White Wives Cheating With Black Men

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AS MARK* clutched his wife’s hand and encouraged her to keep breathing, he felt like he was on cloud nine.
Although the US bloke had also been by Anna’s* side for the birth of their three daughters, something about this time felt different.
That was because, after 36 long years, Mark’s dream of having a son was about to finally come true.
“As soon as the baby was born, it was very clear that I was not the father. He was clearly black,” Mark wrote on Reddit.
“I was absolutely shocked, not only I discovered that the child I was expecting so much was not mine – but I also discovered that Anna had been unfaithful.”
Heartbreakingly, until that point, Mark had never imagined that Anna would do anything to betray their relationship.
The couple were incredibly close, describing themselves as best friends who shared similar values, interests and hobbies – while also raising a family together.
So when Anna unexpectedly fell pregnant earlier this year, Mark never suspected for a second that anything fishy was going on.
“It was a bit of a surprise since she had decided to only have three kids (I always wanted more),” Mark explained.
“Also she was on birth control and I always wore a condom since our youngest was born, but I was thrilled.”
So Mark was utterly heartbroken to discover that not only was he not the biological father of his much-longed for son, but that his beloved wife had cheated on him.
She tried to downplay and said that this didn’t mean anything, that she had made a mistake and she wanted us to raise ‘our’ boy together – but I couldn’t stay with her
Apparently, Anna had met a man in a bar where they proceeded to enjoy a boozy evening together.
They had unprotected sex and also exchanged phone numbers, presumably to meet up again – but Anna discovered she was pregnant before anything else could happen.
“Once he heard the news he blocked her and changed numbers, she only knows his first name which makes it pretty hard to find out who he is,” Mark said.
“She tried to downplay and said that this didn’t mean anything, that she had made a mistake and she wanted us to raise ‘our’ boy together – but I couldn’t stay with her.”
But as Mark prepared to leave Anna, another spanner was thrown in the works in the form of Anna’s parents.
By way of background, Mark and his in-laws have never really seen eye-to-eye; and only tolerated each other for Anna’s sake.
So imagine his surprise when they offered to pay for the divorce lawyers – as well as transfer Anna’s substantial trust fund to their daughters and testify against their own daughter so Mark can get custody.
Apparently Anna’s parents, who are “openly racist,” were furious that she had given them a black grandchild.
“They demanded that she erase the ‘mistake’ and give her boy to adoption which she refused,” Mark said.
“They threatened to cut her off and disown her several times, once they realised that she was not going to give up her boy – they did – they cut her off.”
After his in-laws offered their support, Mark has felt incredibly conflicted about what to do.
Although he knows the way that his in-laws plan to treat their daughter isn’t exactly fair, he doesn’t know what else to do.
“My daughters will benefit a lot from this money (we are talking about mid-8 figures), this will probably lead them to an entire life free of debt (college, home, even their future kids),” he said.
“Also, I put Anna first my whole life, I put her job first, I gave my name for her (it was the only way that her parents would ‘accept’ our marriage).
“I am honestly filled with hatred about this whole situation (she cheating and making me think that her boy was mine).
“I am normally very calm and collected, and think before doing stuff, now my first instinct is accept their help and watch her parents break her, piece by piece. So should I do it?”
This article was originally published on Kidspot , and has been republished with permission
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The implications of considering one human being as another’s property in bona fide , are a myriad of moral, psychological, political and economic topics that many would rather avoid talking about.
You may even sympathize with them because these discussions are cumbersome.
Apart from the near-universal repudiation of what was chattel slavery and its trade, there are still somewhat well-meaning people who have not come around to accepting how slavery has shaped modern America.
Consider sexual relationships between enslaved Africans and free white people.
Sally Hemings comes to mind. There are those who have sought to portray Hemings’ relationship with the patriarch Thomas Jefferson as a loving relationship.
This is in spite of the glaring fact that Hemings was Jefferson’s literal property.
What may have been an attempt at pointing at the silver linen in slavery, – as if there were any – results in these silver linen seekers overlooking the social essence of “property”.
