladies mad or say something absolutely stupid to tick everyone off.
Why are some women bitches. Because some people (irrespective of gender) live for one reason and one reason only: to shit on and ruin everything.
some times we have to be cause not gonna lie this is men included YOU ALL SAY SOME STUPID SHIT THAT MAKES NO SENSE AND RUNS ON FEELINGS
A lot of guys can't see what is in front of them. Just ignore him on Wednesday
That's such a horrible question. Why are some men great? Why are some men assholes? Why are some women amazing? Why are some women bitches? Why do we live on earth instead of Neptune? I mean come on, seriously.
I think that's just the way they are, you should stay away from such people, simple!
Guys wouldn't be assholes if it didn't yield social, dating, and career results.
Confused maybe? Unsure whether he's a friend or more? Be blunt it's the
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