Part of our society feels the incessant need to whitewash the ugliness of white slaveowners having sexual relations with enslaved black women.
What proceeds from this whitewashing is collective amnesia over how young black women and girls have become constant sexualized images in the minds of those who hold power and influence.
The former slave, Harriet Jacobs, wrote for posterity in 1861 about the very foundation of the idea of the “whorish black woman” in Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl .
In contrast to black women who were considered whores is the idea of white women, especially in the Antebellum South, who were seen as pure and virtuous.
Southern women, especially of the plantation class, were the precious jewels of Southern culture. In the thought of the times, they were to be taken care of by their men.
Their supposed purity was linked to their sexuality and virtue to their ability to maintain a home according to traditional Southern Christian values.
They also existed to humanize their men, a social process best summarized by the Rev. William Hooper addressing women at the Sedgwick Female Seminary, North Carolina in 1847:
“Leave men to themselves without the intermixture of female society and the softening influence of female modesty, gentleness and affection, and they would infallibly become rude, harsh, coarse, quarrelsome, and in their quarrels cruel and unrelenting. The world would resemble an amphitheatre of wild beasts.”
Prudence, modesty and restraint were expected of a white Southern woman. These were to make up for the believed inferiority in their intellectual capacity.
The idea that a white woman needed to be spatially and physically protected was why an enslaved black man could lose his life if found in an intimate relationship with her.
As with human nature, the fear of death never quite stopped some from living dangerously. In this case, a white woman, with not much to lose if found out, would most likely initiate the affair.
The worst that could have happened to an upper-class Southern wife caught sleeping with an enslaved man was to be cast out of her social circles.
Why then would they sleep with an enslaved man?
The theories abound. Everything from Freudian justifications of fulfilling carnal desires and curiosities to good-old love and romance has been propounded.
Whatever the reasons, there are documented allegations of relationships between white women who initiated their enslaved black men.
Captain Richard Hinton, a Union soldier in the Civil War, wrote, as per Martha Hodes’ account :
“I have never found a bright-looking colored man, whose confidences I have won… who has not told me of instances where he has been compelled, either by his mistress, or by white women of the same class, to have connection with them.”
In her narrative too, Jacobs recounted a story of a daughter of a plantation owner who got pregnant sleeping with a slave:
“They know that the women slaves are subject to their father’s authority in all things; and in some cases they exercise the same authority over the men slaves. I have myself seen the master of such a household whose head was bowed down in shame; for it was known in the neighborhood that his daughter had selected one of the meanest slaves on his plantation to be the father of his first grandchild. She did not make her advances to her equals, nor even to her father’s more intelligent servants. She selected the most brutalized, over whom her authority could be exercised with less fear of exposure.”
But these anecdotes do not also explain the deep-seated antipathy towards the sexuality of the African man. The answer to that question goes further than slavery in the Americas.
European spectatorship on the physicality of the African man has roots in the 15th-century pseudoscience of European Enlightenment. Historically, in their interaction with Europeans, black bodies have been good for two things, either to be maligned or exploited.
The malignancy of black bodies is inextricably linked to the fetishization of the black man’s “strength” and “virility”. He is beastly and as such, brawny but without brains.
It is why apart from the menial tasks on the plantation, slaves could be asked to fight each other for slavemasters’ pleasure. The movie Django Unchained got this historical fact right.
Such beastly folks were thus never to be seen with white women. We thus understand the furor that led to the lynchings of Emmett Till and Willie Howard in times even after slavery.

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A DEDICATED best man caught his friend’s wife cheating with a stranger at a bar, captured them on video and posted it to social media.
A CHEATING wife was exposed after she was caught on camera by her husband’s best man.
The humiliating footage shows the married woman locked in a tight embrace with a man in a bar.
And to compound her embarrassment, the video has now gone viral.
The wife, known only as Nina, is seen removing herself from the man’s arms and hanging her head.
Best man James asks, “what’s going on here?”, with Nina replying, “you know what’s going on”.
The man she is with starts shining the torch on his phone at the camera so he can’t be seen.
“This is my best friend’s wife,” James is heard saying.
The video was posted on Reddit with an explanation that the husband had suspected his wife of cheating after a year and a half of marriage.
He had apparently asked James to follow her and see what she was up to, having heard which bar she was going to that night.
“After finding out, the husband went home, took the car, took her ring, and told her she had until the end of the day to move out,” said the text explaining the video.
The video has already gained almost 4000 comments, with most appalled at Nina’s behaviour.
But some commenters criticised the men for trying to humiliate her online, or said James was wrong to getting involved.
At least Nina can console herself with the fact that she is far from alone in being caught cheating on camera.
Britney Spears’s father Jamie recently bought footage of the pop star’s then-boyfriend David Lucado with another woman.
Actress Kristen Stewart was famously filmed cheating on her Twilight co-star Robert Pattinson with married director Rupert Sanders.
And YouTube is littered with the wreckage of other relationships, with hidden camera footage of unfaithful partners sharing space with dismal “honey trap” videos.
Thanks to technology and social media, betrayals are more confronting than ever.
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A married couple with a 42-year age gap has hit back at trolls who say the young woman is a gold digger just out to get a visa.

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I am a 40-something woman near the end of my divorce, and I am the one who was unfaithful.
I have always hated the idea of cheaters. Sleazy, lying scumbags who were only out for themselves. Selfish egocentrics who were mostly men, with the exception of the soap opera vixen type. Certainly not a clean cut suburban mom like me.
As I have come to experience firsthand, sometimes there is more than meets the eye when it comes to infidelity. I grew up with an unfaithful father. I knew without knowing from the time I was young that my dad was a habitual cheater. The arguments in front of me and my sister stained my childhood and gave me an insecurity that I've finally conquered as an adult. I hated cheating and swore to myself (and my husband) that I would never be unfaithful.
I don't condone cheating. It is toxic to a marriage and a family, immoral and myopic. And yet, I have done what I promised I would not do.
My marriage disintegrated slowly throughout about 15 of its 20 years. Looking back, I now understand the fatal flaws and I know better. But in my 20s when I chose the man I would marry and to be the father of my children, I honestly didn't know what it actually meant to be compatible with someone. I didn't comprehend the factors we'd need to cement our marriage into our twilight years.
I was looking at surface likes and dislikes, political party and our shared preference for Italian food. He was handsome, athletic and had a good job. Unfortunately the facade was all there was. I was in a marriage without a friend. He didn't ask about my work or my friends, sometimes didn't say goodbye when he left the house. He didn't want date nights with me, just the two of us. He'd say I should go with my friends, but when I did, he didn't ask where I was going, who I was going with, and he didn't say I looked pretty. I felt ignored.
I wasn't happy and knew I'd never be. Still, I told myself this was the decision I made. I was married with two young children and I decided I'd make the best of it. I didn't consider divorce. What I hadn't realized is that over time I grieved the end of my marriage while I was still in it. I lay awake in bed at night crying, wondering how it was ever going to get better. He was next to me in bed, never a word to me, never wrapped his arms around me, never asked what was wrong. Our sex life was rote and obligatory and from a standpoint of true intimacy, completely unfulfilling. I was incredibly lonely.
I talked to him, asked him why, told him what I needed. I tried speaking in a number of different ways, quietly, lovingly, matter-of-fact and angrily. I asked about couples therapy, but he refused. Sometimes he would make an effort and that helped restore my hope that we would be okay. But more often he was defensive and said I imagined all this, said I was overreacting.
So I threw myself into my children and work and ignored my own needs. I did this for a very long time and continued to put myself last on my own priority list.
When I cheated on my husband, it wasn't something I planned. I know that's what they all say but it's true. I certainly wasn't looking for it. A friendship with another man grew into something that was not tawdry sex, but a renewed sense of happiness and hope. It evolved over tim
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